How can a young lady who claim to be due and ready for marriage tell herself that it's only sex she has to offer to keep her man. You are so lazy beyond repair.
When you visit him, you won't care to keep his house neat and clean. You won't care to wash the bed spread you two sleep on. You won't wash the toilet that the two of you use. You won't care to cook the food you two will eat. You don't care when he is hungry or when he is in need.
How do you win his whole heart and give him peace of mind....to make him miss you and have the hunger to be with you forever.
When you visit him, all you think of is to open your legs for him to enter and you think it's enough to keep him to yourself alone. Sex can be bought, but peace of mind and good character & manners cant be bought. He doesn't ask for money or gift. Just that good character that will make him run back to you at any given time.

Think about it as a young girl or lady you are. Don't take it personal if you are under this category as a lady. Just make amends in time. And don't be deceived no man will marry a lady as such, and even if you are rich and he has got to compromise himself to end up with you by force, he will definitely cheat on you with another lady who got better characters and manners.

To you all ladies think about it please.

Jacqueline22, hope you're not in this category.

i dont expect my babe/fiancee to be cleaning my house and washing my toilet. i dont know why that is still a thing up until now.

if she wants to do it, its fine, i wouldnt stop her, but i dont consider doing chores as something to offer in a relationship. to me you are just a glorified House Keeper who i am sleeping with. sha thats just me.

for me, my babe must have a level head, be productive, have a job and lastly shouldnt be a SKANK.

Sounds like what he's looking for is a surrogate mother. The thing is, some ladies don't mind doing all those things for a man that's worth it...someone they love.

As a man, you also have duties & a role to play to please your woman. A woman needs to feel proud to call you her man. Which means you have to step up, as well- be a man of character, a man of discipline & a man of integrity. Be a likeable man that she'll allow herself to fall in love with, hopelessly. IMO, many guys are the cause of the contemptuous treatment they're receiving from ladies due to their own shortcomings. Men can be very unlikable people, trust me Guys make it hard for us to fall unreservedly in love with them because basically, a lot of them suck. No woman is going to care whether you ate or not, when you don't nurture the connection you both share. If you want a blissful relationship, do the necessary inner work & that goes for both genders.

So has a boyfriend you are expecting your gf to be performing wife duties when you haven't even paid her bride price? No lady should perform wifey duties to a boyfriend that might not even get married to you!! Don't stoop so low all in the name of "I'm a wife material"

A neat babe would do all of these for her boyfriend.

If said boyfriend cannot clean his own space because his babe is not available, then he should be ashamed of himself. A man should be able to take care of himself.

You dont need to waste your time writing these bro. Our Ladies here in Nigeria won’t reason with you. They can’t comprehend it, it’s so strange to the as it is. Believe me, These set of women here are punishment from creator to Nigerian men.
Someone up there said: a lady shouldn’t do those qualities OP mentioned cos they are not married and that the bride price has not been paid. Can’t you see that level of foolishness? You bitches can eat men’s food, collect money, go shopping while you are not married. There’s no crim in that. But to clean the house and do the necessary chores expected of a virtuous woman. You tagged it bad. How insensitive can you be to think that you owe no man those attributes cos you aren’t married. Anyways we shall know them by their fruits. My female friends who we have nothing of such romantic relationship together use to visit by weekends and do lots of things for me ye nothing attached. But am not surprised she’s not a Nigerian. All you Nigerian ladies has to offer is your dead goat odored pvssy. Nothing else. You are dirty inside beyond redemption. No wonder common chore seems big to you.

Davash222:
Jacqueline22, hope you're not in this category.

Not at all
I’m single to stupor lol
Because I don’t want relationship Wahala

Jacqueline22:

Not at all
I’m single to stupor lol
Because I don’t want relationship Wahala

Loneliness kills faster than AIDS.. Get yourself a guy please.

Davash222:

Loneliness kills faster than AIDS.. Get yourself a guy please.

I’m not lonely
I’m better without a man for now.

jawalis:
You dont need to waste your time writing these bro. Our Ladies here in Nigeria won’t reason with you. They can’t comprehend it, it’s so strange to the as it is. Believe me, These set of women here are punishment from creator to Nigerian men.
Someone up there said: a lady shouldn’t do those qualities OP mentioned cos they are not married and that the bride price has not been paid. Can’t you see that level of foolishness? You bitches can eat men’s food, collect money, go shopping while you are not married. There’s no crim in that. But to clean the house and do the necessary chores expected of a virtuous woman. You tagged it bad. How insensitive can you be to think that you owe no man those attributes cos you aren’t married. Anyways we shall know them by their fruits. My female friends who we have nothing of such romantic relationship together use to visit by weekends and do lots of things for me ye nothing attached. But am not surprised she’s not a Nigerian. All you Nigerian ladies has to offer is your dead goat odored pvssy. Nothing else. You are dirty inside beyond redemption. No wonder common chore seems big to you.

UPPER CUT

Jacqueline22:

I’m not lonely
I’m better without a man for now.

You'll be best with a man. Don't allow these archaic newspapers here deceive you.

jawalis:
You dont need to waste your time writing these bro. Our Ladies here in Nigeria won’t reason with you. They can’t comprehend it, it’s so strange to the as it is. Believe me, These set of women here are punishment from creator to Nigerian men.
Someone up there said: a lady shouldn’t do those qualities OP mentioned cos they are not married and that the bride price has not been paid. Can’t you see that level of foolishness? You bitches can eat men’s food, collect money, go shopping while you are not married. There’s no crim in that. But to clean the house and do the necessary chores expected of a virtuous woman. You tagged it bad. How insensitive can you be to think that you owe no man those attributes cos you aren’t married. Anyways we shall know them by their fruits. My female friends who we have nothing of such romantic relationship together use to visit by weekends and do lots of things for me ye nothing attached. But am not surprised she’s not a Nigerian. All you Nigerian ladies has to offer is your dead goat odored pvssy. Nothing else. You are dirty inside beyond redemption. No wonder common chore seems big to you.

You are a condemned nitwit, nobody put a gun to your head to provide financially for your girlfriend, same way you cannot force a lady at gunpoint to become your house maid, she will only do it because she wants to it, same way your so called friend did it because she wants to do it,

And the mere fact that you can generalise your nonsense to Nigerian ladies, shows your level of esteem and self worth as a man, wtf can you dingbats bring to the table apart from saggy balls and smelly diick and dough? You want a virtuous woman but cannot portray yourself as a virtuous man, so because one non Nigerian friend helped your destiny by cleaning your house means all non Nigerians love to clean guys houses? Like its a hobby for all of them and they get wet from doing it right? Look at how your brain is playing games with you, fvcking douchbag.

I was once in a relationship where the guy pretended that he was averagely neat, until he couldn't hide his dirtiness anymore when one day I went to his house and it was looking like a dungeon, right there and then I told him straight up that he must be joking if he thinks I would clear his house up for him, he started to apologise that he will clean up right away, I had to stay outside for him to finish cos I couldn't tolerate the nastiness in there, in my mind i made a decision that I'll ghost him slowly cos I cannot tolerate a man that feels he can litter everywhere because he feels there is someone that is there to clean up after him, what nonsense,

You guys should have a little sense of worth and decorum, how the hell will you own a house and feel a girlfriend will clean up for you, does that even make sense? Isn't that stupidity? Do you think women like to live the rest of their life with a man that is stinky and dirty? If the wife travels for a long time, how will the house look like? A stinky hellhole? Because there is no woman to clean up? You guys really need to critically and logically think most times.

AfroKnight:
A neat babe would do all of these for her boyfriend.

If said boyfriend cannot clean his own space because his babe is not available, then he should be ashamed of himself. A man should be able to take care of himself.

is it a sin for a man to be neat?

Fountainofyouth:
I was once in a relationship where the guy pretended that he was averagely neat, until he couldn't hide his dirtiness anymore when one day I went to his house and it was looking like a dungeon, right there and then I told him straight up that he must be joking if he thinks I would clear his house up for him, he started to apologise that he will clean up right away, I had to stay outside for him to finish cos I couldn't tolerate the nastiness in there, in my mind i made a decision that I'll ghost him slowly cos I cannot tolerate a man that feels he can litter everywhere because he feels there is someone that is there to clean up after him, what nonsense,

You guys should have a little sense of worth and decorum, how the hell will you own a house and feel a girlfriend will clean up for you, does that even make sense? Isn't that stupidity? Do you think women like to live the rest of their life with a man that is stinky and dirty? If the wife travels for a long time, how will the house look like? A stinky hellhole? Because there is no woman to clean up? You guys really need to critically and logically think most times.

Are you minding the silly entitled guys?

Davash222:

You'll be best with a man. Don't allow these archaic newspapers here deceive you.

just look at this nasty misogynistic fellow...

SweetCunt97:
just look at this nasty misogynistic fellow...

Get behind me Satan!

Davash222:

Get behind me Satan!

Duuuhhhh

Fountainofyouth:
I was once in a relationship where the guy pretended that he was averagely neat, until he couldn't hide his dirtiness anymore when one day I went to his house and it was looking like a dungeon, right there and then I told him straight up that he must be joking if he thinks I would clear his house up for him, he started to apologise that he will clean up right away, I had to stay outside for him to finish cos I couldn't tolerate the nastiness in there, in my mind i made a decision that I'll ghost him slowly cos I cannot tolerate a man that feels he can litter everywhere because he feels there is someone that is there to clean up after him, what nonsense,

You guys should have a little sense of worth and decorum, how the hell will you own a house and feel a girlfriend will clean up for you, does that even make sense? Isn't that stupidity? Do you think women like to live the rest of their life with a man that is stinky and dirty? If the wife travels for a long time, how will the house look like? A stinky hellhole? Because there is no woman to clean up? You guys really need to critically and logically think most times.

It's very mysterious how God turned a rib into a loudspeaker.

proclinician:


It's very mysterious how God turned a rib into a loudspeaker.

We are special dude, that's why God couldn't stand the thought of making us from dust, unlike you guys, deal with it.

Fountainofyouth:



We are special dude, that's why God couldn't stand the thought of making us from dust, unlike you guys, deal with it.

Hmmm contingency upon contingency.

SweetCunt97:
is it a sin for a man to be neat?

This question is redundant.

proclinician:


Hmmm contingency upon contingency.

It is what it is.

AfroKnight:


This question is redundant.

Indeed

Fountainofyouth:



You are a condemned nitwit, nobody put a gun to your head to provide financially for your girlfriend, same way you cannot force a lady at gunpoint to become your house maid, she will only do it because she wants to it, same way your so called friend did it because she wants to do it,

And the mere fact that you can generalise your nonsense to Nigerian ladies, shows your level of esteem and self worth as a man, wtf can you dingbats bring to the table apart from saggy balls and smelly diick and dough? You want a virtuous woman but cannot portray yourself as a virtuous man, so because one non Nigerian friend helped your destiny by cleaning your house means all non Nigerians love to clean guys houses? Like its a hobby for all of them and they get wet from doing it right? Look at how your brain is playing games with you, fvcking douchbag.

And someone somewhere will be unfortunate enough and wife someone who’s as daft as you are. Oh. Life is indeed not fair. I already said it that Nigerian ladies can’t comprehend it and thank you for proving it right. You simple portray what a random lady out there will do and be. Thanks for letting us know how silly you can be. But for your information. Dumbass like you don’t reply my mention. So get it straight and amend your ways. Dirty ladies.

Fountainofyouth:
I was once in a relationship where the guy pretended that he was averagely neat, until he couldn't hide his dirtiness anymore when one day I went to his house and it was looking like a dungeon, right there and then I told him straight up that he must be joking if he thinks I would clear his house up for him, he started to apologise that he will clean up right away, I had to stay outside for him to finish cos I couldn't tolerate the nastiness in there, in my mind i made a decision that I'll ghost him slowly cos I cannot tolerate a man that feels he can litter everywhere because he feels there is someone that is there to clean up after him, what nonsense,

You guys should have a little sense of worth and decorum, how the hell will you own a house and feel a girlfriend will clean up for you, does that even make sense? Isn't that stupidity? Do you think women like to live the rest of their life with a man that is stinky and dirty? If the wife travels for a long time, how will the house look like? A stinky hellhole? Because there is no woman to clean up? You guys really need to critically and logically think most times.

You should hide your face in shame. I blame the stupid guys who beg a dumbass like you. He should have send kicked you away like some damaged ball. But he chose to be a simp begging you to what? To stay right. Funny lies.
Anyways move on with your fvcking life. I hope you find redemption

You probably still in you early twenties and not thinking about marriage. Cleaning, house chores and cooking are no guarantee for wife material but they are things you look out for in a women when getting ready to settle down

jawalis:

And someone somewhere will be unfortunate enough and wife someone who’s as daft as you are. Oh. Life is indeed not fair. I already said it that Nigerian ladies can’t comprehend it and thank you for proving it right. You simple portray what a random lady out there will do and be. Thanks for letting us know how silly you can be. But for your information. Dumbass like you don’t reply my mention. So get it straight and amend your ways. Dirty ladies.

You call us bitches, a punishment to Nigerian men, a bla bla bla püssy and expect me to understand the rubbish you typed? You must be a môron, a slimy eel and slow as snail, and someone will be unfortunate enough to marry you this mistake of a man, life is indeed a mystery, for schmucks like this mumu to feel life evolves around their silly smelly ass,

I will continue to mention you till infinity, so start crying right now till the end of time, stinking men.

jawalis:

You should hide your face in shame. I blame the stupid guys who beg a dumbass like you. He should have send kicked you away like some damaged ball. But he chose to be a simp begging you to what? To stay right. Funny lies.
Anyways move on with your fvcking life. I hope you find redemption

Look at a pig trying to make excuses for a fellow pig, yes he knew my worth that was why he begged, if it hurts you this bad, go and kill yourself fast before its too late, you must really look dirty and disgusting with a house full of rats, mouse and bedbugs, I hope ladies are noting this moniker in case they want to start a relationship or whatever with this pig, I hope you find a safe haven soon, dolt.

Fountainofyouth:



Look at a pig trying to make excuses for a fellow pig, yes he knew my worth that was why he begged, if it hurts you this bad, go and kill yourself fast before its too late, you must really look dirty and disgusting with a house full of rats, mouse and bedbugs, I hope ladies are noting this moniker in case they want to start a relationship or whatever with this pig, I hope you find a safe haven soon, dolt.

Lol. I bet you don’t fit in to my spec judging from your rascal mentality. So because you aren’t comported enough to attract a decent guy. You think all guys are as dirty as you and your boyfriend. And less I forget. What worth are you talking about. Aren’t you a lady born in Nigeria? Gtfo