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Should I?? by Genset: 9:44am On Feb 05, 2020
Hello guys
Re: Should I?? by Dreiwizzy: 9:49am On Feb 05, 2020
Tell him not to bother getting the gadget for you. That you honestly feel ashamed of bringing up this issue. Sister, I assure you the gentleman will value and respect you more. He might decide to surprise you later.

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Re: Should I?? by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:59am On Feb 05, 2020
Don't bother asking him about it
Re: Should I?? by WhiZTiM(m): 10:04am On Feb 05, 2020
Genset:
Hello guys
I met a guy i really liked and all. We were getting along fine or so i thought. After some time, i went to his house .I had a nice time . During the course of my stay there, i told him that my phone was bad and he asked me which one i would like and i told him. He even went online looking for it and checking the prices. He said that the price would determine everything . He dropped me off the next day and said he was going to call. He even said i should give him a week for the phone. But he stopped calling and i have not called him since then . He still checks my WhatsApp status. So, should i call or chat him up? What if he does not pick up or reply my chat? I will honestly feel so embarrassed and regret ever doing it? I really miss his company . He leaves me intrigued everytime . please no insult
P.S - He knows about my bad phone cos he had repaired it once when it broke.

Quick question, did you both have sex or not?
It's a honest question... some guys behave differently after that.
So advice will really depend on your answer.

Edit:

Swallow your pride and call him.
Depending upon his value system...

If he is all about marking register, then he doesn't care what you are thinking. He's just okay with acquaintances with benefits that exists between you both. Hence he's trying to create the gaps so that it doesn't go beyond that.

If he isnt all about marking thine register, he's probably wondering about you too.
Re: Should I?? by Genset: 10:17am On Feb 05, 2020
WhiZTiM:


Quick question, did you both have sex or not?
It's a honest question... some guys behave differently after that.
So advice will really depend on your answer.



Well, yes. But that was the second time though.�.. I miss him
Re: Should I?? by Bigjohn123: 10:19am On Feb 05, 2020
Sound like a liability,cant u just fix ur phone itself... Yellow oranges without water.
Re: Should I?? by Genset: 10:24am On Feb 05, 2020
[quote author=Bigjohn123 post=86392448]Sound like a liability,cant u just fix ur phone itself... Yellow oranges without water. [/quote



I didn't beg him to. He did it willingly i can assure you
Re: Should I?? by Offpoint: 10:33am On Feb 05, 2020
Genset:
Hello guys
I met a guy i really liked and all. We were getting along fine or so i thought. After some time, i went to his house .I had a nice time . During the course of my stay there, i told him that my phone was bad and he asked me which one i would like and i told him. He even went online looking for it and checking the prices. He said that the price would determine everything . He dropped me off the next day and said he was going to call. He even said i should give him a week for the phone. But he stopped calling and i have not called him since then . He still checks my WhatsApp status. So, should i call or chat him up? What if he does not pick up or reply my chat? I will honestly feel so embarrassed and regret ever doing it? I really miss his company . He leaves me intrigued everytime . please no insult
P.S - He knows about my bad phone cos he had repaired it once when it broke.

What do you missed?
him, the sex or the phone?

You said he "Willingly" promised you the phone:
What's the promised made before, during or after the sex? if it's before or during the sex, then he never made any promised. It's an invalid promise he made under "conji duress"

A guy who made promises when the testosterone levels in his body is on fire, is equivalent to someone making promises under a gunpoint.

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Re: Should I?? by Genset: 10:40am On Feb 05, 2020
Offpoint:


What do you missed?
him, the sex or the phone?

You said he "Willingly" promised you the phone:
What's the promised made before, during or after the sex? if it's before or during the sex, then he never made any promised. It's an invalid promise he made under "conji duress"





I miss him honestly. I feel like calling him but it's been over 2 weeks. The only issue is that i dont know if he is going to reply my chat or pick my call and if he doesn't i will hate myself ehn. It was after sex but i was still in his house but it was not really a promise. So, can i call him or not?
Re: Should I?? by nwachukwu9(m): 10:42am On Feb 05, 2020
Call him if you miss him, don't remind him of the phone
Re: Should I?? by SenecaTheYonger: 10:44am On Feb 05, 2020
Genset:




Well, yes. But that was the second time though.�.. I miss him
maybe you gave him an STD and you're not even aware.. Guys usually ghost a girl after they do that.
Re: Should I?? by Offpoint: 10:52am On Feb 05, 2020
Genset:





I miss him honestly. I feel like calling him but it's been over 2 weeks. The only issue is that i dont know if he is going to reply my chat or pick my call and if he doesn't i will hate myself ehn. It was after sex but i was still in his house but it was not really a promise. So, can i call him or not?

Over 2 weeks, you didn't call him and he didn't call you, you didn't message him and he didn't message you...

both of you are not serious, I won't blame him or you... I blame both of you.

As it's now, I don't wanna break the sad news.

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Re: Should I?? by Genset: 11:05am On Feb 05, 2020
nwachukwu9:
Call him if you miss him, don't remind him of the phone



We obviously used protection

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Re: Should I?? by Genset: 11:06am On Feb 05, 2020
Offpoint:


Over 2 weeks, you didn't call him and he didn't call you, you didn't message him and he didn't message you...

both of you are not serious, I won't blame him or you... I blame both of you.

As it's now, I don't wanna break the sad news.


Break it �
Re: Should I?? by Drince: 11:16am On Feb 05, 2020
Well it determines if you should call him or not... Call him tell him why he didn't ask bout you but don't bother about the phone.. He might buy the phone for you.. Are you guys inna relationship, a one time stand or just for benefitr
Genset:





I miss him honestly. I feel like calling him but it's been over 2 weeks. The only issue is that i dont know if he is going to reply my chat or pick my call and if he doesn't i will hate myself ehn. It was after sex but i was still in his house but it was not really a promise. So, can i call him or not?
Well it determines if you should call him or not... Call him tell him why he didn't ask bout you, but don't bother him about the phone.. He might buy the phone for you when he wants to.. Are you guys inna relationship, a one time stand or just for benefitr
Re: Should I?? by Omar09ss(f): 11:18am On Feb 05, 2020
Dreiwizzy:
Tell him not to bother getting the gadget for you. That you honestly feel ashamed of bringing up this issue. Sister, I assure you the gentleman will value and respect you more. He might decide to surprise you later.

Really?
Re: Should I?? by Dreiwizzy: 11:20am On Feb 05, 2020
Omar09ss:


Really?
Yeah!
Re: Should I?? by Offpoint: 11:21am On Feb 05, 2020
Genset:



Break it �
I don't wanna be a carrier OR a breaker of bad news...

But if you ever feel lonely and need someone to talk to, you can reach on to me.
Re: Should I?? by 2dice01: 11:42am On Feb 05, 2020
Offpoint:

I don't wanna be a carrier OR a breaker of bad news...

But if you ever feel lonely and need someone to talk to, you can reach on to me.
Broda you sef wan mark register

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Re: Should I?? by Offpoint: 11:51am On Feb 05, 2020
2dice01:
Broda you sef wan mark register
I'm far from that..

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Re: Should I?? by WhiZTiM(m): 12:00pm On Feb 05, 2020
Offpoint:


What do you missed?
him, the sex or the phone?

You said he "Willingly" promised you the phone:
What's the promised made before, during or after the sex? if it's before or during the sex, then he never made any promised. It's an invalid promise he made under "conji duress"

A guy who made promises when the testosterone levels in his body is on fire, is equivalent to someone making promises under a gunpoint.

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Re: Should I?? by 2dice01: 12:07pm On Feb 05, 2020
Offpoint:
I'm far from that..
We wish cheesy
Re: Should I?? by Clinghton: 1:31pm On Feb 05, 2020
Nah you sabi, giving another man your burden because if relationship what if you are not in any relationship won't you get yourself a new phone
Re: Should I?? by Foodqueen(f): 1:34pm On Feb 05, 2020
Ur guy is a nairalander, he don ask him people for here and them don tell am make he run.
Case close......
Re: Should I?? by Nobody: 2:42pm On Feb 05, 2020
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Re: Should I?? by MZrapper(f): 4:19pm On Feb 05, 2020
Is this the same guy you created some threads about few months back?
Re: Should I?? by Homeboiy: 5:42pm On Feb 05, 2020
grin


�He don japa

Me sef do the same thing
Re: Should I?? by Genset: 10:24am On Feb 06, 2020
So, i should not call him abi?
Re: Should I?? by konkonbilo(m): 10:31am On Feb 06, 2020
Offpoint:

I don't wanna be a carrier OR a breaker of bad news...

But if you ever feel lonely and need someone to talk to, you can reach on to me.
cheesy werey... No puna for you tongue

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