Lamanii22:



I am the owner... To me, attraction matters. Y'all stop making marriage look like it is the ultimate.. Being single is not a curse..

XhosaNostra:
Not every man is a right fit. Some of us are very picky. Personally, I take time to warm up to new people or to decide whether I like someone romantically or not, so if someone comes on too strong from the very beginning, that may scare me off. Thus, turning them down. Slow & steady usually wins the race for me because I'm a thinker. I rationalize everything, include my feelings. Usually I have to "think" myself into liking someone, which doesn't happen overnight. In summary, being too much, too early will lead to a rejection.

XhosaNostra:


Well, it depends on how one conducts their relationships. I don't like wasting my time, so it's not often that I'll enter a relationship with no future prospects. I play for keeps That's actually is part of my interrogation from the word go. If someone is out playing the field, it won't be MY time they will waste. Wrong number Anyway, I take relationships very seriously, so I like to know if we want the same things/are on the same page before I invest even a sigh into the relationship. Generating emotions is a task That's just me & my upside down view into relationships. Lol @ 32-35 year-olds turning down "good men". Maybe they weren't good fits like I said. Relationships in all its hues are a lot of work & can be very stressful, so if you're going to get into one, it better be with someone that's going to be worth the migraine. Personally, I'd rather be alone than be stressed the fùck out by someone else. If that's blasphemous, oh well. At least I won't be at my wits' end, waiting for death to finally do us part, so I can have my peace of mind back.

I'm doing great. You?

Michellekabod2:
how does traditional equals to feminine women?

Do you know what it takes to trigger attraction in a male? Do you know what makes up for feminine women?
Traditional women are not vulnerable and that's one of the attributes of femininity that triggers attraction in men.

fatymore:
If my spirit doesn't flow or like you...

I will reject even your shadow but not your money

faithfull18:
@OP were you rejected

XhosaNostra:
Not every man is a right fit. Some of us are very picky. Personally, I take time to warm up to new people or to decide whether I like someone romantically or not, so if someone comes on too strong from the very beginning, that may scare me off. Thus, turning them down. Slow & steady usually wins the race for me because I'm a thinker. I rationalize everything, include my feelings. Usually I have to "think" myself into liking someone, which doesn't happen overnight. In summary, being too much, too early will lead to a rejection.

healthserve:



Suitors not bf

proclinician:
Honestly speaking some women should not accept some men. It's a kind of orchestration and just think of it this way. There are some damaged, bitter, deranged and nom compos mentis women whom God wants to use and punish some men that have committed great sins. Until these set of men are ready to accept their punishment these category of women won't accept any kind suitor.

XhosaNostra:
Not every man is a right fit. Some of us are very picky. Personally, I take time to warm up to new people or to decide whether I like someone romantically or not, so if someone comes on too strong from the very beginning, that may scare me off. Thus, turning them down. Slow & steady usually wins the race for me because I'm a thinker. I rationalize everything, include my feelings. Usually I have to "think" myself into liking someone, which doesn't happen overnight. In summary, being too much, too early will lead to a rejection.

smiliyB:
I was too young, my first suitor came at the age of 16years

fatymore:



Bf would become suitors...

Will a stranger become suitor ni?

healthserve:
I think it's simply because women/ladies/females make the wrong choice/decision by default


Senses are mostly restored towards 40-45


The core underlying reason is the inability to dissociate fantasy from reality

Lamanii22:
No reason per se... But if I'm not attracted to you, I wouldn't accept you.. Even if you have all the money... I believe in the law of attraction...

healthserve:



Claps. I agree 100%. I say this always


Bad women mustn't get good men. Never. They must be served their own pill

missimelda01:


Is that what you think? Because they're probably lonely and desperate.. they make the worst decisions you know.

AfroKnight:



You’re South African. Your reality is quite different. It’s obvious.

Lamanii22:
No reason per se... But if I'm not attracted to you, I wouldn't accept you.. Even if you have all the money... I believe in the law of attraction...

Gracejeri:
I left him cos he's not available, he's a doc, but since he knows he isn't available, at least let him compliment that side with something either text/calls/gifts but he wont.he doesnt really pick mine.
Secondly he's not the gifting not giving type, I haven't even gotten card from him, that he's planning great future for us.
Me I'm like, if I'm not in his present... Its obvious I won't be in his future, then I left him.
But he keeps coming bk to apologise that he's changed, but I'm not seeing the change, that he feels safe with me but me I don't feel safe with him.
That's why I left him

healthserve:



Day dreamer. You don't understand the kweshion