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Re: Should I Overlook Her Past? by Nobody: 6:50pm On Feb 04, 2020 |
Fisher007:Mgtow and alpha male are different. I don't know why people use them interchangeable. Alpha males are those naturally endowed with some masculine traits that make them leaders and draw attention,admiration and envy to them. While mgtow is walking away from love based commitment because of the ideology of females being harmful or so. I agree
Wrong. Who you describe are players. Using and dumping girls ain't a compulsory nature of alphas(some may do so,based on individual differences). Alpha males have power,they are the shapers of history,the ones who built empires and conquered cities. They are men of valour. People only see alphas in respect to love-dating. They may or may not love,if they do is normally logical(loving with the head). . it is just pure stupidity. Look at most alpha males after 10 yrs, nothing tangible to offer based on wasted channelling of energy to the.wrong purpose in life. Some even have children without their knowledge in different beta male houses. I am sorry, i cant leave such a life..kindly do research on who an alpha male and don't conclude from the lens of PUAs.... .[/quote] so he is weak. Alpha males know love doesnt exist. They know it is provisonal, conditional and transactional in most.cases. hmm tripping over a girl who will definitely change both mentally and physically over time sold him out as a beta and weak male. Simple.[/quote] how does tripping over a girl makes you weak or believing in love makes you weak? What makes you weak is when you act stupid because of this feelings(like becoming a maga). Consciously loving a girl doesn't make you weak. An alpha male is a unique male with some sought after masculine traits,what he chooses to do with those traits whether good or evil doesn't change him from being one. Being alpha is based on what traits/personality you have and not necessarily your actions(however our personality shapes our actions). I agree Op isn't an alpha male. |
Re: Should I Overlook Her Past? by Fisher007: 6:58pm On Feb 04, 2020 |
Michellekabod2: Yes,we both agree on OP not being alpha male. But most alpha male loose frame over the.years. do your research too. They start to exhibit toxic masculinity over the years or abusive behavior when that traits start leaving. This most happen on a long period of.time.because humans constantly change. Except if he doesnt evolve and stays the same. Which change is constant. You.can never be up there for life keeping both.frame in business and.relationship. Also you.can never be endowed with masculine trait. You build.up.on it. Both physical, mentally and financially. If not most men will achieve that level. PUA and players are just lowlife. They feel good with amount of female body counts.which is a total waste of time and ressources too. But to everyone their own.understanding. simple. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Overlook Her Past? by Nobody: 7:03pm On Feb 04, 2020 |
Fisher007:I never said alphas are saints,kindly reread my post. They aren't monolith,they have individual differences.... I don't know why you assume I imply that they can't be players or lowlifes....we both agree on the same thing,but you are limiting being an alpha to someone who acts bad to women or players. Alpha males are men with some traits ,they could use the traits to do good or harm...that is my stance. I also acknowledged from the beginning op ain't alpha. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Overlook Her Past? by Nobody: 7:04pm On Feb 04, 2020 |
Michellekabod2:Louder Sis! Louder! .. They are not even on romance section! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Overlook Her Past? by fredopareto(m): 7:08pm On Feb 04, 2020 |
Be wise..dis is an eye open..take ur time to observe and judge from ur Previews.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Overlook Her Past? by Nobody: 7:21pm On Feb 04, 2020 |
Fisher007:You can be endowed on masculine traits and you can develop it. People have natural traits and traits they adapt to or learn over time |
Re: Should I Overlook Her Past? by proclinician: 7:22pm On Feb 04, 2020 |
But where u wan see girl way no be prostitute to marry kwen. The rates are now unprecedented . Me be alpha male and i no go pay bride price for a wh0re. Oga just check her vagina if it's proportionate, thats not too wide u go ahead if not u run. |
Re: Should I Overlook Her Past? by bigpriik: 7:25pm On Feb 04, 2020 |
proclinician: this is exactly what people are telling me no perfect girl thanks. |
Re: Should I Overlook Her Past? by Omar09ss(f): 8:48pm On Feb 04, 2020 |
Michellekabod2: One problem with y'all here in the romance section is that y'all overlook the real problem and create an imaginary one that actually suits y'all ego with the different stands y'all take. The problem here is 'he wants to know if he should judge his girl by her past life', from the above, y'all who are arguing whether or not he's alpha seems not to have a solution or rather have dropped a solution to the said problem. Why go on arguing whether he's an alpha? Him asking for direction doesn't make him less of a man or more. It's what he does with the answer that determines and that none of us here can say unless he tells us his decision of which might be lies or we know him in person and stays with him. No man is an island of knowledge. Him asking doesn't make him less or more of an alpha and that should not be the base of the discussion whatsoever. Stick to the script! 1 Like |
Re: Should I Overlook Her Past? by bukatyne(f): 9:00pm On Feb 04, 2020 |
bigpriik: Can you independently find out about her past? If you can, do. If you can live with it, fine. If you can't, move on. |
Re: Should I Overlook Her Past? by Nobody: 9:40pm On Feb 04, 2020 |
Omar09ss:you talk as if I purposely chose to derail and judge op. Nah! Have given Op my advice already. Was about to peacefully exit the thread when I saw a moniker talk about alpha males and chose to shed more lights on the misconception of being alpha. Didn't mean to belittle him in any way. I regret derailing though. |
Re: Should I Overlook Her Past? by revolt(m): 10:11pm On Feb 04, 2020 |
Never overlook a womans past. Women NEVER change. Make sure you check her family background. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Overlook Her Past? by cr7lomo: 11:06pm On Feb 04, 2020 |
Hoyindarmolar: @ bigpriik... Don't ever take a relationship advice from a woman...u will only live in regrets... They are never logical... They mk terrible decisions and that's y they hardly see in in top positions...that's the bitter truth...they love lies and that's one reason y they mk very senseless mistakes ... Better leave that girl cos the moment u run into financial issues, she will go bk to her previous prostitition |
Re: Should I Overlook Her Past? by emkz: 11:22pm On Feb 04, 2020 |
The person who accepted money for the sex is bad while the person who paid is good? Follow your heart; bad girls who genuinely turned good are the best in marriage. But those ones who refuse to abandon their past ways, run from them. By close observation, you'd find your answer! |
Re: Should I Overlook Her Past? by richPHAROAH: 2:18am On Feb 05, 2020 |
bigpriik:never turn an olsoho to a wife 1 Like |
Re: Should I Overlook Her Past? by Omar09ss(f): 3:04am On Feb 05, 2020 |
Michellekabod2: From my write up, I didn't say it's one, but all. |
Re: Should I Overlook Her Past? by Nobody: 4:28pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
Even Ubunja sef isn't an alpha male Michellekabod2: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Overlook Her Past? by Nobody: 4:29pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
cr7lomo:Women make terrible decisions but live longer than men. It's alright. |
Re: Should I Overlook Her Past? by cr7lomo: 4:48pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2: Men die earlier cos of what women put us thru |
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