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Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by ifnyioj22(m): 11:34pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Wait more! I dated my wife for 10year and we co habitate for another five before we got married. Good thing come to those who wait..... |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Jonathan39: 11:35pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Continue collecting weekly pennis from him, while looking for another person to take home the damage goods as a wife? Guys shine your eyes cos irresponsible girls are increasing geometrically TruthSpeaker: 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by IMASTEX: 11:37pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
dawnomike:Two people you can never advise. Those in love & those with money. 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by sweetjohn(m): 11:40pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Ineedtoheal:This is a sign that even if the guy eventually marry you, you will never enjoy the relationship, he will cheat on you seteey na you go pack your load and run. Plus he will be beating the hell outta you. Save yourself that trouble noooooooow 1 Like |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Nobody: 11:41pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
As the saying goes, maturity doesn't come with age. from all indications, he is immature and indecisive. Above all, what matters is his innocence so my advice to you, stick with him |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by NiCurious: 11:41pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
The writing has been on the wall for years. In your own handwriting. Read it. This "relationship" has never existed, except in your wish-life, and because of your own efforts to keep deceiving yourself. One of his better points is that he doesn't hit you? Raise your standards! I don't understand why you would consent to stay in this loser/user's harem, unless you lack a male figure in your life (like your father, did he abandon you, and you keep trying to win him back symbolically, through this guy?) Try to understand why you stay with this one, repeating the same pattern and hoping for a different result. When you understand the reason for this your habit, then you can break it. Meanwhile, hear your late sister's words. Stop being a door mat and walk out the door. Lose his number. No explanation required. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by angelfallz(m): 11:41pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Ineedtoheal:Take this issue to your mum or dad. They're best placed to advice you properly |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by webnerd(m): 11:41pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Ineedtoheal:He is not gonna let you be.you have to make that decision & live with it.then right one comes.please an not asking you to try (you already failed on that) an asking you to take a long walk away and be fine 1 Like |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by enemyofprogress: 11:43pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Sidon there dey waste your time by yourself, no go look for another man to marry. Baby mama is loading for you |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Yoyostic: 11:45pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Run o,dated a guy like that o,when I saw the handwriting on the wall,I had to flee.I never thought I could ever be with anyother man except him cos I loved him way to much and he knew and took advantage of the situation. He wanted me to wait for him while he was busy with other ladies.I rejected all my suitors too like you with the hope we will end up together someday,but the day never came.Last straw was when I heard he took a lady to our home as his wife to be.Confronted him,he said his parents were trying to force the lady on him.That was how I carry myself go marry o!He married another lady diff.from the one he took home.That lady is still still single as I type. You see this thing called love? It will make you really stupid.What is not meant to be,will never be.Walk away please with the little dignity left in you matter how hurt you'll feel. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Flier: 11:45pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Use him as Plan B and start searching for someone else A single at 40 is a useless man 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by ednut1(m): 11:48pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Ineedtoheal:see who is talking about common sense. Smh |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by oluwasegun007(m): 11:48pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Shibaraba: Please do.... I have tears flow down my chin as I type this comment. Let's save a sister. |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Phut(f): 11:49pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by lovenavigation: 11:51pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
I CAN FEEL YOUR PAINS AND I KNOW WHY YOU ARE FINDING IT. DIFFICULT TO QUIT EVEN IN THE FACE OF CONSPICUOUS SIGNS IS BECAUSE YOU HAD ALREADY FALLEN IN LOVE AND IT'S A BIG TROUBLE TO QUIT. SUMMON COURAGE AND LEAVE HIM ALONE, NO LOVE AT ALL. YOU CAN REACH ME VIA navigationlove2@gmail.com on how best to quit and save your life. JUST TAKE IT EASY. IT ONCE HAPPENED TO ME AS A GUY. CHEERS. |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Toplexy675(m): 11:52pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
this rubbish was written and composed by a mod looking to attract traffic for his boss, every story they must open new account in a faceless forum rubbish. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Sixfeetbelle: 11:53pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
eni4real: It's funny how you made your conclusion based on a single comment. I was hoping you'd give me more credit than that, but, oh well. |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by chinonsolife342: 11:54pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
eduman365:u be mumu |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by NiCurious: 11:55pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Ineedtoheal: It's an emotional/psychological thing, with you, which gives you the power to end it. Saying it's a spiritual thing makes it sound like it's not in your hands, and thus disempowers you. He's saying that to benefit himself. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Nobody: 11:57pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Ineedtoheal: I don't understand, are you like chained to his house and he refused to unlock & let you go free? . Sis, You are a grown woman, YOU DO KNOW THAT HUMANS AREN'T IMMORTAL RYT?, you are already above 25, do not waste ur productive years on some1 who obviously isn't interested in making you his wife. He will waste ur time, then dump you in d end. Better do the needful |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by NiCurious: 12:06am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Ineedtoheal: This. Deep emotional/psychological wounds. You are intelligent enough to know that this situation of yours is all wrong, but your hurt outweighs all reason. Find out why you tend to love the wrong people. How were your parents to you? Why was it your sister raised you? I am certain that the key to your situation and its resolution lies there. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Stanchez(m): 12:07am On Mar 07, 2020 |
I have the full video |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by musicwriter(m): 12:07am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Ineedtoheal: I'll assist you with a kind of parable.................... The physical sensory organs available to us are the eyes (for seeing), nose (for smelling), ears (for hearing), tongue (for tasting), and skin (for touching or feeling). When you see something its because you've verified with your eyes. When you smell something, you'll know through your nose. When you taste something, your tongue tells you the smell. When you touch something, your skin tells you how it feels. Etc. But there's one more sensory organ. Those in the metaphysical world says there's another sensory organ called THE THIRD EYE. Some of you stuck in religion call it the holy spirit, which is a dogmatic form of same thing. The third eye or holy spirit or whatever have you, is an authentic sensory organ and it has already told you something, which is to RUN away. But you don't trust that voice. If you grow in the spirit or is in the spirit, you'll realize that the third eye carries the same trust you have for your nose, tongue, eyes. The reason you opened this thread is because you know something is wrong. You've actually been warned but you just don't want to accept the truth that he's not really interested in marrying you. Please listen to the third eye. Its an authentic sensory organ. 4 Likes |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Nobody: 12:19am On Mar 07, 2020 |
ifnyioj22:WTF you give her a wrong advice? 1 Like |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by oluwaahmed: 12:20am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Haven't u heard that a fool at 40 is a fool for life. Someone at 40 who isn't married shouldn't even be forming for a 27 y.o lady. U making it easy for him. free him, get a good job and ur man will come for you. |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Nobody: 12:20am On Mar 07, 2020 |
thorpido:You started with a man when you were 20 and 7 years down the line he is still enjoying free sex from you. I can imagine if he was paying N500 per round for 7 years, may be you would have built a house off the prostitution. How very stupid can some ladies be Please, just leave. If he cares ask him to come to you with the ring or nothing. I hear you saying you love him to a fault. Yrs, he knows it and is just using you for his daily satisfaction. If I may ask you, how do you want him to marry you when he gets it free as he wishes? If you get free food from a restaurant, why would you bother cooking |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by pansophist(m): 12:21am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Chances are, he is attractive, he compliments your ego and makes you feel like you got a catch. He may even knack you well, and each sexual rounds is like going to heaven and back, what more do you want ? And somehow, this has made you overlook other aspect of what makes a man, such as being decisive, responsible and respecting to his woman. Hopefully you dont join the list of women that will be singing "men are scum", when it obvious you made the wrong choice of a man. You should have left him long ago, but somehow, you want internet strangers to tell you what you already should know by common sense. That man wont marry you, and your only usefulness to him is sex. If you doubt it, stop having sex with him, and see if he won't change quickly. He is probably a smart guy enjoying the age of premarital sex in the name of freedom and liberation, and this is the unintended consequence women will pay dearly for. I know many girls that their bf put them on the hook, enjoying their youthfulness while it last, doing countless abortion for him, with the hope that he will marry them, while he periodically dangle the commitment carrot, to keep her hope burning high. One introduced such career fuckboy to me as her boyfriend. I looked at him, talked with him, and in few mins, I knew that she is in for a very long thing. I just Jump and pass, none of my business. Having made the mistake of telling a friend that her boyfriend is wasting her time, I thought I've spoken to a matured person, but she used me as a lubricant to strengthen their relationship and assure her bf that nothing will put asunder between them, even me, and I was a proof she used to show she is faithful and love him to death. The end? He left when she pregnant, and then, she saw my truth, but it's too late then. And the saddest part to me, is that these women are matured, in their late to early 30's, but still can't be able to pick good men even after three decades on earth. With every woman that says men are scum, I always check the kind of man she has chooses to be with, and there lie the answers to her bitterness. You're a woman, your emotions and feelings is clouding your brain, it's okay, but leave him. Cry to death, bang your head on the wall, infact lock yourself in the room and weep, but leave him. Otherwise means you do not love yourself, which further adds to your woe. I wonder how people even let others to control them like this. From your write up, you sound matured and learned. And a man made of flesh and blood is using your destiny to play like this? You de mad ni? I know say you no go leave am. Your kind do learn by been permanently bleeped up. Prove me wrong .. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Cgame: 12:27am On Mar 07, 2020 |
It's his d#ck controlling you .. Please walk away |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Npower: 12:27am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Stupid people everywhere, our mumu never do walahi. Well this kind of issue is for the poor and struggling. Not for me that's so rich that even Dangote no see my back |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by ElGood: 12:30am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Love aside, practice absentism from him, go about doing ur thing. Compare ur comfort and peace of mind with other suitors. If u found him still as a top preference. Called him and give him conditions of changing his habits on how u want to build a future with him. Give him short period, if he doesnt change. Take ur time and build a new relationship and build ur desire future with a man of ur choice. Believe in God and never rush into marriage. Dont be pressured,just keep desiring about getting married. God will grant ur heart desires. |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Nobody: 12:32am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Lol |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by bluefilm: 12:33am On Mar 07, 2020 |
My God! O Lord my God! Why women? Why always women? Why are women so foolish? Why are women so so foolish and so so confused? You say he is confused but clearly, you are the one chronically confused. The nigga already knows what he wants. 7 years down the line, you are still trying to figure out what he really wants. Very very ridiculous, ain't it? Clap for yourself, madam. You say you are 27, right? Just keep on waiting, you hear? In a few years time when you are already 30 something, you will become wise enough to finally accept the painful but hard truth which I believe you already know. Nonsense. 1 Like |
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