isthatso:


The grass is always greener. All women like money, the obsession with money for the Ibo woman is a result of your culture where a woman inherits nothing. Let me tell you as a yoruba man, dont be deceived, the [/b]wickedness and scheming of a yoruba woman does not have part 2. Always assume a yoruba woman is either lying to you or not telling you the full story....it's in their DNA.[b]

You are more likely to find a "good wife" amongst the ibo women than the yoruba. My only issue with ibo women especially those who grew up in the east is many of them seem to have childhood issues, like being abused by an uncle etc.

Hmm

Fvckmoderators:
Yoruba girls can like to double date anyhow(Tribal remarks unintended)

Obdk:


90% of afonjas are from broken home

what should we do with this information?

galadima77:


Exactly what my mind is finding so difficult to accept: an affront.

I dont carry people's imaginary or real stories on my head.

Waka pass if you can't be civil.

Your effrontery makes me wonder, who are you again?

Mercy2006:
Hmm, I always wonder why you Yoruba men don't defend your women every time they are insulted and stereotyped on this forum.
They are called dirty,ugly and don't know how to cook (even when we know countless Yoruba women are not like that).
And you guys will always, always remain mute.
I guess I have my answer from your post.
That means you actually believe every Yoruba lady you know including the ones in your family is bad and a liar.
SHAME
Do you see how the igbos defend their women every time here,even when we hear horror stories about them?
Clap for yourself, and even jump for joy for good measure.
Continue saying trash about your women o and you will be rewarded accordingly.
I kuku trust the igbo guys here,they always put you people in your place, telling you to leave their women alone.
Feel free to insult me o,I don't care
just wish you could let the yoruba ladies around you know how you truly feel about them

I did not say every one. You can infer from what I wrote based on your level of intelligence. When one makes a general statement it does not mean it applies to everyone. When one says Nigerians are corrupt it does not mean EVERY Nigerian is corrupt, it just means there is a predominant trait or preponderance for corruption in Nigerians...it does not mean every Nigerian is corrupt!! I really dont think I need to explain this concept to an educated person. All women are capable of deceit, like money etc etc but Ive noticed Yoruba women are wicked and callous even when they exhibit empathy or kindness its often because it's in their interest...i.e deceit. Thats a general statement and yes even members of my family exhibit this trait. BTW I am married to a yoruba woman.

As for defending yorubas, Im not going to defend you simply because you are a yoruba. Ibo women also have other negative traits. I dont know how i can know somebody is a thief and then say he is not because he is my tribesman. bad behaviour is bad behaviour, if you dont like to be called negative names, then desist from negative behaviour!

the point I was trying to make anyway to the guy i responded to, is that saints and devils exists in all tribes. Yoruba women in general do not or no longer have a conscience...I think thats the best way i can put my observations and I take no pride in saying so but it's what I have observed!!

nlPoster:
Fvck boy as in?

What exactly is the meaning of this tweet or whatever because I dont get it.

has haha hahahahah. my brother this one tire me

isthatso:


Let me tell you as a yoruba man, dont be deceived, the wickedness and scheming of a yoruba woman does not have part 2. Always assume a yoruba woman is either lying to you or not telling you the full story....it's in their DNA.

I won't argue with this because scheming especially is something Nigerians are known for. I'm not sure it's only found among Yoruba women however.

Levels of wickedness could vary depending on exposure, or place. Wickedness tends to be an African trait, so the concept of human rights would be expected to be more prevalent among those who are exposed, compared to those who are not.

You are more likely to find a "good wife" amongst the ibo women than the yoruba.

That's possible.

If you're looking for a good wife, perhaps check outside of Yoruba then let us know for sure.

Amakavula:
cos I'm their second Mom

keep deceiving your self in the light of the day..

nlPoster:
These (young) ladies of today, what are the odds that person is a nler?

It worries me that despite my postings here plus a few efforts by others, sense seems to just remain far away from the majority of users on this site.

You call someone you dated a fvck boy? Doesn't that show you're easy and with questionable standards? Or are you still infatuated with the person hence the insults?

In fact, the lady doesn't even look that young?

I read ur post ...I didn't understand ...I had to turn my phone upside down to understand ur Post... buh still ..nothing makes sense out of it ....just a gibberish post anyways

porn actress spotted...

Amakavula:
announce to the world she settled but still open to her "spec"..

God knows if I don't want someone I don't pretend.

You said it all.

The guy is even exposed to ridicule because of this tweet.
SMH

ugohenry2019:


I read my post ...I didn't understand ...I had to turn my phone upside down to understand my Post... buh still ..nothing makes sense out of it ....just a gibberish post anyways

I didn't ask for your opinion neither did I ask you to quote me.

So, save your opinion for your asshole. Print it out and use it to wipe your butt.

nlPoster:


I dont carry people's imaginary or real stories on my head.

Waka pass if you can't be civil.

Your effrontery makes me wonder, who are you again?

Well i was referring to what she said about her hubby.

Mercy2006:
Hmm, I always wonder why you Yoruba men don't defend your women every time they are insulted and stereotyped on this forum.
They are called dirty,ugly and don't know how to cook (even when we know countless Yoruba women are not like that).
And you guys will always, always remain mute.
I guess I have my answer from your post.
That means you actually believe every Yoruba lady you know including the ones in your family is bad and a liar.
SHAME
Do you see how the igbos defend their women every time here,even when we hear horror stories about them?
Clap for yourself, and even jump for joy for good measure.
Continue saying trash about your women o and you will be rewarded accordingly.
I kuku trust the igbo guys here,they always put you people in your place, telling you to leave their women alone.
Feel free to insult me o,I don't care
just wish you could let the yoruba ladies around you know how you truly feel about them

His preference is Igbo ladies but his generalizing his opinion is one sided and myopic.

Yoruba women have lots of admirers from the Igbo folks too.

galadima77:


Well i was referring to what she said about her hubby.

Perhaps she's a prostitute, going by her twitter page which is online again.


Not an insult, she just has a semi naked picture there of herself or someone, standing in front of a bed. Don't check if you have a problem with porn or nudity.

Unless the account is fake ?

isthatso:


I did not say every one. You can infer from what I wrote based on your level of intelligence. When one makes a general statement it does not mean it applies to everyone. When one says Nigerians are corrupt it does not mean EVERY Nigerian is corrupt, it just means there is a predominant trait or preponderance for corruption in Nigerians...it does not mean every Nigerian is corrupt!! I really dont think I need to explain this concept to an educated person. All women are capable of deceit, like money etc etc but Ive noticed Yoruba women are wicked and callousare even when they exhibit empathy or kindness its often because it's in their interest. Thats a general statement and yes even members of my family exhibit this trait. A colleague of mine who works in healthcare once told me in his experience, A yoruba woman will see her child sick and tell you she has no money for medicine and watch the child suffer, an Ibo mother will do whatever it takes to get the medicine for the child. That sums up the yoruba woman. BTW I am married to a yoruba woman.

As for defending yorubas, Im not going to defend you simply because you are a yoruba. Ibo women also have other negative traits.

Well, different strokes for different folks.
It's funny what you said about a Yoruba woman neglecting her sick child because all my life,I have only known selfless Yoruba women
Women who would rather die than see their kids go without,
my own mother,an example and by the grace of God,I'm emulating her now in my own marriage.
I didn't mean that you should defend the yoruba ladies just because they are yorubas, but it won't hurt at least to let some tribalists on this forum know they can't generalize when it comes to Yoruba women.
Whatever bad thing they are saying about the Yoruba women abound also among their women,trust me I know.
I want to believe your wife is not dirty, though i don't know you or your wife
But why not put the record straight
Unless it's true for you.
Ok, let's not drag the matter,I only quoted you because to me,you came out in defense of the igbo women, but you never did for your own women, not even once(at least not that I know of) and the way you painted them rubbed me the wrong way.

nlPoster:


I didn't ask for your opinion neither did I ask you to quote me.

So, save your opinion for your asshole. Print it out and use it to wipe your butt.

common sense not common in our society these days I understand.. buh I sell common sense for cheap rate bro

If I be ur husband, the moment I see this trash ur bags go dey for side out. Spit!

Mercy2006:
Well, different strokes for different folks.
It's funny what you said about a Yoruba woman neglecting her sick child because all my life,I have only known selfless Yoruba women
Women who would rather die than see their kids go without,
my own mother,an example and by the grace of God,I'm emulating her now in my own marriage.
I didn't mean that you should defend the yoruba ladies just because they are yorubas, but it won't hurt at least to let some tribalists on this forum know they can't generalize when it comes to Yoruba women.
Whatever bad thing they are saying about the Yoruba women abound also among their women,trust me I know.
I want to believe your wife is not dirty, though i don't know you or your wife
But why not put the record straight
Unless it's true for you.
Ok, let's not drag the matter,I only quoted you because to me,you came out in defense of the igbo women, but you never did for your own women, not even once(at least not that I know of) and the way you painted them rubbed me the wrong way.

I am only relaying a doctors experience practicing when we shared our experiences of yoruba women. You must understand that what people say and what they do are 2 different things. I am sure the women who told the doctor they dont have money for their child's medicine did not tell their friends they did not have money for the childs medicine because they know they will be chastised! . If you really want to know someone, watch what they do, their life patterns, not what they say or said they did. I am not saying Ibo women dont have their own issues, the man who posted complained about his Ibo women, that simply tells you they have their own issues. I simply told him the grass is not greener.

As for my wife, Shes not perfect but neither am I, she will always be a woman but she has that rare quality that seems to be lacking more and more in yoruba women these days...sincerity, truthfulness and a conscience. That in a marraige means more than anything else.

ugohenry2019:


I have no common sense

I don't need your attention, stop quoting me.

Brightgem:
Don't mind them and their biological clock nonsense.

Abi ooooo

Infacts some people reasoning a times wonder me

isthatso:


I am only relaying a doctors experience practicing when we shared our experiences of yoruba women. You must understand that what people say and what they do are 2 different things. I am sure the women who told the doctor they dont have money for their child's medicine did not tell their friends they did not have money for the childs medicine because they know they will be chastised! . If you really want to know someone, watch what they do, their life patterns, not what they say or said they did. I am not saying Ibo women dont have their own issues, the man who posted complained about his Ibo women, that simply tells you they have their own issues. I simply told him the grass is not greener.

As for my wife, Shes not perfect but neither am I, she will always be a woman but she has that rare quality that seems to be lacking more and more in yoruba women these days...sincerity, truthfulness and a conscience. That in a marraige means more than anything else.

okay o.
But the selfless women I said I have known my whole life including my mom are women who are really selfless evidenced in the lives of their kids.
Women I watched while growing up and are still like role models to me.so I know what I was talking about.
Sorry if you don't have women like that around you.
Well, this has been enlightening for me
Bye and God bless.

We hear you but don't come back and tell us that you caught your husband red handed with smoke, alcohol taking good care of her side chick

kingkakaone:

His preference is Igbo ladies but his generalizing his opinion is one sided and myopic.

[/b]Yoruba women have lots of admirers from the Igbo folks too.[b]

I just shake my head at times when I read tribalistic comments about the Yoruba women from the igbo online trolls.
If they know how many igbo men are marrying Yoruba women they will keep quiet.
Trust me,I know

U were cheating!!! fuckboiz!!!...I pity the guy sha...old habits neva dies.

U were cheating!!!....fuckboys!!!....I pity the guy....
Old habits neva dies

nlPoster:


Yoruba mostly meaning?

And yes, many Yoruba men prefer SE and SS women, there seems to me more of them on nl for some reason (probably because the site owner also promotes it).

Personally, I think people should go with their preferences unless it's indicated otherwise. I also don't like situations rife within the black community irrespective of origin where the genders curse each other out anyhow. Eg:

https://www.nairaland.com/3963939/wow-never-knew-yoruba-women

Mom is Yoruba dad is partially Yoruba, non Yoruba last name.

These things are just my experience, I've seen it too many times. Ask most of those Yoruba guys that go after South East and South South girls they will tell you the same thing even Davido agrees .

My own personal issues are with Yoruba women, when black people start their gender wars its most likely due to insecurity.

Farki:


Mom is Yoruba dad is partially Yoruba, non Yoruba last name.

These things are just my experience, I've seen it too many times. Ask most of those Yoruba guys that go after South East and South South girls they will tell you the same thing even Davido agrees .

My own personal issues are with Yoruba women, when black people start their gender wars its most likely due to insecurity.

I don't have davido as a role model, he's a public figure and most of what he does is probably for reasons unreleased to his fans. Not saying people should not look up to him and admire him, I'm not in the age demographics, I believe he's for younger folks although any older folk is free to be his fan.

Yoruba guys dating and marrying non Yoruba women is not really news to me, it's not unusual since the men can marry from wherever they like.

The Nigerian trait is to boast about "conquering" women from other places, which for some weird reason is seen as taking over or getting a foothold there.

And, technically, you are not Yoruba since your dad isn't? Is your dad partly Yoruba as in one definitely Yoruba parent or he has some Yoruba ancestry.

Mercy2006:
I just shake my head at times when I read tribalistic comments about the Yoruba women from the igbo online trolls.
If they know how many igbo men are marrying Yoruba women they will keep quiet.
Trust me,I know

The truth is that most people comment based on what they heard instead of their personal encounters.
People have preferences but I don't understand why they would rubbish the choices of others.

Mercy2006:
okay o.
But the selfless women I said I have known my whole life including my mom are women who are really selfless evidenced in the lives of their kids.
Women I watched while growing up and are still like role models to me.so I know what I was talking about.
Sorry if you don't have women like that around you.
Well, this has been enlightening for me
Bye and Good bless.

There are outliers to every generalisation, This is not about me or you, this is about the larger population, it does not nullify the generalisation. You can take pot shots at me but the fact that you dont like what you are hearing does not mean it is not true. Deflecting the issue is the reason why problems persist in our society. To solve a problem one must must acknowledge the existence of the problem. i am a yoruba man, I take no delight is saying what i said, but it is my observation especially as i have gotten older and more conscious and observant. Go to a market, price something with a yoruba woman and then decide you are not buying, she is likely to abuse you in your presence or after you have left, it will never happen with an Ibo market woman. abuses and curse are meaningless but sometime you gain an insight intio the soul of a person in subtle ways. I have come to realise, the heart of the yoruba woman is quite dark, maybe it is the influence of Africa magic, maybe it is poverty and it will not change until they first accept there is a problem. The typical Africa magic watching yoruba woman, I run away from Trying to make this personal, talking about me or you is neither here nor there is not acknowledging a problem. Ofcourse you do not have to accept my view.

BTW the Doctor's experience I related was about market women in Ibadan. Secondly my wife was the one who vowed never to employ a yoruba in our household again and she is yoruba.

Finally party scatter..

nlPoster:


I don't have davido as a role model, he's a public figure and most of what he does is probably for reasons unreleased to his fans. Not saying people should not look up to him and admire him, I'm not in the age demographics, I believe he's for younger folks although any older folk is free to be his fan.

Yoruba guys dating and marrying non Yoruba women is not really news to me, it's not unusual since the men can marry from wherever they like.

The Nigerian trait is to boast about "conquering" women from other places, which for some weird reason is seen as taking over or getting a foothold there.

And, technically, you are not Yoruba since your dad isn't? Is your dad partly Yoruba as in one definitely Yoruba parent or he has some Yoruba ancestry.

For me personally it's not about conquest or whatever, non Yoruba girls have just frustrated the interest out of me.

My paternal grandfather is not Yoruba, my grandmother is though of the Egun variety. So if my mother is fully Yoruba and my dad isn't does that make me a spirit?

ain't nothing better than an reformed h-oe that has gotten all the h-oeness out of her system and has her mind right for love, progress, and fidelity.

ditto male h-oes!!!!!