MrBrownJay1:


this above is the reason why so many women are miserable in marriage, and why so many union fail miserably.... the desperation of people that has them focus on GETTING MARRIED AT ANY COST instead of focusing on FINDING A GOOD MAN TO MARRY

here is a simple clue: if a woman is with 5 different men leading them on....then this woman is certainly NO GOOD and no man should marry this good for nothing deceitful demon. this is not a competition to see how fast you canget married, but a life decision to find someone that you want to spend the rest of your natural life with .... and if you think that the above is the way to find a lifemate then you need more than jesus/lucifer and shiva combined to possibly save your life.

MrBrownJay1:


this above is the reason why so many women are miserable in marriage, and why so many union fail miserably.... the desperation of people that has them focus on GETTING MARRIED AT ANY COST instead of focusing on FINDING A GOOD MAN TO MARRY

here is a simple clue: if a woman is with 5 different men leading them on....then this woman is certainly NO GOOD and no man should marry this good for nothing deceitful demon. this is not a competition to see how fast you canget married, but a life decision to find someone that you want to spend the rest of your natural life with .... and if you think that the above is the way to find a lifemate then you need more than jesus/lucifer and shiva combined to possibly save your life.

ubunja:
Good men don't turn women on. That's the problem that is the root of all problems in this world of dating and marriage.

ubunja:
Good men don't turn women on. That's the problem that is the root of all problems in this world of dating and marriage.

MrBrownJay1:


it doesnt matter what turns women on.... you certainly cant change your character/being just to be with a woman. men should be themselves and certainly stay away from them deluded women who keep 5 men on a string, waiting to settle with the one who would have danced to her nonsense the longer. a man is better off single and fucking bitches for the rest of his natural life than to settle with such mentally damaged type of women.

sadly we all know that so many are desperate for marriage, and would accept to marry any good for nothing partner out there.

MrBrownJay1:


it doesnt matter what turns women on.... you certainly cant change your character/being just to be with a woman. men should be themselves and certainly stay away from them deluded women who keep 5 men on a string, waiting to settle with the one who would have danced to her nonsense the longer. a man is better off single and fucking bitches for the rest of his natural life than to settle with such mentally damaged type of women.

sadly we all know that so many are desperate for marriage, and would accept to marry any good for nothing partner out there.

ubunja:
but who wants to marry someone who doesn't turn them on??

ericsmith:




If asking a man for marriage after 6-9month of dating is not desperation then oxford dictionary had beta review the definition of "desperation" asap. No wonder divorce rate is on incessant increase.

MrBrownJay1:


i guess in your world, a man's "woman of his dream" will be written on this babe's forehead, abi?
i guess in your world, a man's "woman of his dream" is so easy to find that men can just find such woman at every street corner, abi?
i guess in your world, a man's "woman of his dream" will be easy to spot all her quality/character (to confirm that she is indeed the woman of his dream) after a few good dates, abi?
i guess in your world, a man's "woman of his dream" keeps countless toasters on speed dial (as you claim below), abi?!



its not only foolish but also VERY DANGEROUS to claim that within a year, a man "must" make a decision as to whether he wants to marry someone or not. it will takes no less than a year for that woman to relax and be herself, with no pretense etc. it will take no less than a year to possibly see a true character, it will take no less than a year to probably see her true face (without make up and mop on her head, it will take him no less than a year to see the true nature of such woman....yet you expect men to make decision within that year when (by then) they are possibly still dating a stranger?! come on, you must be a comedian or very desperate. can you truly decide to marry a man you barely know (aka just 1year)... how desperate must one be to do such madness?!



biblical gibberish....



you 1st mistake here is to actually think that to get to know someone you MUST give away your vagina. by all means, if thats the only thing someone has to offer then fair enough, but there are many other ways to know/discover someone.
your 2nd mistake is to believe that keeping countless of toasters on speed dial is a great way to live, while instead it is the same reason that has the man in your life doubt that you are a great woman to marry. this is surely one of the worst character/trait you can possess and the exact same reason as to why MEN NEED TIME TO DISCOVER WOMEN. i guess in your world, its not about the man but about marrying "any" donkey out there, thus the reason why you would keep toasters on speed dial and expect your BF to make decision to marry you. lol highly laughable.
your final mistake on this issue is to believe that women can act like good for nothing wh0res (having multiple men on speed dial)... and attract anything other than fukcboys.

Michellekabod2:

The point of my post is that a man who wants to marry a lady will have decided with 6-9 months . no one is saying a lady should talk about it to her man,no! A lady who entered a relationship with the aim of marriage should leave if hasn't said anything about marriage during their time frame.

ericsmith:
So you believe 9month is ideal enough for a man to propose marriage, you think couples like olu jacob & joke , jay z beyonce , dakolo bukola, tinubu remi, E money juliet ,tu face annie, even those papas in the lord adeboye ,olukoya, oyedepo dated for 1yr .
one year might be enough for some people buh its not ideal to conclude a r/ship beyond that is a waste of time, what happens when yu leave a 9mnth r/ship enter into a new one, @9months nothing again n it continues ... why not just find one beta choice, give it all ur shot n let fate decide.

MrBrownJay1:


the above in bold is the main issue.... just because some women are ready (after 9months), they are willing to throw away a r/ship if a man aint ready when they are. they will dismiss such man as no good if he doesnt see "yet" what a woman is seeing.