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Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Nobody: 3:26pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Your girl is wicked!!! She want you to raise another man's kid!!! Wow!!! The only positive here is that , she is young!! Only if the ex can be responsible for the upkeep of the boy, then you can go ahead... I don't support single mum things. ... But considering that she is young, then I will say 'the decision is yours to take'! 1 Like |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Nobody: 3:29pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Dande55:Wetin? |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by machiavelli95: 3:33pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Sarang:How can a woman abort a foetus and rob it of h chance to experience life? 2 Likes |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Edusteve(m): 3:37pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
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Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by vincenteger: 3:45pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
if you hv d resources to father that child, plz do. all he need is your luv. tomorw you wil reap d fruit of your labour |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by RumeAlfred(m): 3:47pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
i nor understand u oh...becos she is a woman she should'nt speak truth ba LOGOBELT: |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by bluefilm: 3:47pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Just toss the stubborn boy and his quarrelsome mom away one time! I cannot come and kii myself ontop another man pikin, biko. 2 Likes |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by bluefilm: 3:52pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
RumeAlfred: It's like you no sabi who ubunja be? Who dash am woman? Don't be deceived by his (f) moniker. Ubunja na one kain old man with a shrunken penis. 2 Likes |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Nobody: 3:54pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
sexylassie:Mr Akinwole?? |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Nobody: 3:55pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
sexylassie:FBI femme |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by ubunja(m): 4:00pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
bluefilm:and to think you used to like me.... bluefilm: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Nobody: 4:01pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
sexylassie:This is a face-less forum tho!!! I don't know why you focus so much on his identity!!! I think you are prying on his privacy!! 1 Like |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Legendguru: 4:01pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Ye |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by fikistore: 4:12pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
if u break up with her cause of her child dats means u dont love her be dat,if u love her u will love her wit her kid also |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by sexylassie(f): 4:12pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
eni4real: what privacy..... real men show their identity and do not decieve people 1 Like |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Nobody: 4:14pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
sexylassie:People don't show their identity here.. Example: Your identity is not knows here.. Neither is mine!!! It is a faceless forum Try to respect people's privacy!! 1 Like |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by YorubaLord: 4:21pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
WilliamsTheGrea: Then, get the b!tch pregnant and STOP the rant. The onus and pressure is on you to get her pregnant since she's already a mother which signifies she's healthy. It's up to you to man up and spill ur damn seed! 1 Like |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by ChiefS(m): 4:31pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
She is not the right one for you. Why should she move in with her child when you're not married already. 'Can a man take fire in his bosom and his body is not consumed'? |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by ghettochild4u(m): 4:56pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
WilliamsTheGrea:You already know the solution. Just rent another house for them n jejeli move on with yr life n find another girl wey never born o 3 Likes |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by WilliamsTheGrea: 5:16pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
eni4real: Lolz |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by rflamz230(m): 5:28pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
My brother, your peace of mind is very important. You dont have to accept things you are not ok with. If she can't give the child to the father, please leave the relationship to avoid regret afterwards. |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by content208: 5:30pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
kels2010: Looks like you didn't see the part where he said the mother looks at him with hatred each time he disciplines the boy. How can he be a good father figure if the mother doesn't even like it when he tries to discipline the boy? Try using your brain now. 5 Likes |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by cerpvad(m): 5:35pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Check out the bolded statements bruh. If you cannot cope with those conditions highlighted in the bold statements, no advice on Nairaland can work for you. It is either you accept her and the child or you get out of her life. You are even lucky its only one child. I have seen guys who married a single mom of two, three or four children and they are all happy living together. Be ready to accept the boy and start showing him love. This way, her mother will have trust that you have good intention for her and her child. It is time we all started being truly human and let love prevail no matter the situation. WilliamsTheGrea: |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by tricksters: 5:41pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
This is the most foolish comment here. Any man will be relatively at ease disciplining his own troublesome child than that of a foolish irresponsible father, when you add the mother hatred stare at you disciplining the child then you understand how foolish your comment is. A man or any man does not have to lose his peace of mind over unruly child he contributed nothing to bring to the world. If I was the guy I don't need advice, I don't love foolish people. Only a foolish ummarried girl get pregnant with an irresponsible man. I had multiple girlfriends b4 settling down n I know very well none should give birth to a child am not ready to father. His best option is doing away with the 2 of them or beta he hand them over to you. daddytime: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by jawalis(m): 5:47pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Truthbites:read again and again. It’s not all about been a Virgin |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by lilyheaven: 5:51pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
You can't separate a mother from her child. But I don't know why you weren't informed before proposal. If you can't cope, let her go, don't give your life hbp, you are too young |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Nobody: 5:52pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
The only reason you should get married to a single mother, is if you are ready, willing and able to take care of the child as your own. Short of this, the marriage is likely not to succeed. Unfortunately, not many men are able to that, and you seem to be one of those who can't imagine raising another person's child. For that reason, I would advise to find your way. Don't make the life of the lady a hell, the life of the child a nightmare, and your own life full of regrets. Part ways amicably, because you are not the kind that can take the child as yours. However, it is pitiful that we are so ego-centered that we fail to understand that it is an illusion that seperates us. Every child is yours, and everyone has a part of you. Ego is the illusion that makes us believe that we are different. The day humanimals calling themselves humans will realize this, there will be no racism, tribalism, and similar issues. 2 Likes |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by kurlz(f): 5:54pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Wow! Seven months in to the relationship before she told you she has a child? And she's a good girl? Don't worry you will wake up to see and hear more secrets as time goes by. Husband of good girl. BTW why can't the mother take care of her grand child? Na wa o. Sorry bro your cross to bear. You know where the shoe pinch the most cause you are the one wearing it. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by WilliamsTheGrea: 6:02pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
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Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Proton99: 6:24pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Imagine playing another guy's saved game. Nigga take yourself to a corner and whip yourself until you are OK 2 Likes |
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