When you change your thinking you change your life. Change Start with 1. Assessment - set target: 1day, 1week, etc 2. Dicipline- the sacrifice, 3. Determination - passion, the fire that ignite your energy to Quit. Finally stop watching pornography. Start doing exercise,exercise n exercise. Find a purpose for your existence n channel your energy derive from your exercise to that purpose. I.e Take up constructive Writing as profession. I observe that Op write up is good n can get better if he seek improvement. Albert Einstein once said "the numerous problems we face today can not be change with the same level of thinking we were at when we created those problems". Big up n Stand up op.

Don't worry Nairalander are here for you.
When they kill you as family that we all are we will help give you a beffiting burial ok, hope that is not what you are scared of #beffiting burial

Pray somebody will borrow you sense one day since you don't have any . Something is busy messing your life up and yet you are there still asking yeye questions.

Don't worry Nairalander are here for you.
When they kill you as family that we all are, we will help give you a beffiting burial ok, hope that is not what you are scared of #beffiting burial

Pray somebody will borrow you sense one day since you don't have any . Something is busy messing your life up and yet you are there still asking yeye questions.

hope1292:
I was addicted to tramadol for a whole 6 months, 400grams everyday which didn't make me detect I was having ulcer, now all my intestine all erupted And i pray to God for healings

ive been addicted to TM since 2014

Karmaisme:



Your addiction to making money is worse because you'll do anything good or bad to make it. I also need to examine myself in that aspect before it destroy me.

Don't get yourself too worked up okay, I just felt like using that phrase. I'm a Godly and moderate person. "So you are the one who will destroy yourself as you've wished okay" God has and will always be there for me. Besides Dangote, Emefiele, Jim Ovia, et all. Are they not addicted to making money. Without money, You are literally finished, most especially In a Hellfire Nation like Nigeria.

ChildOfDoom:
also masturbate a lot. I think its up to 10 years since I started masturbated. I am a chronic masturbator, no lie. i masturbate to almost every thing. from staring at boobs or ass to watching sex pics/porn or doing it to sex chat. I am like a veteran in 2go flirt room.

at the height of it, I masturbate up to 2-3 times a day. now I have irregular erection and flaccid dick no matter how you turn me on. I use cream, oil, saliva or any thing slippery to self-service.


I have started having back pains, painful joint and partial vision impediment. wish I could stop. but anytime I am lonely or frustrated after losing much money, I turn to self-service to give me little reprieve

Hehe lol OP your Case strong ooh. Only you owns all these symptoms. You later Modified your posts. I didn't read such things when you posted earlier. I'm confused, I don't even know the kinda advice I can offer you...

OK

well addiction is something that will cost you determination to achieve. first you have to identify the cause and what pushes you to the act. for instance if idleness is the key factor then always avoid being lonely, if it's watching of sexual videos/pictures then avoid or reduce ur data sub. then in betting you have to avoid holding reasonable amount of money. you better save it somewhere than in ur pocket. resist the urge of going to the shop, reduce ur support to any football team, stop watching them entirely if you can. So taking measure plus ur determination will help you stop any form of addiction.

.well addiction is something that will cost you determination to achieve. first you have to identify the cause and what pushes you to the act. for instance if idleness is the key factor then always avoid being lonely, if it's watching of sexual videos/pictures then avoid or reduce ur data sub. then in betting you have to avoid holding reasonable amount of money. you better save it somewhere than in ur pocket. resist the urge of going to the shop, reduce ur support to any football team, stop watching them entirely if you can. So taking measure plus ur determination will help you stop any form of addiction

Please I fall into this category... I need help urgently. I would love to know how you broke the addiction...
Please chat me on 07062674549

COdeGenesis:


Should I laugh . Sorry bro. You can stop it. You just need to occupy yourself with something that brngs money. Try transcription in place of it. You wont regret it

This Is exactly what I actually meant In my Initial post, and one Idiiiot up there who quoted me was misinterpreting my post all because I used the word addiction. He thought everyone would Indulge In crime even when things are going rough. I can't count the time I've gone almost 24hours without putting anything In my stomach, Yet I didn't Involve myself In crime but I kept on believing In God. The funny thing Is I even said I'm addicted to God, The Idiiiot didn't have anything to say about that but went on to say his addiction to making money will destroy him. What an Ignoramus foool he Is. I'm passed stage of any addiction whatsoever. I've been through a lot In life which has moulded me to the better person I am today.

For the masturbation: Take a note and a pen, and write down the things that trigger that sexual response. Do as much as you can to stay clear from those things. The Night-time and loneliness are also potential triggers. Go to bed earlier. Don't stay alone. Don't sleep in the afternoons.

There's also another way. Train the mind to block away thoughts and redirect it to something better. Do these constantly. No sexual response can hold sway if the brain can shut off those kinds of thoughts. Use meditation to empty your mind and channel it towards nature, self-reflection, and your ancestors.

Tip: 1. Don't lie down with your stomach on the bed. Lie facing upwards.
2. Wear loose-fitting trousers/boxers when at home.
3. Take control of the action. Don't let it be done unwillingly.
4. Share it with an important and upright person in your life that you see regularly

Don't expect everything fast. Gradually get away from it. Keep stretching the intervals between periods of the act.

COdeGenesis:


You have a phone, you can afford data.You have time. I make 10k from transcription weekly and it is becos my work doesnt give me time and sometimes I feel less motivated and lazy. Just invest the time and energy you putting into bet9ja to transcription, you can make twice the money i make

..Abeg help o what's transcription all about

seanwilliam:
senior man I hail oo... most people are really suffering from addiction mhen...especially hard drugs, that one is worst.. but has solution too

You still dey hear hear from Afoltudeseun, Samuel90 and Co? Besides when last you Visit that betting thread lol. Got so much tasks on my hands these days...

The solution to your current problem is money.

The reason you are complaining about virtual is because you are losing more than you are winning. You need to quit virtual and look for another money making venture. Is not going to be easy but it is going to be gradual process.

Masturbation is harder to quit than betting because while betting involve money masturbation is a lust for something that need to be feed.

Having a girlfriend will not guarantee that you will quit masturbation as I know many people who have girlfriend and still masturbate.
The only way to overcome masturbation is to replace it with another habit.

Please don't think of commiting sucide, all this problems are temporary and will soon pass. It look like you are alone but you are not, there are others like you currently facing this same problem you are facing.

Remember this quote the world is not interested in your problems, but your success.

Toseenlove:


You still dey hear hear from Afoltudeseun, Samuel90 and Co? Besides when last you Visit that betting thread lol. Got so much tasks on my hands these days...

baba me I no dey really visit that thread again o.. just once in a while when I get a woof card and transfer it to betpawa then bet... honestly bet na scam.. I no sure say those guys still dey bet again jare.. na newbies full that thread which I dey sure say body go tell them too... na to find better thing do for life jare..how hustle

HRHQueenPhil:
U need a wake up call.. I visited someone whose leg was just amputated and left very small thigh, this is a big boy who dey drink like fish and felt he did not need to marry. He is looking like a shadow of himself
I don't know what addictions you are fighting but u need to take control of ur life or it will do a number on you. U alone are absolutely responsible for the outcome of ur life.

So you are Insinuating If he had married before the Incident, He would by now have someone taking care of him hun. What brought marriage Into this discussion, Is It by force to get married. You are not really making any sense to me from that statement. If he still has a Mother, He has nothing to worry about. I'm suspecting you are an evening newspaper!!!

solonubinho:


Oga OP asked for advice. If you dont have anything meaningful to say, keep kwayet.

You must be very unfortunate to have said this

seanwilliam:
baba me I no dey really visit that thread again o.. just once in a while when I get a woof card and transfer it to betpawa then bet... honestly bet na scam.. I no sure say those guys still dey bet again jare.. na newbies full that thread which I dey sure say body go tell them too... na to find better thing do for life jare..how hustle

Nice Nice Nice one bruh. That's the spirit. You are absolutely right. Body go truly tell them true true ooh lol. I wish us best of luck In our endeavors. Cheers bruh.

Toseenlove:


So you are Insinuating If he had married before the Incident, He would by now have someone taking care of him hun. You are not really making any sense to me from that statement. If he still has a Mother, He has nothing to worry about. I'm suspecting you are an evening newspaper!!!

spoken like a fool, his mother? Are u hearing urself.. An old woman that is suppose to be resting will come and be looking after a man his age.. Spoken like a confirmed fool

HRHQueenPhil:
U need a wake up call.. I visited someone whose leg was just amputated and left very small thigh, this is a big boy who dey drink like fish and felt he did not need to marry. He is looking like a shadow of himself
I don't know what addictions you are fighting but u need to take control of ur life or it will do a number on you. U alone are absolutely responsible for the outcome of ur life.

First thought was this line is from Bishop Oyedepo. looking through your profile I wasn't wrong.

I never believed I could stop masturbating
My gf knew about this and I told her ,lol n behold the urge just died down like that.
As for the betting thing ehn,I'm still so much into it

HRHQueenPhil:
spoken like a fool, his mother? Are u hearing urself.. An old woman that is suppose to be resting will come and be looking after a man his age.. Spoken like a confirmed fool

Expired newspaper..... You are the biggest Idiiiot of all time. I'm not the cause of your misfortunes and shortcomings In life. After wasting away your youthful and prime days jumping from one diiick to the other. You are now looking for where to offload your garbage self. Ahmadioha and Ogun strike you there lol....

ChildOfDoom:
A popular Nigerian pidgin adage goes: "Pikin wey go get head, na from small dem dey know".

it's been 7 years of waywardness. no sign of me changing my obnoxious lifestyle. I'm even getting worse. it has gotten to a stage that my life and health is being threatened.......

Say this simple prayers.

1.Lord Jesus I accept you as my Lord and Saviour, i am sorry please forgive all my sins, cleanse me from all unrighteousness in Jesus name I prayed.

2. Holy Spirit please help me, deliver me totally today, save me, be my helper now and forever more in Jesus name.

3. Get a bible and start reading any of the gospel (Matthew, Mark, Luke or John) from beginning to the end.

4. Your case will end in praise.

Toseenlove:


Expired newspaper..... You are the biggest Idiiiot of all time. I'm not the cause of your misfortunes and shortcomings In life. After wasting away your youthful and prime days jumping from one diiick to the other. You are now looking for where to offload your garbage self. Ahmadioha and Ogun strike you there lol....

but u see why I said u are a fool? Just read what you wrote.. Spoken like a majestic fool.. Always thinking women are jumping dicks, u can even think to construct a better insult.. u had to go to that popular one reprobate fool
. His mother shld look after him ND wipe his ass.. Chai.. What a first class fool

You have to start by changing your name from " child of doom" to child of Grace. For the fact you accepted within yourself that you have a problem, then it can be solved. You need to use a day to calculate all the money you have spent on betting and visualize a better thing you could have done with the money.
For masturbation avoid situations that leads to it e g stop watching porn.
For pepsil since you take 3 bottles a day start by taking one bottle for some days, then do one bottle alternate day, once a week until you can finally stop it.
I hope this will help.

ChildOfDoom:
I also masturbate a lot. I think its up to 10 years since I started masturbated. I am a chronic masturbator, no lie. i masturbate to almost every thing. from staring at boobs or ass to watching sex pics/porn or doing it to sex chat. I am like a veteran in 2go flirt room.

at the height of it, I masturbate up to 2-3 times a day. now I have irregular erection and flaccid dick no matter how you turn me on. I use cream, oil, saliva or any thing slippery to self-service.


I have started having back pains, painful joint and partial vision impediment. wish I could stop. but anytime I am lonely or frustrated after losing much money, I turn to self-service to give me little reprieve

u need serious deliverance.ogun nla ni o

ChildOfDoom:
I also masturbate a lot. I think its up to 10 years since I started masturbating. I am a chronic masturbator, no lie. i masturbate to almost every thing. from staring at boobs or ass to watching sex pics/porn or doing it to sex chat. I am like a veteran in 2go flirt room.

at the height of it, I masturbate up to 2-3 times a day. now I have irregular erection and flaccid dick no matter how you turn me on. I use cream, oil, saliva or any thing slippery to self-service.


I have started having back pains, painful joint and partial vision impediment. wish I could stop. but anytime I am lonely or frustrated after losing much money, I turn to self-service to give me little reprieve

i totally understand you. The thing is masturbation is demonic. you will never overcome it by your power.
each time you cum, you are donating your semen, seed to the demons and your future is being exchanged.
picture yourself in a cage. how many times have you vowed never to masturbate again but end up doing it? you have no control over these demons.

you need a higher power. you need help. ONLY Jesus can. don't remember how to pray? no worries.
just imagine Jesus is in front of you. tell him you are sorry and plead with him to rescue from your cage/bondage. Ask him to cleanse you with his precious blood.
make sure you pray aloud and you can hea yourself. Talk to jesus as if you are talking to your father. no need to cram any particular prayer or recite a prayer...speak from the depth of your heart and be sincere. HE WILL ANSWER AND SAVE YOU. HE SAVED ME

COdeGenesis:


You have a phone, you can afford data.You have time. I make 10k from transcription weekly and it is becos my work doesnt give me time and sometimes I feel less motivated and lazy. Just invest the time and energy you putting into bet9ja to transcription, you can make twice the money i make

Can you talk me through on this transcription bro?

You don finish , nothing remain

This were God can come into your life

I'm happy you guys have realised the dangers and are willing to stop, but it beyond your control to stop.

Allow God to lift the burden.

I will advise u one

1. Pray to God,
2. Get a man of God to pray 4u
3. Avoid bet centres nor game centres by all means

COdeGenesis:


You have a phone, you can afford data.You have time. I make 10k from transcription weekly and it is becos my work doesnt give me time and sometimes I feel less motivated and lazy. Just invest the time and energy you putting into bet9ja to transcription, you can make twice the money i make

Kindly tell me more about this opportunity Bro.