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Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by Wiifesnatcher(m): 11:01am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Restructure9ja: let me tell you, a man that hold grudges with a lady is not a man enough, some ladies are mean and I'm a living witness of that my brother's wife is from a rich home while my family we are just average OK, anything my brother had to give us, his wife must not be aware or else we won't get it despite showing her love and respect, she will rather want her husband to give it to her siblings that have key to get times 10 of those things, isn't that pure wickedness if you claimed to build a social relationship with your husband immediate brother and he's acting up then influence your husband to get him his own apartment 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by howmarket2: 11:01am On Feb 06, 2020 |
I no your type.i have a brother also who is married so I no.what your type is all about.all i can say is that you are a wicked woman.that in law of yours could also be your husband, I mean,your husband could also have that bad character of going to the pot at nite.so ll you kill him and say its your useless kitchen. women you people are bad.once a woman comes into a family men start becoming enemies.i had a physical fight with my brother all because of that same old woman who was born in 1978 and my older brother was born in 1984.women women women.she knows she is my senior so she cant take it.u understand such a thing na.women 5 Likes |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by Charleys: 11:01am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Offpoint: Okaaaayyy this is true. Akwa ibom and cross river people. It's a culture thing. I almost forgot. It's like stealing in those areas. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by Artzdanielsz(m): 11:02am On Feb 06, 2020 |
be tolerant Biko. u want him to be asking you for food whenever he is hungry abi. He:Madam i am hungry. Madam:u just ate moment ago wait till night. hope u got the gist.hope he wash the dishes at least |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by Ten06(m): 11:02am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Please, don't talk to him about it. Continue to tell your husband to find solution to his brother's behavior, make your husband to understand the gravity of his brother's misbehavior. |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by deblessed: 11:02am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Madam, let your brother in-law. If it were to be your own blood sister going to your kitchen.....Nobody will hear about it. So, you're now family member. He is now your brother. Besides, if it were to be your blood brother, you will not have said anything. Small girl no dey marry ooo oodua1stson: |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by mechanics(m): 11:03am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Remind him of what you agreed with him and letting him know that your marriage is too early to bring in visitors to stay for longer days, just talk to him in love not in anger. |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by folks4luv(f): 11:03am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Back then, when I finish cooking, my elder and younger brother would come call me to dish their food when they are ready to eat, when I tell them to go do it themselves, they don't like it. When I was living with a family, I don't go to the kitchen to dish my food, I wait for the person that cooked to do it or get a permission to. These things are courtesy, manners, respect, doesn't matter if you are living there or not. It's still better for my siblings to go dish their food than my uncles, no be their house na cococandy: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by TemmyT002(m): 11:03am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Just talk respectfully and playfully with the brother-in-law Simple. He will change 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by GindoX(m): 11:04am On Feb 06, 2020 |
ireneidiva: Fridge? You know maybe they have fridge? |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by Geonigga(m): 11:04am On Feb 06, 2020 |
If u were my sister I would tell you to overlook whatever the young man does, endurance is a virtue in marriage but if u do otherwise be sure of getting ur marriage ruined. |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by oluplus(m): 11:05am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Please what's the big deal in fetching food for himself? You want him to ask you for permission or call you to come and fetch food for him? in 2020? I feel this is no issue at all. You can even make a joke out of it. Tell him food is ready and he can help himself when he's hungry. Believe me, he will become your friend and you will be amazed how close the 2 of you will be. |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by uluB: 11:05am On Feb 06, 2020 |
My dear, pls forget about his attitude, let him eat, so long as he does not leave with you and your hubby, he only comes and go. you made mention of staying in the bed room with your phone alone, pls try and get busy with something for your self, because if you confront him now he will say that its his brothers money so forget him, in my house I go out in the morning around 8am to work and come back home by 5pm, my house help I pay salary to take care of my baby eat from my pot, she collect soup from the freezer and cut what she will eat with my daughter. for me food is nothing. |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by omoharry(f): 11:05am On Feb 06, 2020 |
1StopRudeness:You missed the part when she said the brother-in-law is fund of dipping his hand inside her pot of soup.Is that the kind of thing you will tolerate? did you know if he just visited the loo without watching his hand? did you know what he must have use that hand for before putting it into the soup? that is a dirty habit and grossly unhygienic...for crying out loud that is a pot of soup for the whole family. I can tolerate and over look his other behavior but definitely not this one. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by Agricaddict(m): 11:06am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Amanee: Gibberish |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by Nathan7(m): 11:06am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Tawk to the Mofo Joo Buh use wisdom while on it Wisdom is profitable to direct(Bible) |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by Adlac(m): 11:06am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Let me ask you this question, won't you get upset each time he requested for more? He only simplfy the process to dish for himself. I bet you with positive vibes na you go win laslas. Like someone up there asked, if na your brother or sister you go report am not to talk of tabling this discussion? |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by Offpoint: 11:08am On Feb 06, 2020 |
pocohantas:My poco baby, long time... where have you been? |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by Nobody: 11:08am On Feb 06, 2020 |
1StopRudeness:Stop that. The husband should be the First person to be dished his food cooked by the wife and not a brother or whoever. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by Papanwamaikpe: 11:10am On Feb 06, 2020 |
fatymore:Where my cake? |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by xrayj(m): 11:10am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Ginaz:I can't imagine how your siblings will cope when they come for visit. Because they didn't contribute money for food they should ask for permission whenever they want to feed? Funny I must say.... |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by emmanuel00000: 11:10am On Feb 06, 2020 |
My dear it won't be easy to end this dramatic attitude of your brother in-law, what you should is to call your husband when he's done with his meal in the evening after work, make him feel relaxed and discuss the issue with him again whereby he didn't give u positive reply then get a carpenter to fix that padlock that has teeth on the kitchen door, and if he chooses to do break by entry then u report the issue to your husband family because for what I know the kitchen belongs to d woman and likely the husband sometimes. Any visitor is expected to take a permission before entry, but don't in any way pick up quarrel with him so that there won't be any avenue of blame on you from anyone when addressing the issue to your husband or he's family member. GOODLUCK 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by fatymore(f): 11:11am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by Nobody: 11:11am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Iwantpeace:Since you have talked to your husband about it and he hasn't done anything, please calmly go and meet this brother-in-law of yours and talk to him(calmly oo and don't smile when saying it else he won't take you serious). If he still doesn't change, once you cook food for your husband please carry the pots and go lock it in your room till your husband gets back. SIMPLE |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by pocohantas(f): 11:12am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Offpoint: I am fine, been around the world. Hope you are good too? 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by Fejimummy: 11:12am On Feb 06, 2020 |
crackkhaus: that is what we do in my house too my elder brother has that same stupid character he even goes the pot in the middle of the night to take meat or fish and I find it very irritating sometimes I lock the pot of food in my room because he is never satisfied the worse part is that he doesn't even contribute money for food but he wants the largest portion... 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by Ijobaorun(m): 11:13am On Feb 06, 2020 |
It's never too late to stop whatever you can't endure in your home. The home is your. Talk to your husband and express the same to your brother in law. He might not see it as something big, just tell him you are not happy about it and he needs to stop such attitude. Enjoy your home, you still have a long ways ahead. |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by Papanwamaikpe: 11:14am On Feb 06, 2020 |
fatymore:I can host you if you're in ph |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by howmarket2: 11:15am On Feb 06, 2020 |
let me also say this, if its about taking meat or taking more food from the pot.its a ritual for me and my brother.we will be struggling for the first man to take meat from the pot at the dead of the nite.cos we are use to it.food was never a problem for us why growing up.we eat any time.even my father started suspecting that we do drugs.which we dont.but I ll never go to another womans pot.but if need be I ll do that.and nothing will happen. she will only go to niraland for advice . useless women. |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by Derring: 11:16am On Feb 06, 2020 |
You're just worrying over nothing, I see no big deal there. A quick reminder he had been living with the bro before you got to marry him, all these lies down to tolerance. I'm staying in my bro house to a point I go take he's clothes and shoes to wear anytime, which d wife gives me idea to do anytime I ran at of stuff. You should be more than a friend to sister-in-law to him. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by Jimbah(m): 11:16am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Homeboiy:God blessed you, as long as you are my family, my mom, aunties and uncles allow you to take food from their kitchen. |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by Promomarlie: 11:16am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Iwantpeace: Hanty you the characteristics of wicked house wife, I'm sure it won't be a problem if your own sister dish her own food. And you will never agree to dish his food and take it to him and clear his table, [b][/b] So why can't he dish his own, did he eat all the meat? Abeg let the young man be. Marriage that God has not even started blessing you, you have already put time frame for family. Wife will come and go but brother will remain be it good or bad. When you said smoke I thought is, Indian Hemp was very surprised to hear na only yam frying smoke you dey complain for, the last person I know who pass this road you won pass (my uncle wife) is still childless. Be Warned, love and open mindedness is key to a lot of marital blessings 1 Like |
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