Mutemenot:
You have time to build the relationship . You guys haven't really come together, prove to her you are willing and ready for the relationship . Women always have options most especially when dealing with men they think can t meet their demand .
..knowing that she has everything you want in a woman, I suggest you give her more room for repentance ...

Illuminated993:
Brother I'm march 30. Please tell me about me.

Biafrareform:
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If Karma really pay us all for our deeds, then we all be gone by now . There will be none left on this planet earth

successful35:

Hiiiiii birthday mate
I'm March 29th. We are both first decan Aries. Boss by birth. Fearless if we make our mind up to achieve something. You rarely give up and you can even cut off your family if they try to control your decisions.

You get got temper but you dey quick calm down and forgive. You nor dey really keep grudge like that. If person betray you, your head go worry the person, na only time he go take before the person go find you come beg be it a man or a woman.

You are the most powerful person in the whole zodiac. You are generous to a fault. Trying to hold back your generosity will affect you oh, so continue being good oh. So many things to tell you brother

Biafrareform:
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I believed we all have past. Even myself have got a past. Same as you .

I believe everyone deserves a chance . A willing heart ready to change though.

And I also believed no one is perfect . The only bad girl out there is the one you have discovered her past .
There are many who we see as good , but undiscovered bad side .

Olisehinnocent:

Brother, i have witnessed something like this before. From the way this girl talk, you will findout that she's not ready to change. You can be fuckin her with condom without spending a dime on her. You will use the opportunity to find another better babe. After finding another babe, then, break up with her. This will reduce the pain.

ZooOga:


at ur service blue!

jaybabs1:


Madam, If truly you are a woman/lady as depicted by your handle. You've earned my respect!

Most ladies I have met are veeeerrrrrryyyy selfish and so short-sighted, infact very shallow, all they see and know is NOW!
..They don't have anything to contribute into a relationship than just to take, collect, and collect.

I guess the Nigerian economy has a serious dampening influence on the morals of the modern ladies.(Just as it did on many of the young men)

Not once or twice have I fallen victim of this girls dating other guys all in the name of surviving. You give them 30k monthly upkeep still they will still be secret-chatting one guy on Facebook for a secret weekend outing! All in the name of he is just a friend. Friend what? That's from lady that You already planning wedding with!

Haba!

I sincerely feel for this guy... honestly.

@Poster, My Guy get hard, get hardened and get harder!

It's the decade/era we live in...it's wasnt this way with our mums...it's a reality with the modern ladies we have to cope with and adjust to.

There are still good/manageable ones out there among them descendants of Eve..

Though very hurtful but don't get disturbed about women issue, they've been that way since Creation even from Eve...(Insatiable, greedy and Ungrateful) Few of them are good though.

With some prayers, patience and luck, you will find that rare one.

If any lady is hurt with my comment no vex...read this and change! If you are good.. then get better!

I guess this my harshest and longest comment on NLand.

Michellekabod2:
you didnt get the sarcasm and mistook it for endorsing her actions?

Why should I offer condolence to one that has no value or regards for himself?

successful35:

Is her bithday in May or June? Tell me the date of her birthday

successful35:


I'm March 29th. We are both first decan Aries. Boss by birth. Fearless if we make our mind up to achieve something. You rarely give up and you can even cut off your family if they try to control your decisions.

You get got temper but you dey quick calm down and forgive. You nor dey really keep grudge like that. If person betray you, your head go worry the person, na only time he go take before the person go find you come beg be it a man or a woman.

You are the most powerful person in the whole zodiac. You are generous to a fault. Trying to hold back your generosity will affect you oh, so continue being good oh. So many things to tell you brother

jaxxy:


U want to marry a gal and u won't check her fone? U must be a mugu, maga or big time fool, unless uve made up ur mind to marry a total stranger.

U see when u want to marry everybody has to be transparent to a very large extent and put all cards, issues on the table, nobody is a saint bt u need to know what ure going into so u don't end up like an people her saying I don't understand my wife or hubby bla bla bla,

Ur gal is good gal probably bt she clearly lack one critical thing, Discipline! U can't be engaged or making plans to get married and dating or having contacts with past sugar daddy or flings unless uve gotten such permission directly from ur fiance and he's aware of ur discussions even though I doubt any right thinking fiance will allow that.

What is hard in cutting of past flings especially the unhealthy ones? What is wrong with her? Greed or lack of selfworth in herself and ur relationship? Dating a married is bad enough, keeping communication with him is worse and a bigger threat to ur marriage if u dare marry her like that. Mark my words.

She needs to decide what she wants cos she can't have both in this case.

ImaIma1:


Not every lady is willing to develop herself and become successful by herself. A lot of them these days look for the easy way out by attaching themselves to any guy that winks at them. They expect allowances and benefits for doing what? For being a girlfriend. It's sad.

Fountainofyouth post:


Dude we have 1980s cars that are still brand new,[b] they still make these cars [/b]and they are more expensive than what we have now, they are called vintage cars in case you lack knowledge on that, and there are 2020s cars that some people have bought and overused and are willing to sell right now, use these analogy on the rubbish you typed.

Biafrareform:
Good morning all, for those still awake.

I think my relationship just ended. Something we both cherish.

Well, months back my ex and I came back together. We had a bliss relationship while in our final year, but I wasn't committed at all and she knew it and left. Back then in school she kept going to my phone and of course she do see things to talk about .

After 1 year of being apart, I needed a committed relationship cos I wanted to settle down. She came to my mind and the feelings was so strong even though I tried to resist it. We finally met and resolved all issues that led to her leaving .

Is been the sweetest memory we have had so far. Everything was going fine. She is a nice and sweet girl. Our agenda is marriage and she is aware. She fits perfectly to my ideal woman. Our emotional and spiritual connection is just perfect.

Well, things take a turn when I went to her phone and saw stuff that knocked me out. What really got me mad was her dating a married man. My emotion was dead. She said the relationship is in the past. She was forced to go into it after she left school. Her mum forced her into it when she stopped caring for her and asked her to go fend for herself. Then we weren't together. She confessed to becoming someone else from who I knew when I didn't tried to bring her back. But she is not a bad as I think , she concluded .

I also saw her chat with someone where she sent a bedroom pics she took in my house. She said she is just flirting with him (they have a fling) but that I should give her time, she is going to completely cut of tiers with them.

Well, I love her was ready to stay with her.
She was around again this Val and was tempted to check again and noticed she is still communicating with the married man. Infact I noticed they met lately in January. I locked up , and decided that is over. Didn't talk to her about it.

We went out for on Saturday. She is the type that hardly post on Facebook. Infact she has reduced my activities on Facebook. Her reason, our lives shouldn't be on social media.
I uploaded our outing on WhatsApp. She did too, but didn't upload the one we took together. Yea, she hasn't done that b4. I was angry and voiced out what I saw in her phone. Accused her of deliberately hiding us from her contacts.
She apologised and told me she isn't doing anything with the man again. Just the normal chat cos of the friendship they have had b4 . She even handed her phone to me to call him and end it if I want . I wasn't taking any of that cos I saw from her browsing history where she is been searching how to make a married man fall in love and spend on her but didn't let her know of it.
She pleaded that nothing is happening between them again. Then she begged that I should stopped going to her phone that is destroying us. That if I ended up destroying this relationship, where do I want her to start.

She is back to her base and we chatted last nite and she brought up the case of me going to her phone again and I was angry with that and told her about the browsing history too.

She was completely devastated with my findings.
Is lengthy right, sorry about that. This is a relationship we both cherished and I know she love me real good. Ohh, I forgot to tell you, she bought me a native dress and sent 6k to me from her 33k NYSC allawee. She is a good girl. She is nice and caring. I love this girl real good. Never loved anyone like this before.

But I don't know what has really gone wrong with her. I was determined to really make this right, but as it stand now, it seems dead to me and I am sure she also feels same too.

I should have stayed away from her phone. But guys, is not my fault, I love this girl and I am serious about it.

Illuminated993:
I went through the same episode around September 2018, the op is going through now. You know that scenario where you do good and Invested your best in a relationship, then the girl decides she doesn't need you anymore. The experience made me re evaluate the concept of relationship, and I decided never to be responsible fully or partially for whoever I'm in a relationship with. But then, you admonished me to do good, and I'm just thinking about what you wrote. I'd love to read more from you, since you said there's so much about me to talk about. Peace profound.

Tunext12:

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female may tell me more

Biafrareform:
Good morning all, for those still awake.

I think my relationship just ended. Something we both cherish.

Well, months back my ex and I came back together. We had a bliss relationship while in our final year, but I wasn't committed at all and she knew it and left. Back then in school she kept going to my phone and of course she do see things to talk about .

After 1 year of being apart, I needed a committed relationship cos I wanted to settle down. She came to my mind and the feelings was so strong even though I tried to resist it. We finally met and resolved all issues that led to her leaving .

Is been the sweetest memory we have had so far. Everything was going fine. She is a nice and sweet girl. Our agenda is marriage and she is aware. She fits perfectly to my ideal woman. Our emotional and spiritual connection is just perfect.

Well, things take a turn when I went to her phone and saw stuff that knocked me out. What really got me mad was her dating a married man. My emotion was dead. She said the relationship is in the past. She was forced to go into it after she left school. Her mum forced her into it when she stopped caring for her and asked her to go fend for herself. Then we weren't together. She confessed to becoming someone else from who I knew when I didn't tried to bring her back. But she is not a bad as I think , she concluded .

I also saw her chat with someone where she sent a bedroom pics she took in my house. She said she is just flirting with him (they have a fling) but that I should give her time, she is going to completely cut of tiers with them.

Well, I love her was ready to stay with her.
She was around again this Val and was tempted to check again and noticed she is still communicating with the married man. Infact I noticed they met lately in January. I locked up , and decided that is over. Didn't talk to her about it.

We went out for on Saturday. She is the type that hardly post on Facebook. Infact she has reduced my activities on Facebook. Her reason, our lives shouldn't be on social media.
I uploaded our outing on WhatsApp. She did too, but didn't upload the one we took together. Yea, she hasn't done that b4. I was angry and voiced out what I saw in her phone. Accused her of deliberately hiding us from her contacts.
She apologised and told me she isn't doing anything with the man again. Just the normal chat cos of the friendship they have had b4 . She even handed her phone to me to call him and end it if I want . I wasn't taking any of that cos I saw from her browsing history where she is been searching how to make a married man fall in love and spend on her but didn't let her know of it.
She pleaded that nothing is happening between them again. Then she begged that I should stopped going to her phone that is destroying us. That if I ended up destroying this relationship, where do I want her to start.

She is back to her base and we chatted last nite and she brought up the case of me going to her phone again and I was angry with that and told her about the browsing history too.

She was completely devastated with my findings.
Is lengthy right, sorry about that. This is a relationship we both cherished and I know she love me real good. Ohh, I forgot to tell you, she bought me a native dress and sent 6k to me from her 33k NYSC allawee. She is a good girl. She is nice and caring. I love this girl real good. Never loved anyone like this before.

But I don't know what has really gone wrong with her. I was determined to really make this right, but as it stand now, it seems dead to me and I am sure she also feels same too.

I should have stayed away from her phone. But guys, is not my fault, I love this girl and I am serious about it.

safarigirl:
I am a nice 21 and have NEVER had a sexual partner, say what you know, don't regurgitate bullshit propaganda spread throughout the bars that most of you irresponsible men frequent.

Do you think it is everybody that goes out everyday to meet people that they will sleep with under the guise of 'relationship'?

I don't know who you have met or been talking to, but I will not be lumped into this nonsense statistic most of you have readily spread about to justify your inability to find decent human beings.

We are at home, you don't find us on the streets, we exist. So, please, say what you know. It Is these 20-year old girls that married men have finished screwing some of you will end up with, because that is what you really deserve.

Biafrareform:
Good morning all, for those still awake.

I think my relationship just ended. Something we both cherish.

Well, months back my ex and I came back together. We had a bliss relationship while in our final year, but I wasn't committed at all and she knew it and left. Back then in school she kept going to my phone and of course she do see things to talk about .

After 1 year of being apart, I needed a committed relationship cos I wanted to settle down. She came to my mind and the feelings was so strong even though I tried to resist it. We finally met and resolved all issues that led to her leaving .

Is been the sweetest memory we have had so far. Everything was going fine. She is a nice and sweet girl. Our agenda is marriage and she is aware. She fits perfectly to my ideal woman. Our emotional and spiritual connection is just perfect.

Well, things take a turn when I went to her phone and saw stuff that knocked me out. What really got me mad was her dating a married man. My emotion was dead. She said the relationship is in the past. She was forced to go into it after she left school. Her mum forced her into it when she stopped caring for her and asked her to go fend for herself. Then we weren't together. She confessed to becoming someone else from who I knew when I didn't tried to bring her back. But she is not a bad as I think , she concluded .

I also saw her chat with someone where she sent a bedroom pics she took in my house. She said she is just flirting with him (they have a fling) but that I should give her time, she is going to completely cut of tiers with them.

Well, I love her was ready to stay with her.
She was around again this Val and was tempted to check again and noticed she is still communicating with the married man. Infact I noticed they met lately in January. I locked up , and decided that is over. Didn't talk to her about it.

We went out for on Saturday. She is the type that hardly post on Facebook. Infact she has reduced my activities on Facebook. Her reason, our lives shouldn't be on social media.
I uploaded our outing on WhatsApp. She did too, but didn't upload the one we took together. Yea, she hasn't done that b4. I was angry and voiced out what I saw in her phone. Accused her of deliberately hiding us from her contacts.
She apologised and told me she isn't doing anything with the man again. Just the normal chat cos of the friendship they have had b4 . She even handed her phone to me to call him and end it if I want . I wasn't taking any of that cos I saw from her browsing history where she is been searching how to make a married man fall in love and spend on her but didn't let her know of it.
She pleaded that nothing is happening between them again. Then she begged that I should stopped going to her phone that is destroying us. That if I ended up destroying this relationship, where do I want her to start.

She is back to her base and we chatted last nite and she brought up the case of me going to her phone again and I was angry with that and told her about the browsing history too.

She was completely devastated with my findings.
Is lengthy right, sorry about that. This is a relationship we both cherished and I know she love me real good. Ohh, I forgot to tell you, she bought me a native dress and sent 6k to me from her 33k NYSC allawee. She is a good girl. She is nice and caring. I love this girl real good. Never loved anyone like this before.

But I don't know what has really gone wrong with her. I was determined to really make this right, but as it stand now, it seems dead to me and I am sure she also feels same too.

I should have stayed away from her phone. But guys, is not my fault, I love this girl and I am serious about it.

Biafrareform:
Good morning all, for those still awake.

I think my relationship just ended. Something we both cherish.

Well, months back my ex and I came back together. We had a bliss relationship while in our final year, but I wasn't committed at all and she knew it and left. Back then in school she kept going to my phone and of course she do see things to talk about .

After 1 year of being apart, I needed a committed relationship cos I wanted to settle down. She came to my mind and the feelings was so strong even though I tried to resist it. We finally met and resolved all issues that led to her leaving .

Is been the sweetest memory we have had so far. Everything was going fine. She is a nice and sweet girl. Our agenda is marriage and she is aware. She fits perfectly to my ideal woman. Our emotional and spiritual connection is just perfect.

Well, things take a turn when I went to her phone and saw stuff that knocked me out. What really got me mad was her dating a married man. My emotion was dead. She said the relationship is in the past. She was forced to go into it after she left school. Her mum forced her into it when she stopped caring for her and asked her to go fend for herself. Then we weren't together. She confessed to becoming someone else from who I knew when I didn't tried to bring her back. But she is not a bad as I think , she concluded .

I also saw her chat with someone where she sent a bedroom pics she took in my house. She said she is just flirting with him (they have a fling) but that I should give her time, she is going to completely cut of tiers with them.

Well, I love her was ready to stay with her.
She was around again this Val and was tempted to check again and noticed she is still communicating with the married man. Infact I noticed they met lately in January. I locked up , and decided that is over. Didn't talk to her about it.

We went out for on Saturday. She is the type that hardly post on Facebook. Infact she has reduced my activities on Facebook. Her reason, our lives shouldn't be on social media.
I uploaded our outing on WhatsApp. She did too, but didn't upload the one we took together. Yea, she hasn't done that b4. I was angry and voiced out what I saw in her phone. Accused her of deliberately hiding us from her contacts.
She apologised and told me she isn't doing anything with the man again. Just the normal chat cos of the friendship they have had b4 . She even handed her phone to me to call him and end it if I want . I wasn't taking any of that cos I saw from her browsing history where she is been searching how to make a married man fall in love and spend on her but didn't let her know of it.
She pleaded that nothing is happening between them again. Then she begged that I should stopped going to her phone that is destroying us. That if I ended up destroying this relationship, where do I want her to start.

She is back to her base and we chatted last nite and she brought up the case of me going to her phone again and I was angry with that and told her about the browsing history too.

She was completely devastated with my findings.
Is lengthy right, sorry about that. This is a relationship we both cherished and I know she love me real good. Ohh, I forgot to tell you, she bought me a native dress and sent 6k to me from her 33k NYSC allawee. She is a good girl. She is nice and caring. I love this girl real good. Never loved anyone like this before.

But I don't know what has really gone wrong with her. I was determined to really make this right, but as it stand now, it seems dead to me and I am sure she also feels same too.

I should have stayed away from her phone. But guys, is not my fault, I love this girl and I am serious about it.