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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Toks2008(m): 8:01pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
maasoap: Guy relax, I have been with over 4 circumcised ladies in my life and I can categorically tell you it's more of the mind when it comes to sexual pleasure. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by ibkkk(f): 8:06pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
:for the dryness, KY Jelly could handle that... |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Str8talk21: 8:06pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
[quote author=Tunagee post=86882506] Bro, you be wizard o! You just described my partner. She had a CS birth also, and gets dried easily. I don dey find the clitoris for more than 6 yrs now. Does it mean she was circumcized?[/quote/] are u on Discovery Channel? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by ehmmy11(m): 8:12pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Ogilinsaka:"L" for LEARNER |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by iSage: 8:14pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Say no more ✔️
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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Cn866: 8:21pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
I feel so sorry for you , I can relate . I used to have a girlfriend like that, she has 3 sisters and they are all circumcised . While I was asking her out she told me she was circumcised, I was questioning her how that was a problem . Until after sex I realized it’s a big deal . She is a very calm and good girl, the best I ever met .I had to use my head and not my heart. I don’t want to regret in marriage knowing that sex is so vital . Sex wasn’t enjoyable to her and myself either. We had sex like 5 times but I never cum at all while having sex with her. It used to be a minute sex before she start feeling pain and I had to stop . To feel better i do sneaked to the restroom to do soapy . Then I realized I can never cope, they are prone to infections too . I had to act like a fuckboy / demon to her, she left . I acted like that because I don’t want her to know the reason for my loss of interest, I don’t want her to feel bad about it. I prefer to appear as the bad guy to keep her sanity . I don’t really know what to advice ,because till now I still don’t know what I could have done better . So painful to let a good girl go . I feel sorry for you and your wife . I hope that you get the best advice on this as I will be observing too. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Ogilinsaka: 8:22pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
ehmmy11: Ok thanks |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Funkybabee(f): 8:32pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Go and meet jaruma |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Alwaysachick: 8:46pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
realokopi: True...I thank God I was circumcised o...girl for dey street...lol I think the dryness talk abt circumcised girls exaggerated. If a girl likes you, just staring at you she could get wet. Op sure say you marry your lover? Cuz I know some married ppl are not sexually attracted to their partners. Back to the question of the day, what was the attraction? Money? Sex? Attitude?....no body can have it all, just stick to the attraction and manage. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Nobody: 8:57pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
You're absolutely right!!! Good to know you're circumcised. That means if I marry you now and work takes me out you can endure till I return. Alwaysachick: |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by KomonSense: 8:58pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Petyprincess: But how would one know? Most christian ladies are circumcised naaaaah |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Nembeboi: 9:07pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Dis is a simple issue. My wife also doesn't get wet but we ve a good solution which we ve been using and its been great. Its called "lubricant". Just apply a little on de VJ and u re good to go. quote author=thalpy post=86880999]I have a wife, and newly married. But my challenge is that she hardly get wets. She once told me that she was circumcised but I didn’t understand the disadvantage, thought it is same effect like a man. We do have premarital sex (romance and pre-intimacy) for some time long enough to make her wet. But immediately we start having sex she dries up easily which makes it painful and somewhat not enjoyable to her after some time. If she were to be a random girl, I won't care much. But she is my wife and I feel her pain. So I stop immediately and calm her down. When we were dating we do fore play a lot but no sex until marriage now. I know you might say eating her p.... that works but saliva doesn't last and dries up. And am thinking what if she gives birth, giving a head might reduce too. I know am not the only man in this trend. Many beautiful ladies out there are still in this shoe. I never knew cutting a girls clitoris has a big negative effect. Sex looks like war to them. Yes not the same to all but their sex life is not enjoyable to the fullest. So I ask, to those that might have had this experience, is there anyway I can make her enjoy sex the more? Please not any rough discussion is accepted. I just don’t have that mind of seeing myself enjoy it alone when she isn’t. Now I have learnt my lesson, girl circumcision is bad. That's why most circumcised girls can stay without a bf, is not always self discipline is just lack of urge. Please help. If you know anyone about it. And I browsed too i read they have difficulty too during child birth and they are prone to disease easily so how true is that? Just want to know all I need to know so precaution will be taken. Want to make her safe and happy. Thank you.[/quote] |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Nembeboi: 9:09pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Dis is a simple issue. My wife also doesn't get wet but we ve a good solution which we ve been using and its been great. Its called "lubricant". Just apply a little on de VJ and u re good to go. Its sold in pharmacies. |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by lilyheaven: 9:10pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
maasoap:Very sad |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by franklingud(m): 9:19pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
ChoCho54:Like seriously? Lost when naked with a lady? Incredible! |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by franklingud(m): 9:22pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Yeecar:I said it already, inside her vag. Use your finger to locate it and stimulate it. |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by NiCurious: 9:29pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Toks2008: Advantages like what, sir? |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by ugotex85: 9:31pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
I've learnt quite a lot today. Marrying a circumcised woman is a whole lot of work that requires a lot of patience and understanding. I will try some of the suggestions given on this thread. |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by DECENCY3: 9:34pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
money121: Your assertion is not correct about CES. I was circumcised, I have 3 kids and all normal delivery. The only solution is enough pre-intimacy and her focusing on the act. She gets dry because her mind is off the scene. Her mindset will really have a lot to do when the act is going on. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by NiCurious: 9:36pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Toks2008: Sexual activity ("promiscuity" is a personal choice. Having someone else make that choice for you is just...words fail me. I wonder how many men would be in favour of a circumcision that removed the glans, to reduce promiscuity among men? This is the equivalent of what is being done to women. |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Eniola247: 9:39pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by korban3134(m): 9:44pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by uchman46(m): 10:00pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
BareFacedLies:Hmmmm chief respect you have tayed in this game only a few know this� |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by pqmeup: 10:02pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Bro...I don't know if you will read this my message because I don't know how to bring my suggestion to front page on nairaland. I'm having the same issue since three years ago and counting. She put to bed through CS and till now sex is a big threat to her. Let's talk privately please 08038812073 |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by luluosas(m): 10:13pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Dirty mind DaudaTheSexyGuy: |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Manwisdom: 10:21pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
nasirope: Thanks jare, many of our sisters and mother's gave birth without C[color=#000099][/color]S, so don't scare the young couple. I ll advice you play at the edge of you discover she is dry then go deep again when she is wet |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by olamakinde(m): 10:22pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
BareFacedLies:pissy master, I hail you |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by BeeAll1(f): 10:53pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
So I ask, to those that might have had this experience, is there anyway I can make her enjoy sex the more? ] Bros buy lubricant i can vouch for durex, they come in different flavours and works
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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by heilige(m): 10:58pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Prepare her from morning, by night time she will be ready. Sweet talk her the whole day, touch her, kiss her the whole day, by night time she will be relaxed. Her fire go don catch. For night time make you do pre-intimacy well, be very very gentle, no rushing, no playing with clit*, because it is not there, enjoy her breast, she will get wet. If you are good, locate her gspot and slowly rod the spot, if you are better she could reach there by gently enjoying her breast. thalpy: |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Antichristus: 11:07pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
See your life? That's why people test drive before making commitment - a life one for that matter. When you re-incarnate, ensure the mileage of your test drive is high enough and convincingly, too. In the meantime, it's a life sentence - endure it. Sadly, as you're a Christian it's only one life and there is no marriage in the afterlife. |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by witworth(m): 11:18pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Premarital sex would have saved you from this pain now, some that has been colonized with religion will say it's a sin, they forget that even after wedding sins continue in human life. It's your cross for your stupidity, carry it. This will serve as lesson to many who still believe in waiting till after wedding to have sex with their partner. As for you this fool, you must not divorce her for this her problem, you have become one, bear the pain for life. 1 Like |
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