Good morning Nlanders, I have this very issue bothering me. I have been in a relationship with this girl for about 3 years now. I love her so much, and she loved me until of recent when she told me that she's no longer interested in the relationship. She told me the stern truth that she was seeing someone else.

It's not like I don't take care of her, because I have given her almost everything she requested from me. I bought 90% of her clothes myself as she can't even buy for herself if I give her the money. I pay her bills too.

Just about 2 months ago, the said guy called me and told me that his gf (my gf) said I'm her ex, and they are now together. This guy is not that rich, he's just on average income scale, he's not super handsome and the worst is that, this girl calls and comes to my house for sex anytime she feels like. But that's all, we are not friends like before, we don't go out together, she don't even oblige my requests anytime I ask her for anything. She doesn't even visit on a regular except for sex.

Right now, I'm fed up; I'm tired of being in this love triangle, though I love her so much.
My guys advised me to beat her up and warn her never to come close to my house again, but I just can't. Though I feel used as a sex object, but I just can't say no to this girl's request.

I don't just know, am I being stupid?? Is there a Best way to handle this in a more diplomatic way?? I really love this girl.

Having a GF in Nigeria is a set back. They won't allow you focus.

Leave GF for now and develop yourself.

When the money comes, select a damsel with good character and marry.


I repeat, forget GF for now!!!

Obey the Bible and flee from fornication. In literal terms, move from that apartment to another and don't tell her.

I hate to see people seeking for advice for things that has already clear to them. I hate negativity.

McCoy662:
Good morning Nlanders, I have this very issue bothering me. I have been in a relationship with this girl for about 3years now. I love her so much, and she loved me until of recent when she told me that she's no longer interested in the relationship. She told me the stern truth that she was seeing someone else.
It's not like I don't take care of her, because I have given her almost everything she requested from me. I bought 90% of her clothes myself as she can't even buy for herself if I give her the money. I pay her bills too.
Just about 2 months ago, the said guy called me and told me that his gf ( my gf) said I'm her ex, and they are now together. This guy is not that rich, he's just on average income scale, he's not super handsome and the worst is that, this girl calls and comes to my house for sex anytime she feels like. But that's all, we are not friends like before, we don't go out together, she don't even oblige my requests anytime I ask her for anything. She don't even visit on a regular except for sex
Right now, I'm fed up; I'm tired of being in this love triangle, though I love her so much.
My guys advised me to beat her up and warn her never to come close to my house again, but I just can't. Though I feel used as a sex object, but I just can't say no to this girl's request.

I don't just know, am I being stupid?? Is there a Best way to handle this in a more diplomatic way?? I really love this girl.

This kind of girl is rare. Wow. Good skill used n dumped a guy?

McCoy662:
am I being stupid??

Yes,anything else you want to know about yourself?




The 'use and dump' sentence isn't only for guys afterall

McCoy662:
Good morning Nlanders, I have this very issue bothering me. I have been in a relationship with this girl for about 3years now. I love her so much, and she loved me until of recent when she told me that she's no longer interested in the relationship. She told me the stern truth that she was seeing someone else.
It's not like I don't take care of her, because I have given her almost everything she requested from me. I bought 90% of her clothes myself as she can't even buy for herself if I give her the money. I pay her bills too.
Just about 2 months ago, the said guy called me and told me that his gf ( my gf) said I'm her ex, and they are now together. This guy is not that rich, he's just on average income scale, he's not super handsome and the worst is that, this girl calls and comes to my house for sex anytime she feels like. But that's all, we are not friends like before, we don't go out together, she don't even oblige my requests anytime I ask her for anything. She don't even visit on a regular except for sex
Right now, I'm fed up; I'm tired of being in this love triangle, though I love her so much.
My guys advised me to beat her up and warn her never to come close to my house again, but I just can't. Though I feel used as a sex object, but I just can't say no to this girl's request.

I don't just know, am I being stupid?? Is there a Best way to handle this in a more diplomatic way?? I really love this girl.

U are just plain stupid!

Maybe you only good as a sex object to her and she see other beneficiaries in the other guy so accept ur faith and keep fucking her since u too love sex . Gud luck

McCoy662:
Good morning Nlanders, I have this very issue bothering me. I have been in a relationship with this girl for about 3years now. I love her so much, and she loved me until of recent when she told me that she's no longer interested in the relationship. She told me the stern truth that she was seeing someone else.
It's not like I don't take care of her, because I have given her almost everything she requested from me. I bought 90% of her clothes myself as she can't even buy for herself if I give her the money. I pay her bills too.
Just about 2 months ago, the said guy called me and told me that his gf ( my gf) said I'm her ex, and they are now together. This guy is not that rich, he's just on average income scale, he's not super handsome and the worst is that, this girl calls and comes to my house for sex anytime she feels like. But that's all, we are not friends like before, we don't go out together, she don't even oblige my requests anytime I ask her for anything. She don't even visit on a regular except for sex
Right now, I'm fed up; I'm tired of being in this love triangle, though I love her so much.
My guys advised me to beat her up and warn her never to come close to my house again, but I just can't. Though I feel used as a sex object, but I just can't say no to this girl's request.

I don't just know, am I being stupid?? Is there a Best way to handle this in a more diplomatic way?? I really love this girl.

is either you are a Pro in what you do or you are being used!!

Get a girlfriend, and let her be aware of the situation, let her be around when your ex comes around
But be ready to face opposition from your ex, she will make moves to come back.
she knows you are single, and can't resist her body

Your sex friend you mean?

She is using you....use her back by suggesting 3some with a guy....

Hmmmm bro don't tell me you are not enjoying it....

McCoy662:
Good morning Nlanders, I have this very issue bothering me. I have been in a relationship with this girl for about 3years now. I love her so much, and she loved me until of recent when she told me that she's no longer interested in the relationship. She told me the stern truth that she was seeing someone else.
It's not like I don't take care of her, because I have given her almost everything she requested from me. I bought 90% of her clothes myself as she can't even buy for herself if I give her the money. I pay her bills too.
Just about 2 months ago, the said guy called me and told me that his gf ( my gf) said I'm her ex, and they are now together. This guy is not that rich, he's just on average income scale, he's not super handsome and the worst is that, this girl calls and comes to my house for sex anytime she feels like. But that's all, we are not friends like before, we don't go out together, she don't even oblige my requests anytime I ask her for anything. She don't even visit on a regular except for sex
Right now, I'm fed up; I'm tired of being in this love triangle, though I love her so much.
My guys advised me to beat her up and warn her never to come close to my house again, but I just can't. Though I feel used as a sex object, but I just can't say no to this girl's request.

I don't just know, am I being stupid?? Is there a Best way to handle this in a more diplomatic way?? I really love this girl.

Of a true she sees you as a sex object and totally you have taken ur self so low all because of low she sees u as a tool to satisfy her sexual urges seriously you shouldnt have allowed it to get to this stage why don't you just forget this girl I bet you even if she comes back begging you to forgive don't because you reserve a better someone love has blinded you brother for how London do you want to be wasting your life on someone who uses you,take you time and invest in something better I get irritated when I see ladies treat guys like this is so terrible is it by force

Why are you sounding like you are been violated or in a helpless situation?

So the girl comes to your house unannounced, pulls your penìs out of your short, pushes you to the bed or whatever and slide your penìs into her vagìna, when she is done, she cleans herself up nd leave? If this isn't how it happens, then you should be whipped for boring us with a non issue.

On the flip side, perhaps she isn't having sex with the new guy. Maybe she even told him she is a virgin

Crooked world.

McCoy662:
Good morning Nlanders, I have this very issue bothering me. I have been in a relationship with this girl for about 3years now. I love her so much, and she loved me until of recent when she told me that she's no longer interested in the relationship. She told me the stern truth that she was seeing someone else.
It's not like I don't take care of her, because I have given her almost everything she requested from me. I bought 90% of her clothes myself as she can't even buy for herself if I give her the money. I pay her bills too.
Just about 2 months ago, the said guy called me and told me that his gf ( my gf) said I'm her ex, and they are now together. This guy is not that rich, he's just on average income scale, he's not super handsome and the worst is that, this girl calls and comes to my house for sex anytime she feels like. But that's all, we are not friends like before, we don't go out together, she don't even oblige my requests anytime I ask her for anything. She don't even visit on a regular except for sex
Right now, I'm fed up; I'm tired of being in this love triangle, though I love her so much.

My guys advised me to beat her up and warn her never to come close to my house again, but I just can't. Though I feel used as a sex object, but I just can't say no to this girl's request.

I don't just know, am I being stupid?? Is there a Best way to handle this in a more diplomatic way?? I really love this girl.

Minors!

She ain't forcing you to fork her nicca, you're enjoying it & that is why you haven't put an end to it.

Keep it up.

Raise your hands high above your head, close your eyes and repeat after me "dear lord! i know eye yam stewpeed but please gimme common sense". Amen

U derived your topic from a song.... sing along "My Girlfriend Only Calls Anytime She
Wants Sex"

Grammy don sure...

Next time she comes, rub Cameroon pepper on the condom

McCoy662:
Good morning Nlanders, I have this very issue bothering me. I have been in a relationship with this girl for about 3years now. I love her so much, and she loved me until of recent when she told me that she's no longer interested in the relationship. She told me the stern truth that she was seeing someone else.
It's not like I don't take care of her, because I have given her almost everything she requested from me. I bought 90% of her clothes myself as she can't even buy for herself if I give her the money. I pay her bills too.
Just about 2 months ago, the said guy called me and told me that his gf ( my gf) said I'm her ex, and they are now together. This guy is not that rich, he's just on average income scale, he's not super handsome and the worst is that, this girl calls and comes to my house for sex anytime she feels like. But that's all, we are not friends like before, we don't go out together, she don't even oblige my requests anytime I ask her for anything. She don't even visit on a regular except for sex
Right now, I'm fed up; I'm tired of being in this love triangle, though I love her so much.
My guys advised me to beat her up and warn her never to come close to my house again, but I just can't. Though I feel used as a sex object, but I just can't say no to this girl's request.

I don't just know, am I being stupid?? Is there a Best way to handle this in a more diplomatic way?? I really love this girl.

if I were you I'd keep having sex with her only if it's FREE and I don't spend a dime

With all of ubunja's redpill? You didn't use any of that lol...

jagaban002:
Maybe you only good as a sex object to her and she see other beneficiaries in the other guy so accept ur faith and keep fucking her since u too love sex . Gud luck

bro, I'm just tired oo. Not like I'm a pro. I don't just understand this girl anymore

Lamanii22:
With all of ubunja's redpill? You didn't use any of that lol...

he's in love. He can't think logically.

After reading your story down to the last phrase, all I will say is yes, you're being stupid.

oodua1stson:
if I were you I'd keep having sex with her only if it's FREE and I don't spend a dime

Not free, I still do one or two things for her, but even if it's free, I don't just want a fvck mate. I need a life partner. Love is wicked shaa... But I will move on. Thanks to you all

ubunja:
he's in love. He can't think logically.

Lol... Abeg abeg. I'm trying oo. But some girls are just wicked

O boy u no wise oh ...... see Dey give u sex 24,7 u still Dey talk love , u better service Wetin come ur way and enjoy full time coz dat kind opportunity no go come again oh ........ who love her for loose girls side..... u better sex while legs re still on open adventure oh..... I beg if u need help pass my her number......... something kill love there

How would you allow a girl use you as a tool for her sexual satisfaction

Op, you are pussy whipped.

You showed her you have money and sexually active, you will surely know a lady who loves you without money.

McCoy662:
Good morning Nlanders, I have this very issue bothering me. I have been in a relationship with this girl for about 3years now. I love her so much, and she loved me until of recent when she told me that she's no longer interested in the relationship. She told me the stern truth that she was seeing someone else.
It's not like I don't take care of her, because I have given her almost everything she requested from me. I bought 90% of her clothes myself as she can't even buy for herself if I give her the money. I pay her bills too.
Just about 2 months ago, the said guy called me and told me that his gf ( my gf) said I'm her ex, and they are now together. This guy is not that rich, he's just on average income scale, he's not super handsome and the worst is that, this girl calls and comes to my house for sex anytime she feels like. But that's all, we are not friends like before, we don't go out together, she don't even oblige my requests anytime I ask her for anything. She don't even visit on a regular except for sex
Right now, I'm fed up; I'm tired of being in this love triangle, though I love her so much.
My guys advised me to beat her up and warn her never to come close to my house again, but I just can't. Though I feel used as a sex object, but I just can't say no to this girl's request.

I don't just know, am I being stupid?? Is there a Best way to handle this in a more diplomatic way?? I really love this girl.

The bolded part. Yes! You obviously are. If not, what will you still be doing with a lady who dumped ya Ass for another dude despite all you claim you've done for her. And now only comes to you for sex and you gladly oblige her? And the so called new boyfriend even called you to tell you they're now dating, as what exactly? Why did he have to call you to tell you such crap? Isn't it crystal clear the lady just sees you as a sex object to satisfy her libido? What exactly is about her coochie that can't be gotten somewhere else abi dem don tell you say you no fit knack any other gurl except her only? The earlier you realised you ain't shit to that gurl and kick her outta ya life completely, the better it will be for you.. SMH!

HRHQueenPhil:
Obey the Bible and flee from fornication. In literal terms, move from that apartment to another and don't tell her.

You're silly.