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Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by Nobody: 10:36am On Mar 03, 2020 |
I need to ask a question here. Over the years,I have found that any girl that approaches me first,I used to find her very attractive and sexy. As in, if I am the one that first approach a lady for friendship/relationship, if she agrees and we start our relationship,soon i will get tired of the relationship and will not want to continue. This is because I will not find her attractive enough. I can only find a lady attractive enough if she is the one that first approach me,either directly or indirectly. As in,a lady might meet me that she wants me to teach her Mathematics/physics/biology etc. But maybe she wants to use the opportunity to get close to me. Such ladies,I use to find it very hard to let her go. As in,if the teaching leads to a relationship,I will feel so attached to her that I will want the relationship to continue forever. I find ladies who initiate the relationship very attractive and sexy.It does not matter the physical appearance of the lady. But if I am the one who initiate the relationship,I can easily let her go without thinking twice. This has happened countless number of times. Even now,I still think about those girls who initiated the relationship, but who later left me and are married. But those ones whom I was the first to approach,I do not even think about them if they eventually left. I bring this question to Nairaland because i know that if I approach a lady for marriage, I am very sure the marriage will not last. And since we are in a society where males must approach a lady for marriage,what am I to do? I will prefer a lady to approach me first,if I am to hold onto her forever. But a lady's pride will not allow her to approach me first for marriage. So i am bringing this question to Nairaland. |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by SavageMaster: 10:41am On Mar 03, 2020 |
Oya, wait for them to approach you for relationship. They'll also pay your Groom Price 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by Nobody: 11:08am On Mar 03, 2020 |
SavageMaster:Even if it means approaching me and then stepping back for me to then approach her. (I mean if she is too proud/shy to approach directly.) She can initiate it indirectly. You know,we all study ourselves and we know our tastes,strengths and weaknesses. So I have studied myself and have come to the conclusion that: (1) for me to have a perfect and loving marriage, (2) for me to love the lady and hold unto her forever, (3) for me to find the lady attractive and sexy, such a lady must approach me first.There are no 2 ways about that. But as for bride price,I am the one that will pay. |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by Neroiam(m): 11:14am On Mar 03, 2020 |
Fine boys like us, na dem dey rush us ..na na dem dey rush uss But seriously eh, forget fine boy mata. I can relate what OP is tryna communicate. Even those days in the university, the few girls i made move for were the ones that didn't last. Most that came indirectly.. Those ones can be caring eh.. E go be like say na second mama wen u get. But not all that came was taken sha... Still gotta pass through the selection process. Yes I'm picky. OP.. Weda she was the one who initiated or not, if the marriage will not last, it's majorly on you the man. give a woman a house, she'll give you a home 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by Nobody: 11:23am On Mar 03, 2020 |
Thanks Neroiam: |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by husbandsnatcha(f): 11:31am On Mar 03, 2020 |
That's the strategy I use on guys since my secondary school days, ....snatching husbands is for the wise " |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by husbandsnatcha(f): 11:34am On Mar 03, 2020 |
Neroiam:...fine boy right , ? Pray u don't meet my type , because I will use ur proudAss to raise my financial status... |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by Neroiam(m): 11:58am On Mar 03, 2020 |
husbandsnatcha: There's enough money to go round... What you should be concerned about is the selection process; much more knotty than a Nigerian tryna obtain a US visa. |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by PHOTSEE(m): 2:39pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
OP you make me lauf, just looking for easy lay ,beware of ease ware, had you say even you don't mind her appearances, which means age and looks does not count at all,what it takes is for her to approach you than you will loose your senses and put all your effort (your money, time and emotion). you are wrap in whip. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by solonubinho(m): 2:49pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
Because you've got self-esteem issues. Next!! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by Magnoliaa(f): 3:03pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
Many women like that abound. If you've found ones in the past, then you'll definitely meet more for whatever relationship you want. And, why did you share this like it's some unusual thing? I think it's normal. Even if a girl approaches you and ask for directions, then you'll automatically feel attracted to her. Not that you want her to ask you out and bare her feelings oh. Men and women interact everyday. No biggie. |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by Magnoliaa(f): 3:08pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
PHOTSEE: If I read right, the OP said that. That he doesn't care about those? And he didn't say he was going to lose his senses. |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by Magnoliaa(f): 3:10pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
solonubinho: lmao. No. It's just a preference. Something attractive to *him*. |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by Conner44: 3:23pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
Op it’s a given fact that oloshos usually reach out to the male folk first. Especially when you’re walking past a brothel and the ladies are outside whistling to you and calling you ‘fine boy’ just so you can come and be their client for the night. Op, you might end up falling in love and marrying a retired olosho with this your mindset. Be prepared |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by PHOTSEE(m): 3:47pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
Magnoliaa: lady Magnoliaa,never mine what he never said, it is men code of a beta. men are approach by ladies in clubs and pubs (FWB) with little effort any other time, it deflicult to see such happening and rare as much as guyz want to believe it happens. this is not movie. if you think it easy to make any advance on guy, come up with a line of words or action you might use. |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by Magnoliaa(f): 3:55pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
PHOTSEE: What are you trying to say? Sorry, I don't get you. |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by Austeeenxx: 4:11pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
So, those of us that look like Adams Oshiomole's poop, is there any hope for us? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by PHOTSEE(m): 4:14pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
Magnoliaa: every man love to be chased by woman they like or find attractive, but ladies hate to do such, it stress than out. most who do has hiden intensions and motives ( marriage )when they decide to advance guys. which op might likely fall for the bad good gal gangz because they get the good things in life while the good girl rut. |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by PHOTSEE(m): 4:21pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
Austeeenxx: they are ladies for every gents |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by Neroiam(m): 7:18pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
Austeeenxx: Bros, hope plenty for you if you're not only looking facially like Oshiobaba but pocket-wise |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by Neroiam(m): 7:26pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
Magnoliaa: For a girl asking for direction isn't a biggie... But when she asks in a way that conveys she's lusting after me, i be guyman. I dey code sharply. If she's my type, I'll throw the next line to that'll lead to exchange of numbers and you know the rest of the story. But that was then sha... |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by Nobody: 9:06pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
Neroiam: Exactly. |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
Magnoliaa: It is normal. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by Nobody: 9:14pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
PHOTSEE: It is better to fall for a bad girl that loves me so much than to fall for a good girl that does not try at all. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by Cholls(m): 9:15pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
my brother we go survive sha |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by TeleboiZ005(m): 9:15pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
Op ur case na reverse for me. The two girls wey my head bin d burst for decline my gentlemanly approach one by one. Then from no where one slim chocalote fine girl approached me. We started dating but na only for 2 months i becomed tired. Told the girl im no more interested. She cried though me come de pity her. |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by Nobody: 9:23pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
Conner44: To play hard to get, is not a virtue. All women can play hard to get. If a woman knows that you like hard to get ladies, even if she is a prostitute,she will become very hard to get,and you will suffer to get her. So to be hard to get is not a virtue. So don't go around seeking hard to get girls. When once they decode your mind,all of them will become hard to get. Only seek a woman who loves you. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by Magnoliaa(f): 10:20am On Mar 04, 2020 |
PHOTSEE: I don't agree with you but ok. |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by PHOTSEE(m): 12:09pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
Magnoliaa:Lady Magnoliaa,i am not a woman hater, i love ladies and respect them,i study and try to understand one's i come accrose individually, meaning i dn't generialize, that is the different between me and another around me. ladies loves my companies too. |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by Nobody: 2:04pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
handsomebeauty8:Indirect advertisement. Toast him at your own risk. |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by Nobody: 3:57pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
Zoie:I have money. If a girl toasts me,she is the one that will enjoy. I just want to feel loved/desired by a girl. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do I Find Ladies Who First Approach Me Very Attractive? by Nobody: 4:10pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
I'm sucker for that too .. Girls I approach, I end up getting uninterested in |
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