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Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Alexun(m): 7:02am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Michellekabod2: Shiorrrr ![]() |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by franchasng: 7:03am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Orubebe01:Some men are the reasons ladies reject their marriage proposal. How can you wake up one morning and walk straight to a lady's house to meet her parents just to seek for their daughter's hand in marriage when you don't even have a prior relationship going on with the said lady; isn't that madness ![]() Men must understand that we are no longer in the 1980s or 70s or even 1990s where you don't need to court a lady or be her friend to ask her to marry you maybe through her parents and she accepts; ladies of our time are now educated, informed, ambitious, empowered and even wild to do that crap with them today. We must learn to let the past be in the past and accept the current situation. Again, how can a guy meet a lady today and tomorrow you are already asking her to marry you, let's be honest, how many sane thinking guys can accept to even date a lady that just walks up to them and say I like you, I want you to be my boyfriend, talk more of a lifetime commitment like marriage ![]() ![]() This also goes out to all those guys that wake up one day to take their girlfriend to one shopping mall or public place and then box her into one corner with that nonsense trending thing they call proposal of "will you marry me" in the preying eyes of everyone without giving her a hint of your intention or without first reading her mind and preparing her mind for lifetime commitment through words, questions and stuffs like that, and you just wake up one morning and gather your foolish friends in one hotel or mall or anywhere and start to form Mr Romantic that want to also trend, I don't blame you dumb guys sha, I blame the ladies who squirt at this stupidity instead of giving you guys a big knock on the head ![]() ![]() I love using myself as example, before I got married, I knew who I was going to marry, and I knew she was already longing to be my wife too.....though they were kind of many longing for that, but I had one particular friend in mind whom I knew for sure was longing for me to take the bold step....I didn't even do all those crap of will you marry me.....I just asked her to pick best date for me to go meet with her family, and that was it. All the friends I have, except one dull one, none was rejected by any lady that I am aware of.....and don't think its because they are financially stable or something, no....its far from financial buoyancy, it has more to do with being reasonable....being in charge of your life and emotion....respecting other people (ladies) and their emotion....and being smart enough to know who desires you and who doesn't, because no matter how rich you are or how handsome you look, there is or there are ladies that will still reject your marriage proposal for several reasons. Their reason could be fear that you are too rich for her; my sister rejected her first suitor for this reason lol. It could be that you are too handsome and classy; a lady friend once told me jokingly that she would have loved to date me if not that I am a perfectionist, and that I love class too much, even though it was a joke, I read the meaning and never made attempt to ask her out.....but some guys will see the red signals staring at them and still try to ridicule themselves. Some ladies can reject you for being too righteous and religious; a lady told a very good friend this despite that the guy had the job every lady wishes her husband to have.....some will reject you for being too tall, too short, etc...and we can't blame them because we men too don't go about asking every lady we see to marry us....we also have preference; some guys will never marry a lady with small or flat ass, while some guys don't like marrying ladies with big ass, some guys prefer light skin complexioned ladies, while some prefer them dark skin or chocolate.....some guys will never marry a lady that earns more than them, while some guys prefer to marry ladies earning more than them....some guys prefer to marry ladies from poor family background, while some guys will never marry any lady that is not from a rich family...some prefer to marry ladies with only SSCE, while some guys will never marry a lady that does not have a second degree like Msc. In as much as we condemn some ladies who reject marriage proposals or suitors or even dates for no justifiable reason, we can only rant online and maybe offline, but we cannot do much and we cannot force ladies to accept just any guy that come asking their hand in marriage because we guys wouldn't accept just any lady that asks us to marry them too ![]() ![]() 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by kushme: 7:08am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Ivebeenbanned: Your mama smelling Toto. Stupid thang.. ![]() |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Lucydaniels1234(f): 7:12am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Most times, the suitors doesn't have the qualities we look out for. quote author=Orubebe01 post=86765019]What's your reason (s) cos I know many of them, not that men are not coming but don't really know why. So ladies, this thread is for you. Why are you rejecting suitors?[/quote] |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Bellalove11(f): 7:15am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Nothing serious though..if u r not attracted to d person u can't fake d love 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Nobody: 7:24am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Austineva:... LMAO.. you don't need God to judge anything. I thought wrong that's all .. since you were clamouring to be friends with her like your life depends on it was what I found rather confusing that there has to be a ulterior motive to what you were doing |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by AmazonHippolyta(f): 7:27am On Feb 19, 2020 |
XhosaNostra: Xhosa where have you been? It is ladyhippolyta88 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by fatymore(f): 7:29am On Feb 19, 2020 |
biGDhAp:you mean? |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by healthserve(m): 7:32am On Feb 19, 2020 |
sharone21: Word 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by stanliwise(m): 7:32am On Feb 19, 2020 |
sharone21:The only way for a girl to avoid being played by a player is to understand the Games of Relationship. Games majorly is based on deciet, greed and adventure. A guy who is a player is a guy without substance, Everything they do and act is based on years of Learning, the only way to recognize them is to understand who a player is. It is not an easy Job. But this ladies most times concentrate on some generic advise they hear from sublings or the ones they see in the movies and many of them too play games but they aren't even good at it. And I agree with you on how players don't maintain good relationship, you're right, that is the curse that follows who take life as a games. He keeps playing it and as you know you can't always be winning. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Nobody: 7:33am On Feb 19, 2020 |
fatymore:.. don't worry |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by healthserve(m): 7:34am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Juliearth: Hi Julie. We both know this isn't the scenario I meant. If a lady's so picky that she picked into 35. What happened with all the suitors she started turning down since 20-21? Do you Mean for 15 years she keeps meeting men who are the sole problem and she's absolved of any form of wrong the entire duration. This is the perspective the thread aims to understand Cc XhosaNostra Blu03 |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by KingCassy(m): 7:39am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Lamanii22:Nigerian ladies sha... What do you know about the law of attraction |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by stanliwise(m): 7:41am On Feb 19, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:The prize of a player in the Games isn't fixed but you're right most time is sex, But as the part of you talking you don't put much trust in people so if things goes south you're safe. I wish you could meet my homies, they will take the games to the stage of proposing to you. THE ONLY WAY TO WIN A GAME AGAINST A PLAYER IS NOT TO PLAY IT AT ALL. BUT IF YOU MUST, YOU SHOULD BE GOOD AT IT. |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by healthserve(m): 7:46am On Feb 19, 2020 |
franchasng: How you dey Francis. I'll pick on just one part Ladies wo reject guys cause he's a perfectionist ( I've suffered this alot ) so I don't show my work and character ethics publicly. Let's instruct to edify and not condemn. It's childish for a lady to turn down ( note, my use of word, a suitor and not a toaster ) for flimsy reasons like the kinds you mentioned, height, color and other flimsy reasons because marriage is a destinal issue. Handling decisions before,around and within relationships should be down with ones head on the body. Sometimes, the desire able isn't what the vessel reflects. We ought to encourage people to be more serious about their lies than exhibit vain attitudes like turning down suitors for flimsy reasons like the ones you mentioned in the latter part of your write-up. Disclaimer - My daughter won't be comfortable around me by 23-25 if I've not started examining her suitors |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Nobody: 7:54am On Feb 19, 2020 |
stanliwise:very true. |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by bjgurl(f): 7:55am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Slimranky:Thank you |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Treasuredvessel: 8:07am On Feb 19, 2020 |
nick50: Like it has dawned on you right,we should say yes to just anybody because we want to get married right?I'm not the overtly emotional type bro,i enjoy my own company. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by ashawopikin(m): 8:11am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Orubebe01:rejecting ke? Where d suitors? |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:16am On Feb 19, 2020 |
AmazonHippolyta: Babes, where have you been? Been looking everywhere for you, wanting to wish you a happy belated. Hope you enjoyed it even if I missed it this time around ![]() I was on vacation ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by kenodrill: 8:17am On Feb 19, 2020 |
[quote author=stanliwise post=86765917]Until you meet the players. ![]() We know your type. Slow and steady and end up in your friend Zone abi?? Hard and broke, una go tear race. But come rich(sweet mouth) and hard, una go start to shine teeth, Logic will go out the window. You just nailed it Chief... Abeg which drink you dey take biko |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by emonis88: 8:22am On Feb 19, 2020 |
First an for most I might be right or I might be wrong, what I ve observed is that women are emotionally beings. Not that men are not emotional but women are more emotional than men. They work with their instincts n when it comes to marriage it is the same thing. The woman must like a guy to a certain extent bf she agrees to ve a relationship with that man. I don't believe in love at first sight, cus love is nortured n grows over time. But if a woman doesn't like u she won't love u, ever! For them it is like that. If u entice her with money n she eventually marries the man, she might ve boyfriends outside her marriage and incase of any financial hiccup, boy she will leave ur ass. She won't even think of her children and staying for better or worse. |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by smiliyB(f): 8:25am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Wolgrace:You want to put someone's daughter in trouble, nairalanders no dey smile at all ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Nobody: 8:41am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Lamanii22: dont mind them, singlesness is bae, come friend ourselves together in the singlesness. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Nobody: 8:43am On Feb 19, 2020 |
XhosaNostra: I just met someone like you it been over 4 month now , from my observation ladies that sound like what you posted above are either HSDD or undiscovered lesbian ![]() I am a man, even if a woman picks me she is not meant to decide the pace of the r/ship. xhosa if you're dating a guy ... is it that u don't want him to make any romantic or sexual move until you feel like it or want it, or what ?? just asking maybe you can help me understand someone. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Ivebeenbanned(f): 8:47am On Feb 19, 2020 |
kushme:E pain am. |
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