miracle139:
WHY YOU SHOULDN'T CHECK YOUR PARTNER'S PHONE

1. It makes you into someone you don’t want to be.

Nobody likes the person that they become when they are consumed with waiting for their partner to go to the bathroom so they can pounce on their phone and quickly scroll through texts. Most people want to feel like they are honest people with integrity and self-respect. Nothing is a bigger hit to your self-esteem than snooping around, feeling like you’re a criminal, trying to get information that you know isn’t rightfully yours.

2. It sabotages closeness.

Many relationships never bounce back after one partner confesses to snooping on the other. Even if it turns out that your partner was in fact flirting with someone else, your sneaky behavior often cancels out their flirtation and you lose the moral high ground in your argument. It is very hard for anyone to trust someone who they now realize was going through their private messages, looking for evidence of their misbehavior. This lack of trust may be just as hard to forgive, in many ways, as an uncovered flirtation.

3. It puts you in a weaker position.

When one person snoops on another, it creates an unhealthy power dynamic. When you’re in a position where you feel empowered, you simply don’t sneak around and spy on others. You live your life without worrying about what other people are doing.

But if you become fixated on what your partner is doing rather than what you yourself are doing, you are effectively disavowing your own power and giving it away. This is not a healthy long-term dynamic.

merit1988:
Pls don't put ur phone numbers here...just send a dm

mzvyne:


Mzvyne

Divyne@

merit1988:
I've responded to your dm

zacchtoy:
Sent a DM @merit1988

Stkriz:
Name's kris
Location plateau' Jos
I need a mature female chat mate we can be romantic or anything & can just be good chat friends.
Pls whatsapp: 08030533611 wink.

merit1988:
Hi pple, will you like to make new friends with like minds here... there's a what'sapp group for that purpose...we play games, share jokes, gist, tease each other, discuss marital issues, business/careers talks and just hv fun generally...

Please you must be mature and married to be added to the group... that way, you have confidence that you meeting with someone who's in the same situation as you and understands what you are going through.

You might have to prove that you're married before added.


PM if ur Interested.... dropping ur phone number here wouldn't be necessary... I'll be waiting dearies.....

BabbanBura:


With this ya DP, are u actually looking for a husband or a fuxk man?

yemcoguy:
Sent a DM, kindly reply

merit1988:
Hi pple, will you like to make new friends with like minds here... there's a what'sapp group for that purpose...we play games, share jokes, gist, tease each other, discuss marital issues, business/careers talks and just hv fun generally...

Please you must be mature and married to be added to the group... that way, you have confidence that you meeting with someone who's in the same situation as you and understands what you are going through.

You might have to prove that you're married before added.


PM if ur Interested.... dropping ur phone number here wouldn't be necessary... I'll be waiting dearies.....

merit1988:
Hi pple, will you like to make new friends with like minds here... there's a what'sapp group for that purpose...we play games, share jokes, gist, tease each other, discuss marital issues, business/careers talks and just hv fun generally...

Please you must be mature and married to be added to the group... that way, you have confidence that you meeting with someone who's in the same situation as you and understands what you are going through.

You might have to prove that you're married before added.


PM if ur Interested.... dropping ur phone number here wouldn't be necessary... I'll be waiting dearies.....

TheIlerioluwa:
Hello Merit, i just PM. Can you Kindly Respond

Muyiwakelly:
I am interested.08094645645

merit1988:
Pls notify me here if uv sent me a PM so that I can chat u up...if not, I may not notice ur PM cos I ignore random PMs... thank you

merit1988:
A young group, yet full of spice, sauce, energy and all shades of fun....3 more legends to add and we're done... Join us

Tejusuper:
Hello babe,please how do I send a PM,I want to be added to the group.
08060318510

miracle139:
WHY YOU SHOULDN'T CHECK YOUR PARTNER'S PHONE

1. It makes you into someone you don’t want to be.

Nobody likes the person that they become when they are consumed with waiting for their partner to go to the bathroom so they can pounce on their phone and quickly scroll through texts. Most people want to feel like they are honest people with integrity and self-respect. Nothing is a bigger hit to your self-esteem than snooping around, feeling like you’re a criminal, trying to get information that you know isn’t rightfully yours.

2. It sabotages closeness.

Many relationships never bounce back after one partner confesses to snooping on the other. Even if it turns out that your partner was in fact flirting with someone else, your sneaky behavior often cancels out their flirtation and you lose the moral high ground in your argument. It is very hard for anyone to trust someone who they now realize was going through their private messages, looking for evidence of their misbehavior. This lack of trust may be just as hard to forgive, in many ways, as an uncovered flirtation.

3. It puts you in a weaker position.

When one person snoops on another, it creates an unhealthy power dynamic. When you’re in a position where you feel empowered, you simply don’t sneak around and spy on others. You live your life without worrying about what other people are doing.

But if you become fixated on what your partner is doing rather than what you yourself are doing, you are effectively disavowing your own power and giving it away. This is not a healthy long-term dynamic.

merit1988:
Ratio..... guys 70%, ladies 30%......we are growing few more to add and we are done...we have a specific number of members we need...too much is crowd and crazy drama....we want cool and mature minds... Flirts, pls stay off this thread and my DM.....go join other similar groups...this group isn't ur spec... thanks