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Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Ishilove: 3:55pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
truthsayer009:Wooooooow. Wife material 50 yards 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Munadad: 3:57pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
However much she earns is not your business. You should be solely responsible. You can cut down the budget 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by LordShiva97(m): 3:57pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE: I get what you're saying but there's nothing in the post to suggest she's a feminist. |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by doris4u(f): 3:57pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
tiredoflife:In case u don't know, that's what most Nigerian men check before marrying a lady, thereby marriages doesn't last 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by larryking540: 3:58pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Munzy14: Exactly When men feels it's an obligation for the wife to drop money ,they end up taking insult from the wife |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by eyinjuege: 3:59pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Didnt you guys plan how you were going to finance your wedding before embarking on the whole process ni? This is very weird sha. 3 weeks to the wedding, she doesn't have a gown, no caterers yet? Or is it super story? 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:59pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
LordShiva97:. That's like a component |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by bigiyaro(m): 3:59pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Davash222:where is it written that the man must bear the wedding cost? 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by safarigirl(f): 3:59pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
So many foolish people getting married these days, no wonder marriages are failing So, common sense did not tell you and your mumu wife that you ought to have started making a budget for the wedding the moment you got engaged, not after you have already gotten married the traditional way? Are both of you slow? Is this how you will be making shotgun financial decisions in the marriage? No prior discussion, just drop random bombs on each other at the eleventh hour. How will she agree? Did you guys discuss it? Both of you have zero sense, go and do wedding at registry and rest if you must add to your traditional wedding, since no one wants to bring money for a white wedding 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Ladycewhy(f): 4:00pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
seanwilliam:Many women are not against equal financial contributions atleast on my part but also be ready to share equal chores and parenting ,we will share baby carrying days and cooking days . You can't go to work and I go to work and you will come home and raise your feet up to watch football while there is food to cook and kids to take care of . Be ready cos there are days when you too will close from your work and go straight from there to the market to get food stuff for the house . This is how equal opportunity should be fair and truly equal . 10 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Bramon5432: 4:00pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
see below |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Nobody: 4:00pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
dominique: MIRS - Marriage Internal Revenue Service |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by kinglee007(m): 4:00pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Michellekabod2: "SWEETHEART, PLEASE WILL YOU MARRY ME? BEEN TO PLUTO AND BACK 2 SEARCH FOR YOUR TYPE. GAVE UP ON THE SEARCH BECAUSE I THOUGHT YOU NEVER EXISTED BUT DIDN'T KNOW YOU WERE RIGHT HERE, JUST A CLICK AWAY." 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by NELLY1990: 4:00pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
My dear I have seen where both couples will agree to put their money together but las las the husband will occupy all the spaces and tell the wife that he is the head of the home and she has no right to spend a dime. Is that fare? Or he will be the one to buy stuff for her but she can’t buy what she desires to buy. How about that? Makawhizzy: 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by safarigirl(f): 4:01pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE:who told you she is a feminist? You lot are so ignorant, you randomly throw the term 'feminist' at every working woman. Not every woman is a feminist, there are even male feminists. Educate yourself. 8 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by ogawisdom(m): 4:01pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
sylvestersamuel: 50% is too much to give her even if u earn less than her may be 30% will do. You need to lead her in financial expenditures. But she is too childish to start showing u unnecessary attitude 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Muzikluva(m): 4:02pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
donstan18:Thank God men like us that reason this way are still plenty God bless you for this post. Ladies when handled properly will agree to whatever you bring to them. Don't be doing "I am the man" all the time. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by JONNYSPUTE(m): 4:03pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
safarigirl:.. Thank you mah.I will surely do as you said. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Novaccines: 4:03pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Wow |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by seyigiggle: 4:03pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
first rule in marriage. NEVER plan on a woman's money sylvestersamuel: 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Nobody: 4:03pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Ishilove: Thank you, we'll soon tie the knot |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by olabrinks(f): 4:04pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Are you not ashamed of yourself? Asking your wife to contribute 50% of the wedding expenses? Some men these days shaa 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Chuksfela1(m): 4:04pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
My guy u folk up,I na me na style I will take collect the money. |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by cravingmind: 4:04pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
sylvestersamuel: |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by missyojo(f): 4:05pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
donstan18: You have said it all. I wish the OP listen to this advice 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Nobody: 4:05pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Plan on a white wedding that you can comfortably afford without going into debt and communicate this to her and her family. If she wants to make any more additions to your baseline, she should make equivalent additions to the payment. My real suggestion would be; don't marry her. She's too materialistic. Contentment is an extremely important quality in a woman. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by DrObum(m): 4:07pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Ishilove:Jesus, this guy village people don dey show. People wey sabi the couple don show. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by NELLY1990: 4:08pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Gwam. Hmmmm God pls help us o. Marriage is a beautiful thing o but because of selfishness and greed many are destroying it. Haba tiredoflife: |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by kinglee007(m): 4:08pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Michellekabod2:"SWEETHEART, PLS WILL YOU MARRY ME? BEEN TO PLUTO AND BACK TO SEARCH FOR YOUR TYPE. GAVE UP ON THE SEARCH COS I THOUGHT YOU NEVER EXISTED. NEVER KNEW YOU WERE JUST A CLICK AWAY, HERE ON NAIRALAND". |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by shaw2(m): 4:09pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Once I finish traditional wedding next thing is court marriage. If she wants white wedding then all expenses will be on her. Some people won't like to contribute a dime in white wedding yet they would love to throw lavish wedding. Worst thing a man or a woman should do is to borrow money for either Trad or white wedding. |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by LordShiva97(m): 4:09pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
tiredoflife: What's the problem here; you can't read or you have difficulty understanding simple English sentences? What exactly is the OP feeling entitled to here, telling his fianceé to contribute 50% of the wedding budget when he alone has already financed the traditional wedding without any financial aid from her means he's feeling entitled to her job or money? Haaaa! *spits* She's not yet ready for marriage. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 4:09pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
there are many ways to make her pay 50% without directly telling her. abi make i list them for you? |
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