SpartanKing:
I think, love is like a young plant; with the necessary and sufficient conditions in place, it'll grow into a tall tree!

I agree.

Austineva:
ndiyakuthanda

Nam

Lamanii22:
No reason per se... But if I'm not attracted to you, I wouldn't accept you.. Even if you have all the money... I believe in the law of attraction...

dats my baby. How was ur day

mabea:
Don't be deceived it is a curse. Well you're still young you may not see it now

Being single should never pass for a "curse"... I beg to differ from your point...


P.S I am an adult, not very young ... Still in my prime..�

Lamanii22:



Nah... Money is far from it... A man's attitude comes first to me.. He has to be kind and friendly.. His use of words too.. You just have to wow me... I can afford most things myself... All what my partner needs to do is just to support me..

You need time to study any man that comes your way so as to determine whether or not the person is right for you. Everyone needs a supporter. Mind you, some persons can also pretend to be what they are not. How do you deal with such?

healthserve:



We hope you're not looking for whom to control. It sounds familiar with what I heardany ladies wished for. Sadly, when the exacten appeared they still turned them down. This is what the thread is asking. Why?

Nah... God forbid it.. May I never control my future partner, we are two consensual adult... Plus Wo ko mi ni ile, mo de gbeko( I was given home training, and I received it)...

XhosaNostra:

It's like dis...

When I saw the pics on the left, I was about negotiating for the iPhone expecting it would be cheaper given the broken screen before my eyes went to the second

Lamanii22:



It's not misleading... I just have to be attracted to you... If the attraction is not there, ma ko ma kan ra mo e ni (I'd just behave harshly to you)

It is cos what makes u attracted isn't always the right actions bt the wrong actions mosttimes or a combination of both. It's smwhat the way the human mind deals with attraction sadly. A gal wants Mr right bt gets attracted to Mr wrong mosttimes.

Lamanii22:




Nah... God forbid it.. May I never control my future partner, we are two consensual adult... Plus Wo ko mi ni ile, mo de gbeko( I was given home training, and I received it)...

Oshe Omoluabi Omo jeje no ko ma se lo o. Na fi eti si let fun awon Tor ni Kan gidi lokan ko si e lo na da ri

XhosaNostra:


Nam

enkosi sithandwa sam

XhosaNostra:
Not every man is a right fit. Some of us are very picky. Personally, I take time to warm up to new people or to decide whether I like someone romantically or not, so if someone comes on too strong from the very beginning, that may scare me off. Thus, turning them down. Slow & steady usually wins the race for me because I'm a thinker. I rationalize everything, include my feelings. Usually I have to "think" myself into liking someone, which doesn't happen overnight. In summary, being too much, too early will lead to a rejection.

Crap! I bet you won't be saying this if na Davido or some famous celeb

This question dey make me dey laugh for this bini

dilodavid:
You need time to study any man that comes your way so as to determine whether or not the person is right for you. Everyone needs a supporter. Mind you, some persons can also pretend to be what they are not. How do you deal with such?

This is where my faith would come in.. As a christian I will pray... You know we can never know whom is genuine, may God always save us from deceivers, pathetic liars....

tunapawizzy:

people need to understand that to be single is not a thing of shame, and to be married is not a badge of honour, this life ehn, we all have different sources of happiness n fulfilment

The ultimate source of happiness is good marriage and good family. Anybody can live in denial of this fact.
After you have earned that 9 figures, cruised in that latest whip, travelled all over the world, it is very depressing to wake up in the morning and still realize that there is no one living who you can confidently lean on his shoulder for comfort or unburden yourself by sharing those intimate issues without shame. Every lady is wired to need those.

healthserve:



Oshe Omoluabi Omo jeje no ko ma se lo o. Na fi eti si let fun awon Tor ni Kan gidi lokan ko si e lo na da ri

Bawa tomo re si eyibo.

healthserve:



Oshe Omoluabi Omo jeje no ko ma se lo o. Na fi eti si let fun awon Tor ni Kan gidi lokan ko si e lo na da ri

Lol... Eshey gaan... I really appreciate you Hun... I really do..

Macsjebs:

When I saw the pics on the left, I was about negotiating for the iPhone expecting it would be cheaper given the broken screen before my eyes went to the second

Hahaha.

ABCthings:
Bawa tomo re si eyibo.

XhosaNostra:
Not every man is a right fit. Some of us are very picky. Personally, I take time to warm up to new people or to decide whether I like someone romantically or not, so if someone comes on too strong from the very beginning, that may scare me off. Thus, turning them down. Slow & steady usually wins the race for me because I'm a thinker. I rationalize everything, include my feelings. Usually I have to "think" myself into liking someone, which doesn't happen overnight. In summary, being too much, too early will lead to a rejection.

and you will most often end up with the wrong choice.

I believe you have dated and broken up relationships in the past, which I feel you also deployed this same tactics. If it were so accurate, the past broken relationship wouldn't have ended.

Lamanii22:


I am the owner... To me, attraction matters. Y'all stop making marriage look like it is the ultimate.. Being single is not a curse..

See pesin nose like Horse or Hippo... You sef dey find attraction for guys? Chai...

Lamanii22:



Lol... Eshey gaan... I really appreciate you Hun... I really do..

Nothing ticks me like. A good-hearted feminine young intelligent pretty godly young lady.

XhosaNostra:


Nam

ungubani igama lakho?

healthserve:



Doctor Mrs. Your comment clearly depicts you haven't rejected a suitor. Turning down a love interest and rejecting a suitor is two different things. Sorry your tale are just girly wishes dearie Turning ddown suitors despite being of marriageable age is a worrisome thing that shouldn't be downplayed alleast without cogent reasons. I've seen 32/35 turn down what looked like good men. This is a personal experience. Each time I see the woman I feel like asking what's your problem. The face is gone, the teeth is turning yellow. Yet turning down interested parties. It doesn't make rational sense

How are you today. What chup?

May the gods forbid that a lady in her 30s turn me down. I can't even see myself going after the kind of ladies you described in your post.

Even if I turn 40 as a bachelor, I won't eat rotten meat. What must be done in the fullness of time must be done well.

Austineva:
enkosi sithandwa sam

Where did you learn the language of my forebearers?

PicLtd:


May the gods forbid that a lady in her 30s turn me down. I can't even see myself going after the kind of ladies you described in your post.

Even if I turn 40 as a bachelor, I won't eat rotten meat. What must be done in the fullness of time must be done well.

Hahahaha

XhosaNostra:

I agree.

OK!

XhosaNostra:

I agree.

OK!

Michellekabod2:
how does traditional equals to feminine women?

Do you know what it takes to trigger attraction in a male? Do you know what makes up for feminine women?
Traditional women are not vulnerable and that's one of the attributes of femininity that triggers attraction in men.

Madam, gbenu e soun!

Bola146:


Exactly... Expecially, unmatured onces Some guys only believed that you can use money to win a lady's heart

Right... It's never the money... A girl only wants to be taken care of.. And my mom would always say that she wishes I marry a man that would take care of me so well ... But she would end her words with "you too have something doing, get a job, learn a skill, don't be dependent"....

healthserve:



Doctor Mrs. Your comment clearly depicts you haven't rejected a suitor. Turning down a love interest and rejecting a suitor is two different things. Sorry your tale are just girly wishes dearie Turning ddown suitors despite being of marriageable age is a worrisome thing that shouldn't be downplayed alleast without cogent reasons. I've seen 32/35 turn down what looked like good men. This is a personal experience. Each time I see the woman I feel like asking what's your problem. The face is gone, the teeth is turning yellow. Yet turning down interested parties. It doesn't make rational sense

How are you today. What chup?

The bolded got me laughing.. Like seriously so because they have depreciated in looks, it means they shouldn't have choices of their own?
Everyone's got a choice. You can't force anything on anyone just because of the way you view them.

proclinician:


Did he talk to you directly or talk to your parents and have them put the pressure on you with threats of disowning you. If i am in his shoes and you are worth it that's what i will do.

Really? In this recent times, approaching things like that would only ruin it, no matter how much you think she's worth, you need to chill.

AshiraWealthy:



The bolded got me laughing.. Like seriously so because they have depreciated in looks, it means they shouldn't have choices of their own?
Everyone's got a choice. You can't force anything on anyone just because of the way you view them.

You're wrong. I have cordiality with these parties first hand. Funnily she's single and it's now four years down the line.