funmisticqueen2:
His insecure antics are killing that love real fast.

I pity her, truly. For the Future bullshit she's going to have to put up with in the marriage with her HIV positive manchild.

SoftChordz:
Ma'am I believe he told her about his HIV status and she accepted it, one thing with most women is that they like to hold something above their partners head. So now she playing the "he's a HIV carrier" card, its all good. its not about insecurity its all about insurance for both parties, she can get her lawyer to include her lines too into it. No harms no foul, in her thoughts shed be like he supposed to be glad and worship me for accepting his HIV azz, well we're human. its a simple stuff, just sign the prenup and get on with ur marriage. Prenup doesn't affect love unless there's an ulterior motive, if she truly loves him which I vehemently doubt she wouldn't give two fvcks about the prenup because she's getting the one she lobes with all her heart.
But no ooooooo she's probably thinking I've got to dump this fvcker along the way and have half or some of his properties and shitt.
You females are the most dangerous and cunning beings ever, y'all have mastered the art of emotional blackmail and turning the table around that it comes off naturally.
If u truly love me why would you bring a prenup? emotional blackmail, The Russian mogul that married Janet Jackson would have been happier if he had her sign one, Steve Harvey, oh and the almighty one Tiger Woods...yes he cheated but should he lose 150 million dollars of his sweat, blood and tears just because he fvcked other bitchess?! its unfairly cruel. Only fools are going to fall with u females cute eyes, baby faces when y'all trying to emotionally manipulate a man to do ur bidding or set himself up.
kudos to the groom. he should stand his ground.
If that's insecurity on his part so that means she's trying to get financial security for herself in the future. One thing I'm sure of is she doesn't love that mofoka and hopefully he gets to see it too (I think he's getting/got whiff of it already).

One thing I know is the guy must be financially well to do, very rich or from a wealthy family if only she can be honest. OP am I wrong? @casalinda

funmisticqueen2:
read her stories from the beginning. She knew that he was HIV positive, but still wants to go ahead and be with him. He has tried many times to dump her but she still held on. We've also advised her against marrying him here online. No matter what, she is still putting her health at risk by marrying him.So please find out more before you come to this conclusion.

funmisticqueen2:
the op has posted previous stories in the past. She found out that the guy is HIV positive, but despite our advice here on NL not to go ahead, She still wants to marry him. Now the man is feeling insecure because he's rich and thinks it's because of the money.

ngozi20:





Ok. I understand, maybe she is confused. Being HIV positive is not a death sentence in 2020. As a nurse, I personally know many people that take their medication and the disease is sometimes undetectable. I'm sure these medications are in Nigeria!

SoftChordz:
She agreed to it and its not a favour, you probably think she's doing him a solid favour huh? She knows the risk involved, now it gets interesting why will she still hold unto him even when he's got HIV and was trying to dump her? dude must be a money train, I've seen money generate more motivation. Its has to do with his finance, her eyes are on the price and finally the dude is trying to cut her access to it off. Now I understand, how many ladies are willing to risk their lives for an average Joe? in the name of love nowadays? almost zilch but for the financial prospect?! hell yeah brizzle will sleep with goats, marry cows and fvck pigs for the right price.
She's in for the financial gain and the groom can see it but not too sure pray tell he went for a prenup.
Ma'am she's not doing him a favour in any freaking way.

funmisticqueen2:
She is doing him a favor, because no normal healthy woman will accept a HIV positive suitor except she is HIV positive, or she is stupidly in love him. Let him try to get another woman na!!


Infact, he better expose his status to his entire family and friends and hers too, let's see if people will still want them to marry.

funmisticqueen2:
But it is still putting your life And health at risk because she loves the man. The man will never do the same thing for her, let's not lie. You are a nurse, good, because I am a doctor. Have you taken PEP before? How much is your hazard allowance?

Do you know the sleepless nights one has to go through just because a person (e.g a health worker) has to take PEP for a month, not to talk of the stigma they would go through when people in the workplace find out he/she is HIV positive.

Not to talk of people who are not health savvy.

There's still stigma surrounding HIV.

biGDhAp:
sign the damn thing already .. it's just for precaution, so one day whe. you wanna up and leave him, you sweep away half his property with divorce

Cuteamigo1:
I read it doesn't matter this days because with a smart lawyer you can find your around it and still take half. I don't know how true it is sha

angelfallz:
So prenups are needed in Nigeria?

Casalinda:


I would never do that

funmisticqueen2:
He wants it to be based on monetary gains. That's on him, not you. he refuses to see that you love him. He now sees you as desperate. That's why he is misbehaving.

That you love him doesn't mean you will tolerate his bad behavior. Pls consider my proposal and factor it in.

Either that, or two of you tear your prenups

kkins25:
hello fumi, considering that money could be what is fueling her love, isn't it only plausible that the guy takes precautions?
surely, as both of us know, men can pretend to love until they have achieved their goal which is to bleep a girl so also can a woman love a man until she has achieved her goal which of course is getting some of the cake.

I'm not saying explicitly that her love is just for the money, but if he hadn't the money would she still love him so?
dont forget, we've only heard her on version.

funmisticqueen2:
did you read her previous stories? I no longer think money is fueling her love

ngozi20:


LMFAO!!!! Men are wising up oo.

Casalinda:



Thanks. I will put that on the table.

Cuteamigo1:
I read it doesn't matter this days because with a smart lawyer you can find your around it and still take half. I don't know how true it is sha

angelfallz:


Under which laws are prenups needed? I'm not aware of any laws in Nigeria that requires prenups

ngozi20:



I don't think it's required but it's the person absolute right to ask the spouse to sign one in this country. Either a person sign or they don't. It's personal preference.

AkuOlisa:
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Op I have read your posts and will like you to answer this question as truthfully as your life.

In the name of all that is holy and truthful Will you still love him as you claim if he is to lose all is wealth (money,properties,investments and so on) ?

Would you be in love with him if he is earning let's say 70k a month and still HIV positive ?

Be very careful with your answer. Because God will hold you to your words.

angelfallz:

The reason why western countries practice prenuptial agreements is because if there isn't one the state can give half/more than half of what the man owns to the woman and vice-versa if the woman is rich.
Do we practice such laws where the man losses half/more than half of what he owns to the woman in a divorce?

oluwaseyi000:
What do you have to loose my signing the prenup

funmisticqueen2:
that's a manipulative tactic used by insecure or narcissistic men. Tell him that if he loves you, he should sign your prenup too.