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Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by galadima77(m): 11:42pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
extremelygolden: But we advice you reward a loyal woman! I'm ashamed of you! |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by jendoslim(m): 11:50pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Dpaulie: Guy, He is your son.... YOUR F..KING SON., There is a clear distinct between MY SON and another SON. To buttress this, have you ever invited your stubborn nephews or nieces to spend holidays with you before, or when you are still a bachelor, have you lived with your uncle or elder brother with children before? If yes, you will notice that the way you relate, discipline them are quite different from how you caution your own son........... Abi no be this Africa we dey again. Another man's child can never be like your own. Stop cajoling the op to dance to caprices of your imaginations. Its a lifelong decision. 3 Likes |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by 2buffagain(m): 11:50pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Mummymahdi: Ekaro Ma. Thank you for blessing these young men and women with this simple wisdom. The other women on this thread are not being honest with themselves about the truth. Despite the 7 month deceit, adding the fact that the mother fights the man whenever he even tries to bring the child to order, the whole thing cannot work as a family unit. He would only be a financial sponsor....not a father. Not a lot of women in our generation are wise/honest enough to look at a matter and say it as it is without lying because of some pointless agenda.. 8 Likes |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by efavour: 11:58pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
LOGOBELT:Don't mind her, like it's all fathers that abandon their child. What would say of those single mothers that their baby daddies actually want their child and take responsibility? |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by ubunja(m): 12:16am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Igbalaoluwa:it's adorable that you think I created "Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks". Google is your friend. Go educate yourself. It's evolution. 4 Likes |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by ubunja(m): 12:20am On Feb 25, 2020 |
bluefilm:I didn't expect a logical answer. See how speechless you are. 1 Like |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by WilliamsTheGrea: 12:26am On Feb 25, 2020 |
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Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by izibili44: 1:23am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Guy take style say u wan no the koko for the online deal. Tallguy28: |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by izibili44: 1:29am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Guy the truth be told.One you are young at 26.If you truly want the mother then u have to also accept the child.He is four years old that is when he will play very well.Now if you have your own child will he/she not disturb you.But if you think u cant cope with that let the mother go now.Then look for someone else. WilliamsTheGrea: |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Akuruoulo(m): 2:26am On Feb 25, 2020 |
ubunja: Are u a woman? |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Akuruoulo(m): 2:28am On Feb 25, 2020 |
ubunja: DONT BELIEVE A LADY WILL EVER BE THIS SINCERE 1 Like |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Paboyler: 2:32am On Feb 25, 2020 |
daddytime: I totally agree with you. Thanks. For sharing the simple truth with him 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Paboyler: 2:57am On Feb 25, 2020 |
dickt: Well, did I mention to you that the kid is orphaned, oh no he is not. His dad is fully alive and is doing very well, based in Europe, only gets back to the country once in December and makes an attempt to see the kid. But hell no, some men are not just worth and ready of becoming fathers, they only see women as baby factories,..... Neither would the mother, her family nor well meaning friends permit her to give away the kid to his Father for abandoning his son at barely six months old, and not wanting to reunite with his family but only interested in his son without partaking in his welfare and upkeep. It's really unfair. A single mother would do ANYTHING to fend for her child, she would go through thick and thin to protect her kid, for her he is all she's got and she wouldn't want to compromise anything for his happiness. Nothing comes in-between them. She sees her self as both the Father and Mother he deserves to have and as such would warmly receive and readily love any man who loves her kid and treats him as his. |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by blakhenry: 3:28am On Feb 25, 2020 |
WilliamsTheGrea:My brother, U are naïve. U keep defending who u don't know her past. Women are very deep. Any lady can transform from anything to anything. If she is as good as u portray, how come she was so careless and irresponsible to getting pregnant, don't u think? She was naive? How come she never told u all these while? See, I feel ur only problem here is lust. Get enough of what u want and move on. Encourage her to reconcile with her man, the father of her baby. U don't want to live in perpetual sorry. Stop thinking about love(anybody can love anybody) think about responsibility and tolerance 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Sarang(f): 3:55am On Feb 25, 2020 |
machiavelli95: What is your point exactly? I do not support abortion at all |
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Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Vega100: 4:01am On Feb 25, 2020 |
WilliamsTheGrea:brother, I'll advice you to leave that girl. I'm a man of advanced age, and will advice you from the best of experience I have gathered over the years... LEAVE THAT GIRL. You will always remember this thing I wrote here... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by bigcasava1(m): 4:24am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Abfinest007:man u vs Chelsea, hahahaha |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by bigcasava1(m): 4:27am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Selfish man! U don't deserve that girl, u expect her to abandon the poor boy? U are insane! Infact u have to stop beating that child! Nonsense |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by ubunja(m): 5:00am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Akuruoulo:send me money and I'll tell you. 1 Like |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by tonybunor(m): 5:05am On Feb 25, 2020 |
WilliamsTheGrea: A father isnt defined as a man who made the child, i am sorry to say but if the step child seems like a challenge to you then you have a lot to work on before thinking about marriage as this is a minor issue when making a list of marital dramas . This to me is pure hatred though if you love a woman and you don't love her baggage then it is selfish of you to claim you love her, i pray she finds somebody better. As the man of the house it should be your personal responsibility to build that boy into the man you would want and like to see him become and if the mum give you a sad face, have a talk and explain the reason for your action. you shouldn't feel bad for trying to correct a child that is in your care. you would do the same for yours too. my 2 cents |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by extremelygolden: 5:21am On Feb 25, 2020 |
galadima77: Ode, you should rather be ashamed of yourself. Who mentioned you in the first place? |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by ubunja(m): 5:53am On Feb 25, 2020 |
tonybunor:that's why in life there are Impregnators and Fathers. We all have a role to play in the world. Some of us have that golden sperm that must be replicated. Some of us have the gold to raise the product of that golden sperm. Working together we push the human race forward. We all choose which role to play. Women are the sperm dishes. Men can either be the Sperm Donor or the Sponsor that supports the sperm product. 13 Likes |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Dpaulie(m): 6:33am On Feb 25, 2020 |
jendoslim:Yes I’ve invited my lil nephew for holiday before and I know what it means to have them around u, there are so many ways to keep them busy and stay out of trouble...bro it’s not a must to marry this woman, love is not enough to make a successful marriage |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by ultimate77(m): 7:07am On Feb 25, 2020 |
WilliamsTheGrea: Better send her to school of nursing if you want to marry her and stop the "shity" auxiliary whatever. Don't get me angry. Back to topic. Bro, that boy will destroy you. If she can't send him to stay with her mum or his father, your peace will pay for that. I know what it means to live with stubborn kid that is yours not to talk of the one that isn't yours. If you can't stand the kid and the mother is forcing him on you, bro, you are on a long thing. Be a man have a matured conversation she should choose between you and the child. If she chooses the child, help them with a year rent let them go. If she chooses you, let her take the child to her mum, you can help with part of the fee. My guy, it is your peace that is paramount. Trust me, this life is just once and as a quiet person, you fit kick bucket early if you have this kind of stubbornness around you. Peace. 2 Likes |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by shinnymercy(f): 7:59am On Feb 25, 2020 |
ubunja: Really? And you are a woman like this! |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Jeweltz(f): 9:08am On Feb 25, 2020 |
ubunja: I like the fact that you're intelligent. I'm a woman and I understand the pain single moms go through whole raising their kids. That's why most single moms hook themselves with a man, at least rich enough, to help he raise the kid. I will not comment and side on terms that only complies and agree to women's manipulative whims. That's why I can't allow my brother to marry nor date q single moms. These single moms operate on manipulation and even the smartest man will find difficult to decode. 15 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Jeweltz(f): 9:10am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Igetmyown247: You can use your resource sponsoring the son your husband had before he marry you? Or you can advise your brothers to do the same |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by isyourboy(m): 9:36am On Feb 25, 2020 |
ubunja: One thing I've greatly learn from you is your ability to maintain your stand even in the midst of trolls and negativity. How you are able to do this I don't know.80% of men today cowers at the sight of women's dissaproval of them and they just can't but do anything to make themselves accepted by the majority who seem to dislike them. But you're different. The truth is ' these women commenting on this thread are just hypocrite. If the situation were reversed, can these women spend on their husband son by another woman? 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Omar09(m): 9:38am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Jeweltz: I like the fact you admitted something here which other females are finding it hard to admit to on a public forum like this... “... That's why I can't allow my brother to marry nor date q single moms...” once asked this question, they play smart to dodge it. They don't want their sons or brothers marry a single mom, yet they cajole other men into doing it. Yet they say “I'm neutral and don't belong to any side” and believe in “live and let's live”. I'm talking about you Michellekabod2. 1 Like |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by ubunja(m): 9:38am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Jeweltz:my own sister lived with a man for years, got a kid by him and got dumped. But she was smart enough to trace some old exBF who never really got over her. As we speak the lame guy has paid Bride price. I commend her for being smart. But then again should my young brother bring home a single mother I'll slap him so hard he would forget his name. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Omar09(m): 9:40am On Feb 25, 2020 |
ubunja: |
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