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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by profmathsland(m): 2:35am On Feb 19, 2020
Most of them will say different things but we all know it boils down to "Money" for most and "sex" for some.
Only the few reject based on a conviction to find a man that will actually help build them up and be a good father to their kids.

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by nick50(m): 2:39am On Feb 19, 2020
Lamanii22:



A girl Wants to be comfortable, a girl wants someone that can take care of her.. A girl wants to be taken care of, either way..


Money may attract other girls but me? Never... (You must be hardworking regardless )
..marriage is not all about what the girl wants ,sometimes take ur time and figure out what the man wants.. Stop being too self centered

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by nick50(m): 2:44am On Feb 19, 2020
No mind them.. Sometimes na the handiwork of village people + spiritual husband

Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Nobody: 3:23am On Feb 19, 2020
If so, you shouldn't be scared of marriage now as an adult. At your marriage-age now, kindly tell us the reasons for rejecting your suitors since your age-16 punk suitor is no longer valid in this interactive session.

I catch you lolz...


smiliyB:
Hahahaha I didn't say so, before their mama will come and kee me that I'm calling their son sniper. No, I guess I wasn't ready or kinda scared of marriage sha lipsrsealed
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Theboss100(m): 3:36am On Feb 19, 2020
Lamanii22:



In bashing girls.. Not all girls would kill or die for money...
Not at all. I dnt do that. Just joking wit ya. I want to av fun that's all.
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Juliearth(f): 4:00am On Feb 19, 2020
Orubebe01:
What's your reason (s) cos I know many of them, not that men are not coming but don't really know why. So ladies, this thread is for you. Why are you rejecting suitors?




This boils down to priority and mindset.

A girl who wants to live "the life" and suffer less may have her mind focused on prince charming with a Benz. Thus, any man who does not fit into this status quo is jettisoned.


For those however, who are sapiosexuals, it boils down to a man's intellects as anything short of that is never an option to them.


To the SU, that man has to be filled with the Holy ghost, else nothing for him....
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Juliearth(f): 4:02am On Feb 19, 2020
Lamanii22:
No reason per se... But if I'm not attracted to you, I wouldn't accept you.. Even if you have all the money... I believe in the law of attraction...




So, do you instantly and outrightly dismiss him or give it a little time to see if sparks would fly?


I am asking because sometimes, these sparks don't happen almost immediately...maybe after a week,month, year, after marriage...or never.
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Juliearth(f): 4:03am On Feb 19, 2020
XhosaNostra:
Not every man is a right fit. Some of us are very picky. Personally, I take time to warm up to new people or to decide whether I like someone romantically or not, so if someone comes on too strong from the very beginning, that may scare me off. Thus, turning them down. Slow & steady usually wins the race for me because I'm a thinker. I rationalize everything, include my feelings. Usually I have to "think" myself into liking someone, which doesn't happen overnight. In summary, being too much, too early will lead to a rejection.



Aren't you just wise?

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Juliearth(f): 4:05am On Feb 19, 2020
healthserve:



Despite some remaining single between 25-32 and yet rejecting suitors for flimsy reasons. Are you sure you're the owner of this moniker or you're the hacker who stole this account angry


should a man or woman marry a partner s(he) feels nothing for because age is not on her/his side? Isnt this one of the reasons why most marriages are failing and more would?
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by zexy2030(m): 4:51am On Feb 19, 2020
Women chase motivations than reality.

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Nobody: 4:52am On Feb 19, 2020
When I was single, broke men were a no-go. Laziness and lack of ambition were also turnoffs
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by BabbanBura(m): 5:03am On Feb 19, 2020
Michellekabod2:
you are the one ignorant here.

Feminine ladies are in demand not traditional.

Who did this to you honey?
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by joyfullyjoyous(f): 5:09am On Feb 19, 2020
If he is already married.

Mouth odour

Low level of reasoning

Being too obsessed

Stringiness

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by sharone21(f): 5:35am On Feb 19, 2020
stanliwise:
Until you meet the players. wink.
We know your type.

Slow and steady and end up in your friend Zone abi??
Hard and broke, una go tear race.
But come the rich(sweet mouth) and hard, una go start to shine teeth, Logic will go out the window.

But the PLAYERS are MORE....Unserious....Later, you may hear they married.....Sometimes you start hearing quarrellings etc if one puts her ears down due to the type of person the man is.....Sometimes again, it works fine.

For good ladies, they may seem to be a little bit more picky in order not to ruin their 'programmed' life or how they want their life to be, particularly free from a STRESSFUL man as many Nigerian men get OVERSABI and may choose to use it adversely, instead of positively for the good of his wife and home.
It takes 2 'FOOLS' to live SUCCESSFULLY.
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by permit(m): 6:02am On Feb 19, 2020
Lamanii22:
No reason per se... But if I'm not attracted to you, I wouldn't accept you.. Even if you have all the money... I believe in the law of attraction...
and people will/should keep on trying their luck on you because you're grin grin
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Slimranky(m): 6:06am On Feb 19, 2020
bjgurl:
I'm damn ready for marriage don't have suitors, but toaster plenty, which kinda thing be this.
I need prayers faa

Everything na gradual process,be patient because one of those toasters would graduate to your suitor, pikin wey dem born go first crawl before him go start to run

You cannot relax before you sleep,you have to sit before you relax....
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Slimranky(m): 6:11am On Feb 19, 2020
Most of y'all ladies here talking about slow and steady process before liking a man
Just want to low key exhaust the man's finances and end up FRIENDZONING him....

#Saynotofriendzone

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Amadaz(m): 6:12am On Feb 19, 2020
Lamanii22:
No reason per se... But if I'm not attracted to you, I wouldn't accept you.. Even if you have all the money... I believe in the law of attraction...
you're never attracted to anyone
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Lamanii22(f): 6:18am On Feb 19, 2020
PatrioticNaija:




We will save your comment and get back to you 7years time wen jungle don mature......


Lol I'd be married by then...

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Austineva(m): 6:26am On Feb 19, 2020
biGDhAp:
.. scam
u don't know me and I don't know u, and to make matter worst, I did not quote u. How come scam? Hmm! Do u think everybody is as dubious as u? Because, a scammer and a dubious person always think that everybody is like him/her. I am not a scammer nor a deceiver. Just that I like making friends. Smh! Am short of words. But don't worry, its God that has all judgments. He will judge u and me if not now certainly later
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Lamanii22(f): 6:27am On Feb 19, 2020
ElasticStone:


Wehdone magnet


Lol...
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Nobody: 6:29am On Feb 19, 2020
Lamanii22:



Lol I'd be married by then...

I hope so. Goodluck to you

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Lamanii22(f): 6:29am On Feb 19, 2020
permit:
and people will/should keep on trying their luck on you because you're grin grin


I'm not forcing anyone.. If you wanna keep trying fine.. But save yourself the stress and just walk away...
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Lamanii22(f): 6:34am On Feb 19, 2020
Juliearth:





So, do you instantly and outrightly dismiss him or give it a little time to see if sparks would fly?


I am asking because sometimes, these sparks don't happen almost immediately...maybe after a week,month, year, after marriage...or never.



Some, I dismiss instantly... But would still hold convos with some... If I like you.. If it's just tiny attraction.. There just have to be some kinda attachment...
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by AfroKnight: 6:36am On Feb 19, 2020
Michellekabod2:
traditional women are those who have succumbed to patriarchy overzealously,kind off archaic in reasoning and behaving. They are normally non-passionate,bland,submissive et Al. They are usually unsullied


A feminine woman has feminine energy,she can be woke and still be feminine. She is emotionally,vulnerable and womanly. She is gracious

Feminists are man haters. There is nothing feminine about that. Traditional women love men and want to marry men. They recognise and accept the basic truth that men and women are FUNDAMENTALLY different.

They are not always trying to measure cócks with men. A feminist’s happiness depends on the result of her comparison with a man. This is where Traditional women excel above and beyond man-haters.

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Nobody: 6:39am On Feb 19, 2020
AfroKnight:


Feminists are man haters. There is nothing feminine about that. Traditional women love men and want to marry men. They recognise the basic truth that men and women are FUNDAMENTALLY different.
who is talking about feminist versus traditional women?we are talking about feminine women versus traditional women. The may seem the same but there are not
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Obiagu01: 6:39am On Feb 19, 2020
missimelda01:
Some men still think like they're in the 80s, imagine showing up in my house one day saying you want to marry me.. excuse me sir, REJECTED.

So because we dated some time ago, you think when you're done playing around I am your last option, REJECTED. I don't go back to my vomit, not unless there's a good reason.

I am an overthinker, i don't like to be rushed especially when it comes to issues like marriage, so 2 days into the friendship and you're already announcing marriage up and down.. that's a NO NO for me.

Before you start mentioning age, please note that I am not scared of being single and happy, I'll take my time until I genuinely fall in love and I'm ready to spend forever with my prince charming wink



ooh.they have to be a good reason for you to go back to your vomit,but they won't have to be any good reason for the man to come back to you.

you know the problem with you people is that you always think of yourselves in relationships,instead of thinking of both of you,or the relationship itself.

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Obiagu01: 6:42am On Feb 19, 2020
Michellekabod2:
who is talking about feminist versus traditional women?we are talking about feminine women versus traditional women. The may seem the same but there are not

you guys keeps confusing me with this grammar .before women na masculine?
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by DAramis: 6:51am On Feb 19, 2020
missimelda01:


So because we dated some time ago, you think when you're done playing around I am your last option, REJECTED. I don't go back to my vomit, not unless there's a good reason.

Nice points above there.

By my observation, I think it is mostly women that apply this particular point above in comparison to men. Peace.

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by AfroKnight: 6:51am On Feb 19, 2020
Michellekabod2:
who is talking about feminist versus traditional women?we are talking about feminine women versus traditional women. The may seem the same but there are not

Well, you are the one splitting them.

I am telling you feminists (who have made themselves the opposite of traditional women) are anything but feminine.
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Kazeemakeem(m): 6:52am On Feb 19, 2020
missimelda01:
Some men still think like they're in the 80s, imagine showing up in my house one day saying you want to marry me.. excuse me sir, REJECTED.

So because we dated some time ago, you think when you're done playing around I am your last option, REJECTED. I don't go back to my vomit, not unless there's a good reason.

I am an overthinker, i don't like to be rushed especially when it comes to issues like marriage, so 2 days into the friendship and you're already announcing marriage up and down.. that's a NO NO for me.

Before you start mentioning age, please note that I am not scared of being single and happy, I'll take my time until I genuinely fall in love and I'm ready to spend forever with my prince charming wink


By the time you turn 50 u go begin beg Men to marry you,do u no What they call fibroad in woman

Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by biddostandard: 6:58am On Feb 19, 2020
Lamanii22:



Ewoooor! Ka ka ki n sukun fun oko(husband), ma ya stay single (God forbid! I'd rather stay single than cry for a husband)...
dey mumu urself....d time never come

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