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Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by Unik3030: 1:04pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
vizkiz:u are a fool for calling people bastards based on their choice, do u know what they went through? u myopic idiot who believed everyone had d same experience as u. what would u say of a dad who cares not for d family n who doesn't care if they feed or get educated? there are many deadbeat dads out there who doesn't care about d family's well-being only to show when things start getting rosy 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by ahnie: 1:05pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
emmabest2000:Are these couple your parents? 1 Like |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by GrammarNazi1(m): 1:05pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
pocohantas:These guys are confused and only emotional. 1 Like |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by Unik3030: 1:06pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
livinbygrace:how sure are u that every dad paid school fee n every dad care about training? 3 Likes |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by Skidee: 1:07pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
[quote author=vizkiz post=86941854][font=Lucida Sans Unicode]It is not difficult to identify a bastard nowadays. Just take a look at these kids undermining the post of a father in their lives. The system has so much brought down the role of a father. Making him look like a figure head. Praising the mother alone. Little wonder we have so many days assigned to praise women and just a day to notice the value of a man (Father’s day). Most times the Father’s Day come and go without anyone noticing it Same father who worked all his life to take care of his family? Same father who will risk his life day and night just to put food on the table? Same father who paid your fees from the very first day you were born till you started earning your own money? Same father who put a roof over your head and even assigned your own room? (No wonder men die early) Only for him to be cheated again when he is to reap the fruit of his Labour. Little wonder most of you are cursed. It is because you have offended God and man by being a fool. Just take a look at the cheap gold-digging girls we have nowadays. All they do is look for a ready made man. So after having kids for that guy, those unfortunate kids will rather take care of her than their father who has worked for money all his life? What happened to 50:50? To hell with you simpletons. My mum has done a whole lot for me and I’ll do anything just to make her happy but my dad (bless his soul) deserves as much love and happiness. Even the 50:50 sef, my dad will still buy gifts for mum from that money. I understand most of you are not from stable homes sha...Una dey use una family problem judge the matter. [[color=#000099]b]A sensible person shouldn't have generalized and judged, like you just did.. Peoples experiences differ, so why on earth are you drinking panadol for their sharing formula. Infact why are you soo pained on their behalf to the extent of calling them a bastard? And do you expect them to excellently appraise their deadbeat father. Please think before you type next time. Thank you.[/b][/color] 3 Likes |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by Bankowner: 1:07pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
cooldee:Amen and thanks. God bless. |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by ahnie: 1:08pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
proclinician:Please I don't have strength for dogo magana! Bye! |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by jadejay: 1:08pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
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Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by Nobody: 1:09pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
Dad 70k mom 30k, reason? many of you don't know that all the money you think your mom hustled to give you she collected it back from the poor man. Na small pikin dey worry all of una. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by Nobody: 1:10pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
ahnie: Now give me your mum's number let me report you |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by proclinician: 1:10pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
ahnie: Just fvck off. Dumbfvck |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by xendra: 1:10pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
freshvine:you've missed it, it's not always about money, there are ways fathers make themselves relevant to a child, you don't just provide and stay away, even when you are around your children feel like strangers around you. that's not a mother's fault. the problem is everybody here is talking about father and money and that's where it's all going off There are single mothers who provide money and all for their kids but the kids still hate their mother. ITS NOT ALWAYS ABOUT MONEY 4 Likes |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by Isoduwa(m): 1:11pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
Share Wetin? |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by Fountainofyouth(f): 1:11pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
I see guys are pained cos most comments will give their mothers more, y'all should relax, you didn't live with them to know what happened in their home. Well, I'd give my dad everything cos he provided all our needs and gave us the very best education, six of us, Love you always Papa 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by Nobody: 1:11pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
Slawormir: Was your father not the main provider? The money your mother saved for you, did she generate it or did it still came from your dad? From my thread, it seems like mothers were the providers and the fathers useless. It seems children are been brainwashed by their mothers. |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by tk4rd: 1:13pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
I will just give the whole N100k to one of them, and then say “This Money is for the both of you..” (The other person who wasn't there when I gave the money would definitely call me before nightfall to thank me so much for the money I gave to them..) .. I'm trying to say that they know how best to handle things between themselves. There is no need for me doing it for them. |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by Bankowner: 1:14pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
Unik3030:Guy talk about your father and stop generalizing. If you want to give him nothing, your business 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by Bankowner: 1:15pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
Fountainofyouth:Una no reach us nah! We be ten and papa made sure we went to school and not just any school. But he suffered ehn! If money can buy life, my pa would be alive today. Rest on papa. 1 Like |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by Nobody: 1:16pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
60% to my dad and 40% goes to my mum. My dad is architect of my success today. He sold yam tubers to educate me in school. My mum tried by instilling morals but my dad did even more. As a kid, looking at his face alone, you could understand the message he was passing across and if you failed to decode it kiakia, you would have yourself to blame, lol. He is such a nice and cool-headed man. Live long baami 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by MrPaul2: 1:16pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
if I must share it, my Dad 90% why my Mum 10%. She has alway teach me to not under rate dad position, infact my mum will not even collect it from me if daddy own is not far bigger, because he will still take the money to her before he start spending from it. sometimes i just thank God they are my parent. Sometimes when we all play together you will think we are mate. i love you Dad and Mum. 1 Like |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by Grupo(m): 1:18pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
vizkiz: Guy, I'm happy we still have reasonable people like you. If you were near me, I would have paid for your drinks. My single handedly trained 5 kids in the university. Made sure we didn't lack basic things while growing up. I would likely give him the entire 100k. Fortunately, he earns enough pension to sustain him and would likely give me back the money to support me. 1 Like |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by Unik3030: 1:19pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
grossintel:u are d kid here for believing everyone experienced d same thing, what of a rich dad that prefers spending money at owanbe than giving to the children to the extent the mother had to take the children to cooperative society to explain her plight to them b4 they can release money for her. Will u still give d rich father money? so learn to see things differently n stop believing your experience is same with all 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by DeejaywonDJ1(m): 1:19pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
It's law of nature male child tends to love his mum more than his dad, while female tends to love her dad more than her mum, same thing applicable to parents except one of them is not part of your life. For a male child; even if your mother beat you like kilode and your dad treat you very well, you'll still love her more than your dad, my dad made me realize this. But good parents hardly show their preferences 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by tofolo(m): 1:20pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
vizkiz:I just fell in love with your brain, wish I knew you personally we for hangout drink beer plenty this weekend coming. 1 Like |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by Jim99: 1:20pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
grossintel: Leave them. They don't know. |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by safarigirl(f): 1:21pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
freshvine: Speak for yourself and your family You don't know what roles parents played in their children's lives and everyone's roles are not based on your pre-conceived notions on gender roles. Growing up, it was my mother buying clothes for kids and paying the school fees of I and my sister, my father paid for utilities and my brother's school fees. They both shared rent and feeding money. I leaned more towards my father because I had conversations and bonded with him more, but it had nothing to do with your pre-conceived notion of gender roles. I did not care who was spending money, I cared only about who had my time and made me happy. Women are not sitting at home doing nothing, many women are even feeding their homes and covering up their husband's shame to maintain this 'gender roles' society has hoisted on them. So, don't give me this ancient talk that has nothing to do with today's realities You can speak on your own personal experiences, but never assume your experience is what obtains for others. Men should continue assuming 'gender roles' and failing to nurture their kids, while women take up all the affection. No be one day dem dey use get sense 12 Likes |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by 9jatriot(m): 1:21pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
As a young dad, this thread has frightened me to no ends. Most posters are making it look like many fathers are so irresponsible. In the town I grew, fathers are the main bread winners, mothers play a supportive role so I have always assumed that many fathers play a responsible roles within their means in the life of their children, but this thread is making it look like irresponsible fathers are in the majority, which I find very hard to believe. I may have to accept that many mothers brainwash their kids then. As for me, I cannot discountenance the role my dad played in my life and for the life of me, I do not see how he will not get a larger percentage of the money when I know that he will still spend most of it on the home. Apart from doing charity with his own share after spending on the home, I cannot even think of what my dad would have spent the money on that will benefit him alone, perhaps fueling of fixing his car, that is the only thing that comes to mind. If this is what as a father one will face in future, make I kukuma resign stay house de provide emotional support since they are now making it look like it is more important than school fees, feeding, clothing and other expenses. This thread shock me sha o Squillaci: 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by Myjohnson: 1:22pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
Dad...60 Mom..40....las las na mumsy go still collect d half of DAT 60 |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by Unik3030: 1:22pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
Bankowner:u have to use your head n understand that am trying to tell u that fathers differ, n people experience different things based on what they went through. The experience of a child with a caring father will definitely b different from that of a deadbeat dad. 2 Likes |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by neonly: 1:23pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
vizkiz: I must know you I will start following your comments make sense die All dis useless kid's now forgetting dat if not for der father hustle der mum will still go and Bleep another man to provide for them last last she go abandon them and start nursingtbe new man children To all the fathers out der including me KEEP IT UP 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by Carioca: 1:23pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
vizkiz: 3 Likes |
Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by Christmasdon(m): 1:23pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
ahnie:.WHY E BE SAY GIRLS ALWAYS LOVE THEIR PAA'LE MORE THAN THEIR MAA'LE.AND GUYS LOVE THEIR MAA'LE LIKE MAD. TRY TOUCH THEIR MUM OR TALK ANY HOW ABOUT THEIR MUM I TELL YOU. YOU ARE DEAD ON ARRIVAL. ANSWER ME. |
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