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How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by englishmart(m): 4:54am On Feb 16, 2020 |
A quick story about how I met her. I met her at a bus-stop somewhere in Abuja about to board a commercial bus home. When I noticed we were taking the same route, I immediately went after her. This lady was so beautiful that every eye was prying at her. Since I knew she would be alighting in the next few minutes I had to hurry up with getting to know her. Long story short, we spoke for minutes without anybody noticing because I was typing and showing to her. Finally I got her number. As I got home, freshened up, the next thing I did was to call her. She redirected me to WhatsApp and we got to introduce each other a little. The next day, I called her to wait for me so we could go home together, she waited and when I saw her, she wasn't sound, it was rainy and she was ill. To make matter worse, there were too many passengers around and too few buses/cabs to convey people home, one would have to jostle to get a cab and she wasn't sound for that. I had to cross to the other side to get a cab at 4X the normal price just so we could leave the rain and go home. I was supposed to have continued my journey but I chose to accompany her till she got to the gates of her apartment. She gave me a hug and we parted. That night, our chat on WhatsApp became intense and we got along well. I didn't tell her I wanted us to be dating, we just started dating since both of us were single. We continued going home together for weeks to the extent that some drivers and passengers started taking notice of us. Our going home together was really hurting my pocket as I was financing the transportation, and she never for once protested that I let her pay for herself (that was a bad sign, but I ignored it) 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by englishmart(m): 4:54am On Feb 16, 2020 |
Three days into the relationship she told me she needed money for body cream and hairdressing. What? "Was that registration fee" I thought to myself. I only gave her about 5k for hair and told her I there was no money for her cream, she was disgruntled but I didn't care. She started coming regularly to visit me, say twice in a week and each time she came, I paid her transportation fare since she always claimed she had no money. ![]() One day, I stood up to her and told her we need to be a little frugal if we really need to take the relationship far. She became upset and accused me of listening to friends, if she's becoming burdensome, I should tell her. Well, we resolved the issue and then we continued. Some days later, she invited me to her friend's wedding and I told her I won't be available, she then said I should give her transport for the wedding, then it dawned on me she's not a nice girl. Before I knew it, she was already at my place, I had to give her the last 1k note I had. She knew it was all I had yet she collected it. I felt loved but used at the same time. What do I do now? How do I correct this? I called her almost every hour, I reduced it gradually till it became twice in a day, I started declining her requests, became cold, stopped her from coming for weeks. She lost her phone recently and told me about it, she wanted a phone for Valentine's, but I told her we couldn't continue one week to the Valentine's day. I was just tired of being a mugu. Spending on her wasn't the problem, but she took my love as an avenue to pillage me of my hard-earned money. I learnt she got another phone, a costly one for that matter the next day after the breakup. She was my first girlfriend, and I'm not getting another till further notice. 15 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by englishmart(m): 5:03am On Feb 16, 2020 |
Hell hath no fury like Tyson Fury. 5 Likes |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by chatinent: 5:59am On Feb 16, 2020 |
I read your epistle from top to bottom, and here are few observations: . 1. You were dating yourself. She only was there to turn you from a Current Account to a Savings Account. . 2. Never give a girl you aren't married to any money if she conditions you that she is your responsibility. Never be nice to girls feeling entitled. . 3. Never think it's manly to carter for transportation for yourself and a girl anytime you both ply a route together. You may see it as being gentlemanly. That's poo; they see it as foolery. . 4. I'm sure she saved your name on her phone with "Emeka 5k Hard To Get." Don't think I'm a prophet; no girl is really worth it. . 5. She was not single. You were just another . . I could have decided to flog the hell outta you for effing up so bad on this girl, but I just forgave you. 60 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by Mraphel: 6:05am On Feb 16, 2020 |
I think is Edo women's culture. She will call you incessantly (you picking her calls at all time is a mistake) They are humbled (only if money is involved) She expect you take care of her needs ahead of your family and friends. As soon as food and monetary spending stops, she gets angry and looks elsewhere for relationship almost immediate without thinking of all you have done in the past for her 16 Likes |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by uboma(m): 6:46am On Feb 16, 2020 |
Lol 1 Like |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by englishmart(m): 6:55am On Feb 16, 2020 |
chatinent:Nice observations, but my number was saved as 'my treasure' on her phone. And for the last line. I'm glad I got rid of her. 5 Likes |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by englishmart(m): 7:00am On Feb 16, 2020 |
Mraphel:Mercy Aigbe is from Edo state, too. A lot of them have similar terrible orientation. 22 Likes |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by Kobicove(m): 7:04am On Feb 16, 2020 |
Good riddance to bad rubbish! 2 Likes |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by BareFacedLies(m): 7:07am On Feb 16, 2020 |
englishmart: I how you fuçked her first before dumping her! 6 Likes |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by Suprnova: 7:29am On Feb 16, 2020 |
Mraphel: I think it is just a bad habit for you to be broke... all the time 2 Likes |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by englishmart(m): 7:41am On Feb 16, 2020 |
BareFacedLies:I knew this question was coming. We did a lot of vigils together, and all that. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by englishmart(m): 7:42am On Feb 16, 2020 |
Suprnova:Seriously. 1 Like |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by Kingsasian(m): 7:45am On Feb 16, 2020 |
Most Edo girls are stingy too, talking from experience. 8 Likes |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by englishmart(m): 7:51am On Feb 16, 2020 |
Kingsasian:This is becoming a fact. We need to protest about it. 1 Like |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by Geogebra: 8:45am On Feb 16, 2020 |
Guy dis ur story and girlfriend seem like we are do da same girl. 5 Likes |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by Geogebra: 8:47am On Feb 16, 2020 |
Geogebra: 1 Like |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by Geogebra: 8:50am On Feb 16, 2020 |
Pls let's chat on dis numba 08063441699.i will reward u back if she is da one. 2 Likes |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by chatinent: 8:58am On Feb 16, 2020 |
englishmart:She changes the name only when she's around you. 22 Likes |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by englishmart(m): 9:03am On Feb 16, 2020 |
Geogebra:How? First of all, you stay in Abuja? 1 Like |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by Nobody: 9:06am On Feb 16, 2020 |
englishmart: First impression matters a lot and I genuinely think that you bleeped up! You shouldn’t have financed the transportation from the on start, baba na you give her impression say money they, I don’t blame the girl. You said she didn’t want to jotle to get a cab that raining day and you as Dangote stepped in to finance UBER lol baba you for let the rain beat una both there��. Sometimes don’t over do it. Glad u finally came to your senses 10 Likes |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by Geogebra: 9:08am On Feb 16, 2020 |
englishmart:Yes |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by englishmart(m): 9:10am On Feb 16, 2020 |
Odogu9195:Not that she didn't want to jostle, she couldn't, she was seriously sick and shaky. 1 Like |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by samdavjustin(m): 9:24am On Feb 16, 2020 |
englishmart: Well I am glad u came to ur senses by yourself. When they start to ask for money it never stops, now that u have experience just make sure to always set a limit to the amount you’re willing to spend every month because I don’t see how you will get a GF and not spend on her 6 Likes |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by Young03(m): 9:29am On Feb 16, 2020 |
Ah I don't wanna talk about Edo girls I'm dating one now and I have dated 3 in the past 1 Like |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by Skmoda360(m): 9:35am On Feb 16, 2020 |
samdavjustin:This is just the truth..... ![]() |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by Skmoda360(m): 9:36am On Feb 16, 2020 |
Young03:They have entitlement spirit....their own na to collect every time... |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by Young03(m): 9:39am On Feb 16, 2020 |
Skmoda360: Few sha I dated 2 Bini girls 1 Akoko Edo 1 esan Its only one out of the 4 that has entitlement spirit but now she's humbled 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by Geogebra: 9:58am On Feb 16, 2020 |
englishmart's no response from u. |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by englishmart(m): 10:09am On Feb 16, 2020 |
Geogebra:you didn't get my text? 1 Like |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by englishmart(m): 10:23am On Feb 16, 2020 |
chatinent:Well, that's a little clever 3 Likes |
Re: How I Met And Brokeup With My Beautiful Edo Girlfriend. by candygist: 10:35am On Feb 16, 2020 |
englishmart: Brother way mumu 2 Likes |
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