iphi:
My boss posted on her WhatsApp story "Who will be my Val" and other series of messages concerning taking her out for Val.

I'm older than her and she respects me, deep down I really like her, I don't know if I should ask her playfully, we chat a lot. I tease her a little bit when she posts a picture that is not fine and we laugh over it.

I want to tell her if she is unsuccessful in her search for a date I can be her back up plan. I don't know if it's a good idea to tell her that. I need honest and matured opinions please.

Why not, give it a shot, if you succeed, fine, if you fail you will know you tried. Life is a risk and the worst that will happen is for you to join the job hunters next week.
However, dont present yourself as a back up plan, be a man, just ask if she can be your val. If she say yes, treat her with respect and dont fool yourself.

Hmmm.... This people are always on duty... Village People.....

Your village people have finally gotten a strategy to finish what they started with you.


Onye ara

iphi:
My boss posted on her WhatsApp story "Who will be my Val" and other series of messages concerning taking her out for Val.

I'm older than her and she respects me, deep down I really like her, I don't know if I should ask her playfully, we chat a lot. I tease her a little bit when she posts a picture that is not fine and we laugh over it.

I want to tell her if she is unsuccessful in her search for a date I can be her back up plan. I don't know if it's a good idea to tell her that. I need honest and matured opinions please.

People get into trouble when they cannot define relationships. Only a child will confuse a boss for a romantic date!

JasonScoolari:
I equally want to do same with my boss, but I am scared.... She lost her boyfriend recently to a ghastly motor accident, just wanna take her out tomorrow just to make her feel relaxed but...... Hmmmm!!!

Think it well o

Hope she won't feel bad. And you might be lucky. Who's nose?

Sorry wanted to type who knows?

iphi:
I can find another job, can I find a woman as humble as she can be? I wouldn't know unless I find out, and I'm playing it safe too

is like u have already made up ur mind that you would do it n still come here to ask us

Godsonkemz:
What a foolish question from an employee. Why should you even have a crush at your workplace. It's unprofessional.

she's not the top boss, she's just my direct boss... "Keyword" jokingly ask her as a second option

No feelings? Then I think you should keep off.

JasonScoolari:
I love this reply but some folks here are making it look like a big sin to take a female boss out.... I don't have feelings for her but I feel like taking her out tomorrow.

iphi:
hahahaha... Finding true love is not easy, step by step

Oga u get mind o. Lol

Alot of things will happen in the next 24 hours, pls update us .

Many thanks

iphi:
My boss posted on her WhatsApp story "Who will be my Val" and other series of messages concerning taking her out for Val.

I'm older than her and she respects me, deep down I really like her, I don't know if I should ask her playfully, we chat a lot. I tease her a little bit when she posts a picture that is not fine and we laugh over it.

I want to tell her if she is unsuccessful in her search for a date I can be her back up plan. I don't know if it's a good idea to tell her that. I need honest and matured opinions please.

Super Merd oooh

It pays to separate love life from work. It may turn out to be a sil.ly move.

Op, ...e b like say you don get work for petrol filling station.. �

iphi:
one cold Pepsi for you... I'm gonna be extra careful with words

This is definitely gonna end bad for you bro

iphi:
My boss posted on her WhatsApp story "Who will be my Val" and other series of messages concerning taking her out for Val.

I'm older than her and she respects me, deep down I really like her, I don't know if I should ask her playfully, we chat a lot. I tease her a little bit when she posts a picture that is not fine and we laugh over it.

I want to tell her if she is unsuccessful in her search for a date I can be her back up plan. I don't know if it's a good idea to tell her that. I need honest and matured opinions please.

Give me her contact so that i can help her situation ...cos I am planning to marry...this year...is an insult to invite my would be wife out....I am not joking ...u could be sacked

Please drop the name of your company or boss .. I want to send in my CV in advance in case you enter trouble...

Its like you don't value your job

ednut1:
Sack loading

Dude she's only trying to nice by Chatting with you, A lot Women don't respect those who are subordinate to them. Just make sure you don't exit the workforce.

iphi:
ouch!!! Too late already sent the text, no reply yet

I'm waiting for the update on her reply

iphi:
My boss posted on her WhatsApp story "Who will be my Val" and other series of messages concerning taking her out for Val.

I'm older than her and she respects me, deep down I really like her, I don't know if I should ask her playfully, we chat a lot. I tease her a little bit when she posts a picture that is not fine and we laugh over it.

I want to tell her if she is unsuccessful in her search for a date I can be her back up plan. I don't know if it's a good idea to tell her that. I need honest and matured opinions please.

In as much as I appreciate your courage, I will suggest you gift her a flower and an icream tomorrow morning and tell her happy valentines day and you did like to take her out after work

It's up to her to accept it or reject it

If she does, take her out treat her nicely and take her back home without misbehaving

That will give her the impression that you are not after her position or her money

Leave her to pound over the care and love you showed to her

From there, you can take up

But if she turns it down, never mind and don't get discouraged, keep trying

But you have to define the kind of relationship you want from her

The key is
don't show any form of desperation, gently and easy flow makes her dance to you

But if you just want to have a fling or hit and run

Just respect yourself and stay away from her

LilMissFavvy:
No feelings? Then I think you should keep off.

I meant "no romantic feelings"

Just trying to play safe so I won't come across to her like a toaster.

deebrain:
You must be sick.

nope I very well, I take care of the sick though

iphi:
My boss posted on her WhatsApp story "Who will be my Val" and other series of messages concerning taking her out for Val.

I'm older than her and she respects me, deep down I really like her, I don't know if I should ask her playfully, we chat a lot. I tease her a little bit when she posts a picture that is not fine and we laugh over it.

I want to tell her if she is unsuccessful in her search for a date I can be her back up plan. I don't know if it's a good idea to tell her that. I need honest and matured opinions please.

you no go respect yourself

iphi:
My boss posted on her WhatsApp story "Who will be my Val" and other series of messages concerning taking her out for Val.

I'm older than her and she respects me, deep down I really like her, I don't know if I should ask her playfully, we chat a lot. I tease her a little bit when she posts a picture that is not fine and we laugh over it.

I want to tell her if she is unsuccessful in her search for a date I can be her back up plan. I don't know if it's a good idea to tell her that. I need honest and matured opinions please.

Unless you are Denzel Washington or Anthony Joshua, abort mission

My stake on this is,she will agree and over 2.5

khalids:
I have only one thing to say......Se wan ti fi ori e gba paro.......

I wish I understood

Would love to know you

iphi:
My boss posted on her WhatsApp story "Who will be my Val" and other series of messages concerning taking her out for Val.

I'm older than her and she respects me, deep down I really like her, I don't know if I should ask her playfully, we chat a lot. I tease her a little bit when she posts a picture that is not fine and we laugh over it.

I want to tell her if she is unsuccessful in her search for a date I can be her back up plan. I don't know if it's a good idea to tell her that. I need honest and matured opinions please.

So, no other girl to ask out?

Leave your boss alone, because the day she sees you flirting with with another girl in the office, it is game over.

Can you pls forget about that,
She respects you a lot you said..
It's remaining one sec..wa to te!!

Lexusgs430:



Do you love your present job?
Do you want to remain employed?

yes and yes

Please this is not nollywood ooo, use your head ooo. Nah naija you dey ooo