Diligentnigga:


Thanks Daddy ☺
She loves me though never cheated on me infact shes caring, neat, she cooks well but her only problem in life in anger and her anger can do stupid things

Shes intelligent and smart too,, i fell in love for the intelligence and not really cos shes preety cos i have dated gurls preetier than her

Shes 21 though

Ardar:
Oga you've not told us what you did to that girl, nobody will just start screaming at you without been provoked.

We need to hear from the girl too.

MarianaTrench:


She's scared cos she does not want the thing to end in complications which could end her life and affect her chances of having babies in the future.

You can procure quality abortion procedure but it will cost you a lot of money.

It's left for you to look for money so that you can take her to an experienced doctor who can give her a good abortion pill or do the abortion himself.

You cannot marry this lady, you must not marry this lady!

If you do just know that your life will be a living hell

Dpharisee:
I was in a similar situation, though gainfully employed and as a gentleman I decided to get married to her.
I thought that marriage would help to change her but for the past several years I have not had peace of mind in the marriage. My family members hardly visit my house, she insults everyone and ready to fight me at anytime, nags me to hell.
I had to resort to a side chic who treats me like a king but I can't marry her, my attempt at seeking divorce brought about the intervention of my religious leaders to whom she promised to change but it didn't last long. The kids are growing and all I did was just to learn to ignore her antics, with hindsight, I would have had the baby (abortion is a NO for me) and damn whatever anyone would say and provide enough money for the baby's upkeep and we continue to nurture the baby as single parents.

Young man, you are on your way to experience the hell I have had to live with since I took the decision to marry my wife, but though I keep praying and hoping that she will change and become the kind of woman I sought

Coolcalmcollect:
you better do abortion and learn to use condom next time....she doesn't have a job, you don't have a job and you wanna add baby to the mix....una no just dey like get sense. how much be condom kiss kiss is 100bucks and you can use it for 3 rounds. when you dey knack you no remember all these her bad character abi and when you cum you come know bah. all these weak men sef....my friend go and do abortion.

Diligentnigga:


Bro am just fedup,, her mum has even apologized her on her behalf and warned her to stop insulting my parents

Her mum complained several times about that she knows an coping and going through alot that i should be a man and be calm and understand her

Diligentnigga:
Good morning Nairalanders i will make this as short as possible and please dont mind my punctuation as iam typing this in a rush

Iam a graduate though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

I have this girlfriend i have been dating for almlst two years now, we both love eachother but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn anger driven person that insult my parents, infact hit me sometimes and say all manner of words at me,of recent, i find out she's pregnant this February now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October,but we had plans of not doing abortion but shes so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and i have told her i will stay by her through everything i informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy,they were angry but they were like its fine sha since shes loved in the family

Now the issue is
1 She's very stubborn
2 she insult my parents at every small argument
3 shes anger driven,, yes am anger driven to an extent also but i have never use my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has slapped locked my shirt and punch me
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me though i dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to lets leave the public scene and go home
5 A baby is on the line cos shes pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as its toxic,, what about the unborn child.
6 Iam currently unemployed and infact am still at home not yet balance up well enough,but she has use nags to kill me,,saying all manners at me


All insults are welcomed please iam in die need of advise thank you

Shibaraba:
I'm done with people who come online to ask questions they know the answer to already.

My question is, how una Preeq dey strong when una broke. When I'm broke Ogbeni my Preeq no dey get life. My Preeq has the same feeling with shibaraba. I'm suspecting it has a brain sef. Once my account balance is pink if you like open the punna to my face, make your Yansh be like buffalo own, make your breasts be like oganigwe own, e no go strong.

But make account green. E dey strong even for sleep

Diligentnigga:


All insults are welcomed please iam in die need of advise thank you

Shibaraba:
I'm done with people who come online to ask questions they know the answer to already.

My question is, how una Preeq dey strong when una broke. When I'm broke Ogbeni my Preeq no dey get life. My Preeq has the same feeling with shibaraba. I'm suspecting it has a brain sef. Once my account balance is pink if you like open the punna to my face, make your Yansh be like buffalo own, make your breasts be like oganigwe own, e no go strong.

But make account green. E dey strong even for sleep

scaramucci:


Na true you talk o. My preeq only stand to celebrate success. So for it to stand everyday, I must give it at least, one achievement to stand and celebrate. I never see this kind preeq before.

Diligentnigga:
Good morning Nairalanders i will make this as short as possible and please dont mind my punctuation as iam typing this in a rush

Iam a graduate though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

I have this girlfriend i have been dating for almlst two years now, we both love eachother but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn anger driven person that insult my parents, infact hit me sometimes and say all manner of words at me,of recent, i find out she's pregnant this February now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October,but we had plans of not doing abortion but shes so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and i have told her i will stay by her through everything i informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy,they were angry but they were like its fine sha since shes loved in the family

Now the issue is
1 She's very stubborn
2 she insult my parents at every small argument
3 shes anger driven,, yes am anger driven to an extent also but i have never use my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has slapped locked my shirt and punch me
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me though i dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to lets leave the public scene and go home
5 A baby is on the line cos shes pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as its toxic,, what about the unborn child.
6 Iam currently unemployed and infact am still at home not yet balance up well enough,but she has use nags to kill me,,saying all manners at me


All insults are welcomed please iam in die need of advise thank you

samguru:
Let me guess the tribe/state/region of this lady.......hmmmmm South South, Delta state?

Ok that was a joke ooo.

My Brother, If that big stone hit you on the head and you die instantly what do you think we happen to your unborn baby? another man will come and father your child as the faulty legal system in Nigeria may allow her go scot-free.

A lady that has no respect for your parent/family members and attempted to kill you with stone is neither your future wife nor your girlfriend at all, no matter how hot the conversation between both of you get.

Please, Let her do her wish and avoid her completely, because when she eventually birth the child she will torment you with that child, by taking him/her away from your radar.

MY ADVICE
Please relegate her to the status of baby mama and launch a search for a responsible and God-fearing lady.If you fail to heed to my advice, I will be happy to spit on your grave when the eventuality happen.

Thank you

funmisticqueen2:
As you made your bed, you must lie on it. The way I see it, these are your options;

1. Abort it and go your separate ways

2. Carry it and marry her. Then you will learn to deal with her temper issues.

3.carry it and don't marry her, make her your baby mama, that way she will learn to resent the child and train it with hate, and the child will learn to hate you.

4. Let her birth the child and try to take it from her. Then she will unleash the fullness of her 'temper issues' on you and your family.

I prefer option one. It is cheaper and headache free

scaramucci:


OP, it is "dare need" o. This kind graduates wey we get now sef.

Diligentnigga:


She doesn't want abortion atal.. And shes scared cos of the shane and embarrassment of carrying a baby while in final year and nursing a child while in nysc

Funny enough my mum loves her and shes aware shes pregnant,

Thanks for the contributions anyway

funmisticqueen2:
so I take it that you will marry her

Diligentnigga:


Marry wetin?? When am unemployed.. I just wish she could change cos she has apologized of changing and she would still go back on the same anger driven madness..

funmisticqueen2:
you should have known that before you slept with her

you can't change somebody's character. Be ready for war. Because she will use that child against you

Officialgarri:
Your girlfriend/potential killer only went to school but she isn't educated.

Stay by her till she delivers of the baby, then tell her why you can no longer stay in such an abusive relationship.

However, I doubt if you will be alive by the time she gives birth in jail

Dpharisee:
I was in a similar situation, though gainfully employed and as a gentleman I decided to get married to her.
I thought that marriage would help to change her but for the past several years I have not had peace of mind in the marriage. My family members hardly visit my house, she insults everyone and ready to fight me at anytime, nags me to hell.
I had to resort to a side chic who treats me like a king but I can't marry her, my attempt at seeking divorce brought about the intervention of my religious leaders to whom she promised to change but it didn't last long. The kids are growing and all I did was just to learn to ignore her antics, with hindsight, I would have had the baby (abortion is a NO for me) and damn whatever anyone would say and provide enough money for the baby's upkeep and we continue to nurture the baby as single parents.

Young man, you are on your way to experience the hell I have had to live with since I took the decision to marry my wife, but though I keep praying and hoping that she will change and become the kind of woman I sought