lonikit:

sincerely, she is not rushing me, she really understands with me. she is just considering wht the friend told her.

Omar09:


It is not my business she couldn't get a husband in her 20s. This guy, shouldn't waste his time too. He can hustle and get married by 35 it's not late. BTW hustle no be only government work. He can do better than that woman he's with rn. He shouldn't settle for less.

xcabczyxabczzzz:
Give her belly make wuna start life.

lonikit:
i will be very brief with the narrative. i met the girl 2years ago when she was already 31. we started as friends but her character made me to fall in love and also had to leave my former young rude more educated and virgin gf (i love peace of mind).
without missing words, my new gf is the best compared to any other girl i have met. though, she is older than I by 2yrs but that is not my problem.
my problem now is that both of us are not really doing anything serious. she is managing in a private school. i have not gotten any job since i completed my service yr last year hence, managing in a school too.
considering our financial status, we are not ready for marriage now. we are hoping for better jobs.
please, i don't want to loose her and she is now 33. she is considering her chances of giving birth if she marries late like 35yrs bcus a doctor friend told her that women fertility has to do with their age, the older they bcom, the less they are fertile. please advice me on how to convince her. she is so unique.
please help a brother.

FarFromAverage:

Brother you can't test somebody completely until you guys stay under the same roof for a long time.

You begin to accumulate more experience about life as you age, and gosh! . .
She knows how to play the game perfectly.

olabrinks:
men are the cause of their own problems. Can you not see this nairaland sef? Everyday Men writing story books on their miserable marriages/relationships, they always make stupid irrational decisions based on hearsay and generalisation. Then when it’s too late, after investing time and money their eyes will open. Don’t use the sense that God gave to you, nonsense.

lonikit:
my brother, i wish to but scared of our present financial status. Thanks for your contribution.

FarFromAverage:
She's 33 and you like her character?
Brother run... You're joking with a green snake in a green grass. Though I'm not against you, but the thing is what stopped her from getting married when she was in her twenties?

FarFromAverage:
She's 33 and you like her character?
Brother run... You're joking with a green snake in a green grass. Though I'm not against you, but the thing is what stopped her from getting married when she was in her twenties?

lonikit:
i will be very brief with the narrative. i met the girl 2years ago when she was already 31. we started as friends but her character made me to fall in love and also had to leave my former young rude more educated and virgin gf (i love peace of mind).
without missing words, my new gf is the best compared to any other girl i have met. though, she is older than I by 2yrs but that is not my problem.
my problem now is that both of us are not really doing anything serious. she is managing in a private school. i have not gotten any job since i completed my service yr last year hence, managing in a school too.
considering our financial status, we are not ready for marriage now. we are hoping for better jobs.
please, i don't want to loose her and she is now 33. she is considering her chances of giving birth if she marries late like 35yrs bcus a doctor friend told her that women fertility has to do with their age, the older they bcom, the less they are fertile. please advice me on how to convince her. she is so unique.
please help a brother.

FarFromAverage:
She's 33 and you like her character?
Brother run... You're joking with a green snake in a green grass. Though I'm not against you, but the thing is what stopped her from getting married when she was in her twenties?

proclinician:


Hey take it easy i am not responsible for your misery, bitterness and frustrations okay. I just put forward a hypothesis and smart ppl are reading and walking away and you are taking things too personal. Pls u need to be wise for u to last. Next time u use that word on me again u won't like my reaction. Nonsense

FarFromAverage:

Brother you can't test somebody completely until you guys stay under the same roof for a long time.

You begin to accumulate more experience about life as you age, and gosh! . .
She knows how to play the game perfectly.

Onyi22:

O boy shut up, u r just being bitter and frustrated because she tell you d bitter truth..
U r d one who should channel ur frustration to ur village people

proclinician:


Dear (i'm seriously tempted to call u a dirty pig but i am going to be civil) Pls take my word for it. You're not depressed and as miserable as every one around you thinks. Problem is You just got no money.

Onyi22:

E pain am

proclinician:


Pain who. Why cant all these women just relax. I do long hours at work standing most of the time and often under pressure and when i come here to read some savagery and laugh all i get is some bitter ppl quoting me telling me blah blah blah. What the hell is wrong with you all. If anybody say something u Dont like u pretend u didn't see it. You dont take shit personal even if they describe ur situation.

Lol

Onyi22:
@Opp I will advice that you follow ur heart, remember it's ur life and u r d one to live with her after the wedding,
Forget about getting any meaningful advice from this forum because some of the guys on this forum r buttered, frustrated n miserable..
Some r impotent n have watery sprem that can't produce anything....
If u really love her and she possess the character u want in a woman pls marry her and allow God to perfect his will concerning your marriage...
Remember, u can marry a girl of 23 and she will still have difficulty in child bearing, u may marry me a Virgin, and she will not bear any child for u, it's all depends on God.
I wish u good luck

EVILFOREST:

She can't be the BEST.
She was just DISPLAYING those LOVELY antiques because AGE wasn't on her side.

The MOMENT she steps into your HOUSE legally, she will start TORMENTING you.
NOWADAYS LADIES don't fail in that regard.

PLEASE, leave her and focus on your career.
Better things LIE ahead.

Sixfeetbelle:


I get where you're coming from, but from the guy's perspective (since he's in love with her), I think it's better he marries her with the moderate lifestyle they can maintain. If it then turns out she's a green snake in a green grass, he can divorce her.

Reason this:

Is it not better he experiences a good thing in his life for a short while than to let her go and always wonder if he didn't make a mistake leaving her??

lonikit:
i will be very brief with the narrative. i met the girl 2years ago when she was already 31. we started as friends but her character made me to fall in love and also had to leave my former young rude more educated and virgin gf (i love peace of mind).
without missing words, my new gf is the best compared to any other girl i have met. though, she is older than I by 2yrs but that is not my problem.
my problem now is that both of us are not really doing anything serious. she is managing in a private school. i have not gotten any job since i completed my service yr last year hence, managing in a school too.
considering our financial status, we are not ready for marriage now. we are hoping for better jobs.
please, i don't want to loose her and she is now 33. she is considering her chances of giving birth if she marries late like 35yrs bcus a doctor friend told her that women fertility has to do with their age, the older they bcom, the less they are fertile. please advice me on how to convince her. she is so unique.
please help a brother.

thank your stars
Nah God save you

iamharkinwaley:
At age 28 upwards, Nigerian ladies start feeling so desperate to marry, they don't mind walking the aisle even with a church rat. That's how desperate they are. They allow you bleep them unprotected so pregnancy will happen so you're force to marry her. They act so saint and mature, you start to believe they are the perfect woman you've been waiting for, scam !. Wait until you marry her finish.


Guys use your head, I still bless God for giving me a great opportunity to dodge the waiting time bomb. She really want us to run far away to start new lives, imagine a young guy like me with bright future running away coz of a woman. Nah suffer go kill me.... Thank God I relocated, I was able to know the kind of person she's. A desperate getting old lady, trying to hook a young guy with future into marriage.

Graxie:
Idiots that will marry oyibo woman of 57 with a speed of light, not minding how many kids and body count are here sounding old. Foolish being begging oyibo grandma to be sucking their shrank pussy are here claiming 33 years is old. I hope you guys don't give birth to girl child in life. I just hope you will not bring cause on innocent kids.

Newguyhere:
thank your stars
Nah God save you

olabrinks:
men are the cause of their own problems. Can you not see this nairaland sef? Everyday Men writing story books on their miserable marriages/relationships, they always make stupid irrational decisions based on hearsay and generalisation. Then when it’s too late, after investing time and money their eyes will open. Don’t use the sense that God gave to you, nonsense.