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Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by gbagyiza: 10:08pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Sorry I will be straight forward to you, your wife lack proper home training. Most of today's ladies were not properly brought up to value, respect n obey their husbands when they finally got married. Civilization has also taught them not to allow their husbands overshadow them. This is a cross a lot of married men must carry, n it depends on how u carry yours. If you want your marriage to survive, you have to let some things go, continue to encourage n advice your wife, n also pray. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by ayo84(m): 10:08pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Multiple personality split disorder or soul sharing transfer incidence. It's crazy what's going on that you cannot fathom |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by Rapecase: 10:11pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
dalass:I had to stop telling her I love her because for three years ( before I stopped ) it was me doing it all. Until I couldn't buy her gifts as often as I would wish because we are trying to build our own house, I ensure I buy her stuffs. All I get in return is, won ti gba e ( they don scam you ). For this Anni, heaven bears me witness ( I had to say this just cos of the kids on here who will say I am lying ) my initial plan was to buy her a car before I decided that 1. She doesn't deserve it 2. I really can't afford another car if I do not want out project to suffer. I have given my call. Got rid of people for her sake, worked extra hard to ensure we always have what we needed. But none has worked. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by Esteemval(f): 10:15pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Your wife is fine, nothing I mean nothing is wrong with her. I might not know much about marriage but kneel down and pray to God. Tell God what's going on in your marital home, continue catering for her needs, correct her when she's wrong, call her to order. You're the man of the house, remember you're two imperfect souls in one body, if you were to be in her position all she would have done is to pray now that you're hurt just pray to God. With God all things are possible, just know that challenges will surely visit. Besides this issue should have been on God's table not social media |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by SURElee(f): 10:15pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
I know women complain about their marriages. When I see good men suffer in their marriages while being the best husbands they can be for their wives, I weep inside of me. I ask myself how good men can carry their hard earned monies to buy (pay dowry) for a woman/wife who will cause them so much emotional pain and psychological/mental suffering and stress. Most of all I applaud men who speak up even when our society expects men to die in silence while acting all macho. Oga, you are the head of your home. Man up. Sit up and call her to order, you can't be doling out cash of 3million into a bear bear bank that doesn't cook, care and service you sexually. She should sit up to be a wife in every sense of the word called wife. Tell her to sit up, shape up or leave so you can get a wife that will really be a wife. A woman who knows the power of words and when to say sorry. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. You see things will not change till you take a stand as a man. You are in this life hustling to keep family happy and provided for but you also deserve respect, love and care as a man and a husband. You can't endure your marriage and for how long will you endure it? It is till death do you part. If she no ready to be wife, biko, let her step back biko. Your happiness over anything. You need your sanity biko. And this goes to men, before you marry check the women you are marrying, check how their mothers treat their dads. Check the family values their share. Same with ladies check the guys family values. Some homes kids grow in leave the kids checkered and messed up so those kids marriages never work out. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by queengift(f): 10:17pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Your wife married you because you were ready for marriage and financially stable, she didn't marry you because she loved you. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by D1zion: 10:22pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Honestly I think you traid& I think you're the cool & patient type of guy who don't want to do anything cos of what people will say.but I say you really tried to have condone such a woman with such character, if she had made someone of her match or those who don't care about what the outside world will say,you for done tear race comot from the marriage or divorce her.well,its now left for you to decide cos she won't change |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by mechanics(m): 10:23pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Did you tell her you wanted helping one of her sisters in need, as a couple, one should learn how to do things involving his or her partner so he or she won't be angry when he or she hears anything from a third party, keep doing what you normally when you first met her and reassure her of your love for her, I believe her head will reformat back to normal. |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by Brainboxfid(f): 10:24pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
this kind of issue is very easy to solve. talk to her, if she doesn't change her ways then ignore her. when I say ignore her, I mean don't give her attention, do your husband duty by providing for the family but act in a such a way that She'll think that you're cheating on her.. but don't cheat on her oh, I believe you can abstain from sex at least two months. once she notice your distance from her, She'll be worried and She'll think she's gradually loosing you. this alone will reset her brain. or you can probably flirt with female friends in her presence, praise your maid more often and look at her lustfully in presence of your wife, that's if your maid is not an old woman o.. if you do this things enh mostly not giving her attention She'll be frustrated and ask you what's going on. this can only work if you have been a faithful and lovely husband. and please ones she start getting worried too much tell her the reason for your action and She'll change. |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by armyofone(m): 10:25pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Have you thought about the stresses you both going through ? Have both of you made efforts exercising daily and eating right ? Are both of you doing something fun together? Some times, stress is not only when you are going through hard time. Take a look at your environmental stressors...family stressors etc Building a home is stressful! Trying to have a fashion store can be stressful. Staying at home with no job is stressful You might have been channeling that stress into emotional sex...wanting it so badly it stresses you out. Her own is draining her of that emotional connection. Who fit make love for this Nigeria sef ![]() Rapecase: |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by Rapecase: 10:30pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
mechanics:She knows. She wanted me to settle her first of which the woman lost her baby and the 100k solves their problem while the same won't sort my wife's issue at the time. Besides I already given her over 2m if anything I expected her to be reasonable and not make me out like I care more for outsider than her. And even if I did, immediately I objected I expected her to apologise and not insist. I would have apologised if the reverse was the case. This is same woman who I forfeited my admission to an institution for. I may sound Petty but that's me. I expect some appreciation not some mouthing off like I have not given her anything at all. |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by internetparrot: 10:32pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
God bless you, it can't be better than this. Thank you, this is beautiful yeyeosoronga: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by Rapecase: 10:33pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
armyofone:I have tried everything. I am now giving it zero effort now. After the abuses I have gotten here I accept that I am at fault. I will do what every other man would have done. I will move her and refuse every counsel against such move. She needs learn the hard way. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by mechanics(m): 10:36pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Rapecase:I understand you, since she's aware, I don't expect her to behave the way she did, the way the issue is now, you need to report her to her parents to caution her, maybe she will change, and if possible, talk to your pastors in your church for matured counselling, it's well sir, thank God you didn't cheat on her, and God will surely make your home a lovely one again. |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by jaxxy(m): 10:44pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Rapecase: She was good when ur were dating then as soon as u guys got married she became smtnelse? Just lile that? No reasons? Quite Intresting.... Look a house/home is not an instructional Skol where u dish out instruction to ur subordinate and they comply. It's about right communcation, good observations and resolving issues amicably or properly. U wife changes her attitude 360 degrees from what u used to know and ure asking all the wrong questions, u communication and love language is zero and u want us to tell u it's right to ask.her to to all that, so if we tell u it's right how are u going to make her do them ![]() Pls go learn how to relate with ur wife like u use to b4. Unless u want to say she was pretending or ure a weak man who tolerated her excesses rather than correct her and stand ur ground when necessary. Also note ur wife is not maid, yes she can cook if she's not busy or tired from work, anybody can lay the bed. It doesn't have to be her all the time and if u want her to do it more often u have to make sure u understand her and communicate that properly bt that will still only work when ur general communication is back up. U guys are living like u have several unresolved issues and she's only reacting to them. On helping her frnd that alone can't be the reason for her total change so find out what's going on with her exactly. If u know how. |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by boldon: 10:59pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
You married a narcissist! She has all the features of narcissistic personality disorder. They lack empathy. She thinks she is doing u a favour by marrying u. There are 2 ways of dealing with narcissists in a relationship. It's either you do exactly what she is doing to you, tit for that, or take a walk. If u like kill urself, she will never appreciate it. Read about narcissistic personality disorder. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by TruthHurts100: 11:15pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Rapecase: Maybe my level of reasoning is higher than yours. Oldman. Op... We all have our shortcomings....that your mate forgets your anniversary should never be a yardstick to questioning his or her love for you. I forget important dates too. Before this agbalagbi start to spew trash. |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by IvoryFever: 11:30pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Rapecase: This is called gas lighting..pls dknt let it get to u |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by 12inchess: 11:32pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
No campaign after election naaa. Or after Buhari got his 2nd term, did you see him still carry APC banner up and down? ![]() |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by Tabitha03(f): 11:33pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
stop talking to her and stop investing in her business. ignore her for some time. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by Finelinks: 11:40pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
OKOATA:which book is that? |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by Ibklovely0211: 11:51pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
I may help you....contact me 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by ZooOga: 11:52pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Simp story # 182 for 2020. Keep 'em coming nut-less wonders of the male gender. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by wisdomkid: 11:53pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
sladimeji:Have you asked her where you might have wrong her? You didn't mention any of your flaws.. But from your description, it seems you're too good for her and everything. ![]() Yes, you don't cheat, but do you drink? smoke? hurl abusive words towards her? compare her with others? |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by hidhrhis(m): 11:57pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Rapecase:I swear I have a plan on how to help you if you can help me too Check my signature and help me out and I will help you Message me on whatsapp with the number in my signature when you are ready |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by mirexxx(f): 12:00am On Feb 20, 2020 |
Oh really? I wish I have a hubby like you..not married tho ![]() |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by CsRockefeller(m): 12:00am On Feb 20, 2020 |
Esteemval: Not just prayer my sister, seek knowledge. You can keep praying and be in a hole of ignorance. See eh, many of our bad habits needs an attitudinal change not prayers. But we don't want to see it that way. |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by turbo3disc: 12:03am On Feb 20, 2020 |
She needs second wife.....chikenaa 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by CsRockefeller(m): 12:08am On Feb 20, 2020 |
queengift: You know what I call statements like yours? Analysis paralysis. You can't sit in your room and just conclude she never loved him. You think Judas never loved Christ? |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by CsRockefeller(m): 12:12am On Feb 20, 2020 |
SURElee: If we are being honest with ourselves, we can tell from few weeks after we get close to Mr A or Miss B that they are bad market. It's glaring, but we choose to ignore them. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by Deoboss(m): 12:22am On Feb 20, 2020 |
Rapecase: My late dad used to say that any woman that can not say thank you, can’t say sorry or apologise when wrong will give her husband issues in marriage. As for me i get upset if my woman can’t explain things to me. Your wife owes you an explanation & that’s a fact. I will give it to you straight away that your wife does not really love you but don’t take this personal bro |
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