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Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by EliteDude(m): 12:07pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 12:12pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
EliteDude:You are wrong, I feel great. |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by pocohantas(f): 12:19pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Ineedtoheal: Your problem is not spiritual, your problem is “lack of sense”. You think you can fix a grown man? If he has problems as a man, he should go meet his parents! I DON’T FIX MEN! Have you ever seen a SANE man praying for a cheating, unsubmissive woman? Have you ever wondered why most crusades are targeted at women? Because women are obsessed with fixing FCKED MEN. You want to be the woman that made a BAD BOY good! Lmao! They call you fish brain when it suits them, then virtuous women when they wanna activate the stockholm in you. There are good men out there, you left them and be giving toto to one ediot. Godforbid! If he doesn’t have money and sense, you can never find me chatting with him sef. Every man wants a woman to give him peace, respect and love. I would only do that for the best I can find. Ain’t fixing any modafucker. Dump that bagger! 40 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by arent88(m): 12:21pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Ineedtoheal:from your comments its apparent you are not going to take the bold step, pls wait for him to waste you totally.you have turned yourself to his slave. imagine going for his mums burial and meeting his other girlfrnds in same uniform and u still stayed even turned to an object of ridicule.pls wait till u see the end 10 Likes |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Nobody: 12:23pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
crackkhaus:True. He doesn't want marriage but he's enjoying the benefits, why would he marry? It's best to hold off the sex but ladies nowadays give freebies anyhow, wrongly thinking it brings commitment, or marriage. You can have all the sex in the world with a man, if he will not marry you he will not. I didn't sleep with my spouse until we got married and we dated for 3 yrs. In fact when we met I told him no sex and he said no problem. 14 Likes |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by EliteDude(m): 12:24pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Ineedtoheal: Yea, I am just saying how i feel about your ordeal If you dont end up with him, the next brother would marry a fairly used product, and still be proud of you. Irony of life, wish ladies would guide that thing more. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by EliteDude(m): 12:27pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
pocohantas: God bless you. Its ladies like the OP that makes this thing so cheap, and one thing i dread more than any other thing is marrying a fairly usedddddddddd product. Damn.... 5 Likes |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by centboy123456(m): 12:27pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
BLEMOSEDU: bro Godbless u u are the only one the have good reason here see the problem with Nigerian girls is marry me marry me infact there matter tried me u cant see a white lady reason the way Nigerian girls reason not all relationships that will lead to marriage Nigerians girls u need to know 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by centboy123456(m): 12:33pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Ineedtoheal: yes it about Nigeria girls cuz u can never see a white lady reason something like this and note not all relationships that will lead to marriage Nigerian girls too like marriage go to church u see a the girls there what are they looking for is husband God give me husband but u can never see a white lady praying such prayers must everybody marry rubbish marry marry na be the only tin Nigerians girls know 3 Likes |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by ceeceeuwa: 12:37pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Ineedtoheal:You will grow to love him. Please give him a chance! 3 Likes |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Nobody: 12:40pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
pocohantas:I agree with all of this |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Nobody: 12:41pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
pocohantas:I agree with all of this. |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by pocohantas(f): 12:43pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
And OP, don’t let anyone deceive you into thinking you are wrong/desperate to want marriage out of a relationship. After all, same people will call you a bitter feminist if you say you are not interested in marriage. If you want marriage out of a relationship, you are well within your rights. What you should do is look for someone with same vision. That is where you have gotten it wrong. You are seeking marriage from the very wrong man. Once again, DUMP THE BAGGER. 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 12:44pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
centboy123456:The indirect and direct insult and pressure your society gives, does the whites give it to their children? You people want to change everything overnight when you have not changed the African mentality. As if you are different from other Nigerians. What you men sometimes don't do is defining your relationship. State your intentions and don't go about deceiving people. 22 Likes |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by crackkhaus: 12:48pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
OceanOfJoy:Lol... getting the milk without buying the cow. I once attended a seminar for young people via invitation and the speaker asked the females in the audience a series of questions: 1. How many of you are in serious committed relationships? Hands went flying up 2. How many of you are sexually involved with these men you're in the relationship with? Hands went up again 3. How many of you can decide to stop having sex with him today, and be 100% certain he will stay faithful to you? This time, the hands that went up were so few. Majority had their hands half-way up (unsure), others were taking it up and down and laughing at their uncertainty - I honestly don't know what they found funny when they should have been thinking deeply. Most ladies don't understand that when a man decides to spend the rest of his life with them and them alone, one year will even be too long before he makes certain moves. 22 Likes |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by djon78(m): 12:55pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
arent88: She will never change until it's too late and she goes with a lifetime scar. The main problem is that she has no value for herself. Such a kind of woman will make a bad wife. A woman that allows a man treat her like a trash. There is no need advising such one. 3 Likes |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by FocusedB1h(f): 1:13pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
This better be a joke. 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by arent88(m): 1:18pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
[quote author=centboy123456 post=87213396] bro Godbless u u are the only one the have good reason here see the problem with Nigerian girls is marry me marry me infact there matter tried me u cant see a white lady reason the way Nigerian girls reason not all relationships that will lead to marriage Nigerians girls u need to know [/quot. |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by pocohantas(f): 1:20pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
djon78: Exactly! The problem with her type is, they won’t leave till they are scarred. When they have exhausted all the energy for relationships. Then they will now start looking for a GOOD man who would prove to them that he is different from the modafucker she chose to spend her productive years with. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by healthserve(m): 1:37pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Mugu. This kinds won't make good husbands even after marriage. If they treat you like thrash during courtship, what makes you believe you'll be treated any better in maarriage You should be celebrating not getting married to the guy you described above. My counsel to you is to remain single even if you don't get another suitor propose to you than to marry this one. Flee Smh vigorously. How i wish i can see you small let me beat you seriously. Smh vigorously. I was too soft with you with my comments above. You're a big full. An unrepentant shameless human being. I spit on your shamelessness. You're so shameless that your shamelessness is making me angry. How i wish you fit make mistake see me in person. I'll flog you with canes till your senses returned When you excessively and emotionally invest in a toxic relationship, it's hard to detach. Asides your sexcapades with the muron you're entangles with , there's nothing of good worrh here. Nothing. He has seen you finished to the extent even in your presence, he says you don't exist. And you're still there. Smh Vigorously. How i wosh you and I cna meet in person make i beat you small. Dont you have brothers to talk senses into you? You're still thinking thru your vagina or his deek game is so wonderful, it has stolen your senses. You are a big full. You're a terrible eediot for making your parents labor to end in the hands of such a fool. I spit on your stvpidity. Have some shame, dignity, and self respect and break this nonsense. What's worse. He is making you depend on him so you don't have the power to live your life. Emasculating you from the possibility of choices and you're pushing away people who love you because you're in love with someone who doesn't. Continue with your stvpid adultery. Olodo You're an eediot. I give up on you. Full 15 Likes |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by djon78(m): 1:44pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
pocohantas: Exactly When she gave her best years to a waste of a man. That's why I said people should stop advising her. She won't change until it's too late. 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Sixfeetbelle: 1:53pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
BLEMOSEDU: I'll drop a few points, just because you asked. 1) Biological clock is always ticking for a womab, so after a year or two of relationship, a man is expected to do the needful. Nowadays, women are beginning to learn which is why they have at least 3 men at the same time. 2) Men don't appreciate knowing their girl is seeing other guys (unless you spelt it out from the beginning that this is an open relationship). They want faithfulness and loyalty, thus making a woman to believe since he's demanding this, he has marriage in mind. 3) Men are generous when in a relationship with a lady. Money, time, calls, outings, date etc. They offer such to women, even when they know they have no plans with her. When a man acts like he genuinely cares and worries about you, the marriage thoughts could seep in. I mean, you don't invest heavily in a project you plan to abandon soon, do you? Are these points enough?? 5 Likes |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Sixfeetbelle: 1:57pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Acidosis: The problem with midnight newspapers 3 Likes |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by GboyegaD(m): 1:59pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Ineedtoheal: Now it is obvious you are not willing to let go. Hold into him and one day, the spirits will leave. He is only manipulating you and the better you tell yourself you are better, the better for you. 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Sixfeetbelle: 2:03pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
EliteDude: As though the man in question has not been turning other women to fairly used. Mtchewww. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Nobody: 2:03pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Ineedtoheal:Shut your hearts and close your legs then you will never get burnt by a man Sadly men categorize ladies into two: 1)one out of the crowd(his one and only) 2) one like the many That is why a man can date a girl for ten years and not feel the urge to marry her but he may propose after two months of seeing another girl. Bring committed is not the default nature of a man,in fact by default a guy sees commitment/marriage differently from a lady,he prefers to do casual dating. What makes a man commit to a lady is emotional attraction/ connection. Sadly,what triggers it is being a high value woman and a woman with enough feminine energy. What men see as high value is opposite of what ladies see as high value. If you place two girls in a room and you ask a guy to pick who is most beautiful,I can swear he will likely pick the girl other ladies may not see as attractive. Right Now it is obvious he didnt take you as his one and only and thus didnt see the need to commit. You have the option of moving on with your life(which I advice) or staying. I advice you move on with your life. Can I send you a PM? ,there are lots of things I will like to share with you that can be useful in subsequent relationships about men 7 Likes |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by peacefulhome(f): 2:10pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Hmm, my sister what are you still waiting for? Please leave your shoes and japa. 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by GboyegaD(m): 2:12pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Acidosis: Is your account hacked and hope you are well? This response of yours lacks reasoning and makes me wonder if all is well. The level of generalization you made and your conclusion is appalling to say the least. Except you are still very young, there isn't much difference between 30 and 35. Besides, age is just a number. 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by pocohantas(f): 2:14pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
djon78: Na their way. |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by GboyegaD(m): 2:17pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Ineedtoheal: You keep giving reasons why you can't let go. Guess you are not ready to leave him. You can continue with him maybe one day, he would reason getting married to you. 1 Like |
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