Lamanii22:
No reason per se... But if I'm not attracted to you, I wouldn't accept you.. Even if you have all the money... I believe in the law of attraction...

Lamanii22:
No reason per se... But if I'm not attracted to you, I wouldn't accept you.. Even if you have all the money... I believe in the law of attraction...

IME1:
you know it won't be a bad thing or idea if the vaccine or cure for the corona virus plus lassa fever join comes from Africa oh.
All these love interest, s.ex related, celebrity gossip and jollof competition we have for some time now saddled ourselves with is rapidly taking our abilities to be productive.

As in why should Nlers be concerned or informed about reasons why a woman far away in Calabar, Epe, Jos, Sokoto, Jalingo, Abakaliki or even Dutse rejected the marriage proposal of a guy she didn't see the rest of her life with?

Do you know you can meet a good man who is not the right man?

Reasons are past now.
If the ladies are married, why remind them of a romantic past inside marriage with another brother?
If they are not yet married, why make them regret or remember a past that caused a hurt or strain in their relationship?

Not all friendships or relationships must end in marriage and it's not the same as friend zoning, it's just the way it is.

Great friendships have been lost because devil pushed them to try marriage that was not meant to be between them.

I beg rain fall for your side?
Heavy fall for my side oh.
1st rain of 2020 and it beat me even under umbrella

God protect us from extreme weather in Jesus name, amen.
Now now the heat no be here oh
You can scoop the sweat running down my back to wash hand

Amumaigwe:


The ultimate source of happiness is good marriage and good family. Anybody can live in denial of this fact.
After you have earned that 9 figures, cruised in that latest whip, travelled all over the world, it is very depressing to wake up in the morning and still realize that there is no one living who you can confidently lean on his shoulder for comfort or unburden yourself by sharing those intimate issues without shame. Every lady is wired to need those.

A305:
The fact of the matter is women has no choice/free will.

Women end up marrying who is ready for marriage not who they love but men marry who they love. This is why lots of married women still cheat.

My point is no women has that freedom to reject more than 2 men due to age factor; what if its douchebag who is willing to settle with them after they 29 into their 30s, will she reject?

So it's safe to say women reject men because they not ready for marriage yet.

Rozaytee:
deep...God will see women in nigeria tru

Wolgrace:
Lol... Funny punk guy! Is he the only suitor ever ever approached you?

Orubebe01:

Tell me more

mabea:
Don't be deceived it is a curse. Well you're still young you may not see it now

fatymore:
If my spirit doesn't flow or like you...
I will reject even your shadow but not your money

Akamariner:

I like this also, exactly my point of view.
I only care about helping the less privileged, regardless of gender, age or ethnicity, I'm just neutral and find it difficult to be attached to someone. I'm only a man at heart and in strength, everything else about me seems to be feminine.

XhosaNostra:


I'm sure there're ladies that like a slow burn pretty much, everywhere lol.

smiliyB:
Lol...No

Lamanii22:



I am the owner... To me, attraction matters. Y'all stop making marriage look like it is the ultimate.. Beiing single is not a curse..

Austineva:
a friend of mine do teach me. But, am a Nigerian. Can u be my friend? I really love and missed d girl in a very big way. She made me love south Africans. We don't communicate any longer because of her studies. She said until September. I wish to have another friend from SA. D girl made me love u guys so much. Can u be my friend?

missimelda01:
Some men still think like they're in the 80s, imagine showing up in my house one day saying you want to marry me.. excuse me sir, REJECTED.

So because we dated some time ago, you think when you're done playing around I am your last option, REJECTED. I don't go back to my vomit, not unless there's a good reason.

I am an overthinker, i don't like to be rushed especially when it comes to issues like marriage, so 2 days into the friendship and you're already announcing marriage up and down.. that's a NO NO for me.

Before you start mentioning age, please note that I am not scared of being single and happy, I'll take my time until I genuinely fall in love and I'm ready to spend forever with my prince charming

XhosaNostra:
Not every man is a right fit. Some of us are very picky. Personally, I take time to warm up to new people or to decide whether I like someone romantically or not, so if someone comes on too strong from the very beginning, that may scare me off. Thus, turning them down. Slow & steady usually wins the race for me because I'm a thinker. I rationalize everything, include my feelings. Usually I have to "think" myself into liking someone, which doesn't happen overnight. In summary, being too much, too early will lead to a rejection.

Austineva:
honestly, dear. I want u to be my friend too cos am beginning to like u guys

A305:
who this gorgeous lady here ;100% intelligence black child.

Quite a bummer I still can't figure out a way to do a DM here on Nairaland, I sure would love to hold a conversation with you so I see how deep you are. (wongrass99@gmail.com), Please use the email so you don't get to expose your phone number to the world or you might as well leave me your email so I don't expose my phone number to the world.

healthserve:



Doctor Mrs. Your comment clearly depicts you haven't rejected a suitor. Turning down a love interest and rejecting a suitor is two different things. Sorry your tale are just girly wishes dearie Turning ddown suitors despite being of marriageable age is a worrisome thing that shouldn't be downplayed alleast without cogent reasons. I've seen 32/35 turn down what looked like good men. This is a personal experience. Each time I see the woman I feel like asking what's your problem. The face is gone, the teeth is turning yellow. Yet turning down interested parties. It doesn't make rational sense

How are you today. What chup?

tunapawizzy:

Good marriage and good family is a great source of happiness for most of us, this is valid.....but not everyone will get married(or stay married), that's the bitter truth. All i'm saying is in the absence of marriage, people can still be genuinely happy.

Wolgrace:
Hehehe... Since the punk guy was your only point of story on suitors, you conclusively saying you only had a serious suitor at age 16. Others are snipers, lolz

AfroKnight:



You’re South African. Your reality is quite different. It’s obvious.

AfroKnight:
Rejecting?

Lol.

Question should be are they getting any suitors at all.


Traditional ladies are increasingly in demand. These man-haters hiding under the umbrella of feminism don’t have suitors.

Treasuredvessel:
I keep seeing men saying women can never be happy without marriage, why does it seem you guys want to determine whether a woman is happy or not by forcing your beliefs on her.The same women whom if asked would prefer not to even be married.I'd like to ask since you guys believe women can't be happy without marriage, so men have the ability to be happy without marriage but not women,mtcheww.I'm close to 30 ,see relationships as stress which is why I've only had one in my life.I don't have time for all the pretence I'd like to try marriage but if peradventure I do not end up with the person am dating,getting into another relationship might be out of the way because men,I don't have energy for all the drama.I'm often baffled when I see people get all excited about getting married and relationships because I understand fully its not a walk in the park.I repeat if not for societal pressure many women wouldn't get married.