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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by tyup(m): 10:50pm On Feb 18, 2020
Lamanii22:
No reason per se... But if I'm not attracted to you, I wouldn't accept you.. Even if you have all the money... I believe in the law of attraction...

you know that's not true.....money would attract you either you'd want it or no
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Lamanii22(f): 10:51pm On Feb 18, 2020
YorubaLord:


See pesin nose like Horse or Hippo... grin You sef dey find attraction for guys? Chai... grin


Lol maddo... Yoruba lord "sho ara e"... No one's perfect...

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by SpartanKing: 10:51pm On Feb 18, 2020
XhosaNostra:


Where did you learn the language of my forebearers?
He was trying to bamboozle you into believing he's Xhosa! He used Google translate! Sorry for bursting his bubble!
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Austineva(m): 10:51pm On Feb 18, 2020
XhosaNostra:


Where did you learn the language of my forebearers?
a friend of mine do teach me. But, am a Nigerian. Can u be my friend? I really love and missed d girl in a very big way. She made me love south Africans. We don't communicate any longer because of her studies. She said until September. I wish to have another friend from SA. D girl made me love u guys so much. Can u be my friend?
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by healthserve(m): 10:53pm On Feb 18, 2020
XhosaNostra:


Where did you learn the language of my forebearers?


He's in Jo'burg
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Ivebeenbanned(f): 10:53pm On Feb 18, 2020
They usually have cavemen mentality. They need a woman who will place herself under them and is ready to see house chores and cooking as her duty. Me no get time.

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by healthserve(m): 10:53pm On Feb 18, 2020
SpartanKing:
He was trying to bamboozle you into believing he's Xhosa! He used Google translate! Sorry for bursting his bubble!

Not true. He's in S.A.
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Lamanii22(f): 10:54pm On Feb 18, 2020
tyup:


you know that's not true.....money would attract you either you'd want it or no


A girl Wants to be comfortable, a girl wants someone that can take care of her.. A girl wants to be taken care of, either way..


Money may attract other girls but me? Never... (You must be hardworking regardless )

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by VULCAN(m): 10:54pm On Feb 18, 2020
Neither of you understand what the Law of Attraction entails.

It's simply like migrates to like based on emotional intensity.

Whatever you have a very strong emotion reaction toward or consistent visualisation of whether good or bad will consistently show up in your life, regardless of whether you consciously like it or not.

jaxxy:


And the law of attraction is a reverse law. U don't like people who immediately like u or overwhelmingly likes u or goes all out for u most times. A very misleading law to say the least bt thats how it's works generally.

The law of attraction is a grand deception. Lol

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by ChubbyM(m): 10:54pm On Feb 18, 2020
I never ready, na why I dey reject them.

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Lamanii22(f): 10:54pm On Feb 18, 2020
healthserve:



Nothing ticks me like. A good-hearted feminine young intelligent pretty godly young lady. kiss



Awwwwn... *eyes covered*
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by healthserve(m): 10:55pm On Feb 18, 2020
I recommend that females create a counter thread and ask the mods to push to front page too
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by proclinician: 10:55pm On Feb 18, 2020
missimelda01:

Really? In this recent times, approaching things like that would only ruin it, no matter how much you think she's worth, you need to chill.

Lol a child may not want to go to school but the parents understands school is the best so child has no option.
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by healthserve(m): 10:55pm On Feb 18, 2020
Lamanii22:




Awwwwn... *eyes covered*


Godly women are cream and gold mixed together. I don't joke wif dem kiss

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:56pm On Feb 18, 2020
YorubaLord:


Crap! I bet you won't be saying this if na Davido or some famous celeb angry

I'm not some panty-throwing groupie, dammit! Famous or not, I know what I'm looking for, so if I happens that I date a celebrity, it'd be because they checked out. Do you have an idea how hard relationships are? Davido is too much of a manwhòre for my taste. He's a walking mental breakdown, I'd never risk my sanity for someone like that, even with all his money bags & fame.

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Lamanii22(f): 10:57pm On Feb 18, 2020
biddostandard:
until you start crying for husband on social media


Ewoooor! Ka ka ki n sukun fun oko(husband), ma ya stay single (God forbid! I'd rather stay single than cry for a husband)...

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by nnaeyes6: 10:57pm On Feb 18, 2020
I think that number one thing is OGBANJE. And of course, ladies ate OGBANJE SPECIES.
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by AfroKnight: 10:58pm On Feb 18, 2020
XhosaNostra:


Lol, okey dokey.

So, is that a yes I do, baby? kiss kiss

Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by YorubaLord: 10:58pm On Feb 18, 2020
XhosaNostra:


I'm not some panty-throwing groupie, dammit! Famous or not, I know what I'm looking for, so if I happens that I date a celebrity, it'd be because they checked out. Do you have an idea how hard relationships are? Davido is too much of a manwhòre for my taste. He's a walking mental breakdown, I'd never risk my sanity for someone like that, even with all his money bags & fame.

We know una wella... Just like Chioma won't have dated Davido if he was just an average Joe.. grin
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Lamanii22(f): 10:58pm On Feb 18, 2020
stanliwise:
money is attraction smiley


To some... Not all..

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by AfroKnight: 10:59pm On Feb 18, 2020
Lamanii22:




Awwwwn... *eyes covered*
My fren! Open day eye dia. angry

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:59pm On Feb 18, 2020
DNSPro:
and you will most often end up with the wrong choice.

I believe you have dated and broken up relationships in the past, which I feel you also deployed this same tactics. If it were so accurate, the past broken relationship wouldn't have ended.

And I will move on.

I'm not getting the 2nd part of your post. It's past my bedtime so I'm a bit slow at the moment.
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Nobody: 10:59pm On Feb 18, 2020
I wonder why this question is coming up. Like dont we have the right to reject Someone we dont want?

To answer your question... I will reject a suitor if

1. If he's too stingy
2. If I'm not physically attracted to him
3. If I'm not emotionally attracted to him. If the chemistry is not there, theres no way I can allow him to touch me. So why marry him at all? Oh... because he's a suitor and must not be rejected? It doesn't work like that. There must be this "butterfly in my belly" feeling for you before I can tie the knot with you.

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by kushme: 11:00pm On Feb 18, 2020
XhosaNostra:
Not every man is a right fit. Some of us are very picky. Personally, I take time to warm up to new people or to decide whether I like someone romantically or not, so if someone comes on too strong from the very beginning, that may scare me off. Thus, turning them down. Slow & steady usually wins the race for me because I'm a thinker. I rationalize everything, include my feelings. Usually I have to "think" myself into liking someone, which doesn't happen overnight. In summary, being too much, too early will lead to a rejection.

This is a reasonable confused mumu..
I respect that. cheesy
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by XhosaNostra(f): 11:00pm On Feb 18, 2020
Austineva:
ungubani igama lakho?

Nostra grin
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by tomdon(m): 11:00pm On Feb 18, 2020
XhosaNostra:
Not every man is a right fit. Some of us are very picky. Personally, I take time to warm up to new people or to decide whether I like someone romantically or not, so if someone comes on too strong from the very beginning, that may scare me off. Thus, turning them down. Slow & steady usually wins the race for me because I'm a thinker. I rationalize everything, include my feelings. Usually I have to "think" myself into liking someone, which doesn't happen overnight. In summary, being too much, too early will lead to a rejection.
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by TemmyT002(m): 11:01pm On Feb 18, 2020
Lamanii22:



I am the owner... To me, attraction matters. Y'all stop making marriage look like it is the ultimate.. Being single is not a curse..

Buhahahahahahaha
Laughing in Congolese
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Nobody: 11:01pm On Feb 18, 2020
Lol... Funny punk guy! Is he the only suitor ever ever approached you?


smiliyB:
Lol...the person was really serious, he informed my mum before telling me sef cheesy after my mum rejected it. He said, he can wait for next 3 years so I can turn 19 by then grin grin kinda funny


Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by AfroKnight: 11:02pm On Feb 18, 2020
Michellekabod2:
how does traditional equals to feminine women?

Do you know what it takes to trigger attraction in a male? Do you know what makes up for feminine women?
Traditional women are not vulnerable and that's one of the attributes of femininity that triggers attraction in men.

Traditional women are feminine women. How can they be otherwise and still be deemed traditional? That’s contradictory.

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by XhosaNostra(f): 11:02pm On Feb 18, 2020
SpartanKing:
He was trying to bamboozle you into believing he's Xhosa! He used Google translate! Sorry for bursting his bubble!

Thanks for the lookout, I didn't know tongue * feigns ignorance *
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Akinowon123(m): 11:03pm On Feb 18, 2020
missimelda01:
Some men still think like they're in the 80s, imagine showing up in my house one day saying you want to marry me.. excuse me sir, REJECTED.

So because we dated some time ago, you think when you're done playing around I am your last option, REJECTED. I don't go back to my vomit, not unless there's a good reason.

I am an overthinker, i don't like to be rushed especially when it comes to issues like marriage, so 2 days into the friendship and you're already announcing marriage up and down.. that's a NO NO for me.

Before you start mentioning age, please note that I am not scared of being single and happy, I'll take my time until I genuinely fall in love and I'm ready to spend forever with my prince charming wink

Yeye dey smell. No rules in relationship, just do what works for you. Prince charming no be angel, he is a human being too and also prone to mistakes. If u are waiting for a perfect gentle man, you must die first, meet him and ressurect

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Gracejeri(f): 11:03pm On Feb 18, 2020
Lol, which one are u. The guy or me?
proclinician:


Hmmmm u just described me here. Well God go epp us

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