Casalinda:





Let me correct something here. I’m not poor, i was in love with him before most of this things came up. You all saying pity. But I am not asking for any at all I earn 5 digits and I’m comfortable well. In respective of you honestly but please take away that poverty part because I am not poor. I fell in love I was genuinely happy not because of any kobo he spend but because I love him

proclinician:
This is so annoying. first and foremost you don't come here to tell the members of a public forum that a guy fighting so hard to keep his CD4+ count to optimum is not our average kinda guy when as a matter of fact you dont even know anyone here. This alone sets me on a precedence to really figure out what's going on with you.

You don't love that guy pls let him go. You were plainly after his physique, his money, his smell, the fact that he can smash an iphone 11 and buy same the next day and the fact that he works with a multi national and earns some hundreds of thousands. You don't even care if he loves u genuinely or just acting out a script. You only want him to accept ur apologies and then pretend all is fine so you both can continue to stick around and this brings me to questioning your self esteem and self worth. I guess I'm even taking it to unprecedented levels by asking about the self esteem of a regular nigerian girl.


He is done. Move on

missimelda01:
Stop trying to explain yourself to these guys with poor mentalities, they think every lady is with a man for money and they have sisters and mothers.. very unreasonable set of people.

donstan18:
Hustle oo!

So that women go dey rush you even if you get HIV or Coronavirus.

Offpoint:
First of all I want to know the sacrifices you've made for him.... God I hate this line of speech.

I don't see no love here, I see you not wanting to let him go because he's rich, handsome, tall and dark.
He cheats, you're OK with it, he does this: you're OK with it, he does that: you're OK with it. He keeps his Health status away from you: you're OK with it because he's made, he's tall, dark and handsome.

Dude is, was and will still be a jackass, but you don't wanna let him go because of status and physique.

Guys double your hustle: where money talks, bulshitz bow and Love take a backseat.

I still wanna know the sacrifices you've made, do you invest any money on him? do you help him with any contract? do you help him with his job?

His time with you is over and he wanna explore more, so don't try to tie him.

OR just because you....
let me stop before I say something that might got me 100 mentions

Some people no just get self-worth at-all

The sacrifice na sex na!

Raalsalghul:

The sacrifice na sex na!

Offpoint:
First of all I want to know the sacrifices you've made for him.... God I hate this line of speech.

I don't see no love here, I see you not wanting to let him go because he's rich, handsome, tall and dark.
He cheats, you're OK with it, he does this: you're OK with it, he does that: you're OK with it. He keeps his Health status away from you: you're OK with it because he's made, he's tall, dark and handsome.

Dude is, was and will still be a jackass, but you don't wanna let him go because of status and physique.

Guys double your hustle: where money talks, bulshitz bow and Love take a backseat.

I still wanna know the sacrifices you've made, do you invest any money on him? do you help him with any contract? do you help him with his job?

His time with you is over and he wanna explore more, so don't try to tie him.

OR just because you....
let me stop before I say something that might got me 100 mentions

Some people no just get self-worth at-all

Fisher007:
Wait.

What is your problem? I needed to ask you first of all?

Is that your age to get married is getting close?

Or because he is tall and physically built with HIV Gbola?

Or money? Cause you painted Blue Cabana dinner like one big romantic event? If you are financially stable as you claim that.shouldn't even woah you.

It is as if you were never courted or treated right all through your dating life ba?

Now answer to your problem:

Now I am amazed that the number one rule of relationship, which is trust was broken from the initial foundation. He didnt tell you off his HIV status.

Imagine you were infected, this will be another story.Without prior knowledge and he claimed you infected him. This will be another story.

Imagine it was the opposite situation, will the charming Prince accept your lying infected hiv ass. Put him in your situation.

You met a guy who is rich with HIV and a liar /cheat with anger management issues . All this red flags and you are still claiming love.

My sister wake up before them bury you with one of the red flags above. I would have talk sense to you if you were my sister. You are in lust and deep infatuation. You are in a smokescreen which until you are infected, it will clear out of your face. You are just not logical and rationale. You are too emotional and its shows pure immaturity in you.

What are your longtime expectation from this escapade because to me you are the only one who thinks it is a relationship

You will.marry.and have infected kids out of love for a violent, lying and cheating husband ba?

You are just vexing me tonight. May almighty vex you as you have vexed me tonight. Maybe then the smokescreen will clear from you eyes. Psssh

Casalinda:




Have you ever falling in love regardless of the issues on ground?? I might have had my own issues but I did bring something as well to the table

yvelchstores:
Very interesting read I must say. First of all, lady, you need to have more regard for yourself! I mean, how much baggage do u plan to carry for the so called relationship? Ask urself, is this why u were born? To carry load wey pass you!
His health status is already a BIG deal, plus CHEATING, and then ANGER ISSUES... GIRL! Someone needs to slap you back to reality.

You didn't mention what exactly you did that is creating all this EARTHQUAKE... his health status or cheating ways didn't create any storm o. You downed it like a bottle of malt. But u are here, blaming yourself, for what exactly? Did you kill someone?

Return the car, return the expensive gifts and return to your right senses. Girl you need to go to church and give God praise cos u almost killed yourself over what really? I am honestly shocked at u.

donstan18:
Hustle oo!

So that women go dey rush you even if you get HIV or Coronavirus.

donstan18:
Hustle oo!

So that women go dey rush you even if you get HIV or Coronavirus.

Casalinda:




Really!!!! Mrs I a very hard working lady. I fell in love with him before all this came up.. I earn just a single 0 different from his salary of 6 digit.. so what are you saying it sad you see this just these way

Casalinda:




Have you ever falling in love regardless of the issues on ground?? I might have had my own issues but I did bring something as well to the table

yvelchstores:
Very interesting read I must say. First of all, lady, you need to have more regard for yourself! I mean, how much baggage do u plan to carry for the so called relationship? Ask urself, is this why u were born? To carry load wey pass you!
His health status is already a BIG deal, plus CHEATING, and then ANGER ISSUES... GIRL! Someone needs to slap you back to reality.

You didn't mention what exactly you did that is creating all this EARTHQUAKE... his health status or cheating ways didn't create any storm o. You downed it like a bottle of malt. But u are here, blaming yourself, for what exactly? Did you kill someone?

Return the car, return the expensive gifts and return to your right senses. Girl you need to go to church and give God praise cos u almost killed yourself over what really? I am honestly shocked at u.