Mizwisdom:



You're not alone, many families don't show preference in some cases they are harder on you because they don't want you to feel privileged in any way, its for your good.

Yeah, sure. I wouldn't have been half the man I am today, if I had been over-protected. I'm glad you understand perfectly well. Thank you.

Brother, only sons na gbege, truly.

Mizwisdom:



Lol, nothing preferential in my family, nothing like only son, thank God I'm not Igbo

An Igbo man may just sweep you off your feet. In all their chauvinism, they know how to be men for their women.

pocohantas:


An Igbo man may just sweep you off your feet. In all their chauvinism, they know how to be men for their women.

The rainbow woman and her seven colors. SMH.

pocohantas:


An Igbo man may just sweep you off your feet. In all their chauvinism, they know how to be men for their women.

I reject it IJN


Don't misunderstand me, I like Igbos, I know and live around many of you, I think you should marry yourselves though because you understand yourselves

Apus:



Yeah, sure. I wouldn't have been half the man I am today, if I had been over-protected. I'm glad you understand perfectly well. Thank you.

Uwc

Mizwisdom:


I reject it IJN


Don't misunderstand me, I like Igbos, I know and live around many of you, I think you should marry yourselves though because you understand yourselves

I am only interested in the rich ones (in diaspora). The rest I dash to Peeress and Zmpp. “Good girls“ are hardly ever fortunate anyway.

I understand you babe.

I am an only son too with two sisters i was never pampered infact me and parents never had much time i only see them once a year even my siblings.though i know what you are talking about but in my own i never relate much with my parents and all my dates knows it.am a very private person

Too many iya oko na problem for the wife however if the wife is nice herself she go win their heart .

pocohantas:


I am only interested in the rich ones (in diaspora). The rest I dash to Peeress and Zmpp. “Good girls“ are hardly ever fortunate anyway.

I understand you babe.

I am a happily married woman and my eldest child may even senior you. I understand the reason why you always think that any woman who calls you out for your hypocrisy does so for a personal interest, but everyone is not like you my child. Most of us are not looking for husbands. Of course, good girls are always fortunate, so stop deceiving the younger ones. It is the end that always justify the means.

Only a foolish man or a man who God wants to punish will take you for a wife, especially if you do not change for good,

They are always happily married with grown children and thriving careers. But petty like bored wives. Last last, na alternate for Family section with sob tales dey end am.

Set Awon Peeress.

I lost my fiance to another man, just because am an only son. Her reason was that, she prayed never to marry an only son and secondly, she wants competition

Mymynd4u:
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looking fornl trouble as usual??

AxelandRed:
While I was out on my first date with my girlfriend, she asked me how many sibling I have, to which I replied. She then proceeded to ask the number of males and females. Then I told her I only have sisters. That moment, her face dropped because we were already Into each other, I could tell she was disappointed.

She tried to hide this, but I noticed. This was Probably because that wasn't the first time I would be getting that reaction from people especially women the moment I tell them I'm the only son of my parents.

I queried her on her sudden change of mood and she told me that she has had unfavorable relationship experiences (twice) in the past with only Sons and has vowed never to try it again. She reasoned that only Sons are too clingy to their families, overpampered, emotionally needy and dependent on their families and hardly have a mind of their own. She also accused the families of always trying to pilot the affairs of the guys even to the extent of making life changing decisions for them.

When i was young, I also had friends who thought I was pampered, showered with extraordinary love and care and that my parents can't turn down any request from me. But the truth is that I never got any special treatment from my parents. The same curtain wire, broom, hanger my mom used to whip my sisters, she also used on me.

My point is that it's unfair to lump people together and label them. If an only son happens to be clingy, it has nothing to do with his status. He would have still been that way if he had 10 brothers.

Statistically, the way they (Only son) are pampered is worse than you think.
I have a cousin who is the only son as well, when we were kids he was really pampered that if not for my own siblings love, I would have felt bad. Today, his parents regret every bit of pampering towards him, I just can't explain his behaviour here because I can't imagine doing such to my parents.

There is this preferential treatment given to only sons, it is permissible for them not to do chores, cook, our parents sometimes bring them up like a lion, and it ends up becoming a societal problem.

Many of them can hardly fix something good (I am not talking about noodles o) in the kitchen when no lady is nearby.

AxelandRed:
While I was out on my first date with my girlfriend, she asked me how many sibling I have, to which I replied. She then proceeded to ask the number of males and females. Then I told her I only have sisters. That moment, her face dropped because we were already Into each other, I could tell she was disappointed.

She tried to hide this, but I noticed. This was Probably because that wasn't the first time I would be getting that reaction from people especially women the moment I tell them I'm the only son of my parents.

I queried her on her sudden change of mood and she told me that she has had unfavorable relationship experiences (twice) in the past with only Sons and has vowed never to try it again. She reasoned that only Sons are too clingy to their families, overpampered, emotionally needy and dependent on their families and hardly have a mind of their own. She also accused the families of always trying to pilot the affairs of the guys even to the extent of making life changing decisions for them.

When i was young, I also had friends who thought I was pampered, showered with extraordinary love and care and that my parents can't turn down any request from me. But the truth is that I never got any special treatment from my parents. The same curtain wire, broom, hanger my mom used to whip my sisters, she also used on me.

My point is that it's unfair to lump people together and label them. If an only son happens to be clingy, it has nothing to do with his status. He would have still been that way if he had 10 brothers.

Forget talk.

The main issue which she didn't tell you is the possibility of having issues with your mum should she marry you.

If child birth delays by 2 years, then you won't even recognize your mum as preparations to get another wife for you ripens.

If I were a woman, I won't marry only son. Forget talk.

This incident is a big one. But the Lady is not bad in her choice, as you may have choice of Persons too.
So, that's just that and the story is over.

VICTORCIZA:
The number one issue is that only son normally die earlier (don't get me wrong because it not your portion in ijn) reason is that the eyes of the enemies is always on them.
but when there plenty boys the enemies will be confused who to channel their arsenal first and most time it will be on the first son.

you must be a Yoruba boy with plenty Africa magic series in your head. Haaaaa

AxelandRed:
While I was out on my first date with my girlfriend, she asked me how many sibling I have, to which I replied. She then proceeded to ask the number of males and females. Then I told her I only have sisters. That moment, her face dropped because we were already Into each other, I could tell she was disappointed.

She tried to hide this, but I noticed. This was Probably because that wasn't the first time I would be getting that reaction from people especially women the moment I tell them I'm the only son of my parents.

I queried her on her sudden change of mood and she told me that she has had unfavorable relationship experiences (twice) in the past with only Sons and has vowed never to try it again. She reasoned that only Sons are too clingy to their families, overpampered, emotionally needy and dependent on their families and hardly have a mind of their own. She also accused the families of always trying to pilot the affairs of the guys even to the extent of making life changing decisions for them.

When i was young, I also had friends who thought I was pampered, showered with extraordinary love and care and that my parents can't turn down any request from me. But the truth is that I never got any special treatment from my parents. The same curtain wire, broom, hanger my mom used to whip my sisters, she also used on me.

My point is that it's unfair to lump people together and label them. If an only son happens to be clingy, it has nothing to do with his status. He would have still been that way if he had 10 brothers.

That girl don dey manipulate you from day one. FEAR WOMEN

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr

That is not true

Your girl friend knows nothing about what she is saying

Am also the only son
I got five female siblings

Huzzling go nearly finish you. Stress! You need a great sense of responsibility. You need mental strength
Some matter go happen ehnnn. Those girls nor go fit jump follow you. Na only you go face am. Sometimes you will feel lonely. You go dey huzzle dey use your money for reasonable things for the house but their own money them go dey use am for all type of hair styles: braiding, twisting, Rihanna, bob Marley, buy weavon. Fix okuku hair styles. Them go dey fix nails even fix nails when dey show light in the night. Them go dey mix expensive cream

The only thing i benefits is the unending love they do show me. They direct all their love towards me because girls actually don't love themselves! No household chores for me. I can wake up at anytime and eat.
Fear nor dey let them talk for outside but na for house them dey show muscle!

Why do you always put damn niggar in ur Post

Sehindemi:
looking fornl trouble as usual??

Sehindemi, lemme send u a pm

Sehindemi:
looking fornl trouble as usual??

Dt day, it was just a glitch in our communication

Just sent u a dm

Jeweltz:

Why do you always put damn niggar in ur Post

u are one of a kind

Uncle.. my wahala no be here. I'm an only son too and it's not easy... Na me chop beating pass.. na me chop rugged pass seh. Na me no see allowance wey bam collect.


All has led me to hunt for myself though

To do this first, you need money and I mean enough money. Cos without money the pressure alone can kill you before your time or you fit run mad with over thinking on how to make things work. I am an only son and first child I know what's going on. Every day I pray for grace and mercy. [color=#000099][/color]

Ladycewhy:
She sure is experienced with life lessons. She said the exact truth.Ladies avoid only sons for your own peace of mind, talking from my personal experience.

so who is going 2 marry dem. Abi u want dem become father. Its not fair oh.

Bruh, una own nor be misconception sef na fact. Responsibility wey dey una head and many other things we follow, una mama nor dey wan rest for una matter. She nor dey find am easy to understand and accept say una don marry become man of una own, etc etc
I'm speaking fry experience o. My popsy and my husband Dem be first born sons

vizkiz:
Bro...It is no stereotype but the absolute truth.

The level of favoritism that goes into being the only son is astonishing!

You are likened to the “Golden egg” who will carry the family’s legacy (hence being a spoilt child). Don’t allow the 21st century’s manipulation that all child are equal deceive you. You will always get favored by your parents than your siblings.

This one you are complaining about being the only son, what do you want those of us who are the First born son to do?

Do you know the level of misconception directed towards our path? Abeg abeg no vex me this afternoon

valboyz2010:
Ha last born sweet pass when anybody Bleep up u go just to they gate they wait make papa come make u report them

Yes o. We rock

vizkiz:
Bro...It is no stereotype but the absolute truth.

The level of favoritism that goes into being the only son is astonishing!

You are likened to the “Golden egg” who will carry the family’s legacy (hence being a spoilt child). Don’t allow the 21st century’s manipulation that all child are equal deceive you. You will always get favored by your parents than your siblings.

This one you are complaining about being the only son, what do you want those of us who are the First born son to do?

Do you know the level of misconception directed towards our path? Abeg abeg no vex me this afternoon

The responsibility that comes with being the first born son.

vizkiz:
Bro...It is no stereotype but the absolute truth.

The level of favoritism that goes into being the only son is astonishing!

You are likened to the “Golden egg” who will carry the family’s legacy (hence being a spoilt child). Don’t allow the 21st century’s manipulation that all child are equal deceive you. You will always get favored by your parents than your siblings.

This one you are complaining about being the only son, what do you want those of us who are the First born son to do?

Do you know the level of misconception directed towards our path? Abeg abeg no vex me this afternoon

First sons their own eh... You can not behave as you like, you deh mad?! Though we still get favored Sha pass our other siblings but as for misbehaving lie lie..

Lmaoooooooo I have just one brother who happens to be the last born.
There's no favouritism in my family at all for him, infact them wan use work finish am for house sef .

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VICTORCIZA:
The number one issue is that only son normally die earlier (don't get me wrong because it not your portion in ijn) reason is that the eyes of the enemies is always on them.
but when there plenty boys the enemies will be confused who to channel their arsenal first and most time it will be on the first son.

Bruh
You're talking in the rubbish
You're talking in the nonsense
You're talking in th the thing that does not have a goop experience at all
You're posting a rubbish
Why this?