Good evening everyone.. For the matured guys who might have seen it all, please i need yo advice.
There's this gal i met three weeks ago, she's a typical Naija Big gal in that she's classy and beautiful, using two iphones (very expensive ones) and looks rich. she's the type that also enjoys being complimented and being reminded of her good looks. she's one of those ajebo kids that always had it there way growing up . Lemme add that she also have rich friends and they usually buy expensive gifts for her which sometimes i benefit from..
Trouble started last week when she gave me her to watch her Snapchat videos.. I saw videos of her swimming with some *so called* friends in lingeries but i didn't really say much(as per say i dy benefit small). There was this video that she was talking in low tones so i placed the phone closer to my ear to hear her wordings properly but she became visibly angry that i wasn't really appreciating her looks in the videos and instead of complimenting her I'm busy tryna figure out her wordings.. It sounded funny to me but she took it serious so i apologised.. The real issue started when we attended this event of a mutual friend (small world indeed)..so this her friend came around when i was with her and they hugged and exchanged pleasantries. I was totally left out even though me and guy shaked hands so i excused myself.. Fast forward 30mins and they are still together and maybe due to the bullet she was drinking, she was laughing audibly. at first i wanted to go and take her with me but i decided to pretend as if i don't know her whereabout and first call..but she didn't check her phone, i called again like twice and she casually busied my calls. She couldn't see me where i was but i was seeing her clearly.. This really got me upset like why wouldn't she pick my calls when she don't know where her boyfriend was like What if i was in danger?
I decided to not let her spoil my mood and lift my spirit so i looked around for any gal that can rival her beauty ...and i saw one..i walked up to her and we got talking and both of us were really having fun.. 20 mins later, my gal and her man friend started walking adjacent to where i was seated with this other babe(Sandra). I first saw them and knew that sooner or later, she will see me too..eventually she did but i acted like i didn't notice people where around.i later use one eye look her and she was visibly upset wit the gal i was with like make she come devour her. The party ended and i called her(my main gal) again, she picked up this time and the first thing she said was "go and continue making love with yo other gal friend" wit a tone of jealousy.. I was shocked but not surprised and told her it was her fault and that if she had picked my calls all those times i was calling maybe i wouldn't have been with Sandra at first..she got mad that I was blaming her for everything and switched up on me.. i have been thinking of what to do next..
Should i go and beg her(not least cos the benefits I'm getting )or move on and lose my (maga)babe henceforth risk go broke for awhile� . You all know begging Gals never end well in the long run. and naija gals are unpredictable and with the rate of stabbing these days one might have to be careful.. Friends please how do i go about this

Two kids wey no get work to do.

Anyways, if the shoe size me I go wear am like that
Else
is either I increase the size or decrease the size of the shoe.

I stopped reading immediately i saw "there is this girl''

Let's wait for others to comment.

No perfect advice works when it comes to a girl.

Weak man...ur mumu never do..you deserve.... [img]https:///media/1-13-2018/SE31db.gif[/img]

If no be say I'm fasting, I for say you be mumu man....

Leave BENEFIT for PEACE OF MIND Sir, this is 2020.

Game wey go cut go cut.
She's never yours to begin with.

Go beg her na, abi you no wan benefit something's again from her?

both of you are immature.... you deserve one another in holy misery!

if this is your babe, then whether some dude come and talk, you stay there like a man and join the convo...you dont run like a coward then stand away and call her on the phone to say thing that you couldnt say to her face (how childish). no wonder she didnt pick your call, what babe in her right mind would?!

Since she's your maga, beg her so the money can still flow in... It's rare to find a female maga and since you're lucky enough to found one eat her on behalf of all guys... do anything to keep the money flowing in.
See it as a business and she's your client, do anything to keep her till your account is loaded enough.

Thank you

Go beg her make you continue ur magaring business, he no easy to see woman has magas oh.

Abeg op, where you for buy this Akube shoes

So guys do this too? You would still go and beg even after every advises given.. Ojukokoro would not allow you to leave her... Ojukokoro is that powerful, it Is only God that can deliver one...

DesignPoint:


See en, if you like your peace of mind, stop dating her and look for a way to be friends.

Build yourself and your confidence will increase alongside.
You guys are both very young I noticed which means you'll not heed any advice from here. It is okay.
Mistakes are important too.

what has confidence got to do with this Sir

TheRealProphet:
Weak man...ur mumu never do..you deserve.... [img]https:///media/1-13-2018/SE31db.gif[/img]

weak for what exactly??

MrBrownJay1:
both of you are immature.... you deserve one another in holy misery!

if this is your babe, then whether some dude come and talk, you stay there like a man and join the convo...you dont run like a coward then stand away and call her on the phone to say thing that you couldnt say to her face (how childish). no wonder she didnt pick your call, what babe in her right mind would?!

Bro this picture you're painting is a wrong one.. Why will my gal friend busy my calls not once or twice without knowing why I'm calling??and now everything is my fault?? Nawa oh

Offpoint:
Since she's your maga, beg her so the money can still flow in... It's rare to find a female maga and since you're lucky enough to found one eat her on behalf of all guys... do anything to keep the money flowing in.
See it as a business and she's your client, do anything to keep her till your account is loaded enough.

Thank you

Bro its not business per say cos i feel fo her. But at the same time Naija Gals are getting unpredictable these days.. b4 i give person chance to stab me

Nomanlike:
Bro this picture you're painting is a wrong one.. Why will my gal friend busy my calls not once or twice without knowing why I'm calling??and now everything is my fault?? Nawa oh

bro, you are very childish, to say the least....you guys were standing SIDE BY SIDE, and because some dude came to talk to her, you cowardly left her there, then you get upset because she speaks with that same dude (what else do you want her to do, since you've left her there?!), and now want to twist it all and blame her for not answering your immature calls...

who even calls their gf, while peeping at her talking to a dude from the other side of the room?! how old are you bro? what about walking up to her and telling her what you think? have you thought about that for a min?

And to those of you saying this post is childish, i don't get your point.. Take it as a friend asking you for advice..that's why i said guys that have seen it all pls.. If you don't have any advice, just pass.. Thanks

Untill she use knife choke that your longer throat your eye go clear...

MrBrownJay1:


bro, you are very childish, to say the least....you guys were standing SIDE BY SIDE, and because some dude came to talk to her, you cowardly left her there, then you get upset because she speaks with that same dude (what else do you want her to do, since you've left her there?!), and now want to twist it all and blame her for not answering your immature calls...

who even calls their gf, while peeping at her talking to a dude from the other side of the room?! how old are you bro? what about walking up to her and telling her what you think? have you thought about that for a min?

Brotherly, please knock him on the head well well. He has not learned to establish PRESENCE.

OP, learn to be assertive without lifting a finger or raising your voice.

Your girl will continue to walk all over you until you establish your presence.

Nomanlike:
Good evening everyone.. For the matured guys who might have seen it all, please i need yo advice.
There's this gal i met three weeks ago, she's a typical Naija Big gal in that she's classy and beautiful, using two iphones (very expensive ones) and looks rich. she's the type that also enjoys being complimented and being reminded of her good looks. she's one of those ajebo kids that always had it there way growing up . Lemme add that she also have rich friends and they usually buy expensive gifts for her which sometimes i benefit from..
Trouble started last week when she gave me her to watch her Snapchat videos.. I saw videos of her swimming with some *so called* friends in lingeries but i didn't really say much(as per say i dy benefit small). There was this video that she was talking in low tones so i placed the phone closer to my ear to hear her wordings properly but she became visibly angry that i wasn't really appreciating her looks in the videos and instead of complimenting her I'm busy tryna figure out her wordings.. It sounded funny to me but she took it serious so i apologised.. The real issue started when we attended this event of a mutual friend (small world indeed)..so this her friend came around when i was with her and they hugged and exchanged pleasantries. I was totally left out even though me and guy shaked hands so i excused myself.. Fast forward 30mins and they are still together and maybe due to the bullet she was drinking, she was laughing audibly. at first i wanted to go and take her with me but i decided to pretend as if i don't know her whereabout and first call..but she didn't check her phone, i called again like twice and she casually busied my calls. She couldn't see me where i was but i was seeing her clearly.. This really got me upset like why wouldn't she pick my calls when she don't know where her boyfriend was like What if i was in danger?
I decided to not let her spoil my mood and lift my spirit so i looked around for any gal that can rival her beauty ...and i saw one..i walked up to her and we got talking and both of us were really having fun.. 20 mins later, my gal and her man friend started walking adjacent to where i was seated with this other babe(Sandra). I first saw them and knew that sooner or later, she will see me too..eventually she did but i acted like i didn't notice people where around.i later use one eye look her and she was visibly upset wit the gal i was with like make she come devour her. The party ended and i called her(my main gal) again, she picked up this time and the first thing she said was "go and continue making love with yo other gal friend" wit a tone of jealousy.. I was shocked but not surprised and told her it was her fault and that if she had picked my calls all those times i was calling maybe i wouldn't have been with Sandra at first..she got mad that I was blaming her for everything and switched up on me.. i have been thinking of what to do next..
Should i go and beg her(not least cos the benefits I'm getting )or move on and lose my (maga)babe henceforth risk go broke for awhile� . You all know begging Gals never end well in the long run. and naija gals are unpredictable and with the rate of stabbing these days one might have to be careful.. Friends please how do i go about this

As long as u want the money.. U gotta beg her
Tell u made attempts to get her jealous as she abandoned u too

I swear you don't have sense.

Nomanlike:
Good evening everyone.. For the matured guys who might have seen it all, please...Friends please how do i go about this

Why would you want to go beg her?

For what?

Are you that hungry that you would let a lady walk all over you cos she happens to come from a well-to-do family.

Stand your ground so you can be the one calling the shots in the relationship!