Hello nairalanders I need your advice, I have been dating this girl 8 months now she is pretty which Is one of the quality that made me like her, first time I met her her first request was her birthday gift which I monetized and gave her, she came for a visit and stayed 3 weeks she cooks very well though she can't cook a pot of meal if I didn't give her 3k upwards that shows she can't manage very well but her quest for money is too high, she complained for her hostel fee which is #160,000 of which I gave her half she didn't even say thank u to me rather she complained and asked where she was gonna a see the remaining half,,it hurt me so much that the 80,000 I gave her she didn't appreciate, I scolded her for that and she said she was sorry, today she send me a picture of a dress and told me this is what she wants for her value gift,,pls ladies here is it proper for u ladies to tell a guy straight what u need for your call? I thought it's a surprise gift,,and I am planning to marry this lady pls what is your advice should I quit or go ahead though my siblings told me she is out for my money

She's cashing out.... Stop given her money and see if she'd stay#Maga

You already know what to do, don't bother us

Oracle55:
Hello nairalanders I need your advice, I have been dating this girl 8 months now she is pretty which Is one of the quality that made me like her, first time I met her her first request was her birthday gift which I monetized and gave her, she came for a visit and stayed 3 weeks she cooks very well though she can't cook a pot of meal if I didn't give her 3k upwards that shows she can't manage very well but her quest for money is too high, she complained for her hostel fee which is #160,000 of which I gave her half she didn't even say thank u to me rather she complained and asked where she was gonna a see the remaining half,,it hurt me so much that the 80,000 I gave her she didn't appreciate, I scolded her for that and she said she was sorry, today she send me a picture of a dress and told me this is what she wants for her value gift,,pls ladies here is it proper for u ladies to tell a guy straight what u need for your call? I thought it's a surprise gift,,and I am planning to marry this lady pls what is your advice should I quit or go ahead though my siblings told me she is out for my money

Marry her then later quit (divorce )

ATM... Hmmm Fly, Robin Fly... ASAP!

Send me her val gift. I'd appreciate it unlike her.

my guy una no dey hear word, never spend more than you can throw away on a gf, but una like to wan show say una get money....she don open office for your head. break up with that broke bish. youre here paying for her hostel....what happened to her fada and moda or is she an orphan? i dont understand you guys of this generation.

emeijeh:
Guys, should we tell him ?

No, don't tell him.

Let the dunce keep deceiving himself

Kobicove:


No, don't tell him.

Let the dunce keep deceiving himself

bro what do u mean

Coolcalmcollect:
my guy una no dey hear word, never spend more than you can throw away on a gf, but una like to wan show say una get money....she don open office for your head. break up with that broke bish. youre here paying for her hostel....what happened to her fada and moda or is she an orphan? i dont understand you guys of this generation.

I agree with u bro though she complained that her parents don't have,,she is too broke for my liking

U made me waist my time reading this crap.. obviously u hav a disorder. If what u say is real then u r the greatest fool on earth.

Funkyswagzz:
U made me waist my time reading this crap.. obviously u hav a disorder. If what u say is real then u r the greatest fool on earth.

bro pls tell me what to do I am confused

Do you really need opinion of people before you make your personal choice? You know what to do Sir

Oracle55:
Hello nairalanders I need your advice, I have been dating this girl 8 months now she is pretty which Is one of the quality that made me like her, first time I met her her first request was her birthday gift which I monetized and gave her, she came for a visit and stayed 3 weeks she cooks very well though she can't cook a pot of meal if I didn't give her 3k upwards that shows she can't manage very well but her quest for money is too high, she complained for her hostel fee which is #160,000 of which I gave her half she didn't even say thank u to me rather she complained and asked where she was gonna a see the remaining half,,it hurt me so much that the 80,000 I gave her she didn't appreciate, I scolded her for that and she said she was sorry, today she send me a picture of a dress and told me this is what she wants for her value gift,,pls ladies here is it proper for u ladies to tell a guy straight what u need for your call? I thought it's a surprise gift,,and I am planning to marry this lady pls what is your advice should I quit or go ahead though my siblings told me she is out for my money

The kind mind u guys get eeh. Ordinary 1k airtime i find it difficult to send to girl. Who dash una this kind mind. U count 80k give nwata nwanyi. U strong oo

Oracle55:
Her quest for money is too high.
She complained for her hostel fee which is #160,000 of which I gave her half she didn't even say thank u to me rather she complained and asked where she was gonna a see the remaining half.

Today she send me a picture of a dress and told me this is what she wants for her value gift,,pls ladies here is it proper for u ladies to tell a guy straight what u need for your call?

What is your advice should I quit or go ahead though my siblings told me she is out for my money

The answer is in your heart already provided by your CREATOR.

Ignore that advice and YOU WILL REGRET it.

Oracle55:
Hello nairalanders I need your advice, I have been dating this girl 8 months now she is pretty which Is one of the quality that made me like her, first time I met her her first request was her birthday gift which I monetized and gave her, she came for a visit and stayed 3 weeks she cooks very well though she can't cook a pot of meal if I didn't give her 3k upwards that shows she can't manage very well but her quest for money is too high, she complained for her hostel fee which is #160,000 of which I gave her half she didn't even say thank u to me rather she complained and asked where she was gonna a see the remaining half,,it hurt me so much that the 80,000 I gave her she didn't appreciate, I scolded her for that and she said she was sorry, today she send me a picture of a dress and told me this is what she wants for her value gift,,pls ladies here is it proper for u ladies to tell a guy straight what u need for your call? I thought it's a surprise gift,,and I am planning to marry this lady pls what is your advice should I quit or go ahead though my siblings told me she is out for my money

You deserve whatever she is throwing at you. How can you think of getting married to a lady just because she is pretty? My guy, her looks has obviously beclouded your medulla oblongata. So, carry on and enjoy your princess.

But be rest assured that money conscious chicks hardly stick to one man. If she can sleep with you when you guys are not yet married, then it doesn't cost her a thing to sleep with two more. Be warned!

Fall for such scam way back
Wisher now
Stop giving her money and see her reaction though dating a student is wait if time truth me another guy will bleed her dis valentine

She should leave the 180k place and seek for something lesser probably 75k since her parents can't afford it,oga wise up na,if you know get tomorrow she go leave you

proclinician:
The kind mind u guys get eeh. Ordinary 1k airtime i find it difficult to send to girl. Who dash una this kind mind. U count 80k give nwata nwanyi. U strong oo

I dey tell u..oo

Oracle55:
Hello nairalanders I need your advice, I have been dating this girl 8 months now she is pretty which Is one of the quality that made me like her, first time I met her her first request was her birthday gift which I monetized and gave her, she came for a visit and stayed 3 weeks she cooks very well though she can't cook a pot of meal if I didn't give her 3k upwards that shows she can't manage very well but her quest for money is too high, she complained for her hostel fee which is #160,000 of which I gave her half she didn't even say thank u to me rather she complained and asked where she was gonna a see the remaining half,,it hurt me so much that the 80,000 I gave her she didn't appreciate, I scolded her for that and she said she was sorry, today she send me a picture of a dress and told me this is what she wants for her value gift,,pls ladies here is it proper for u ladies to tell a guy straight what u need for your call? I thought it's a surprise gift,,and I am planning to marry this lady pls what is your advice should I quit or go ahead though my siblings told me she is out for my money

Mistake men make is asking for advice from the wrong people in this case women.

Don't do it. A unappreciative wife who never has enough is a mini hell on earth. Your life will be utterly miserable and you will spend your life in futility trying to satisfy her. Even if she is Miss World, with that kind of character, it's not worth it.

You know what ?keep the marriage thing with her aside for now. Just drop it in a bucket first. Then try to understand this girl and the kind of person she is.

You say she is broke and no one to take care if her. You really tried giving her such amount for hostel and she needs to be reminded to say thank you.

Study her. We dont know her person but you do. Let her not be the type when she doesnt get from you she will start cheating or sleeping around and still be with you for those telling you dont give her money.
She is broke. In a relationship with you. And you dont offer her anything and she still with you ?hmmm forget it she will get it somewhere eles.

Face it now squarely
Keep your marriage aside then know her person

After this one too would na come out and be claiming Alpha male upandan!

Oracle55:
I agree with u bro though she complained that her parents don't have,,she is too broke for my liking

trust me you don't need broke girls in your life, the money you would have use to secure your future you will end up spending on her and same girl will leave you for anoda guy when the future wey you suppose develop no pure. I don't do broke girls o, I hate dem.

Coolcalmcollect:
my guy una no dey hear word, never spend more than you can throw away on a gf, but una like to wan show say una get money....she don open office for your head. break up with that broke bish. youre here paying for her hostel....what happened to her fada and moda or is she an orphan? i dont understand you guys of this generation.

boys no dey hear word aswear

Some men are meant to be fools and there's nothing any advice can do about that.
For him to be asking this question with all that he wrote, he is irredeemable so don't waste your advice, folks.

As for your question whether it is right for ladies to ask for what they need or not..let me ask you this. Do you not ask her for sex? So why is her asking you for what she needs now a problem? Against this, you have no case.

Then for her to be asking where to get the bal of her hostel fee is very wrong. Are you the one that sent her to School? I'm sure she has sponsors before she met you.

Lastly, never date a student if you know you're not ready to empty your bank account. And there's no asaurance such relationships will work out in the end as most of them use this as a means of completing their education. Which is already glaring in your case.

Withdraw resources and watch her. If she stays fine. if she leaves, all the best.

lol

Officialgarri:
You already know what to do, don't bother us

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Officialgarri:
You already know what to do, don't bother us

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Oracle55:
Hello nairalanders I need your advice, I have been dating this girl 8 months now she is pretty which Is one of the quality that made me like her, first time I met her her first request was her birthday gift which I monetized and gave her, she came for a visit and stayed 3 weeks she cooks very well though she can't cook a pot of meal if I didn't give her 3k upwards that shows she can't manage very well but her quest for money is too high, she complained for her hostel fee which is #160,000 of which I gave her half she didn't even say thank u to me rather she complained and asked where she was gonna a see the remaining half,,it hurt me so much that the 80,000 I gave her she didn't appreciate, I scolded her for that and she said she was sorry, today she send me a picture of a dress and told me this is what she wants for her value gift,,pls ladies here is it proper for u ladies to tell a guy straight what u need for your call? I thought it's a surprise gift,,and I am planning to marry this lady pls what is your advice should I quit or go ahead though my siblings told me she is out for my money

You won't have savings if you go ahead and marry her. She's on a mission to drain you to the last kobo

Omar09:


Mistake men make is asking for advice from the wrong people in this case women.

Yeah, i think everybody has been giving him the wrong advice.. What do you suggest??