It is your birthday my darling wife, I have to make public this letter because you are the best thing that ever happened to my life and I can't keep silent anymore.

My friend and lover of 16 straight years, It is usual for husbands to appreciate their wives in the name of marriage but it is unusual to state reasons for the appreciation.

I think you don't just love, there should be genuine reasons to love, I will purge out my thoughts on the reasons you should be the most celebrated wife on earth.

As a young man, if all you ever wish for is to meet your partner a virgin, I personally NEVER wished for it but women who still keep their virginity against all odds for the right man should be specially celebrated in today's crazy world. Amazingly I can confidently say that I am the only man in her life for 16yrs until date, she is a completely faithful wife.

We have never had any issues over infidelity on her part during our courtship and marriage till date, I have been the one misbehaving through the years, growing up was crazy, I was the one exploring life and doing all I could but she submitted her life to me.

As a multi talented young lady, she submitted her career and life to me, believing in me despite all my mistakes, she is the only person that understands me even without an explanation to my human mistakes.

I can not easily forget her usual lines after giving her piece of advice, she will say "I do not see you as my husband, I see you as my own son, If my son should do this same thing you have just done, will i disown him?", "you are still young, you will outgrow these behaviours and be the best man for me"

I lost my biological mother 11 yrs ago but If I call you my mother, I have a genuine reason to do so because you stood by me in a way that only a mother can.

The 16yrs wasn't all rosy, about 9 of the 16 years was full sufferings and poverty, even when I lost hope in myself, you continued to have high hopes in me without any iota of doubt.

We were homeless on two occasions in our lives and then with 2 kids, you endured with me, staying with your mom while I stay with a friend, you even came to live with me in my friend's place.

Despite the humiliation, you refused to give up on me, you absolutely signed off your whole life to me. At a point you wore your best cloth to a company where I asked you to help me submit a proposal, a young lady tapped you to inform you that your dress is torn at the back.

If you have ever had to wear a cloth that is so used up and begins to split into two from the back, you will understand what this means, my wife came home and narrated the issue to me, she actually saw the dress before wearing it, she wore it because she had no better one to wear

I couldn't control my emotions, I began to cry like a baby, I can never forget what she told me that faithful day, she said "Baby, don't worry, the same me wearing torn cloths today will have enough to wear tomorrow, I will even be giving out because it will be excess" Behold 7yrs after her words came to pass, cloths and female accessories are the least of her worries.

Your wisdom is extraordinary even me your husband can not match, your heart so pure that you forgive the unthinkable. Your ways so pure that you find it difficult to tell a lie. You gave me a girl and 2 boys. 12yr, 6yr and 2yr respectively.

You stood by your promise to see me through to success, If you look for a woman who gives in everything into a relationship without blinking, that is my wife.

You politely correct me when I am wrong, you warmly advise me and leave me to make my final decisions, you respect me as a father not as a husband.

Your culinary skills are the best I have ever known, friends and family can testify to this, you are the best mother to our kids, your daughter calls you the best mom in the world, I also call you the best wife and mother in the world. They say no perfect human but you are near perfect. You are so beautiful that people who do not know you conclude that you must have several men in your life spending money on you to look younger and beautiful even after 3 kids.

I can go on and on because there is a lot to talk about you that is not open to others, you live a private life without desperation for anything in life, You are a woman of honor, dignity, value with undying strength to carry on and remain focus against all odds.

I promise to guide our union with my life, protect our family with my strength and celebrate you for the rest of your life.

Happy birthday my darling wife!

You are indeed the best!

Please help move this to FP today 26 Feb to celebrate a good woman's birthday.

Add: On your request, I have added pics.

Thank you.

Beautiful expression of emotions.

Thank you Pavore, my Agric mentor over the years

Now that you've written that, you need to guide the celebrant to come see the outpouring of emotion.

Your description of your wife is who they were talking about in the book of Proverbs...A virtuous woman.

Congratulations for finding Diamond in the rough sea of Slay Queens and money mongers.

Sooo sweet. But why u no add pix

Foodqueen:
Sooo sweet. But why u no add pix

But why do you need pix....you want to kidnap the woman?

Foodqueen:
Sooo sweet. But why u no add pix

I want my nairaland family to request for it before adding it. I will obey your orders ma

I pray it makes front-page today o

ProtectMyMoney:


Now that you've written that, you need to guide the celebrant to come see the outpouring of emotion.

Your description of your wife is who they were talking about in the book of Proverbs...A virtuous woman.

Congratulations for finding Diamond in the rough sea of Slay Queens and money mongers.

Thank you so much, I have shared the link with her, this is the first surprise I have for her when she wakes up by morning.

LagosBoi2:



Thank you so much, I have shared the link with her, this is the first surprise I have for her when she wakes up by morning.

Hope you have bought sufficient toilet rolls or enough handkerchiefs to clean tears of joy.

ProtectMyMoney:


Hope you have bought sufficient toilet rolls or enough handkerchiefs to clean tears of joy.

I am fully prepared

ProtectMyMoney:


But why do you need pix....you want to kidnap the woman?

U no see am say, him de call for front page.

Foodqueen:


U no see am say, him de call for front page.

Will adding pix help get it to front page? I need it oo to achieve my surprise package

Wow! Happy birthday to her. I wish her long life and prosperity and all her heart desires. Mheen! She's indeed a rare gem.

A heartfelt birthday message, very sweet. She'll be all red when she sees this. Happy birthday to your darling wife

A breathe of relief from all the bad stories people have to talk about in their marriages making others say marrriage is obsolete and have outlived it importance


Getting married to the right person for the right reasons will bring more Joy and stability to you. But sadly nowadays people get married for the wrong reasons and

They then cry foul and try to undermine the institution of marriage calling it useless.

I'm so teary eyed..beautiful love story..May God continue to keep your Union.Happy best birthday my beautiful friend Toyonkiki Sessi..Very humble & free hearted soul..Abimbola Oloruntola AMMSSSA

LagosBoi2:
Thank you Pavore, my Agric mentor over the years

You are welcome my brother, a beautiful family you have there, never trade it for anything.

Happy birthday to your wife OP, i wish her many happy returns.
It is beautiful to read something good from a man about his wife, shows you are grateful.
However, i hope you have stopped cheating on her especially now that things are better financially, if you haven't, please stop it, from your description of her, she doesn't deserve such disrespect.

LagosBoi2:
Thank you Pavore, my Agric mentor over the years

Bro you really are blessed. I tell people everyday, there are and will always remain good women. not perfect, but good, the closest to perfection.
May God bless and keep you guys love for ever amen. The wicked one(s) won't see you guys amen

On behalf of me and my family, please collect one cold pack of hollandia and barbecue chicken for madam.
I'll pay when I come back from work next week please.

Wow. What a beautiful love story. Happy birthday to your wife and please don’t stop loving her for the rest of your life .

Toyon Elizabeth ( Sesi ) Today I join your husband and the rest of the world to celebrate you. God bless you more and grant you many more glorious wins in life that nation will break protocol for your sake and your family, you will never be stranded in life in Jesus name.
Happy birthday my friend, best wife and mother �.

Omololu Sotonwa
AMMSSSA.

If this makes front page, you might not like the outcome

But I'll still beg Lalasticlala to move this to promise land.

OP get ready

You said my mind, I thought men don’t cheat on Virgins and women that “suffered with them’.



Happy birthday madam, you’re the true definition of a Nigerian virtuous woman.

Vyolet:
Happy birthday to your wife OP, i wish her many happy returns.
It is beautiful to read something good from a man about his wife, shows you are grateful.
However, i hope you have stopped cheating on her especially now that things are better financially, if you haven't, please stop it, from your description of her, she doesn't deserve such disrespect.

When I tell people that despite horrible marital woes and tales people are experiencing and narrating, that there are still beautiful marriages out there, people say it's a lie. Now, this is one of them.

#op, happy bestest birthday to your beautiful wife, wishing her all the desires of her heart.

May your marriage continue to blossom and flourish like the trees planted by the river's side.



Honestly, I love this your surprise package

Thank you LagosBoi2.

You have shown
1. Marriage is a very beautiful thing when done right.
2. There are good women who stay true to their partners.
3. You don't have to be a "dominant man" to have the love and loyalty of a good and beautiful woman.
4. Tough times are just for a while. It's like the flu. It'll pass.

Thanks and congratulations to your wonderful wife.

Vyolet:
Happy birthday to your wife OP, i wish her many happy returns.
It is beautiful to read something good from a man about his wife, shows you are grateful.
However, i hope you have stopped cheating on her especially now that things are better financially, if you haven't, please stop it, from your description of her, she doesn't deserve such disrespect.

Absolutely, I stopped some years ago. She doesn't deserve it in anyway. I am not ashamed to make public my past because she has forgiven me and my God has forgiven me, I am now the perfect type of husband ladies want to snatch, we both laugh at such attempts. Thank you so much for your contributions.

God bless you and your wife.
She will continue to be a source of happiness to you.

We pray for better yrs in happiness.

SaintHilary:
If this makes front page, you might not like the outcome

But I'll still beg Lalasticlala to move this to promise land.

OP get ready

Please Lalasticlala help move it to FP, I will love the outcome. I stopped been unfaithful to her over 8 yrs ago. She was right, I outgrew my young and naive self. I am happy to make public my mistakes and experience, it could help those with the right women make the painful but right decisions to be faithful to such women. They deserve love and total commitment. Thank you

LewsTherin:
Thank you LagosBoi2.

You have shown
1. Marriage is a very beautiful thing when done right.
2. There are good women who stay true to their partners.
3. You don't have to be a "dominant man" to have the love and loyalty of a good and beautiful woman.
4. Tough times are just for a while. It's like the flu. It'll pass.

Thanks and congratulations to your wonderful wife.

You are absolutely correct. Thank you so much. I am happy I was able to get my messages across.

I'm so happy for you and madam, congratulations! I shed tears reading about the torn dress incident



But let me also alert you about something you may not know, this world is wicked o. Pray that your enemies will not see your smiles and decide to manipulate by causing tears in your family. That's why it's better to safeguard your family by keeping them away from social media or public announcement. God bless

LagosBoi2:
It is your birthday my darling wife, I have to make public this letter because you are the best thing that ever happened to my life and I can't keep silent anymore.

My friend and lover of 16 straight years, It is usual for husbands to appreciate their wives in the name of marriage but it is unusual to state reasons for the appreciation.

I think you don't just love, there should be genuine reasons to love, I will purge out my thoughts on the reasons you should be the most celebrated wife on earth.

As a young man, if all you ever wish for is to meet your partner a virgin, I personally NEVER wished for it but women who still keep their virginity against all odds for the right man should be specially celebrated in today's crazy world. Amazingly I can confidently say that I am the only man in her life for 16yrs until date, she is a completely faithful wife.

We have never had any issues over infidelity on her part during our courtship and marriage till date, I have been the one misbehaving through the years, growing up was crazy, I was the one exploring life and doing all I could but she submitted her life to me.

As a multi talented young lady, she submitted her career and life to me, believing in me despite all my mistakes, she is the only person that understands me even without an explanation to my human mistakes.

I can not easily forget her usual lines after giving her piece of advice, she will say "I do not see you as my husband, I see you as my own son, If my son should do this same thing you have just done, will i disown him?", "you are still young, you will outgrow these behaviours and be the best man for me"

I lost my biological mother 11 yrs ago but If I call you my mother, I have a genuine reason to do so because you stood by me in a way that only a mother can.

The 16yrs wasn't all rosy, about 9 of the 16 years was full sufferings and poverty, even when I lost hope in myself, you continued to have high hopes in me without any iota of doubt.

We were homeless on two occasions in our lives and then with 2 kids, you endured with me, staying with your mom while I stay with a friend, you even came to live with me in my friend's place.

Despite the humiliation, you refused to give up on me, you absolutely signed off your whole life to me. At a point you wore your best cloth to a company where I asked you to help me submit a proposal, a young lady tapped you to inform you that your dress is torn at the back.

If you have ever had to wear a cloth that is so used up and begins to split into two from the back, you will understand what this means, my wife came home and narrated the issue to me, she actually saw the dress before wearing it, she wore it because she had no better one to wear

I couldn't control my emotions, I began to cry like a baby, I can never forget what she told me that faithful day, she said "Baby, don't worry, the same me wearing torn cloths today will have enough to wear tomorrow, I will even be giving out because it will be excess" Behold 7yrs after her words came to pass, cloths and female accessories are the least of her worries.

Your wisdom is extraordinary even me your husband can not match, your heart so pure that you forgive the unthinkable. Your ways so pure that you find it difficult to tell a lie. You gave me a girl and 2 boys. 12yr, 6yr and 2yr respectively.

You stood by your promise to see me through to success, If you look for a woman who gives in everything into a relationship without blinking, that is my wife.

You politely correct me when I am wrong, you warmly advise me and leave me to make my final decisions, you respect me as a father not as a husband.

Your culinary skills are the best I have ever known, friends and family can testify to this, you are the best mother to our kids, your daughter calls you the best mom in the world, I also call you the best wife and mother in the world. They say no perfect human but you are near perfect. You are so beautiful that people who do not know you conclude that you must have several men in your life spending money on you to look younger and beautiful even after 3 kids.

I can go on and on because there is a lot to talk about you that is not open to others, you live a private life without desperation for anything in life, You are a woman of honor, dignity, value with undying strength to carry on and remain focus against all odds.

I promise to guide our union with my life, protect our family with my strength and celebrate you for the rest of your life.

Happy birthday my darling wife!

You are indeed the best!

Please help move this to FP today 26 Feb to celebrate a good woman's birthday.

Add: On your request, I have added pics.

Thank you.

RoyalRoy
Lalasticlala

Happy birthday to your beautiful wife, may God bless and keep her safe Amen. Let me also use this medium to pray for myself, may God bless me with a man who will love me wholeheartedly just as you love your wife amen.

Mizwisdom:
I'm so happy for you and madam, congratulations! I shed tears reading about the torn dress incident



But let me also alert you about something you may not know, this world is wicked o. Pray that your enemies will not see your smiles and decide to manipulate by causing tears in your family. That's why it's better to safeguard your family by keeping them away from social media or public announcement. God bless

You are right ma'm, we may be social but we are a prayerful family. We have been through several wars from families and deceitful friends together. With God on our side our victory is permanent. Thank you