LagosBoi2:
It is your birthday my darling wife, I have to make public this letter because you are the best thing that ever happened to my life and I can't keep silent anymore.

My friend and lover of 16 straight years, It is usual for husbands to appreciate their wives in the name of marriage but it is unusual to state reasons for the appreciation.

I think you don't just love, there should be genuine reasons to love, I will purge out my thoughts on the reasons you should be the most celebrated wife on earth.

As a young man, if all you ever wish for is to meet your partner a virgin, I personally NEVER wished for it but women who still keep their virginity against all odds for the right man should be specially celebrated in today's crazy world. Amazingly I can confidently say that I am the only man in her life for 16yrs until date, she is a completely faithful wife.

We have never had any issues over infidelity on her part during our courtship and marriage till date, I have been the one misbehaving through the years, growing up was crazy, I was the one exploring life and doing all I could but she submitted her life to me.

As a multi talented young lady, she submitted her career and life to me, believing in me despite all my mistakes, she is the only person that understands me even without an explanation to my human mistakes.

I can not easily forget her usual lines after giving her piece of advice, she will say "I do not see you as my husband, I see you as my own son, If my son should do this same thing you have just done, will i disown him?", "you are still young, you will outgrow these behaviours and be the best man for me"

I lost my biological mother 11 yrs ago but If I call you my mother, I have a genuine reason to do so because you stood by me in a way that only a mother can.

The 16yrs wasn't all rosy, about 9 of the 16 years was full sufferings and poverty, even when I lost hope in myself, you continued to have high hopes in me without any iota of doubt.

We were homeless on two occasions in our lives and then with 2 kids, you endured with me, staying with your mom while I stay with a friend, you even came to live with me in my friend's place.

Despite the humiliation, you refused to give up on me, you absolutely signed off your whole life to me. At a point you wore your best cloth to a company where I asked you to help me submit a proposal, a young lady tapped you to inform you that your dress is torn at the back.

If you have ever had to wear a cloth that is so used up and begins to split into two from the back, you will understand what this means, my wife came home and narrated the issue to me, she actually saw the dress before wearing it, she wore it because she had no better one to wear

I couldn't control my emotions, I began to cry like a baby, I can never forget what she told me that faithful day, she said "Baby, don't worry, the same me wearing torn cloths today will have enough to wear tomorrow, I will even be giving out because it will be excess" Behold 7yrs after her words came to pass, cloths and female accessories are the least of her worries.

Your wisdom is extraordinary even me your husband can not match, your heart so pure that you forgive the unthinkable. Your ways so pure that you find it difficult to tell a lie. You gave me a girl and 2 boys. 12yr, 6yr and 2yr respectively.

You stood by your promise to see me through to success, If you look for a woman who gives in everything into a relationship without blinking, that is my wife.

You politely correct me when I am wrong, you warmly advise me and leave me to make my final decisions, you respect me as a father not as a husband.

Your culinary skills are the best I have ever known, friends and family can testify to this, you are the best mother to our kids, your daughter calls you the best mom in the world, I also call you the best wife and mother in the world. They say no perfect human but you are near perfect. You are so beautiful that people who do not know you conclude that you must have several men in your life spending money on you to look younger and beautiful even after 3 kids.

I can go on and on because there is a lot to talk about you that is not open to others, you live a private life without desperation for anything in life, You are a woman of honor, dignity, value with undying strength to carry on and remain focus against all odds.

I promise to guide our union with my life, protect our family with my strength and celebrate you for the rest of your life.

Happy birthday my darling wife!

You are indeed the best!

Please help move this to FP today 26 Feb to celebrate a good woman's birthday.

Add: On your request, I have added pics.

Thank you.

I can say this is genuine appreciation from a man to his wife. Happy birthday Ma'am. May God continue to bless your home. Amen.

All these woman waiting for rich men always forget that many of the time, there is always a woman who was there when these men had nothing. But as soon as they have, all these greedy girls would start trying to get him.

Joy099:


Happy birthday to your beautiful wife, may God bless and keep her safe Amen. Let me also use this medium to pray for myself, may God bless me with a man who will love me wholeheartedly just as you love your wife amen.

If God blesses you with such man as you request above, are you ready to suffer with him like the wife we are all celebrating on here, or will you fly the next available prick like the wife in the other thread that is saying she is in trouble with blackmailers?

Golden wife, they are very rare.

LagosBoi2:



You are right ma'm, we may be social but we are a prayerful family. We have been through several wars from families and deceitful friends together. With God on our side our victory is permanent. Thank you

Happy Birthday to the Angel you downgraded to just mortal wife...Let heavens intimidate her with grace and happiness... Amen...Unending joy to your family bro!!!

You made me desire marriage...I pray to be more lucky than you....Sincerely, I fear unhappy marriage

spongeisback:
You said my mind, I thought men don’t cheat on Virgins and women that “suffered with them’.



Happy birthday madam, you’re the true definition of a Nigerian virtuous woman.

The perfect definition actually. Cheating husband, no funds... very submissive/supportive wife.

Happy birthday to her. We need more women like her in the society.

ProtectMyMoney:


If God blesses you with such man as you request above, are you ready to suffer with him like the wife we are all celebrating on here, or will you fly the next available prick like the wife in the other thread that is saying she is in trouble with blackmailers?

OP flew to available vaginas. Why did you conveniently ignore that and not admonish your fellow men to be faithful to their GOOD WIVES?

That way women can celebrate their men like this, for standing by them when they cheated and were financially down.

Please take a back seat with your selective advice.

ProtectMyMoney:


Poco, we are celebrating the woman not the man... because it is difficult finding such virtuous woman in modern times...

We look forward to VIRTUOUS men. Amen...

Now you sound like the perfect man she had always wanted, hope you stay on this lane till the end of time.

God bless your family.

pocohantas:


OP flew to available vaginas. Why did you conveniently ignore that and not admonish your fellow men to be faithful to their GOOD WIVES?

That way women can celebrate their men like this, for standing by them when they cheated and were financially down.

Please take a back seat with your selective advice.

I'm reading the post and seeing behind the sweet words too

pocohantas:


OP flew to available vaginas. Why did you conveniently ignore that and not admonish your fellow men to be faithful to their GOOD WIVES?

Please take a back seat with your selective advice.

Poco, we are celebrating the woman not the man... because it is difficult finding such virtuous woman in modern times...

Congratulations for finding a good wife. A good wife is hard to find. But they are available but very few. Take care of her and never you break her heart and disappoint her. I know some Nigerian men. Once they have few wads of disposable naira waffling in their pockets and there is a fine car with tinted windows, they will start running after heavily painted slay queens with fake big boobs and asses. Remember, Shakespeare said and I quote "hell hath no fury than a woman scorned".

pocohantas:



The perfect definition actually. Cheating husband, no funds... very submissive/supportive wife.

Happy birthday to her. We need more women like her in the society.

I thought I was a sadist to read inbetween those sweet lines

Happy birthday to her

Mymynd4u:


Only a yoruba woman can be faithful like this

Well, to an extent you're right.

This Is Just Beautiful

Joy099:


Happy birthday to your beautiful wife, may God bless and keep her safe Amen. Let me also use this medium to pray for myself, may God bless me with a man who will love me wholeheartedly just as you love your wife amen.

I’m here . look no further

9jatriot:
Finally someone comes to restore some hope in familyhood. The stories of gloom were beginning to get alarming. This your story proves one of the theories I have always had about certain types of marriage.

True talk there.

My advice to guys out there who are still single and searching is, dont friend your would be wife and later marry your would-be friend. From the write up, the OP court his wife and still marry his wife, like wise me I court and marry my wife and I must say that she is the best thing that have happen to me.

Cos most times nature have a way of connecting us to our wife first, but we end up courting them and went ahead and marry our would-be friend.

Jainine:


I'm reading the post and seeing behind the sweet words too

I am happy OP is changed. Unlike the ones who bask in their evil ways. Asides that, I do not look forward to same script playing out in my life. No offense to anyone, I am just too realistic to be emotional.

Happy birthday. I wish u many more blessings in every area of ur life. I join ur husband to celebrate u on did ur special day. Have a blissful birthday celebration n enjoy ur day. HBD to u once more n many happy returns.

I'm speechless. OP this is obviously from your heart. May God bless your wife and your union. I pray that his everlasting Joy will not depart from your home. Happy Birthday Madam.

OP made me cry.

Abro, you are very lucky to have this kind of wife beside you. If only you know what many men are seeing in their marriages to these women of today! Thank you for sharing your experience and blessing us with such a positive news today in the face of all the negatives floating around.
And to your lovely wife, I wish her a very happy birthday which has already started so wonderfully. She will not only enjoy your love and care but also that of her children and grand children. God will overlook her imperfections and grant her grace to do more exploits in life. May this society get better because of her existence.
To further celebrate this superlative lady, I will do one beer for her.

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Someone was arguing with me that there shouldn't be a reason to love(a reason is all you need)

Can I bet you married from Nsukka in Enugu State

Am not from there though but their girls are beautiful, hard working, fair and faithful

GOD DEHM IT

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pocohantas:


I am happy OP is changed. Unlike the ones who bask in their evil ways. Asides that, I do not look forward to same script playing out in my life. No offense to anyone, I am just too realistic to be emotional.

But you, eh.

This is refreshing, happy birthday Ma'am, keep doing good

ezenwajosh:
Can I bet you married from Nsukka in Enugu State

Am not from there though but their girls are beautiful and faithful GOD DEHM IT

Hmmn! When you are lucky, abi?

proclinician:


Na ur type be the real reason why God regrets creating human beings.

The entire female in your lineage are the actual reason God regrets creating the earth as a whole, you lack manners and the leaf does not fall far from the tree.

Vyolet:

The entire female in your lineage are the actual reason God regrets creating the earth as a whole, you lack manners and the leaf does not fall far from the tree.

hmmm

wharisdis

what are your interests?

Awww sweet words from an appreciative husband.

But I must still ask, must all men cheat
Will you forgive her for same mistake

Francita:
A breathe of relief from all the bad stories people have to talk about in their marriages making others say marrriage is obsolete and have outlived it importance


Getting married to the right person for the right reasons will bring more Joy and stability to you. But sadly nowadays people get married for the wrong reasons and

They then cry foul and try to undermine the institution of marriage calling it useless.

Only if we can have more of this in front page,it will stop making us scared of marriage like there are no good marriages.