Fountainofyouth:



Do you lack assimilation and comprehension deficiency? How will someone read my comment and conclude that I'm supporting her? How

Keep fooling yourself!!!

You goofed when you typed 'I like her confidence'

Confidence kill her there!!!

All women flirt. Most women cheat. It's not your pencil, it's how you write your name.

OP is a weakling.

You got what you looked for.

Immediately I read and understood she's serving, I stopped. Bro, most, if not 90% of female corps members are having illicit affairs. To them, it's a year of National sexual exploration.

This is the truth. She's a Proscorps member

libertyfather:
You have really gone beyond what you need to know......the girl talk true, that's all I hv to say wait for more comments

I second this one!

As long as it’s happening when you both are together, it’s not her past but her present and will also be her future. Wake up from your fantasy and be a man damn it. Do you have love yourself? Do you have respect and regard for yourself? Nawa oo for some niggars.

Biafrareform:


Lol. Btw she is 20. And she love me, I know it .

She isn't even desperate for marriage .

I am not even bothered with her past . I am just concern about her present hence my reaction .

I love her I won't lie , but I am willing to cut it off and move on

Is her bithday in May or June? Tell me the date of her birthday

eni4real:
Keep fooling yourself!!!

You goofed when you typed 'I like her confidence'

Confidence kill her there!!!

Confidence? Go and use glasses, you are blind.

Ogbeni where did u thing she get the 6k from? Do u think a woman will remove it from her allowee. Na that married man money she give u. For her to send money to it means u cannot take care of her. Where will u c a woman that will be given u money in this Buhari regime? I am laughing in Chinese. Is ether u enjoy d money n turn a blind eye or u live her alone n look for job . Forget about women when u are responsible they will b looking for u.

Biafrareform:
Good morning all, for those still awake.

I think my relationship just ended. Something we both cherish.

Well, months back my ex and I came back together. We had a bliss relationship while in our final year, but I wasn't committed at all and she knew it and left. Back then in school she kept going to my phone and of course she do see things to talk about .

After 1 year of being apart, I needed a committed relationship cos I wanted to settle down. She came to my mind and the feelings was so strong even though I tried to resist it. We finally met and resolved all issues that led to her leaving .

Is been the sweetest memory we have had so far. Everything was going fine. She is a nice and sweet girl. Our agenda is marriage and she is aware. She fits perfectly to my ideal woman. Our emotional and spiritual connection is just perfect.

Well, things take a turn when I went to her phone and saw stuff that knocked me out. What really got me mad was her dating a married man. My emotion was dead. She said the relationship is in the past. She was forced to go into it after she left school. Her mum forced her into it when she stopped caring for her and asked her to go fend for herself. Then we weren't together. She confessed to becoming someone else from who I knew when I didn't tried to bring her back. But she is not a bad as I think , she concluded .

I also saw her chat with someone where she sent a bedroom pics she took in my house. She said she is just flirting with him (they have a fling) but that I should give her time, she is going to completely cut of tiers with them.

Well, I love her was ready to stay with her.
She was around again this Val and was tempted to check again and noticed she is still communicating with the married man. Infact I noticed they met lately in January. I locked up , and decided that is over. Didn't talk to her about it.

We went out for on Saturday. She is the type that hardly post on Facebook. Infact she has reduced my activities on Facebook. Her reason, our lives shouldn't be on social media.
I uploaded our outing on WhatsApp. She did too, but didn't upload the one we took together. Yea, she hasn't done that b4. I was angry and voiced out what I saw in her phone. Accused her of deliberately hiding us from her contacts.
She apologised and told me she isn't doing anything with the man again. Just the normal chat cos of the friendship they have had b4 . She even handed her phone to me to call him and end it if I want . I wasn't taking any of that cos I saw from her browsing history where she is been searching how to make a married man fall in love and spend on her but didn't let her know of it.
She pleaded that nothing is happening between them again. Then she begged that I should stopped going to her phone that is destroying us. That if I ended up destroying this relationship, where do I want her to start.

She is back to her base and we chatted last nite and she brought up the case of me going to her phone again and I was angry with that and told her about the browsing history too.

She was completely devastated with my findings.
Is lengthy right, sorry about that. This is a relationship we both cherished and I know she love me real good. Ohh, I forgot to tell you, she bought me a native dress and sent 6k to me from her 33k NYSC allawee. She is a good girl. She is nice and caring. I love this girl real good. Never loved anyone like this before.

But I don't know what has really gone wrong with her. I was determined to really make this right, but as it stand now, it seems dead to me and I am sure she also feels same too.

I should have stayed away from her phone. But guys, is not my fault, I love this girl and I am serious about it.

FOR ME, GET HER BACK, TALK AND RESOLVE D ISSUES AND RESTATE UR PLANS AND DECISIONS. BOTH PHONES SHOULD BE ACCESSIBLE TO EACH OTHER FOR TRUTH AND INTEGRITY. U ARE ALSO TO BE OPEN. GET CONFIRMATION OF WHERE SHE IS HEADED IN D RELATIONSHIP AND THEN KNOT URSELVES TOGETHER...

Biafrareform:


Lol. Btw she is 20. And she love me, I know it .

She isn't even desperate for marriage .

I am not even bothered with her past . I am just concern about her present hence my reaction .

I love her I won't lie , but I am willing to cut it off and move on

Bro cut on and move on .. you won’t die . I repeat you won’t die . If you continue you will only hurt your self more .. Because it will continue . Your peace of mind comes before love . Remember to use your brain before the heart ..

Adedotun222:
Relationship is a 2-way thing handled by 2 people.. Yea she might be double dating and all, but try to please your soul by feeding it with positivities everyday.. She loves you and you love her. Forget her mistakes, make her understand so many things and make sure u fight the battle together..

Its not her battle alone, its for the 2 of you... KO fly call her and settle it please �

Thanks. When I made this thread this morning , I was willing to let go. I knew what to get from here . Is just the obvious truth, Naija guys don't trust Naija babes again and they will say despicable things about them.

I know her well before we break up . I know what she can do. Is obvious she has really broken when we separated. Is her past.
Truth is she hasn't really given me any reason to think she is cheating on me .
I have called her already , we have talked and I will be there to help her fix whatever is bringing issues to us. I will be careful and more observant, if it can't work, I will walk away

Adedotun222:
Relationship is a 2-way thing handled by 2 people.. Yea she might be double dating and all, but try to please your soul by feeding it with positivities everyday.. She loves you and you love her. Forget her mistakes, make her understand so many things and make sure u fight the battle together..

Its not her battle alone, its for the 2 of you... KO fly call her and settle it please �

Really
The same woman that double date today and forgiven will pour hot water on his man if she found out that he is having affair with another lady!!

Never tolerate this kind of 2 faced girls!!!
They just want to eat their cakes and still have it!!
Op deserves better!!

Say NO to romantic manipulation!!!

successful35:


I once dated this girl in the university. She was using me to cheat on her main guy. I know about about 5 guys in uni that slept with her while she was dating the main guy.

The guy never caught her for once. They are married now but she is still cheating heavily on the guy. Ever since she got married to the main guy, she has cheated on him with at least 3 guys. Tell me her birthday amd i will give you very positive information. When is her birthday?

November 7

Biafrareform:
Good morning all, for those still awake.

I think my relationship just ended. Something we both cherish.

Well, months back my ex and I came back together. We had a bliss relationship while in our final year, but I wasn't committed at all and she knew it and left. Back then in school she kept going to my phone and of course she do see things to talk about .

After 1 year of being apart, I needed a committed relationship cos I wanted to settle down. She came to my mind and the feelings was so strong even though I tried to resist it. We finally met and resolved all issues that led to her leaving .

Is been the sweetest memory we have had so far. Everything was going fine. She is a nice and sweet girl. Our agenda is marriage and she is aware. She fits perfectly to my ideal woman. Our emotional and spiritual connection is just perfect.

Well, things take a turn when I went to her phone and saw stuff that knocked me out. What really got me mad was her dating a married man. My emotion was dead. She said the relationship is in the past. She was forced to go into it after she left school. Her mum forced her into it when she stopped caring for her and asked her to go fend for herself. Then we weren't together. She confessed to becoming someone else from who I knew when I didn't tried to bring her back. But she is not a bad as I think , she concluded .

I also saw her chat with someone where she sent a bedroom pics she took in my house. She said she is just flirting with him (they have a fling) but that I should give her time, she is going to completely cut of tiers with them.

Well, I love her was ready to stay with her.
She was around again this Val and was tempted to check again and noticed she is still communicating with the married man. Infact I noticed they met lately in January. I locked up , and decided that is over. Didn't talk to her about it.

We went out for on Saturday. She is the type that hardly post on Facebook. Infact she has reduced my activities on Facebook. Her reason, our lives shouldn't be on social media.
I uploaded our outing on WhatsApp. She did too, but didn't upload the one we took together. Yea, she hasn't done that b4. I was angry and voiced out what I saw in her phone. Accused her of deliberately hiding us from her contacts.
She apologised and told me she isn't doing anything with the man again. Just the normal chat cos of the friendship they have had b4 . She even handed her phone to me to call him and end it if I want . I wasn't taking any of that cos I saw from her browsing history where she is been searching how to make a married man fall in love and spend on her but didn't let her know of it.
She pleaded that nothing is happening between them again. Then she begged that I should stopped going to her phone that is destroying us. That if I ended up destroying this relationship, where do I want her to start.

She is back to her base and we chatted last nite and she brought up the case of me going to her phone again and I was angry with that and told her about the browsing history too.

She was completely devastated with my findings.
Is lengthy right, sorry about that. This is a relationship we both cherished and I know she love me real good. Ohh, I forgot to tell you, she bought me a native dress and sent 6k to me from her 33k NYSC allawee. She is a good girl. She is nice and caring. I love this girl real good. Never loved anyone like this before.

But I don't know what has really gone wrong with her. I was determined to really make this right, but as it stand now, it seems dead to me and I am sure she also feels same too.

I should have stayed away from her phone. But guys, is not my fault, I love this girl and I am serious about it.

Bro, run away from this kind of lady. She will cheat when u eventually marry her

Naa wetin u dey look for u see

SyrusdeHansome:




Guy de way I see it, u just made up this story 4 traffic.
U wanted pple to advice u nd yet you're still giving excuses on why u shud go back to her. Why did u even post dis nonsense if u had it in mind to take her back? #madeupstory.

You are the one that didn't read the story well. I just narrated it to ease my tension. Never did i ask for what to do .

I wasn't thinking straight then. But after going through all the comments , I had arrays of ideas and thoughts .

From there, I made my choice

Fountainofyouth:



Confidence? Go and use glasses, you are blind.

bluntness, confidence, . They imply the same thing!!

You are a type that like to win argument all the time even when you goofed!!

No luck today!!!

Biafrareform:
.

If Karma really pay us all for our deeds, then we all be gone by now . There will be none left on this planet earth

My Friend, Pls Stop Wastong Peoples time, if u have made up ur mind to go on with her. Move on. No need Defending her here after bringing up d Issues U Presented. U are wasting ur own time too. I read ur Responses to Advises Sent In and Observed u may be a Joker or Deluded Fellow...

Biafrareform:


November 7

This guy, na scorpio girl you dey date oh. Na she dey control the relationship na. A scorpio woman cannot be in a relationship unless she is in control of it. Secondly, na because she like strong intense sex na one reason why you are hooked with her oh. Scorpio women are born whores. It's a known fact all over the world.

You are even hiding her bad character. She is rude, arrogant and extremely unfaithful. Very temperamental, abi I lie?

When is your own birthday?

Hmm

Pls. Check my signature for your waist trainer and other body shapers.
We deliver Nationwide.

successful35:


Is her bithday in May or June? Tell me the date of her birthday

November 7

Biafrareform:


Don't know now, but I bought 119k in October

Wanna sell mine though ?

Ok thanks

daewoorazer:
a who’re doesn’t have a synonym, A WHO’RE

Please marry her, we nerds will be happy to read another long epistle of how you caught HIV and STD

Plus the child is not mine (we will be around to read this as well when that time comes)

Biafrareform:
Good morning all, for those still awake.

I think my relationship just ended. Something we both cherish.

Well, months back my ex and I came back together. We had a bliss relationship while in our final year, but I wasn't committed at all and she knew it and left. Back then in school she kept going to my phone and of course she do see things to talk about .

After 1 year of being apart, I needed a committed relationship cos I wanted to settle down. She came to my mind and the feelings was so strong even though I tried to resist it. We finally met and resolved all issues that led to her leaving .

Is been the sweetest memory we have had so far. Everything was going fine. She is a nice and sweet girl. Our agenda is marriage and she is aware. She fits perfectly to my ideal woman. Our emotional and spiritual connection is just perfect.

Well, things take a turn when I went to her phone and saw stuff that knocked me out. What really got me mad was her dating a married man. My emotion was dead. She said the relationship is in the past. She was forced to go into it after she left school. Her mum forced her into it when she stopped caring for her and asked her to go fend for herself. Then we weren't together. She confessed to becoming someone else from who I knew when I didn't tried to bring her back. But she is not a bad as I think , she concluded .

I also saw her chat with someone where she sent a bedroom pics she took in my house. She said she is just flirting with him (they have a fling) but that I should give her time, she is going to completely cut of tiers with them.

Well, I love her was ready to stay with her.
She was around again this Val and was tempted to check again and noticed she is still communicating with the married man. Infact I noticed they met lately in January. I locked up , and decided that is over. Didn't talk to her about it.

We went out for on Saturday. She is the type that hardly post on Facebook. Infact she has reduced my activities on Facebook. Her reason, our lives shouldn't be on social media.
I uploaded our outing on WhatsApp. She did too, but didn't upload the one we took together. Yea, she hasn't done that b4. I was angry and voiced out what I saw in her phone. Accused her of deliberately hiding us from her contacts.
She apologised and told me she isn't doing anything with the man again. Just the normal chat cos of the friendship they have had b4 . She even handed her phone to me to call him and end it if I want . I wasn't taking any of that cos I saw from her browsing history where she is been searching how to make a married man fall in love and spend on her but didn't let her know of it.
She pleaded that nothing is happening between them again. Then she begged that I should stopped going to her phone that is destroying us. That if I ended up destroying this relationship, where do I want her to start.

She is back to her base and we chatted last nite and she brought up the case of me going to her phone again and I was angry with that and told her about the browsing history too.

She was completely devastated with my findings.
Is lengthy right, sorry about that. This is a relationship we both cherished and I know she love me real good. Ohh, I forgot to tell you, she bought me a native dress and sent 6k to me from her 33k NYSC allawee. She is a good girl. She is nice and caring. I love this girl real good. Never loved anyone like this before.

But I don't know what has really gone wrong with her. I was determined to really make this right, but as it stand now, it seems dead to me and I am sure she also feels same too.

I should have stayed away from her phone. But guys, is not my fault, I love this girl and I am serious about it.

Son, there is a lot you need to know about women and marriage I advice you take time off to cool down and seek matured counsel, talk to people who are in the game, I mean married people.

You need a lot of patience that girl seems to be a good girl.

You are free to reach out. Cheers

You are a kid. You shouldn't enter into any relationship now. The girl too is also not ready for marriage. She has never finished the 'enjoyment'. Both of you will part way after two years, if you get married now.

Biafrareform:
Good morning all, for those still awake.

I think my relationship just ended. Something we both cherish.

Well, months back my ex and I came back together. We had a bliss relationship while in our final year, but I wasn't committed at all and she knew it and left. Back then in school she kept going to my phone and of course she do see things to talk about .

After 1 year of being apart, I needed a committed relationship cos I wanted to settle down. She came to my mind and the feelings was so strong even though I tried to resist it. We finally met and resolved all issues that led to her leaving .

Is been the sweetest memory we have had so far. Everything was going fine. She is a nice and sweet girl. Our agenda is marriage and she is aware. She fits perfectly to my ideal woman. Our emotional and spiritual connection is just perfect.

Well, things take a turn when I went to her phone and saw stuff that knocked me out. What really got me mad was her dating a married man. My emotion was dead. She said the relationship is in the past. She was forced to go into it after she left school. Her mum forced her into it when she stopped caring for her and asked her to go fend for herself. Then we weren't together. She confessed to becoming someone else from who I knew when I didn't tried to bring her back. But she is not a bad as I think , she concluded .

I also saw her chat with someone where she sent a bedroom pics she took in my house. She said she is just flirting with him (they have a fling) but that I should give her time, she is going to completely cut of tiers with them.

Well, I love her was ready to stay with her.
She was around again this Val and was tempted to check again and noticed she is still communicating with the married man. Infact I noticed they met lately in January. I locked up , and decided that is over. Didn't talk to her about it.

We went out for on Saturday. She is the type that hardly post on Facebook. Infact she has reduced my activities on Facebook. Her reason, our lives shouldn't be on social media.
I uploaded our outing on WhatsApp. She did too, but didn't upload the one we took together. Yea, she hasn't done that b4. I was angry and voiced out what I saw in her phone. Accused her of deliberately hiding us from her contacts.
She apologised and told me she isn't doing anything with the man again. Just the normal chat cos of the friendship they have had b4 . She even handed her phone to me to call him and end it if I want . I wasn't taking any of that cos I saw from her browsing history where she is been searching how to make a married man fall in love and spend on her but didn't let her know of it.
She pleaded that nothing is happening between them again. Then she begged that I should stopped going to her phone that is destroying us. That if I ended up destroying this relationship, where do I want her to start.

She is back to her base and we chatted last nite and she brought up the case of me going to her phone again and I was angry with that and told her about the browsing history too.

She was completely devastated with my findings.
Is lengthy right, sorry about that. This is a relationship we both cherished and I know she love me real good. Ohh, I forgot to tell you, she bought me a native dress and sent 6k to me from her 33k NYSC allawee. She is a good girl. She is nice and caring. I love this girl real good. Never loved anyone like this before.

But I don't know what has really gone wrong with her. I was determined to really make this right, but as it stand now, it seems dead to me and I am sure she also feels same too.

I should have stayed away from her phone. But guys, is not my fault, I love this girl and I am serious about it.

You are an extremely foolish man. If you were my brother I would put a gun to your forehead and blast off your dirty skull.

Fvck you and your ashawo girlfriend. Mumu!

successful35:


This guy, na scorpio girl you dey date oh. Na she dey control the relationship na. A scorpio woman cannot be in a relationship unless she is in control of it. Secondly, na because she like strong intense sense na one reason why you are hooked with her oh. Scorpio women are born whores. It's a known fact all over the world.

You are even hiding her bad character. She is rude, arrogant and extremely unfaithful. Very temperamental, abi I lie?

When is your own birthday?

Lol.

Mine is May 16

rOsy247:
buy her phone, no, take care of her needs, no, allow her na to date who is taking good care of her na, no. Op what is really the colour of your problem. U want her to sit with u just to be looking at your face? Will ur face solve any of her needs?

Now she gave u 6k and u collected it o? Is it not same man who u fighting her for that gave her the 6k? If u rejecting her for dating a guy that's taking good care of her why didn't you reject his 6k? Cox obviously he's the one taking care of her. Op having n maintaining a girlfriend requires u living up to responsibilities as her man.

If u can't take care of that babe park one side and allow better person see road care for her. Nonsense and ingredients lazy boyfriend. Don't goan work to take care of your babe, that's how they'll keep cheating on u till u haf sense.

Kudos to that babe for dumping u jor. U don't deserve her.

Nawa o

oshaosha2014:
Are you a MGTOW or red-pilled in anyway

I can't be MGTOW since I'm married. Also most red pillers won't accept my 'membership' because instead of being a player, I believe in the superior logic of the ancestral traditional system of marriage; where the husband is responsible for the finances, and his word is law. I also do not endorse having extra marital sex with several women at a time; which seems to be a red pill basic law; though I strongly support polygamy as our forefathers practised. Technically, I am told that there are many forms of being red pilled, but I do not really identify as such. I take the best of what I can find in any system. I however completely agree with red pillers on the default character and attitude of women to sex, love and relationship; hypergamy for example; though my proposed solution is that men train suitably inclined women within the confines of marriage, rather than completely disavow sex with women entirely. A man need only open his eyes very well, ensure that he refrains from falling for the myth called 'love' and understand hiw women behave so he remains the superior gender as he was meant to be.

Ohh, I forgot to tell you, she bought me a native dress and sent 6k to me from her 33k NYSC allawee. She is a good girl

Something don hit this guy head, you better move on to save yourself for the joy that comes with marriage.

My friend marry her... Make her pregnant and show her love.. Every other distractions will fizzle out sooner than expected.