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Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by ubunja(m): 4:06pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
I'm a baby daddy. And so are some of my friends. But the one thing we all are doing is that we are still fvcking our baby mamas. It won't stop anytime soon. Bro When you love a single mother just know the baby daddy is still sleeping with her, unless he's dead or in prison. I'm just keeping it 100 with you. Cause you Nairaland boys are still living a fantasy. 58 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Igetmyown247: 4:07pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
You don’t hit a child, there are many ways to make them listen. All he needs is love and care. if you can’t give him those then you’re not in the best place to discipline him. Imagine if you birthed that child , how will you feel if someone was abusing him? 2 Likes |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Nobody: 4:07pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
ubunja:Yet they take emotions into consideration. What made him snap? Why is he aggressive to women? Or calm in the face of danger? Aren't those emotions? You add the numbers together after getting the pieces of the jigsaw. If we were so simple to solve, why do we act differently in the same situation? Ubunja, you are calm when trolled, but others aren't. Why? 1+1 equals 2. In the case of humans, the answer can be 8 or 156 or unknown... 2 Likes |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Nobody: 4:10pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:That's what i meant. His single mom pretended to be his sister. That would have been traumatic... The fiancee set him off... |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by XhosaNostra(f): 4:13pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Chocolatte01: And I thought you meant he had a shìtty childhood or something. He was also no longer a child when he found out either, he was in college, but you were not too far off, I guess. 2 Likes |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Dande55: 4:14pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
ubunja:After wasting all your youthful age in being an irresponsible baby daddy and losing so much energy in sex, and then andropause come knocking with nothing in your head or account to withstand frustrations of life. Your mummy will surely be cursing the night she miscalculated her ovulation to birth you. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Martinez39s(m): 4:14pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Chocolatte01:Durh! Do I know you? I have never argued that single mothers prefer young guys, prove me wrong. It's no surprise that women, being bold liars when it suits them, misrepresent people's arguments and opinions, manufacture people's opinions, and then argue with the figment of their imagination. Trash. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Nobody: 4:16pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
So you can't handle a kid and you call yourself a man?how then can you handle a wife? Is a four year old kid enough to give you problem? Men of today now fall my hands! You may choose to opt out for other reasons but claiming a 4 year old kid stubbornness is enough to back out makes me call you a weakling,you can't handle marriage then. I have no problem with single moms since its a fellow man like myself that put them in such condition. I don't support u.bunja on this, I suppose he has a daughter and will not like a man to refer to his baby mama and daughter as a leftover. Grow some balls and mold that kid. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by victorian(f): 4:16pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Op what u can't accept and adjust to, please don't go into it. If u can't love and care for another man's son, please let the mom go. For me, I cant date nor marry a single dad especially if he has a son. If it's a girl child, I can cope but a son? Nope I can't . U can still see a well behaved young single lady without a kid to marry. There are still some numbers if u look well. Don't mortgage your peace of mind for anyone. It always backfires. I just wonder why people can't be single without having a Child hidden somewhere for someonelse. Quietly cut off and start afresh with a single lady but please ask first before u date any lady again. I always ask any guy wooing me on the first date, if he's single, dating, divorced, single dad, separated or searching. I don't like entangling myself with baby daddy issues, I just can't deal. It's always messy. Anyways u know yourself better. Do what makes u happy. That's all I can say. 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by ubunja(m): 4:17pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Chocolatte01:Emotions are unpredictable like the weather. But the weather though unpredictable, is controlled by unchanging and rigid sets of physics laws, so also emotions, unpredictable as they are, are controlled by a rigid set of rules that govern human thinking. Crack those rules and you can control any emotion in anyone. 3 Likes |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Nobody: 4:18pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
hmm single mom so what of the baby daddy? is he still in the picture? most baby daddies hardly let go of the single moms cos of the free lashing they get from them 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Nobody: 4:19pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Martinez39s:you couldn't add 1+1 to know who i am? I'm shocked. Nevermind. I exaggerated your intelligence. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by victorian(f): 4:20pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
lefulefu: As in ehn? It's always messy. People like complicating their lives. Anyways how u dey jare 2 Likes |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Nobody: 4:20pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
ubunja:That makes you unfit for marriage . we can ask ladies to avoid you likewise. I think you and your pawns on this forums are the one's living a fantasy( a life revolving around success in staffing females) 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by ubunja(m): 4:20pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Arthur21:actually I don't mind what anyone calls my baby mama. That lady is my intimacy gadget forever. Whoever marries her will have the luck of perpetually eating my sloppy seconds cause to this day we're still having sex. Lool. Alpha Fvcks Beta Bucks. 22 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Nobody: 4:21pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
You need to learn to take the good with the bad, if you say you truly love her. Your love for her should be unconditional. Create mental space in your mind for her baggage. If you can't, end the relationship. |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Nobody: 4:21pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
victorian:as if the guy will tell u the truth a lady would rarely lie if u ask her but for we guys hmm a married man already with five children and a wife will tell u he"s a bachelor and never married .its left for u to dig deep to check if he is lying or not . |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by loswhite(m): 4:21pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
kels2010:easier said |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Edyice: 4:23pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
ubunja: Correct guy with Correct information 19 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Nobody: 4:24pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
victorian:most single moms still connect sexually with the baby daddies of their child .its a fact .thats why i cant date a single mom.cant be competing with the baby daddy and the wahala he will bring my way .i am fine jor happy sunday . 6 Likes |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Dande55: 4:24pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
ubunja:A rapist like You, who can't withstand an emotionally intelligent lady with a very high IQ, but rather choses to be manipulating a 19year old is nothing but a street scallywag and rapist. Go outside your putrid cocoon and meet ladies your match, but your low self esteem and low worthless life won't let you cos you have nothing to offer. And by the way, y'all over there are sex object to each other. I wonder what happens to you when andropause comes calling, cos she will dump your lazy ass for a stronger and powerful Dìck. You are her sex object for now, old cargo. You have the audacity to call your self alpha, you are a street property Mr olosho. 6 Likes |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by ubunja(m): 4:25pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Arthur21:isn't sex what every guy wants at the end of the day? Even OP is choosing the single mother cause she's making everything easy for him. OP just wants easy sex. 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Nobody: 4:28pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
ubunja:Without emotions, what code do you intend to crack? You are with me that you have to take that into consideration... I'm good |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by ubunja(m): 4:31pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
lefulefu:yes us baby daddies are still sexual with our baby mamas. And its sweet sex because now we're just fvcking and not spending a cent. The simps in their lives are doing the financing. And when our kids are grown they'll come looking for us. Blood is thicker than water. It's a sweet life. 24 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Nobody: 4:31pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
lefulefu: That is why I never delved into the NL version of red pill ,albeit I follow other mgtow and red pill pages. Till date they live on a wack definition of an alpha male(since a large number of them can't measure up to the real standards of being alpha). Follow other red pill pages on IG,Facebook et Al and you will be ashamed of the ones on this forum. How can a masculine man who ought to be courageous bend to archaic/medieval psychologies? I have no reason to hold some guys on this forum to esteem, no wonder ladies here call them dogs and western men are suffering from the lashes of feminism. We mess up over here,and the sane men over there get scourged instead of black men. That said,marrying a single mom is better than marrying some buffoons on this forum such as funmistiqueen, ri.ele,lillmissfavy et Al that are without kids. Let no betnaija player chatting with free WIFI quote me! 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Martinez39s(m): 4:32pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
ubunja:Human basics of human psychology is the same for everybody. That's why anywhere you go, capitalism always work while socialism fails. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Martinez39s(m): 4:33pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
ubunja:Bow your head and let's pray for the beta cucks. 21 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by ubunja(m): 4:34pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Martinez39s:humans are more alike than unlike. That's why a politician can study politics in India then go be a politician in Uganda. Humans are the same generally. 1 Like |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Nobody: 4:35pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
ubunja:good luck on your path of life,albeit I see it as mediocrity... If that gives you fulfilment,kudos on that |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Martinez39s(m): 4:36pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
ubunja:True. 1 Like |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by ubunja(m): 4:36pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Arthur21:How you see it doesn't matter. What matters is that people like you enable it. 9 Likes |
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