SavageMaster:
Oya, wait for them to approach you for relationship.

They'll also pay your Groom Price

Neroiam:
Fine boys like us, na dem dey rush us ..na na dem dey rush uss

But seriously eh, forget fine boy mata. I can relate what OP is tryna communicate. Even those days in the university, the few girls i made move for were the ones that didn't last.
Most came indirectly.. Those ones can be caring eh.. E go be like say na second mama wen u get.

But not all that came was taken sha... Still gotta pass through the selection process. Yes I'm picky.

OP.. Weda she was the one who initiated or not, if the marriage will not last, it's majorly on you the man.
give a woman a house, she'll give you a home

Neroiam:
Fine boys like us, na dem dey rush us ..na na dem dey rush uss

But seriously eh, forget fine boy mata. I can relate what OP is tryna communicate. Even those days in the university, the few girls i made move for were the ones that didn't last.
Most came indirectly.. Those ones can be caring eh.. E go be like say na second mama wen u get.

But not all that came was taken sha... Still gotta pass through the selection process. Yes I'm picky.

OP.. Weda she was the one who initiated or not, if the marriage will not last, it's majorly on you the man.
give a woman a house, she'll give you a home

husbandsnatcha:
...fine boy right , ?
Pray u don't meet my type , because I will use ur proudAss to raise my financial status...

PHOTSEE:
OP you make me lauf, just looking for easy lay ,beware of ease ware, had you say even you don't mind her appearances, which means age and looks does not count at all,what it takes is for her to approach you than you will loose your senses and put all your effort (your money, time and emotion). you are wrap in whip.

solonubinho:
Because you've got self-esteem issues. Next!!

Magnoliaa:


If I read right, the OP said that. That he doesn't care about those?

And he didn't say he was going to lose his senses.

PHOTSEE:


lady Magnoliaa,never mine what he never said, it is men code of a beta. men are approach by ladies in clubs and pubs (FWB) with little effort any other time, it deflicult to see such happening and rare as much as guyz want to believe it happens. this is not movie.
if you think it easy to make any advance on guy, come up with a line words or action you might use.

Magnoliaa:



What are you trying to say? Sorry, I don't get you.

Austeeenxx:
So, those of us that look like Adams Oshiomole's poop, is there any hope for us?

Austeeenxx:
So, those of us that look like Adams Oshiomole's poop, is there any hope for us?

Magnoliaa:
Many women like that abound. If you've found ones in the past, then you'll definitely meet more for whatever relationship you want.

And, why did you share this like it's some unusual thing? I think it's normal.

Even if a girl approaches you and ask for directions, then you'll automatically feel attracted to her. Not that you want her to ask you out and bare her feelings oh.

Men and women interact everyday. No biggie.

Neroiam:


For a girl asking for direction isn't a biggie... But when she asks in a way that conveys she's lusting after me, i be guyman. I dey code sharply....

Magnoliaa:
Many women like that abound. If you've found ones in the past, then you'll definitely meet more for whatever relationship you want.

And, why did you share this like it's some unusual thing? I think it's normal.

PHOTSEE:


every man love to be chased by woman

which op might likely fall for the bad gal gangz because they get the good things in life while the good girl rut.

Conner44:
Op it’s a given fact that oloshos usually reach out to the male folk first.

Especially when you’re walking past a brothel and the ladies are outside whistling to you and calling you ‘fine boy’ just so you can come and be their client for the night.

Op, you might end up falling in love and marrying a retired olosho with this your mindset. Be prepared

PHOTSEE:


every man love to be chased by woman they like or find attractive, but ladies hate to do such, it stress than out. most who do has hiden intensions and motives ( marriage )when they decide to advance guys.

which op might likely fall for the bad good gal gangz because they get the good things in life while the good girl rut.

Magnoliaa:


I don't agree with you but ok.

handsomebeauty8:
I need to ask a question here.

Over the years,I have found that any girl that approaches me first,I used to find her very attractive and sexy.

As in, if I am the one that first approach a lady for friendship/relationship,

if she agrees and we start our relationship,soon i will get tired of the relationship and will not want to continue.

This is because I will not find her attractive enough.

I can only find a lady attractive enough if she is the one that first approach me,either directly or indirectly.

As in,a lady might meet me that she wants me to teach her Mathematics/physics/biology etc.

But maybe she wants to use the opportunity to get close to me.

Such ladies,I use to find it very hard to let her go.

As in,if the teaching leads to a relationship,I will feel so attached to her that I will want the relationship to continue forever.

I find ladies who initiate the relationship very attractive and sexy.It does not matter the physical appearance of the lady.

But if I am the one who initiate the relationship,I can easily let her go without thinking twice.

This has happened countless number of times.

Even now,I still think about those girls who initiated the relationship, but who later left me and are married.

But those ones whom I was the first to approach,I do not even think about them if they eventually left.

I bring this question to Nairaland because i know that if I approach a lady for marriage,

I am very sure the marriage will not last.

And since we are in a society where males must approach a lady for marriage,what am I to do?

I will prefer a lady to approach me first,if I am to hold onto her forever.

But a lady's pride will not allow her to approach me first for marriage.

So i am bringing this question to Nairaland.

Zoie:

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