You must be above your wife with THREE things 1. AGE 2. KNOWLEDGE & 3.CASH Your wife too must be above you with FIVE things. 1. PATIENCE 2.NEATNESS 3.LOVE 4.PLANNING & 5.PRAYER And you should be equal on three things 1.UNDERSTANDING 2.TOLERANCE & 3. RESPECT... Your home will be parfect.

Who ever you are that give this advise! Kudos! Best advise so far in this month

I concur with u op.

well said

You must also have sexual stamina than her.



She should at least plead for mercy from time time as u ram nonsense from her.

you must not be older than your wife. u are right in others

very true, but will dos demons we have as a women in Nigeria learn? Awon Eleribu eda.

Indeed, you've brought out great points from both parties. No matter what, nobody is perfect. Each must strive for the relationship to survive.

This is a perfect marriage, does it happen at all?

Well said op
Facts and simple

Op kudos to you on this one but something is missing here... Trust!!! who will hold the key between the man and the woman. Abi na both

3-5 equation and you say Men don't benefit from marriage? Lol


BTW nice points sir, I screenshot this. Sue me

muyico:

You must be above your wife with THREE things
[s]
1. AGE
2. KNOWLEDGE &
3.CASH
Your wife too must be above you with FIVE
things.
1. PATIENCE
2.NEATNESS
3.LOVE
4.PLANNING &
5.PRAYER
And you should be equal on three things
1.UNDERSTANDING
2.TOLERANCE &
3. RESPECT... Your home will be parfect.[/s]

Go and learn first from the elders

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muyico:

You must be above your wife with THREE things
1. AGE
2. KNOWLEDGE &
3.CASH
Your wife too must be above you with FIVE
things.
1. PATIENCE
2.NEATNESS
3.LOVE
4.PLANNING &
5.PRAYER
And you should be equal on three things
1.UNDERSTANDING
2.TOLERANCE &
3. RESPECT... Your home will be parfect.

In my experience having those 3 things multiplies success with women.

Nice...

muyico:

You must be above your wife with THREE things
1. AGE
2. KNOWLEDGE &
3.CASH
Your wife too must be above you with FIVE
things.
1. PATIENCE
2.NEATNESS
3.LOVE
4.PLANNING &
5.PRAYER
And you should be equal on three things
1.UNDERSTANDING
2.TOLERANCE &
3. RESPECT... Your home will be parfect.

The head of the house should be ahead in prayer. He is in charge of the spiritual direction of the family

Lol

Op, well said. If you were to start your own denomination today, you could claim this fantastic piece came after an encounter with a god of some sort.

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I can relate to that

smellingpussy442:
very true, but will dos demons we have as a women in Nigeria learn? Awon Eleribu eda.

Your sisters and mom are also women so stop throwing stones into the market

muyico:

You must be above your wife with THREE things
1. AGE
2. KNOWLEDGE &
3.CASH
Your wife too must be above you with FIVE
things.
1. PATIENCE
2.NEATNESS
3.LOVE
4.PLANNING &
5.PRAYER
And you should be equal on three things
1.UNDERSTANDING
2.TOLERANCE &
3. RESPECT... Your home will be parfect.

Op you must be a witch to use MUST for knowledge and cash. It simply means you will prevent your wife from acquiring knowledge and advancing in her career path.

muyico:

You must be above your wife with THREE things
1. AGE
2. KNOWLEDGE &
3.CASH
Your wife too must be above you with FIVE
things.
1. PATIENCE
2.NEATNESS
3.LOVE
4.PLANNING &
5.PRAYER
And you should be equal on three things
1.UNDERSTANDING
2.TOLERANCE &
3. RESPECT... Your home will be parfect.

Easier said than done

so let's assume your wife eventually becomes richer than you, or her grandpa willed her some millions you will divorce her for been richer Dan you? the way you Nigerian men think and reason sef....nawao

Fxwarrior:


Op you must be a witch to use MUST for knowledge and cash. It simply means you will prevent your wife from acquiring knowledge and advancing in her career path.

you can imagine the kind of low self esteem and demonic men we have, a man dat actually would love to limit his wife's life.

I'll believe you if you're married but if you're not, na frog jump you go chop.

These days, I learn about marriage only from experienced couples and not from motivational speakers and Rev.Fathers. Those two groups especially the latter have caused more harm than good in marriages of today. How dafuq can one teach what one doesn't know?

Dollarseeker:
you must not be older than your wife. u are right in others

but can b older dan u

Coolcalmcollect:

you can imagine the kind of low self esteem and demonic men we have, a man dat actually would love to limit his wife's life.

u ar d one misquoting!!! As a man... U must b resourceful, a problem solver!!! How is dis difficult to undstnd

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Coolcalmcollect:
so let's assume your wife eventually becomes richer than you, or her grandpa willed her some millions you will divorce her for been richer Dan you? the way you Nigerian men think and reason sef....nawao

The problem ain’t actually the men, it’s just that most women can’t manage their ego once they have the financial power in the relationship.
It’s usually a slippery slope from there.

For me, the key for a long lasting relationship is LOYALTY once it exists every other thing is piece of cake.

Professorcplus:


Go and learn first from the elders

Wrong! Lemme rephrase it " Go and learn from good and wise Elders who have successfully built a good and perfect home "
There are good Elders and bad ones. Not all alders are worthy to learn from when it comes to marriage and home matters. Some will push you in to fire and now adding more fuel. They will give you option to choose between the Devil or the deep blue sea. Some will give you advice they can't give their wards/children and they will paint it like 'Buttermint' sweet.
Look for God-fearing elders who don't mind your gift or what you give them. They will always tell you the truth and give you parental counsel they can give their children.
Cheers!!