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Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Clinghton: 9:53am On Mar 07, 2020 |
in this case look for a quiet place sit down and talk to yourself at least you have a good analysis. Decide if it would end well, you already know it won't. Disconnet yourself from him emotionally and otherwise. Finally feel happy and liberated for doing so. |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by 401kk: 10:00am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Obviously not an igbo man. I guess he's Yoruba |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by ogawisdom(m): 10:05am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Ineedtoheal: Try and give your self some sense before it's too late, love is just a decision not just a feeling You are making someone a priority who is only making you an option. He will only marry you if he doesn't get a better girl and he will surely get one. Open up your options |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Vyolet(f): 10:12am On Mar 07, 2020 |
pocohantas:Preach on baby, preach. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Nat404: 10:12am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Some crazy women out there. A full grown man dated you for 5 years and no sign of marriage and you are still in a relationship with him? Little wonder there are lots of single women out there. |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Nobody: 10:14am On Mar 07, 2020 |
My dear How can you see Sign of marriage ,when God is actually showing you signs to Runaway.Try and build your self-esteem ,Don't say you Love Him without first loving yourself first.I know you feel stock with him because you have come a long way,but leaving him is your choice to make not nairalanders.Choose your Mental state first ,Love yourself more ,marriage will come with the right person "Never show signs of desperation * , Aviod Sex with him because it as a role of messing with your mindset.Embrace God . A broken relationship is better than a toxic /broken marriage |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Nat404: 10:17am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Mavichic:Apparently. Hopefully, she would take the advice. |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Vyolet(f): 10:21am On Mar 07, 2020 |
If you didn't listen to your late sister of blessed memory, is it total strangers you will listen to? I gave up on your kinda case long time ago. I don't even care if a woman still stays with a man that beats her, I can only wish sense locates her someday. |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Hereignsinam: 10:27am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Ineedtoheal: Please for all you can don't give him another chance. He would continue to waste your time Leave him and move forward. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Zanxx(f): 10:28am On Mar 07, 2020 |
thorpido: You have said it all. |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by galadima77(m): 10:31am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Shibaraba: Yeah, she deserves to hear it. |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by luluosas(m): 10:38am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Do you mind coming to our church? Come for the word of God, and God will grant you your request jbhitler: |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Allansmith: 10:38am On Mar 07, 2020 |
I usually don't do this but I have to on this case...Your point stating at his Father's burial yourself and two other EX worked together serving people,What does that mean or what were you all trying to portray? Madam Lady,Read your post slowly and repeat for same for about three times and then get into the bathroom get a cold bath and start listening to other suitor cos if you go down this land with that dude,you would use another profile name to ask people here that you are looking for a new Man....Just my thoughts.. |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by succri(m): 10:39am On Mar 07, 2020 |
There are 3 sides of every story , have heard just one , Maybe he really loves you , maybe he's just scared of how expensive it might be getting married to you ? , maybe u guys are giving him an impression that marriage spending and other extra traditional rite might choke him, maybe he is just saving up , 5 years ? Then u guys most have talked about how getting married is like , u guys most have goofed about it .... I don't know the whole story my dear , this is half baked , But if this is how you feel in your relationship, only you can decide if he's worth it , na naija we all dey , most people here worse pass your man , but I get the thrill |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ay04z(m): 10:41am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Leave the guy joor. Don't be a fool. Maybe na because he got big dick and handsome dat why u no wan leave. Am. Note. If u marry dat man . Na divorce go end. Run. More good guys. Out guys out there dieying to have u.. |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Dpundict: 10:42am On Mar 07, 2020 |
2 other girls with you and you stayed? He doesn't tell his friends he will marry you and you stayed? He said he doesn't have a girlfriend to your hearing and you stayed? He sent 10k to an ex with your approval and you believe it was an ex and you stayed? Your sister warned you and yet you stayed? He told you point blank you are pressuring him and you stayed? He told you his belief about women and you stayed? Madam!!!!!! Grow up, he doesn't want anyone else to date you etc and you stayed while he goes after the girls and even sends their pictures to his friends and not your pictures! What advice do you need again than these red flags that it will end in tears for you the day you will find out he has actually married one of those ladies and has wasted 10 years of your life, made you lose suitors and you are 32 with no prospect of marriage till 40. Grow up, go pack your things and deafen those silly ears of yours to his soothing juju-laden apologies or else for you; it will end in tears. He didn't even show concern when the person who trained you died. Wake up!! Fool, wake up. |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by wazirmichika1(m): 10:42am On Mar 07, 2020 |
What has pass has pass already so sister should be wise let men pay b4 any other thing. |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by fbexpert: 10:44am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Maybe I forgot to add this, he said its a spiritual thing. That it didn't start with me. It could be true. I have same issues. I have been with my girl fot 4 years now and yet I can't seem to settle down with her. She has exactly same character as you. She loves me to fault that whenever I talk to her, she would run back to me.Sometimes, I ask myself what is keeping me from getting married to a nice and faithful girl. Please try to find out if he has a spiritual wife. |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 10:48am On Mar 07, 2020 |
PrimadonnaO: evening newspaper spotted! where were you @ 16? probably slaying , exploring & rejecting potential suitors. now this is 2020 , you realise that time is no longer your best friend. only a desperate , worthless & low value man will accept your nonsense STATE YOUR TIMELINE RULE. you make it seem ... like he's competing against usain bolt in a 100metre race! maybe he went for a job interview @ aso rock where he has less than 5mins to defend his strong academic profile/cv! who are you? dangote daugther? buhari daugther? are you as beautiful as bianca? you're telling us that you're a rare commodity in the market , yeah, many buyers approach you daily , hence the STATING OF TIMELINE... , but you're still dead single , & the worst part is that you're NOT SWEET SIXTEEN. i hate nonsense , have a blissful weekend ahead. |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by wilsonlexis: 10:49am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Dear Its so clear,time to move on,open your windows out and make yourself available |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by anifranklyn67: 10:49am On Mar 07, 2020 |
There is something funke is not telling us..... his dick size has been keeping her arround him all this long...shekina!!! |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Mielanjmk(f): 10:51am On Mar 07, 2020 |
you need to let go, He does not deserve you. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Analysiscorner: 10:59am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Ineedtoheal:There is something the Igbo call 'anya ọnwụ'. The literal meaning is the eyes of death. Bring it out for serious business like this and you will overcome all his sweet talks which are all pretence. |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 11:09am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Ineedtoheal you can make it 15 years! don't give up yet!! because stupidity is as great as the ocean; everything finds a place in it!!! |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Nobody: 11:14am On Mar 07, 2020 |
That he is good in bed should not make you jeopardize your future. Take a walk now! |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by bonnyhope: 11:16am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Are you too ugly to the extent that you lost hope on yourself that no other guy will come way? Why have you chosen to act foolishly for so long? |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by kiddkash(m): 11:17am On Mar 07, 2020 |
you wan act lord of the rings? |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by jbhitler(m): 11:19am On Mar 07, 2020 |
luluosas:where is your church brother? |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by bonnyhope: 11:21am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Acidosis: Nigerian situation is not ideal |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Felalucky8(m): 11:22am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Better run for your life He's not getting married to you |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by bonnyhope: 11:24am On Mar 07, 2020 |
pocohantas: Relationship guru Tell us which strategies? 1 Like |
Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by bonnyhope: 11:27am On Mar 07, 2020 |
pocohantas: Why do you speak like a frustated person? 1 Like |
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