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Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by gazilion: 3:40am On Feb 23, 2020 |
Girlwhocares: I feel for you really! I can only pray for you. Don't go the way of Divorce. The reproach, the stigma and the consequences are much. God hates divorce!! Are you born again? Are you a believer?? |
Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by Nobody: 4:04am On Feb 23, 2020 |
Girlwhocares: I told this to one of my friends back in university, she took my word for it, and it worked for her. Sweetheart, your heart is big enough and can love whoever you choose as long as you put your mind to it. You are still holding on to the love of your ex, which is why you can't love your husband. Let go of that former love and embrace this new love that live has given you. You can always love someone new as long as they have the right qualities. And remember, as Christians, we should even love everyone just as God loves us. 1 Like |
Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by Obynolee(f): 4:10am On Feb 23, 2020 |
Girlwhocares: This is the result of marrying who is ready not whom you love which 95% of our girls are guilty of,secondly, how have you guys copping for the past three years?,what are the excuses you used to give to him when he wants to be intimate with you or are you saying that you guys were not sexually active before marriage?. If this story is true,you or both of you are cheating. Leave that man alone before you stab him and rot in jail. 2 Likes |
Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by Yalakatasa: 4:10am On Feb 23, 2020 |
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Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by nini007(m): 4:11am On Feb 23, 2020 |
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Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by Kingugo100: 4:14am On Feb 23, 2020 |
No sex for 3 years madam you're getting it outside. To be honest that husband if yours is either an angel or a big time mumu. Your village people has finally succeeded in destroying your life. You need spiritual help cos what you explained are sings of Spiritual husband. Go get yourself delivered cos believe me you're about to receive sense in the most humiliating way from your husband. He will wake up and by then, I rest my case..... |
Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by Dreal1247: 4:20am On Feb 23, 2020 |
Girlwhocares:I may not know your location, but I'm touched observing your sincerity and desperation to be a better wife. I believe that is a good starting point. If you are in Lagos, find your way to Mountain Of Fire And Miracles Ministries, International Headquarters, Yaba. Ask of the Happy Home counseling department. You will thank me later. You won't be compelled to become a member. Your case is both psychological and spiritual combined together. If you can't get there, send me a private message.God bless you. |
Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by nini007(m): 4:22am On Feb 23, 2020 |
Girlwhocares:This confirms zero love for the guy initially. You danced to your mother's tune. Mother's don't always know what's best for us, they can only guide or advice. Sit yourself down and think if you can ever get yourself to love this man, if you can then good. But if you can't, just set him and yourself free! If not both of you, one of you is cheating. I suspect you! |
Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by Obynolee(f): 4:32am On Feb 23, 2020 |
cococandy: So far she has avoided that question, "where are you getting your sex from" like a plague. 2 Likes |
Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by bobowaja(m): 4:50am On Feb 23, 2020 |
Obynolee:She is a cheat. Probably cheating with her so called Ex or someone with the Ex qualities. I can only blame that SIMP of a man for forcing his way into her life and also putting up with her bullsh!ts. Men like me will take a very long walk and never look back. 3 Likes |
Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by bigiyaro(m): 5:13am On Feb 23, 2020 |
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Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by Ikpongiton: 5:21am On Feb 23, 2020 |
Girlwhocares:there is an hospital that take care of mad women and those about to be mad.but i strongly recommend the one in port harcourt for you. 2 Likes |
Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by KangaIye: 5:23am On Feb 23, 2020 |
movement2020: So the Man she is tormenting happiness Doesn’t Matter 1 Like |
Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by Howellz(m): 5:26am On Feb 23, 2020 |
Madam,, You must be a witch with a very wicked Heart. |
Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by laiza(m): 5:36am On Feb 23, 2020 |
Girlwhocares:Madam there is nothing wrong with you. You must not love all men and marriage is not for everybody. If you really care for that man you will find him a young lady that can satisfy his sexual desires and you too may do the same should you guys want to continue to cohabit to raise your child, otherwise just respectfully walk out of the marriage. Your issue is psychological, emotional and that man doesn't deserve all the torment. Leave while there is still sanity so hatred and resentment will not set in his heart. I wish you all the best. 3 Likes |
Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by ProtectMyMoney: 5:37am On Feb 23, 2020 |
Girlwhocares: Oh....i wasn't wrong after all...i am 100% sure it is Whatsapp messages from this Ex above that is making you not be fully in your marriage. You can prove me wrong. Screenshot your whatsapp chats with this Ex, blot out any identifying details and let Nairalanders counsel you with facts. It is difficult to force love. You will only be pretending because you have not reset your brain that you are now married. You need to stop comparing your husband to your Ex bf if you want your situation to change. 3 Likes |
Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by toprealman: 5:39am On Feb 23, 2020 |
Girlwhocares:Your "friend zoning" lifestyle has caught up with you. Decend from your high horses madam......for your own good. Clearly your husband is having the best time of his life.....he cannot come and keel emsef |
Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by zexy2030(m): 5:41am On Feb 23, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:most women can't stay an average of 6months without sex based on these conditions 1. if she is healthy and living with her husband, what happens to days she ovulates, the engorged clitoris, even if she masturbates she is having sex. 2. if she's nt a full time career lady, though she is making her own money enough to cater for her own needs. 3. if she has been disvirgined and the broke up or the guy travelled out. Women, are full episode of what we call wo(rry)men. You must find men in their pain or pleasure, when I say men I mean sex. No b today I know say women love sex more than men. I was just 6 when 4grown ladies raped me, leaving me with a curved dick. so pls stop saying what u don't know, I kept a relationship of no sex for 9 yrs, we are far apart on different campuses. my girl friend told me she is learning some things that will help us in marriage, let me you what she was learning, practically different sex styles, she confessed later for me to forgive her, that she knew I'm a holy man, so something bad would not happen to her, when I found out, after knowing she wasn't a virgin, the room close to her room in ado ekiti was a girl steadily banging guys for money. so every night she hears moans of this girl and feels jealous. Not knowing she was feeling like having sex everynight. But she decided to be celibate. one night,she called a tall guy who she took as a son to stay with till day break she stays alone, just imagine what would have happened. I called one night about 12am she was busying my calls. Later she called back that a guy is disturbing that he wants to sleep in her house, so she went to sleep in the room with that lady that bangs every night. so sweetcunt97 stop saying some women stay long without fvck, its only true when she is a virgin or she was horribly circumcised but she is not circumcised and stay 3yrs without sex, it's a fallacy. 3 Likes |
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Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by oloripeter(m): 6:01am On Feb 23, 2020 |
[color=#990000][/color] open your heart and allow holy spirit of God to put you through |
Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by ityP(m): 6:07am On Feb 23, 2020 |
You're just not cut out for marriage. Even if you married that ex of yours, you wee still fall out of love. Just divorce this husband of yours and be single. You'd be happier, I promise you |
Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by 4ckz: 6:08am On Feb 23, 2020 |
Girlwhocares: Love is a decision, has always been, will always be, you have never decided to love him. And I can bet, the entirety of the problem is his looks, you might try to deny it, na you sabi, I have a lot of female friends (even married ones) and I know how much looks mean to them. In life you don't get all you want, you sacrifice the lesser want for the greater want, but you, I can bet you want his personality with the looks of your 15 yr ol ex. YOU ARE VERY WICKED AND SELFISH. 6 Likes |
Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by ityP(m): 6:10am On Feb 23, 2020 |
4ckz: No long talk bro. You're very correct. Na him looks be the problem. All this talk na okoto meow skrrr skrr 2 Likes |
Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by 4ckz: 6:16am On Feb 23, 2020 |
ityP: Anyone who have related with women well enough will know it's the looks. They never admit it, sometimes they won't even admit it to their selves. When ever I hear things like, "that guy is good, but I don't love him", I don know say the guy worwor 4 Likes |
Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by Christmasdon(m): 6:18am On Feb 23, 2020 |
op your problems started from your school days, you always come first position in class but you never ask questions. That is where your problems started from. Meanwhile, this your problem is just a small case, see what you do, bring your child come close and sleep on his laps. play love with him, tell him truths, like i am so sorry. bite his ear, throw pillows at him. |
Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by martowskin1(m): 6:18am On Feb 23, 2020 |
Girlwhocares: U are psychologically attached to ur first BF. But in all reality, it might not be greener as u think. To be fair to ur husband, why not sit down with him , discus this issue with him, u can't deal with it alone, both of you should see the marriage counselor together When things will be done on u, is when this marriage eventually come to an end |
Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by Omar09(m): 6:20am On Feb 23, 2020 |
philip0906: Until you understand “Attraction” of men and women, you will still find what you bolded at my comment strange. If you checked very well, you will see I blamed her very well for her part in ruining the young man's life “.... You will be labeled a bad person cause you deserve it”. Most marriages today is by force. Either the man is forcing himself on her or the woman is forcing herself to love him. |
Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by ityP(m): 6:20am On Feb 23, 2020 |
4ckz: It's easy to sense this tbh. And as u said, she's probably even deceiving herself that that's not it. Deep down, that is the problem. She should just let the guy go. This marriage is dead already |
Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by annyberry: 6:21am On Feb 23, 2020 |
Dere are so many unmarried ladies out dere,b kind to move out and stop blocking some else luck wit ur husband............ U better work on ursef first bfor working on ur marriage...... Bless ur soul dat ur husband is d patience type oda men would av returned u back to ur parents house..........u better b guided 1 Like |
Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by ityP(m): 6:22am On Feb 23, 2020 |
Omar09: The moment you realize that love plays only a very minute fraction in marriage, the better for you. Even if she married that ex she claims to love, this same woman would not be satisfied. Las las, marriage is not for everybody and clearly, it isn't for this lady |
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