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Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by crackkhaus: 4:42pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Michellekabod2:Yes you do, emphatically. 7 Likes |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by Nobody: 4:43pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
crackkhaus:what does it matter if she's a single mom or not? Man or woman? Her point is still valid. I asked earlier, the sins of single moms; is it their refusal to abort the baby? To abandon their child? To marry a man they loved? To be raped? Or? 2 Likes |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by Nobody: 4:45pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Martinez39s:abortion is now acceptable? Well certain women are prolife. Majority of ladies who are raped, abort the baby. Others couldn't It's still their kid... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by Nobody: 4:46pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Blu03:lol...especially when they are aware of your personal life,they make reference to it as their weapon in arguments... Meaning that aside your personal life they will have had no rebuttal to offer. The f00l crackkhaus erroneously assumed I seek company. 2 Likes
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Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by crackkhaus: 4:46pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
EasternPrince:The interesting thing is I'm not even a red-piller and I have told that clown this before. ![]() I have never been on any of those threads or being involved in any of their banters, so I don't how you or her can even refer to me as a red-piller. It seems the guys in that red-pill club on NL have really done a number on these romance section girls that they now dream of it at every opportunity. 7 Likes |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by Martinez39s(m): 4:47pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Michellekabod2:I called it victimhood because it is what it is. Do you really think MOST women are sexually assaulted by men? Beside, both cases are not equivalent. People stigmatise gays but not single mothers. Single mothers are not just seen as a right choice in place of a better choice which is a fresh product. Gays are stigmatized for no good reasons while single mothers are shunned (not stigmatized) in the dating market for good reasons. If you want to be a single mother, feel free but don't expect a smart man to start with and endure you and your baby daddy's baggage when they could get a fresh product. 5 Likes |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by Nobody: 4:48pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Blu03:you have time my dear,you will not get anywhere with this,it seems. Let me add crackkhaus to the list of m0rons I will henceforth ignore. He can't drag me to his abysmal level. 1 Like |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by crackkhaus: 4:50pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Blu03:Like I stated earlier, they are not a menace to society...which translates into doing nothing wrong or having any sin. My only stance is that single mothers should marry single fathers and no one else, why is this upsetting? ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by Martinez39s(m): 4:52pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Blu03:Abortion is acceptable when rape or a high risk to the mother's health during childbirth is involved. Besides, many women are to be blamed for their single mother status. Some knowingly roll with fuckboys and get pregnant. 4 Likes |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by Nobody: 4:53pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
![]() Liposure:it's not easy to be a man and woman. |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by EasternPrince: 4:55pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Martinez39s: It's not your womb, nor the fear of bareness yours. Mart, give the woman a break you've been murdering them for 2 days straight. 1 Like |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by crackkhaus: 4:57pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Michellekabod2:I'm shocked it took you this long to learn to ignore. Of all the times you and I have ever had a tete-a-tete on this forum, it's always you quoting me to try starting an argument you already lost. I don't know what you're trying to prove to yourself, but I'm glad you've learned your lesson. You can now go in peace forever. ![]() Cheers. 5 Likes |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by Nobody: 4:57pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Martinez39s:and paided dearly for it. To make things right, they decided to take care of the child. Who are we to judge or insult or slut shame them? Men and women with dirty pasts who fornicate and commit other sins? Ignore them if you must, but don't call them wh0res and such. Is that hard? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by Riele(f): 4:58pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
EasternPrince: He'll call you a simp now . That's the only thing he's good at doing . 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by Nobody: 4:58pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Martinez39s:Lol...I agree with you. I have never believed in wailing or emotional blackmail. Why do you think there is a valid reason for stigmatizing anyone who harmlessly live his/her life? And who puts you in the position to determine what qualifies for justified stigmatization? Why don't you see the margin between making choices and throwing shades at others? I am pro-choice,I have never never convinced or blackmailed anyone emotionally into lowering his/her standards but I am against calling people names. I also tackled you for calling men SIMPs-remember. I esteem you higher than the m0Ron called crackkhaus so please don't disappoint me with your post. |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by EasternPrince: 5:01pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
crackkhaus: You really don't know how bad the situation is. I avoid commenting on such treads myself due to goings-on. 'Gender War' is apt description for it.. Oh, no! One of the red pilled kings just arrived. Mart. Others will soon follow. They'll light up this place in no time! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by crackkhaus: 5:01pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Michellekabod2:See someone that wants to ignore me henceforth still mentioning me upandan. ![]() I am NOT interested. 4 Likes |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by Nobody: 5:01pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Blu03:it is indeed herculean for people who derive joy in shaming others. I wonder if people get elevated when they sham others. |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by Nobody: 5:01pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
crackkhaus:don't stigmatize them. That's the message... I didn't ask you to marry a single mom, did i? But don't exonerate a single dad and downgrade a single mother 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by Nobody: 5:02pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
I have seen so many threads here about single mothers and like this one, I love to correct a hsty generalisation people make about single mothers and the options u have so as not to be one. @op, u mentioned rape. If a man raped me and I got pregnant, I will boldly go and terminate it. I ain't raising a rapists child at all. So anybody who decide to do so has herself to blame. Damn religion. When your boyfriend knocks me down and ran, I ain't keeping that either. Well, to be frank, for me to go skin to skin with any man, I must have studied my body system and how it works. Emotions don't rule this world, brain does. In a situation where I forgot and made that mistake, I will take care of immediately after. Every woman ought to study their body, know the free and non free time. If u should do something during the non free time, there is condom. It won't kill either of u. If a lady left her marriage because of bad husband, I'm not talking of Lagos husband( if u understand what I mean), her people always rally around her and depending on her age, she usually get a man if she so desires. She may not want to enter into another marriage due to trauma but sure, if she want, as long as she is a good lady, men are lined up. I'm saying this based on what I have witnessed. Also, if she has lost her husband, nobody, I mean nobody will ever stigmatize her. She is free to remarry, have boyfriend etc but no, she is never stigmatized. Stop using guilt to bend people for a decision u made yourself. U are fully responsible for that. There are few exceptions though e.g. a guy u planned to marry or in the process of marriage rite and he died but you discovered you are pregnant, you will marry again. In fact, nothing like stigmatization. Usually, your mum or married siblings will take over caring for your child as soon as you stop weaning and you find your groove back. Meanwhile guys are by the side lurking. 7 Likes |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by Nobody: 5:04pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Michellekabod2:and we are the only ones who manipulate... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by Martinez39s(m): 5:04pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Blu03:No one is stigmatizing single mothers. If you want to be a single mother, feel free but don't expect smart men to marry you and deal with you and your baby daddy's baggage when they could have acquired a fresh product and start their own families. Actions have consequences. 4 Likes |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by Martinez39s(m): 5:05pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
EasternPrince:No one is stigmatizing single mothers. If you want to be a single mother, feel free but don't expect smart men to marry you and deal with you and your baby daddy's baggage when they could have acquired a fresh product and start their own families. Actions have consequences. 1 Like |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by Nobody: 5:06pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Michellekabod2:that's human nature. Am i suprised? Nah. I have the skeleton of an elephant in my closet but attack you for killing an ant. Seems fair. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by crackkhaus: 5:08pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Blu03:I don't stigmatise them, no one I know does.. but marrying a single mother is a no no, this is called "choice" not stigmatisation. Learn the difference. As for your last sentence, please point me to a post made by me exonerating single dads and downgrading single moms. Nah, never mind...you won't find it. You're just being obtuse. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by crackkhaus: 5:10pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
sassysure:Sassy, these romance section girls don't have the capacity to understand all this you're typing. Leave them for me, let me do what I do best and trigger them into making a complete foōl of themselves. 8 Likes |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by Martinez39s(m): 5:11pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Michellekabod2:I don't believe in these things too but I am sure as a woman, you believe in these things when it suits you. BTW, I am a man of logical and sound arguments and truth. You sef you know. ![]() Why do you think there is a valid reason for stigmatizing anyone who harmlessly live his/her life? And who puts you in the position to determine what qualifies for justified stigmatization?No one is stigmatizing single mothers. If you want to be a single mother, feel free but don't expect smart men to marry you and deal with you and your baby daddy's baggage when they could have acquired a fresh product and start their own families. Actions have consequences. I esteem you higher than the m0Ron called crackkhaus so please don't disappoint me with your post.Nice try. I won't let you use validation to manipulate me into being and saying what you. Try again. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by EasternPrince: 5:15pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Martinez39s: I can't be a single mother even if I tried. I don't have a hole in the required place, but a pole that's allergic to redpills. Give it a rest, Mart. Live and let these women live. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by crackkhaus: 5:16pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Riele:Yours is a special case, so I won't bother today. If you cross my path another day, I might spare the time to treat your disease. 7 Likes |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by Nobody: 5:16pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Riele: Forget online brouhaha. Single fathers will never have problem marrying miss world. It's never a gender war. Even the ones hunger dey wire. U know, I love being realistic most of the time. We preach one thing and do another. In this nairaland alone, I know like 3 ladies married to single fathers. Single fathers don't usually have baby drama. For any man to opt to be a single dad, he must be good. So ladies actually seek them out. Ladies who have medical history of getting pregnant,are above menopause, etc. Their luck. I'm talking about what happens in real world not nairaland. It's never a gender war. Wonder why people made it so in the first place. And based on our societal norms, if u make it a gender war, u will always lose. There are so many good men out there as there are so many good women. We are not AA but from sub Saharan Africa where patriarchy still rule. The AA people we are imitating, are they not lost? 5 Likes |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by Martinez39s(m): 5:18pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
EasternPrince:I am not stopping anyone from living their life. 3 Likes |
Re: The Stigmatization Of Single Mothers? Blu03's Opinion by Nobody: 5:21pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
[quote author=Martinez39s post=86815918] I don't believe in these things too but I am sure as a woman, you believe in these things when it suits you. BTW, I am a man of logical and sound arguments and truth. You sef you know.point out where I have opened a wailing thread or solicited for males to marry non-virgins and single moms. You aren't a man of logical and sound arguments. You are weak. I see your posts from a place a pain. I see an unfufilled man who has a passion to liberate men from their perceived enemies because you have been burnt by ladies before. what do you call calling people whor€s,losers etc if not stigmatization?
This proves my postulations about you are right,you have being a victim of female manipulation ,thus you suspect all other ladies do so 1 Like |
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