stanliwise:
Until you meet the players. .
We know your type.

Slow and steady and end up in your friend Zone abi??
Hard and broke, una go tear race.
But come the rich(sweet mouth) and hard, una go start to shine teeth, Logic will go out the window.

Looooool. I've met my own share of players. Nothing dey do me Let me explain something to you. Number one, someone cannot "use" me for sex because I don't put that much importance into it. I already know that's the prize most guys are playing for. If it happens & you lose interest afterwards or whatever, I don't care. It was consensual so no skin off my back. 2ndly, there're stages or layers to my emotional makeup. Rarely do I open up all the way or trust someone completely, so I'm ever prepared for an emotional ambush.

It's like dis...

faithfull18:

You mean the reverse, the last time I checked, we had more good women.

If I pinch you thru the fone

The fact of the matter is women has no choice/free will.

Women end up marrying who is ready for marriage NOT who they love but men marry who they love. This is why lots of married women still cheat on who they marry with who they truly love.

My point is no woman has that freedom of choice to reject more than 2 men due to age factor; what if it is finally a douchebag who is willing to settle with them after they 29 into their 30s, will she reject?

So it's safe to say women reject men because they not ready for marriage yet.

missimelda01:
Some men still think like they're in the 80s, imagine showing up in my house one day saying you want to marry me.. excuse me sir, REJECTED.

So because we dated some time ago, you think when you're done playing around I am your last option, REJECTED. I don't go back to my vomit, not unless there's a good reason.

I am an overthinker, i don't like to be rushed especially when it comes to issues like marriage, so 2 days into the friendship and you're already announcing marriage up and down.. that's a NO NO for me.

Before you start mentioning age, please note that I am not scared of being single and happy, I'll take my time until I genuinely fall in love and I'm ready to spend forever with my prince charming

Did he talk to you directly or talk to your parents and have them put the pressure on you with threats of disowning you. If i am in his shoes and you are worth it that's what i will do.

Lamanii22:
No reason per se... But if I'm not attracted to you, I wouldn't accept you.. Even if you have all the money... I believe in the law of attraction...

Exactly... Expecially, unmatured onces Some guys only believed that you can use money to win a lady's heart

I'm damn ready for marriage don't have suitors, but toaster plenty, which kinda thing be this.
I need prayers faa

AfroKnight:


Me,

I’m like a consuming inferno. Romance is a sweeping conflagration.

Lol, okey dokey.

dilodavid:
Is it not the same money that will make you get attracted to a man?

Nah... Money is far from it... A man's attitude comes first to me.. He has to be kind and friendly.. His use of words too.. You just have to wow me... I can afford most things myself... All what my partner needs to do is just to support me..

bjgurl:
I'm damn ready for marriage don't have suitors, but toaster plenty, which kinda thing be this.
I need prayers faa

Toasters plenty, suitors no dey. I no undastand

mouth odour........ can't stand it

Michellekabod2:
1) not ready for commitment such as marriage. Let me try the dating world(even if its one year) to know how it feels like before marriage.
2)Fear!Fear!Fear! Fear of commitment.
3)I will be floating on contentment and I want an inferno of passion.

You just want to test many dicks and that's all

Lamanii22:



Nah... Money is far from it... A man's attitude comes first to me.. He has to be kind and friendly.. His use of words too.. You just have to wow me... I can afford most things myself... All what my partner needs to do is just to support me..

We hope you're not looking for whom to control. It sounds familiar with what I heardany ladies wished for. Sadly, when the exacten appeared they still turned them down. This is what the thread is asking. Why?

Gracejeri:
I left him cos he's not available, he's a doc, but since he knows he isn't available, at least let him compliment that side with something either text/calls/gifts but he wont.he doesnt really pick mine.
Secondly he's not the gifting not giving type, I haven't even gotten card from him, that he's planning great future for us.
Me I'm like, if I'm not in his present... Its obvious I won't be in his future, then I left him.
But he keeps coming bk to apologise that he's changed, but I'm not seeing the change, that he feels safe with me but me I don't feel safe with him.
That's why I left him

Hmmmm u just described me here. Well God go epp us

AfroKnight:


It appears our definitions for traditional women do not align.

No qualms.

let's agree to disagree

dilodavid:
You aren't on the verge of becoming an evening newspaper yet. Otherwise, you will be singing man na man.

I'm more like those yellowed, glass-encased relics with pages that are falling apart, that you find at a museum But... I'm still not going to date out of desperation. That's not the kind of person I am.

healthserve:
I think it's simply because women/ladies/females make the wrong choice/decision by default


Senses are mostly restored towards 40-45


The core underlying reason is the inability to dissociate fantasy from reality

You are blessed with wisdom

healthserve:




Could be better of I see you dance in heels to Beyonce to entertain moi


Suitors aka serious relationships not bf gf poppy love dear.

That's your own interpretation lol.

AfroKnight:
Rejecting?

Lol.

Question should be are they getting any suitors at all.


Traditional ladies are increasingly in demand. These man-haters hiding under the umbrella of feminism don’t have suitors.

the demand for husband is on d rise. naija evening newpapers wont mind being 10th wife. op shud change his heading

bjgurl:
I'm damn ready for marriage don't have suitors, but toaster plenty, which kinda thing be this.
I need prayers faa

What is the difference between toasters and suitors.

Wolgrace:
Suitor, not a bf (a.k.a modernised and organised fornicating partner).

-How old are you now?

Lol...the person was really serious, he informed my mum before telling me sef after my mum rejected it. He said, he can wait for next 3 years so I can turn 19 by then kinda funny

Lamanii22:



I am the owner... To me, attraction matters. Y'all stop making marriage look like it is the ultimate.. Being single is not a curse..

Don't be deceived it is a curse. Well you're still young you may not see it now

Lamanii22:



I am the owner... To me, attraction matters. Y'all stop making marriage look like it is the ultimate.. Being single is not a curse..

respect..

234GT:


What is the difference between toasters and suitors.

This got me laughing

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healthserve:



Toasters plenty, suitors no dey. I no undastand

The difference is clear

bjgurl:

The difference is clear

Ayam not understanding o. Toasters only want to enter Jerusalem?

Money or lack of it.

XhosaNostra:
Not every man is a right fit. Some of us are very picky. Personally, I take time to warm up to new people or to decide whether I like someone romantically or not, so if someone comes on too strong from the very beginning, that may scare me off. Thus, turning them down. Slow & steady usually wins the race for me because I'm a thinker. I rationalize everything, include my feelings. Usually I have to "think" myself into liking someone, which doesn't happen overnight. In summary, being too much, too early will lead to a rejection.

ndiyakuthanda

A305:
You the female version of me.

Have come to a point after making findings and realize analytical thinking, hormones and orgasm will always be a determining factor for finding a worthy partner NOT the glamour and superficial standards people seek when wanting to be hooked and them end up breaking up again.

More like chalk & cheese lol.

jaxxy:


And the law of attraction is a reverse law. U don't like people who immediately like u or overwhelmingly likes u or goes all out for u most times. A very misleading law to say the least bt thats how it's works generally.

The law of attraction is a grand deception. Lol

It's not misleading... I just have to be attracted to you... If the attraction is not there, ma ko ma kan ra mo e ni (I'd just behave harshly to you)

bjgurl:

This got me laughing

Lols , just playing the devils advocate.
Many ladies out of adventure seeking ignore suitors and give toasters maximum attention.
Ladies are their own worst enemies.