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I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by Chiomamoses(f): 6:39pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
I have 5 children for my husband d last one is 7months my husband brother wife was pregnant wit her first child after waiting for almost 10 years we were all happy for them and couldn’t wait for him to be with us unfortunately on December 27 she delivered tru CS and lost d baby that same day is so painful for us as family we stay in the same compound the house belonged to my husband brother , I take care of her she start getting too attached to my baby she want to be with her all the time she will take her away from me and stay with in her house all day until I go for her for breastfeeding then last time she ask me if she can spend the night with my baby but I refuse making excuses for her not to be offended. For the past 1 week I have been avoiding her and keeping my baby inside d house making excuses she is sleeping or she is not feeling well and she ask my elder daughter to come take the baby and I refuse and she came asking me if she offended me I said no and lied my baby was not feeling well but she was offended and told her husband cos she has no child and I have stopped my children coming to her house my brother in law got angry and told my husband to warn me my husband cautioned me which I went to her and apologise even taught what she said is not true cos I do let my other 4 children to go to her house and I only stopped my baby going there because she is getting too attached to her and I know she is feeling so much pain for d loss of her baby but me too I need my baby I don’t like sharing her with anyone. For 3 days now she ceased talking to me and stop responding my greeting. Please am I wrong ? 3 Likes |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by Femsyn(m): 6:44pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Why are you staying in your husband's brother's house with 5 children? 43 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by Chiomamoses(f): 6:46pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
We stay in the same compound but different house Femsyn: 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by popsy2(m): 6:56pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
ok |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by Mindlog: 7:02pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Chiomamoses: But you posted that the house belongs to your husband's brother. 7 Likes |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by Chiomamoses(f): 7:05pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Yes the house belonged to his brother we are living in different houses him in the biggest house and us in the smallest house Mindlog: |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by Theyoungmatron: 7:15pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
What you did is not wrong. The attachment she is forming with your baby is unhealthy especially for her own mental health. She needs to seek for professional help ASAP, as it is obvious that she is still in the early stages of grieving after almost 3 months. 66 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by Chiomamoses(f): 7:21pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Thank you for being honest with me Theyoungmatron: 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:23pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Theyoungmatron:. I couldn't have said it better. Nice one. 5 Likes |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by Mindlog: 7:34pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
In Theyoungmatron: You are right, she needs to have therapy sessions with a professional. 2 Likes |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by Mariangeles(f): 7:47pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Chiomamoses: You're brave for doing what is right. You can't take one woman's child to console another. God Almighty will bless her with a child of her own. She can also consider the option of adoption. 45 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by Nobody: 7:52pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Your baby is 7months old, get your self a job or leave the house everyday so as to avoid all these extended family wahala. 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by yvelchstores(f): 8:03pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
For me personally I can never leave my child with someone else. What if she is breast feeding your baby? Sorry for what happened to her.. For me personally, let hell let loose, I can't leave my infant with anyone. 38 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by Chiomamoses(f): 8:24pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Thank you I was worried about it incase I’m wrong now I am feeling better knowing that am not doing anything wrong. Amen Mariangeles: 6 Likes |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by Chiomamoses(f): 8:26pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Thank you my dear this is what I worried about incase she breastfeed or does something bad to her out of jealousy I’m not saying she is a bad person but sometimes when people are frustrated it can lead to another bad thing yvelchstores: 29 Likes |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by Chiomamoses(f): 8:26pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Thank you I will Bozzyironlady: |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by yvelchstores(f): 8:31pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Chiomamoses:just play nice to her drama but at the end of the day, stand your ground on the little baby remaining with you. 7 Likes |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by Sexyliciousbri: 9:07pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Your speech are full of pride so be careful so that you don't destroy your future 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by Vyolet(f): 9:12pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
You could dash her one since you have five ![]() That's what she is expecting. 6 Likes |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by Mariangeles(f): 9:13pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Sexyliciousbri:There's nothing like pride in her narrative. There's just no other way to say it. 53 Likes |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by Mariangeles(f): 9:15pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Vyolet:That one na for Zeeworld e dey happen Dash kor... When she no be KarDASHian ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by Lamanii22(f): 9:17pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
The best thing you can do is leave the house... If your husband refuses, you just leave with the children and go to your family house.. Or your mom's place... |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by Lamanii22(f): 9:19pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Theyoungmatron: You're right too... |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by Lamanii22(f): 9:21pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Sexyliciousbri: I didn't see no pride... Although, "Your speech are full of pride" should be written "your speech's full of pride".... 9 Likes |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by sisisioge: 9:30pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Whew! You are so insensitive! Firstly, you and your husband decided to be breeding children like rats since the cost of rent has been taken off your expenses right under the roof of the ones that housed you. Poor woman would die inside each time you pop out another baby like a rabbit while she keeps waiting unto the Lord...how insensitive of you. Now she has lost her baby and using yours to console herself but nah...mama fruitful couldn't bear to share...whew! If na me be her o...I will kuku tell my husband say seeing all these kids in the house is breaking my heart...you guys should give us space for a while...won't you guys just wonder if I'm wrong ![]() Iranu! 15 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by Chiomamoses(f): 9:34pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
My dear if it was me I would have left this house long time ago but my husband don’t want to upgrade he want to live all of his life under his brother oo he want to be his slave staying in his house with rent free and working for him he don’t want to be a man and he doesn’t see anything wrong my family are in the village i can’t go back there Lamanii22: 3 Likes |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by Chiomamoses(f): 9:36pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Lol I can’t ooo my children mean a lot to me o Pray that God will bless her with her own soon Vyolet: 3 Likes |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by Chiomamoses(f): 9:39pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
How is my post full of pride ? All I am doing is protecting my children and I have nothing against her Sexyliciousbri: 3 Likes |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by daylae(m): 9:44pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
If you must, let one of your grown up kids stay with her for now and not your baby, that will not help her situation. I think her attachment to your baby is unhealthy. The trauma may be messing up her mind and seeing your baby as a replacement cannot be overruled. God will visit her again, and this time, her testimony will not be aborted. 10 Likes |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by PrimadonnaO(f): 9:46pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Vyolet: Lmao. Really, who knows what the grieving mother is thinking? 1 Like |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by corisande: 10:08pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
yvelchstores: This was what crossed my mind. She may have breastfed the baby 3 Likes |
Re: I Have A Problem With My Husband Brother Wife by Homeboiy: 10:19pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
It is well Its Only God that knows why he do things in a certain way. 1 Like |
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