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Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by lilyheaven: 11:30pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
It's a pity that you don't know your culture. You are lucky your father asked, . I used to have this close friend since 2009, I just found out last two weeks she is my sister. Please don't go against your father. You have found your sister, praise God! 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Obason22(m): 11:30pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
The reason I'm laughing is cos u are chikini idiot, ur father told u that both of u are relatives and I believe that it might be very close one which suggest that even ur kinsmen will be worried abt u getting married to ur blood sister, now u want to put d blame on Igbo tradition, nwokem. better chill and listen to voice of elder. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Hahjascho(m): 11:31pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
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Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Neroiam(m): 11:31pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Arabiandude: Sorry you would've lost all your money and gone broke/bankrupt. I'm sure if you were younger, you probably won't make such a bet. That saying "what an elder sees sitting down, a child can't see climbing an iroko tree" was coined from experience. Oh! Are you expecting me to take advises from an old man with grey hair who's a failure? If I must reiterate, wisdom doesn't come with age. But experience, well ..okay! Now, if you're not well grounded in a subject matter, you'll only learn from experience which isn't always the best. Jesus lived only 33+ years but he could taught elders. He will often ask them.. Have you not read? Matt 19:4 Bros, the volume of info in my head, people who have lived a 100years don't have it. Study to show yourself approved unto God, a workman that need not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth. 2Tim 2:15 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Ibrahiimo(m): 11:32pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Wetin CUCUMBER no go see What is LOVE? if I may ask Does love exist? Lust exist and not love. Love this Love that, People will not hear word Nonsense And Ingredients |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by entreprelaptop(m): 11:32pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Lastly it may be unwise but true love is rare ..if you think she meet your expectations in a wife...impregnate her...and the rest would history-- don't be cowed..be a man for once |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by fk002: 11:34pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
I know it must be Igbo tradition. This type of thing happens only in the east |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Reelmii: 11:37pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
eni4real:thank u jare, no mind that boy |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by lilyheaven: 11:37pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Airtimex: How can you say whites are better lovers? Yet they are divorcing @ every nonsense issues. African love is unique, we are special 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by lilyheaven: 11:39pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Airtimex: How can you say whites are better lovers? Yet they are divorcing @ every nonsense issues. entreprelaptop: entreprelaptop: entreprelaptop:I hope you will be there for him when the fire will start razing? You are asking him to impregnate her 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Nobody: 11:40pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Animator407:How much? But why your phone number get space na? |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by nnaeyes6: 11:40pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Neroiam: All things won't be explained in the bible for u. In Genesis 2 God made man, he created THEM male and female. Cain married in the city of Nod after God Chased him away from the garden of Eden. However, because people were not much those days, people married their cousins. Abraham married Sarah his step sister. Isaac married his cousin. Esau married his distance cousin. Jacob married his cousin. But as the world kept enlarging, there became need to stop marriages related by blood because of the problems associated to it. Example is hemorrhage, which simply means "none clothing of the blood." It is normally referred to as the disease of the crown. When u read more of the CROWN of England, Russia and Germany, u will understand that these countries kings and queens married themselves and became cousins before the outbreak of the first World War. The only son of the last king of Russia, king Nicholas 2 had hemorrhage because he married Alexandra, the daughter of Queen of England who was his cousin. Please stay away from ur ikwu. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Neroiam(m): 11:42pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
idonhammer: Quite a sad one.. Unfortunately, these traditions may have been sworn by the ancestors of a community with precise penalties to defaulters. As long as this deities are still being worshipped, the effect would always be there. Sir, i tell you this; if he was serving God, he wouldn't be a victim of that stupid tradition. Exodus 23:25, So you shall serve the LORD your God, and He will bless your bread and your water. And I will take sickness away from the midst of you. He's the architect of his own sad fate. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by jaxxy(m): 11:45pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Mandem12: First off love is not a do it die affair, if it doesn't work I'm 100% sure u wud find 50 other gals like her of better only if u know how to go about it so dont get carried away. I'm not saying she's not special, everybody is unique in their own way. Secondly ur tradition affects u when u are attached to it or when u stay with people attached to it. It's like a belief system.. So u can't marry that gal aslong as u plan to live in this country. Just let her go and what are her parents saying also? They are not bothered about the tradition? If they are not good bt ur own parents are to it's still a major issue. I don't really believe in tradition bt this is my 2cents based on the scenario. It's too much of a headache to go in. U need peace in ur family not unncesary issues cos u must marry sm gal at all costs. Finally the 2 families shud consult and decide or get ur church involved. Also the fact she asked u to do a blood oat gives me the creeps, seems she’s known what she’s doing all along and trying to hook by all means. Cud be innocent bt seems more like sinister. Leave that gal alone. It’s too complicated and maybe detrimental. There are a thousand other gals out there I promise u. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by EgunMogaji2: 11:47pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Oga, please follow your own intuition. Village girl or not, it may or not be the best thing that happens to you. Don’t allow tradition or parents to be involved in your life choices. My children shouldn’t bother me with such trivialities as choosing a mate. Good luck. |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by PerfectlyPerfect(m): 11:48pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
mercy87:From the post, they're distant relatives. |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Herrmes: 11:49pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
priscaoge:You’re talking about roots with one mouth and talking about the bible with the other, what does ones roots have to do with the bible. I don’t know any wise men that aren’t driven by accomplishments, you cannot sit in the village and claim to be a wise man, and want people to listen to you when you haven’t impacted your neighbourhood positively, what part are you playing in moving your community forward, wise my foot. Shut the f-ck up as long as he mans up there will be no consequence, if I didn’t know better I would say you would want him to fail so you can say you told him so, foh. |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Nobody: 11:49pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Why didn't you ask yourselves all these before taking it too far? For.me the first thing I'll ask is where you're from. If you happen to come from my state Ill go ahead and ask your local government to be sure. But these days once you fancy each other the only thing you focus on is sex, sex ,sex... And now this... I'll advise you leave her before you land yourself into an abominable act which may not be funny. Traveling out cannot save you from the consequences of your actions. You're still going to lose each other anyways and even in a deadly manner if you decide to go into it cos no one openly goes into incest and escapes the consequences. So its better to lose her in a peaceful way. And stop asking why the Igbo tradition is like that. Its been there ever before you existed. Owun ne gbu nwa nkita na kpochi ya nti. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Neroiam(m): 11:50pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
nnaeyes6: Study and ask the Holy Spirit to teach you and reveal to you the misery behind this subject matter. God only created Adam and then Eve from Adam's rib. We're all descendants of this two. Meditate on Job 14:1 too ..you'll be glad what you'll find. |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Neroiam(m): 11:51pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
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Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by uzohrome(m): 11:51pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
See this one ooh, you wan to marry your sister abi. Dont try it brother, your father must support your marriage because it comes with massive blessings that will go after you to your unborn children. Love gbakwoku. Tell her the reasons and love her like a sister and let also see you as brother. I have such situation with my cousin, we were so close to each other but no immoral things to the extent that any time my gf comes she will be mad at me. But I have to talk sense to her and avoid her for like one year and she regain her senses. Like in my place, we do not marry from the same clan. but we can marry from the same village but a distant clan. Take your dad advice and avoid her. Love is stupid to reality and if you follow the stupidity of love you will miss the important stuff associated with life and well-being. Also stop having s*x with her. That's nsoala, sacrilege because you have root. Remember what makes the love so strong is because of the same relation blood that runs in you guys veins. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by nnaeyes6: 11:52pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Mandem12:U are from the same village does not make both of u siblings. Ur father should explain to u what he meant. I believe that he meant ikwu. Besides, for u to believe that because u are from same village with the girl, both of u are now siblings, portrays u are still a kid. Please keep off from marriage until u understand what ur father meant. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Neroiam(m): 11:53pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
AshiraWealthy: Madam, who is meting the consequences? |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Nobody: 11:54pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Neroiam: Shey I resemble oracle ni? |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by uzohrome(m): 11:54pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Neroiam: Watin this one dey talk na. Adam and who... Then propose to your mum na 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by nnaeyes6: 11:54pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Neroiam:Am not here to argue with u on the bible. I gave u a place to read and I also told u where Cain married from and not his sister. Please kindly refer to ur Bible Genesis chapter 1 to Genesis chapter 10 and know of how this world came about. Please |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Imustreturn(m): 11:55pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
You will become an OSU |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Alwaysachick: 11:57pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
tobstarizhia: She doesn't believe in tradition but blood oath. 23 and so desperate? Red flags 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Badgers14: 11:57pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Do you know the interesting thing... If OP have met this girl abroad and they got married... no one will mention all this village people stuffs |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Neroiam(m): 11:59pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
nnaeyes6: Tell me.. Who were the inhabitants of Nod since God only created Adam and Eve? Is like na you create them na.. Go and read jor! Study to show yourself approved Don't be coming here to tell me to read Gen 1-10 that i have been reading since 3decades now and no much facts as regards this subject matter. |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by slam7000(m): 12:01am On Feb 22, 2020 |
MorataFC: Marrying your blood relationship is frowned up in many cultures. That can not be against God. In my town, I’m Igbo, people from same ‘umunna’ kinsmen are biologically linked. This is a huge extended family...same great great great grand parents. This is not recorded in any technological data but they have a smart way of investigating and finding out your link. If such practice is strong in your place, it’s advisable to honour that. Let that girl go. Don’t be a rebel. It might bite both of you in the bum. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Neroiam(m): 12:01am On Feb 22, 2020 |
AshiraWealthy: Oracle my foot.. So u believe in fetish? And not God? |
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