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Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by ebonge1: 10:03pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
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Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Davepal: 10:04pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Ask your father very well. Which clan does she come from ? If you guys are of the same clan, then it's advisable not to marry her. Every community in Igbo land has a clan. A community might be up to 4 to 5 clans, more or less. Clan is a lineage of the same family spread within villages of the same community. I had similar experience, but i was discourage by the girl's mother. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Namdeenero(m): 10:05pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
It will end in tears 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by bishop4life(m): 10:05pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
MorataFC: Which God? Whatever you bind on earth is bound in heaven. Do not be deceived, "You are gods". Those are exerpts from the Bible. |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by solsticey2k3(m): 10:05pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
My brother, seek the intervention of the most High God so He can direct you accordingly 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Amanda4life: 10:06pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Mandem12: Oga please don't go against tradition. just as your father said both of you are like blood relation. Please don't marry her 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by oshiiteoku: 10:06pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Pls let her go,she won't die,time heals every wound,dont do something that will make you an object of discussion and jest forever in your town,both of you will eventually resent each other,the consequences are too numerous please for the sake of your unborn children,let her go and find someone else and you too. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by mercy87(f): 10:07pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
People no dey read? She is not his sister so how can it be incest? They're just from the same village. Igbos just too get tradition abeg. From osu now this! 15 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by TemmyT002(m): 10:07pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
This is deep o Married people with experience have advised that it is not wise to ignore the elders like your parents when it comes to marriage. If you can do all the wedding stuffs yourself, go and do it and marry her jare If we are all children of Eve and Adam, are we all committing incest? If there is no proof that she is directly related to you, marry the girl jor |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Reelmii: 10:07pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
youthful exorbitant... continue arguing with ur ancestors very soon u will argue with ur balls 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Nobody: 10:07pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Mandem12: Aru... Amadioha kugbue gi. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Jms85(m): 10:08pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
pls bro...I advise u obey ur dad/ppl.....most marriages lyk dese end in disasters.. try talk to ur gir l to see reasons.... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Ikjosh04: 10:08pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
michlins: Hey, you don't entirely understand what the op implies with his write up. That same tradition exist in my village and its not as if all of us in the village/quarter's are related. When I asked my grandmum she said our fore forefathers that's more than 1000yrs ago settled in that village as siblings and they keep procreating, so we're all related in one way or the other. @op, if you ask me. I feel the tradition is thrash. If you know you're successful, a Christian and you are sure you won't need the help(in terms of politics, investment and other needs that may arise in the future) of your village people or community for anything in life or better still you are planning to leave Nigeria for good. Then you can go ahead and marry the girl. What's the parents of the girl saying? 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Nobody: 10:08pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
mercy87: Just shut and stop commenting on what you're Ignorant of. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by seunak2016: 10:08pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
sacx:ur poiint?how is that related to advice op needed |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Mathiasa(m): 10:08pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
U dated for 4yrs and u never asked her where she's from abi? What exactly were u guys always discoursing all this while? Abeg I don't believe this story. 10 Likes
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Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Strika22(m): 10:09pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
MorataFC: So indulging in incest is not against God 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Nickshrapnel: 10:11pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
How are you guys related, is it because you came from the same village? |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Samofamo: 10:12pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Hear your mama hear your papa,life go better for you... |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by sloo1: 10:12pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
That is incestuous marriage. It is abomination in most cultures both within and outside Nigeria. Do not yield to that and cease having sexual relationship with your sister. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Mandem12: 10:12pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Mathiasa:I knew we were from the same village but didn't know about the tradition 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Ishilove: 10:12pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Mandem12:Historically the two of you share a common ancestor, which makes her your relation. While this may have been permitted in some religious books, culturally it is a taboo in some areas like yours. Let her go and don't mess with things you cannot understand. Love is blind, love is powerful, love is sweet, but na inside marriage eye dey clear. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by israelmao(m): 10:12pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Love is stronger than death,I can see you love this girl genuinely but I will not advise you to go against your father's stand rather find ways you can make him and his kinmen understand by asking some questions about your family descent to probably see how remotely related you are with girl's family.Modernity is obscuring some set of traditions nowadays for the new ways of life.Don't force your way through it, apply wisdom in making them see good reasons,who knows whether you could be the first exemption to the rule.Good luck. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Tonyspecial(m): 10:13pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Mandem12:follow ur heart, forget about what people say |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Blisplendor12(f): 10:13pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
If you guys are related just like your father said, don't try marrying her because even God will blame you 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by pocohantas(f): 10:13pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Any Nigerian lady that marries a man against his family’s wish is not very realistic. If a woman’s family doesn’t like a man, he will survive as she is the one coming into his and women will most likely put their home/marriage before family. If a man’s family doesn’t like you, you will most likely not survive it as a woman. It is only a matter of time, he will bend to his family’s will. I have no problem with you, I have a problem with the girl that doesn’t know what she is getting into. Controversial marriage background + non-support of in laws = ticking time bomb. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by SoNature(m): 10:13pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
72Morale: The emboldened is false Love is the foundation of marriage Perhaps you have never experienced it before Although many factors matter in marriage, love is the fulcrum OP, don't marry her. You guys should see less of each other until you finally move on. Don't get the poor girl into trouble in the name of love. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by YorubaLord: 10:14pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Okoro tradition na wah ooo. Savages & Cannibals everywhere ![]() |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by YorubaLord: 10:15pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
pocohantas: 2 Likes
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Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by FreebiesGRAM: 10:16pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Thank your star you havent done blood oat... 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by mercy87(f): 10:16pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
MelesZenawi: Gtfoh idiat and compound Buffon. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by sacx: 10:16pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
seunak2016: Are you the OP? No? The door! |
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