Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by 9japride(m): 5:28pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Mimiey: Hello Nairalanders.
He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, claims to want a serious relationship. Can he really be serious about being serious or he is just a play boy?
So I met this guy about two weeks ago close to my street. He calls but I hardly pick. Eventually, I picked and he asked if we could pick me after work and we hangout. I accepted. He picked me up after work last week Friday. He was quite interesting and funny, he talked freely like he had known me for years but he was really so touchy, I had barely spent 5 minutes in the car and he was already touching my shoulder and even when we were inside the bar, he tried tickling me, at a point, he put his hands close to my waist, I removed it. We both discussed if we had someone we are currenly seeing, I am not seeing anyone which is the truth, he said there is an Ex but they just have sex and she has her own relationship. When he was dropping me off, he asked for a close hug, I hugged him and he wanted to pull me closer and kiss. I broke free and got down. He said I am not nice.
Well, we met again on Monday, I took just water intentionally. This time I minded the distance between us. He wanted to see again on tuesday, I declined. Then at work yesterday, he asked to see after closing. I told him he can come briefly to my work and we can talk a bit in the car and part ways . He said he would like to host me at his house instead, I declined.
Anyway, he came, I got in and he started driving and saying, I will know his house today and besides his phone battery his low. My mood changed immediately and he tried to guilt trip me and said okay should we stop on the road and get a place to charge his phone. I then told him to continue driving to his house. He stopped on the way and got snacks. We got into his house. It was nice and neat.
Then we were watching a movie, he sat down and placed my leg on his, I was cool with this. Then he made moves to kiss and I declined and pulled away. All of a sudden, he started breathing fast, hugged me so tight and kissed me despite I kept pulling away and didnt kiss back. I am weak when it comes to my Bosom, then he got there and gave me the roughest and painful squeezing I have ever experienced. I haven't been with any man in about 7 months now, I am single and It's hard for me to do a little thing as even kissing randomly. So he got me there when he got to my bosom but it took only just few seconds to snap out. He continued panting and begging for me to reciprocate, he is so hard and hasn't felt this way in a while.
I told him I dont want this, he went in frustrated, stamping his feet, I tot he had agreed, only for him to come back naked and saying okay, he has heard no sex and "I dont want to force you", so he asked for a dry hump and wanted me to turn my back. I didn't. He still kept breathing hard, like he wont survive the next minute. Then he started begging for a Mouth Action. I declined and told him I wasn't up for that. I tried pulling ,away and getting angry. He became even more aggressive, removed the hands I used to protect my chest and forced his way into my bra. It was a struggle and then back to begging till I made it clear in a thunder voice for him to stop and take me home.
Then he agreed, wore his cloths and kept complaining that I don't know what I have caused and he wont be himself. We left his house and he tried stopping at a Pharmacist and said he needs to get ibuprofen, then he didnt stop again and just continued driving.
This morning, he is apologizing and repeating the things he said when we got to his house that he wants something serious with me and he wants us to start something and want it to work out. He asked to come see me at work today but I declined. With this red flags, is there a possibility that he is truly serious like he said? Or he is just doing the usual lies to get the cookie and go away. He has a nice ride and nice house, I suspect he may have girls around him. My concern isnt all these, I just want to be with a serious man who is in for commitment and not just sex.
He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, can he be sincere about wanting to be serious? [color=#006600][/color] Keep asking funny questions, don't you girls like bad boys? If your mind is not OK with him then move on. Don't let he's wealth blind your judgment 5 Likes |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by sexylassie2(f): 5:29pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Airtimex:
How is that even possible when the guy has a nice ride and a nice apartment So having nice house and apartment equals to lot of sex |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by Obakoolex(m): 5:35pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
justnock:
Run for your life, sweetie. Don't allow material gains make you become a "booty call," to him. He took sexual enhancement drugs that night. A man that wants a serious relationship with a lady, won't act like that. I expected this since....only you got it! The guy was on sex enhancing drugs |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by Airtimex(m): 5:35pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
sexylassie2:
So having nice house and apartment equals to lot of sex Try and understand the real meaning... I'm sure the girl won't be typing this episode if the guy is broke... 18 Likes |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by Xmen149(m): 5:41pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Blu03: honestly. The guy is sex_starved... After the first encounter, she should have learnt her lesson.
where else will she get another guy that [/b]has a nice ride and nice house[b] boys with such are rare na allow her to manage this one they dnt want good character, huzzling and growing guy to grow with.... allow her 12 Likes |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by sexylassie2(f): 5:43pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Airtimex:
Try and understand the real meaning...
I'm sure the girl won't be typing this episode if the guy is broke... So broke guys don't have sex or what? Many broke guys have sex. Because he has a car and lives in a rented apartment doesnt mean he is rich. He has a stable life. With his reactions to her, it shows he hardly get sex, he looks desperate and that is a turn off. If he has game, he won't be acting weird 4 Likes |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by infogenius(m): 5:45pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Mimiey: Hello Nairalanders.
He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, claims to want a serious relationship. Can he really be serious about being serious or he is just a play boy?
He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, can he be sincere about wanting to be serious? There is nothing serious about this guy. He just wants a chop relationship. Kindly forget him. Selfish guys should be a big turn off any day. He may end up raping you during one of your nice car and neat house visits. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by QwarkdFerengi(m): 5:50pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
So you want to know if he wants a serious relationship with you or just want to dagger you. Right? You that have put on your money googles since you saw him please tell us what you are doing to show that you yourself want a serious relationship with this guy if not his money you are after. Since you've known this guy, don't you guys flex anytime you meet? Don't lie ohhhhh. What have you done for him since you know him? Gave him bobby for him to rough handle. That's all. 4 Likes |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by Airtimex(m): 5:51pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
sexylassie2:
So broke guys don't have sex or what? Many broke guys have sex.
Because he has a car and lives in a rented apartment doesnt mean he is rich. He has a stable life.
With his reactions to her, it shows he hardly get sex, he looks desperate and that is a turn off.
If he has game, he won't be acting weird Ok ma 1 Like |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by SweetCunt97(f): 5:51pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
He's an Animal. Don't let the car and neat house fool you, the guy will fvck you and toss you off.
Sex ought to b mutual. Look at bambam and teddy A for example... Their public affair was mutually consented to and they together till today. That guy is a creep, a freak. Imagine him coming out naked! If I were the one, I would I've bitten off his nonsense Diick offf... Stupid rapist.
Idiot must think cos of his car and house he can treat women anyhow 5 Likes |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by BigJoe19: 5:51pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
sexylassie2:
So broke guys don't have sex or what? Many broke guys have sex.
Because he has a car and lives in a rented apartment doesnt mean he is rich. He has a stable life.
With his reactions to her, it shows he hardly get sex, he looks desperate and that is a turn off.
If he has game, he won't be acting weird Do u girls have sense? The guy doesn't have to be rich to to have sex with many girls, only the car and the apartment for many girls to open their holes. If not that the guy has a car why will the stupid OP still be thinking of getting into a relationship with a man that tried to rape her? 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by sexylassie2(f): 5:56pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
BigJoe19: Do u girls have sense? The guy doesn't have to be rich to to have sex with many girls, only the car and the apartment for many girls to open their holes. If not that the guy has a car why will the stupid OP still be thinking of getting into a relationship with a man that tried to rape her?
Don't be pained if we woman do not want broke guys in our lives, we don't want them because they are liabilities, the car might attract her but the idiot of a man do not know how to sweet talk a lady. He think, he is entitled to sex just because he has a car and apartment. 5 Likes |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by Xmen149(m): 5:56pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
behind every successful man their is a woman : either his: mother,sister(s),some random chick or an impatient ex,..greater passenger of the time a new lady coming in is not coming in for love but to serve a purpose,so you lady better find out the purpose early enough b4 water drowns you. look for your own man and be behind while he turn successful..if you go chop where you no work one day people wey work there go vex use leg break door come follow you chop 2 Likes |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by proclinician: 6:11pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
sexylassie2:
Don't be pained if we woman do not want broke guys in our lives, we don't want them because they are liabilities, the car might attract her but the idiot of a man do not know how to sweet talk a lady.
He think, he is entitled to sex just because he has a car and apartment.
Cheap Worthless Baba God help me raise my daughters. 13 Likes |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by ajibolaoke2019(m): 6:15pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Mimiey: Hello Nairalanders.
He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, claims to want a serious relationship. Can he really be serious about being serious or he is just a play boy?
So I met this guy about two weeks ago close to my street. He calls but I hardly pick. Eventually, I picked and he asked if we could pick me after work and we hangout. I accepted. He picked me up after work last week Friday. He was quite interesting and funny, he talked freely like he had known me for years but he was really so touchy, I had barely spent 5 minutes in the car and he was already touching my shoulder and even when we were inside the bar, he tried tickling me, at a point, he put his hands close to my waist, I removed it. We both discussed if we had someone we are currenly seeing, I am not seeing anyone which is the truth, he said there is an Ex but they just have sex and she has her own relationship. When he was dropping me off, he asked for a close hug, I hugged him and he wanted to pull me closer and kiss. I broke free and got down. He said I am not nice.
Well, we met again on Monday, I took just water intentionally. This time I minded the distance between us. He wanted to see again on tuesday, I declined. Then at work yesterday, he asked to see after closing. I told him he can come briefly to my work and we can talk a bit in the car and part ways . He said he would like to host me at his house instead, I declined.
Anyway, he came, I got in and he started driving and saying, I will know his house today and besides his phone battery his low. My mood changed immediately and he tried to guilt trip me and said okay should we stop on the road and get a place to charge his phone. I then told him to continue driving to his house. He stopped on the way and got snacks. We got into his house. It was nice and neat.
Then we were watching a movie, he sat down and placed my leg on his, I was cool with this. Then he made moves to kiss and I declined and pulled away. All of a sudden, he started breathing fast, hugged me so tight and kissed me despite I kept pulling away and didnt kiss back. I am weak when it comes to my Bosom, then he got there and gave me the roughest and painful squeezing I have ever experienced. I haven't been with any man in about 7 months now, I am single and It's hard for me to do a little thing as even kissing randomly. So he got me there when he got to my bosom but it took only just few seconds to snap out. He continued panting and begging for me to reciprocate, he is so hard and hasn't felt this way in a while.
I told him I dont want this, he went in frustrated, stamping his feet, I tot he had agreed, only for him to come back naked and saying okay, he has heard no sex and "I dont want to force you", so he asked for a dry hump and wanted me to turn my back. I didn't. He still kept breathing hard, like he wont survive the next minute. Then he started begging for a Mouth Action. I declined and told him I wasn't up for that. I tried pulling ,away and getting angry. He became even more aggressive, removed the hands I used to protect my chest and forced his way into my bra. It was a struggle and then back to begging till I made it clear in a thunder voice for him to stop and take me home.
Then he agreed, wore his cloths and kept complaining that I don't know what I have caused and he wont be himself. We left his house and he tried stopping at a Pharmacist and said he needs to get ibuprofen, then he didnt stop again and just continued driving.
This morning, he is apologizing and repeating the things he said when we got to his house that he wants something serious with me and he wants us to start something and want it to work out. He asked to come see me at work today but I declined. With this red flags, is there a possibility that he is truly serious like he said? Or he is just doing the usual lies to get the cookie and go away. He has a nice ride and nice house, I suspect he may have girls around him. My concern isnt all these, I just want to be with a serious man who is in for commitment and not just sex.
He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, can he be sincere about wanting to be serious? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by skyhighweb(m): 6:30pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Mimiey: Hello Nairalanders.
He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, claims to want a serious relationship. Can he really be serious about being serious or he is just a play boy?
So I met this guy about two weeks ago close to my street. He calls but I hardly pick. Eventually, I picked and he asked if we could pick me after work and we hangout. I accepted. He picked me up after work last week Friday. He was quite interesting and funny, he talked freely like he had known me for years but he was really so touchy, I had barely spent 5 minutes in the car and he was already touching my shoulder and even when we were inside the bar, he tried tickling me, at a point, he put his hands close to my waist, I removed it. We both discussed if we had someone we are currenly seeing, I am not seeing anyone which is the truth, he said there is an Ex but they just have sex and she has her own relationship. When he was dropping me off, he asked for a close hug, I hugged him and he wanted to pull me closer and kiss. I broke free and got down. He said I am not nice.
Well, we met again on Monday, I took just water intentionally. This time I minded the distance between us. He wanted to see again on tuesday, I declined. Then at work yesterday, he asked to see after closing. I told him he can come briefly to my work and we can talk a bit in the car and part ways . He said he would like to host me at his house instead, I declined.
Anyway, he came, I got in and he started driving and saying, I will know his house today and besides his phone battery his low. My mood changed immediately and he tried to guilt trip me and said okay should we stop on the road and get a place to charge his phone. I then told him to continue driving to his house. He stopped on the way and got snacks. We got into his house. It was nice and neat.
Then we were watching a movie, he sat down and placed my leg on his, I was cool with this. Then he made moves to kiss and I declined and pulled away. All of a sudden, he started breathing fast, hugged me so tight and kissed me despite I kept pulling away and didnt kiss back. I am weak when it comes to my Bosom, then he got there and gave me the roughest and painful squeezing I have ever experienced. I haven't been with any man in about 7 months now, I am single and It's hard for me to do a little thing as even kissing randomly. So he got me there when he got to my bosom but it took only just few seconds to snap out. He continued panting and begging for me to reciprocate, he is so hard and hasn't felt this way in a while.
I told him I dont want this, he went in frustrated, stamping his feet, I tot he had agreed, only for him to come back naked and saying okay, he has heard no sex and "I dont want to force you", so he asked for a dry hump and wanted me to turn my back. I didn't. He still kept breathing hard, like he wont survive the next minute. Then he started begging for a Mouth Action. I declined and told him I wasn't up for that. I tried pulling ,away and getting angry. He became even more aggressive, removed the hands I used to protect my chest and forced his way into my bra. It was a struggle and then back to begging till I made it clear in a thunder voice for him to stop and take me home.
Then he agreed, wore his cloths and kept complaining that I don't know what I have caused and he wont be himself. We left his house and he tried stopping at a Pharmacist and said he needs to get ibuprofen, then he didnt stop again and just continued driving.
This morning, he is apologizing and repeating the things he said when we got to his house that he wants something serious with me and he wants us to start something and want it to work out. He asked to come see me at work today but I declined. With this red flags, is there a possibility that he is truly serious like he said? Or he is just doing the usual lies to get the cookie and go away. He has a nice ride and nice house, I suspect he may have girls around him. My concern isnt all these, I just want to be with a serious man who is in for commitment and not just sex.
He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, can he be sincere about wanting to be serious? i guess ur grieving partner didnt come around anymore |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by johnbush(m): 6:39pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Petyprincess: That nigga is a potential rapist! Next time you might not survive it!! Exactamenta!!! RUN AWAY FROM SUCH A PERVERSE AND LOOSE MAN, for your own safety o. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by frankkydee(m): 6:47pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Most ladies are mostly confused when it comes to a relationship where the guy is well to do, having nice ride, apartment, nice job or business. 9 Likes |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by Femzaremz(m): 6:49pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
OP! I wanna believe you are not silly! I also wanna believe that you would take the advise of most people here! And that is to run as fast as your leggedes benz can carry you! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by Isaac1980(m): 7:11pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
My sister if u don't run for your life u may not survive next time, that guy is a player, I mean that guy na professional player.stay off him oh 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by AguofthEast(m): 8:20pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Egugun be Careful na express you dey go 10 Likes |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by Angelacruz: 8:30pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Dat guy just wat to chop ur honi pot n den japa.He might rape u d next tym u see him.Break free mbok.Dnt kill ur self,ur man will cum. |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by solonubinho(m): 8:37pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Flee from this guy. It will only end in tears. 1 Like |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by nwaimoroseyaho: 8:58pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
He was all touchy, touching your shoulders, waist, hand, breast and dry humping. Chei, serious relationship gbakwaa oku. 3 Likes |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by Urhobokwaleboy(m): 9:27pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
sexylassie2:
Don't be pained if we woman do not want broke guys in our lives, we don't want them because they are liabilities, the car might attract her but the idiot of a man do not know how to sweet talk a lady.
He think, he is entitled to sex just because he has a car and apartment.
A nigga once said: Wow, did you just type this.. "he does not know how to sweet talk". So all it takes is have money (which is necessary) car and nice apartment, then know how to sweet talk... Hmmm let me just assume you joking and not serious.. 3 Likes |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by mikebabs101: 9:55pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
The guy is just inexperienced and too desperate which is a red flag but sincerely there is no rule to this. Even if you allow sex the first visit, if he will be sincere and stay he will, and you can keep him waiting for months, he can still chop and go. you can't just judge the guy from the story since we are not there with you, your smiles and actions might have wrongly communicated to the guy you will OK with sex since you said he has been touching you stylishly which you didn't complain 13 Likes |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by smitaro(m): 10:14pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Davash222: "He has a nice ride and nice house"
Na that nice ride and house go kee you! Aside kpekus, what else can you offer a guy with a nice ride and house There lies the answer to your question. u dey mind d fish brain.. "nice ride ND house". if dat guy no actually chop d kpepus as she talk which i doubt, in go chop am last last clean mouth cos she sounds cheap. 6 Likes |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by LosC: 10:59pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
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Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by Spanishmilf(m): 11:12pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Mimiey: Hello Nairalanders.
He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, claims to want a serious relationship. Can he really be serious about being serious or he is just a play boy?
So I met this guy about two weeks ago close to my street. He calls but I hardly pick. Eventually, I picked and he asked if we could pick me after work and we hangout. I accepted. He picked me up after work last week Friday. He was quite interesting and funny, he talked freely like he had known me for years but he was really so touchy, I had barely spent 5 minutes in the car and he was already touching my shoulder and even when we were inside the bar, he tried tickling me, at a point, he put his hands close to my waist, I removed it. We both discussed if we had someone we are currenly seeing, I am not seeing anyone which is the truth, he said there is an Ex but they just have sex and she has her own relationship. When he was dropping me off, he asked for a close hug, I hugged him and he wanted to pull me closer and kiss. I broke free and got down. He said I am not nice.
Well, we met again on Monday, I took just water intentionally. This time I minded the distance between us. He wanted to see again on tuesday, I declined. Then at work yesterday, he asked to see after closing. I told him he can come briefly to my work and we can talk a bit in the car and part ways . He said he would like to host me at his house instead, I declined.
Anyway, he came, I got in and he started driving and saying, I will know his house today and besides his phone battery his low. My mood changed immediately and he tried to guilt trip me and said okay should we stop on the road and get a place to charge his phone. I then told him to continue driving to his house. He stopped on the way and got snacks. We got into his house. It was nice and neat.
Then we were watching a movie, he sat down and placed my leg on his, I was cool with this. Then he made moves to kiss and I declined and pulled away. All of a sudden, he started breathing fast, hugged me so tight and kissed me despite I kept pulling away and didnt kiss back. I am weak when it comes to my Bosom, then he got there and gave me the roughest and painful squeezing I have ever experienced. I haven't been with any man in about 7 months now, I am single and It's hard for me to do a little thing as even kissing randomly. So he got me there when he got to my bosom but it took only just few seconds to snap out. He continued panting and begging for me to reciprocate, he is so hard and hasn't felt this way in a while.
I told him I dont want this, he went in frustrated, stamping his feet, I tot he had agreed, only for him to come back naked and saying okay, he has heard no sex and "I dont want to force you", so he asked for a dry hump and wanted me to turn my back. I didn't. He still kept breathing hard, like he wont survive the next minute. Then he started begging for a Mouth Action. I declined and told him I wasn't up for that. I tried pulling ,away and getting angry. He became even more aggressive, removed the hands I used to protect my chest and forced his way into my bra. It was a struggle and then back to begging till I made it clear in a thunder voice for him to stop and take me home.
Then he agreed, wore his cloths and kept complaining that I don't know what I have caused and he wont be himself. We left his house and he tried stopping at a Pharmacist and said he needs to get ibuprofen, then he didnt stop again and just continued driving.
This morning, he is apologizing and repeating the things he said when we got to his house that he wants something serious with me and he wants us to start something and want it to work out. He asked to come see me at work today but I declined. With this red flags, is there a possibility that he is truly serious like he said? Or he is just doing the usual lies to get the cookie and go away. He has a nice ride and nice house, I suspect he may have girls around him. My concern isnt all these, I just want to be with a serious man who is in for commitment and not just sex.
He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, can he be sincere about wanting to be serious? Early sign you must notice, but u won't those yeye stupid love and power of dxck don block your eye and sense. SMH U create a thread asking us U are stewpid 1 Like |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by foleskay(m): 11:18pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Hahaha.. Some girls sef, After he rough handled you at the frst visit, you still had the got to go visit him again I guess because u like his house and ride. The guy has ntn to offer you apart from dick, he's a gigolo. Use your head. Your nxt visit wil be brutal, you won't excape his bleeping. By the way, what's dry humping?? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by VirginSearcher(m): 11:30pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
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Re: He Rough Handled Me On My First Visit To His House!!! HELP by Ttorp(m): 11:58pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Forget he has a nice car and beautiful apartment. Obviously that was what he wanted you to see in the first place.
Ask yourself these following questions before you make your decisions. 1. Are you intellectually connected to him? 2. Are your characters cordial? 3. Is he someone you can build your future with? 4. Is he someone you can make as your best friend?
Check these out in him first before you make your decisions. Don’t sell yourself cheap. You’re invaluable. Know your worth. 3 Likes |