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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by XhosaNostra(f): 12:56pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
ericsmith: It depends on what it is. Some things I'm comfortable sharing & some... not so much. I don't keep people I care about in the dark though. I may not go into it, in too many words, but just to put it out there so they don't assume they're at fault. I'm a very considerate person when it comes to that. I respect people's time & emotions, that's why I can't stand it when mine is wasted or toyed with. I fit kill persin 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Nobody: 12:58pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
You sure u haven't done anything to him? search yourself.. |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Nobody: 1:08pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
bdchange: I am a realist, there is norm and there is reality as well, lets be sincere with ourselves is not every problem or challenge we can share not because their is no love buh sharing some might even compound it. i will give some instance; i av a friend that love his gurlfriend, buh he had a fling n impregnated another lady ... now these guy was having a hard time trying to convince d gurl to abort, thru those period he wasnt really himself so much the gurlfriend noticed.... will you have advice he shared such problem, is that not a personal shit. there is a yoruba adage that say " its not all cloth we spread under the sun. communication is norm just as sun drying clothes 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by XhosaNostra(f): 1:15pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
bdchange: Exactly! That's all there is to it. You can't treat people like they don't matter & expect them to be nice to you when you decide to make a guest appearance. In other words, it comes across like you think you're more important, your presence more valuable & so forth. Erm no...you aren't! |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by galadima77(m): 1:32pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Michool60: Calm down, he'd come around...dont kill yourself |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by frozen70(f): 1:47pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Michool60: You better face your future E bi like say man never break your heart before |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by socialmediaman: 2:00pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
proclinician: Lol @the assumptions. there are a thousand and one reasons why people decide they don’t want to continue, the most important thing here is transparency and communication. He has a duty to communicate to her that he doesn’t want anymore or needs a break, but many people in Nigeria are not built for transparency and honesty, they would rather get into ghost mode and expect the other person to understand. |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Nmezor(f): 2:17pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Edyice:Re u one of the men we.y still dey queue? Just asking |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by bdchange(m): 2:29pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
ericsmith:That he has the guts to impregnate another lady and doesn't want to tell the gf shows he is a deceitful person which means the relationship is not healthy in the first place and never loved the girlfriend. Please advise that your friend to save the innocent girl by telling her so she can decide if she wants to remain in that relationship or not. Don't dish out what you won't tolerate. Will the guy accept what he is dishing out..a fling u called it |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Dax001: 2:34pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Michool60: 1)Are you sure your BF hasn’t seen what he’s not supposed to see/hear about you? Like gone through your chats or something finding out bad things you may/may not be doing and he’s just keeping it to himself. Probably wanting to cut communication so the relationship dies naturally, in this case, he mostly would avoid some conversation with you Unlike before 2)He might just be needing his personal space due to stuff he’s going through, if you call him and he still picks up 80-90% of the time & you both talk normal. Might be this 3) Bobo is prolly tired of the relationship, if you’re giving too much and he’s not even reciprocating, picking your calls or any. Then you should ask to talk and let him tell you if he’s done. Value yourself In this case, It’s sudden! I feel he saw/heard something about you |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by czarr(m): 2:57pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:God go punish that man/men wey do you like this my lady....put your hands on your head and say after me : My father, my father...in this year 2020 make me less bitter and remove bad relationship experiences from my heart....cleanse me from my toxic feminity and arrogance..make me truly happy again,because lord i know pride has not gotten me any where and that is why i aint got a man...thank you lord. |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by XhosaNostra(f): 2:59pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
czarr: Oga, believe whatever you want. |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Nobody: 3:26pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
bdchange: LOL ! @times i find it hard to believe people on social media live in the same world as me humans cant just segregate love from sex ... i guess abramham ddnt love sarah if he did like i claimed for 90yr he won't av accepted to sleep with the maid sarah brought for him. abramham tried to sacrifice isaac perhaps he didnt love him like a father that waited 90yrs should. what you 4get is, that you love someone doesnt rule out you might do sumtin that wil hurt them its part of human imperfections. There is no need advicing my friend confess anything the problem as been fixed and evrytin is back to normal. i don't know what you meant by healthy r/ship buh what yu meant is "perfect' my sista their is no perfect r/ship once in a yle distractions wil come, handle It in the best way n push it off ur path. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by samguru(m): 3:29pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Give him a breathing space, he might have some issues that he is currently dealing with and may wish not to share it with anyone. Leave him for atleast two months, if he fails to communicate thereafter, the guy has moved on. On the other hand, search your heart deeply, you must have done something which the guy may not have that confidence to confront you. |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by CCC2(m): 4:05pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
I am now your new boyfriend |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Edyice: 4:34pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Nmezor(f): 4:37pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Edyice:oh I see |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Edyice: 4:40pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Nmezor: Are you game , let me send you pm |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Nobody: 5:06pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Move on already. Life's too fun to be dulling and killing yourself over one nincompoop. Bone him! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Reichel99(f): 5:31pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Maybe his friends has bad-mouthed you. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Nobody: 5:40pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Michool60: Give him space and keep your options open. I have the feeling he wants out but doesn't know how to tell you. 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by wizdomnzube(m): 6:25pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:Madam nor be fight naw. U go wicked oh. |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by SweetCunt97(f): 6:33pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Michool60:Make sure you always got d trump card. Do not beg, never beg... Translates to weakness. Offcourse some men wanna see you beg to assure them of your loyalty and love though but do u wanna b made to feel less? I remember a nairalander who pushed his gf outside on a rainy day and the love struck homeless girl stuck to his door like a cat crying and begging, and he later allowed her in and them married her... Offcourse she's his puppet till end cos he conquered her very existence.. Very pathetic. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by SweetCunt97(f): 6:34pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
samguru:Is it a sin to open up to another when faced with issues? You communicate with them and give them closure. 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by XhosaNostra(f): 7:11pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
wizdomnzube: |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by wizdomnzube(m): 7:26pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:I hear say southy babes dey do proper buh u just dey do lyk who dey born for warri |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Deicide: 7:30pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
I wish more guys can be like this. |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by samguru(m): 7:32pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: Not everyone likes sharing their problems for the fear of being mocked or chastised. Let her give that breathing space as earlier prescribed,when the guy is in the right frame of mind,he will surely look for a way to reconnect. |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by XhosaNostra(f): 7:34pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
wizdomnzube: Hmmmm...I'm not sure how to take that lol. |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by wizdomnzube(m): 7:39pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:Take am with pride. I dey try clear u say u na no nonsense chick. Nor reason am go left 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by SweetCunt97(f): 8:10pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
samguru:OK |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by bdchange(m): 8:22pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
ericsmith:I disagree with your statement of loving somebody then doing something that will hurt them. Abraham's case is different because he was told to do it by the person he loved. For using the bible to try to justify loving someone and yet hurting them because you are imperfect, this is what it says...1 Corinthians 13:4-8 New International Version (NIV) 4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. This is what love is truly is, anything short of this means you never loved the person. Either you liked the person so much or u are in lust, but it is never love. |
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