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Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by skultrick(m): 2:30pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
Guest911:Look at them... Foolish gold diggers. So self-centered as if you hang your own life for tree. 4 Likes |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by Karleb(m): 2:33pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
There are better ways to approach this. The woman should have written her will first and hand it over to the husband for inspection. ...why is it that Nigerian women don't write wills? Does it mean they have nothing to pass to their family? 9 Likes |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by kwakwakwa(m): 2:36pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
FEAR WOMEN !!! 1 Like |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by Originalsly: 2:36pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
Her fear was being homeless if he dies. If he wills his property to her... does she believe the very family that she fears may kick her out... will allow her to remain on the property?.... or let her live in peace?... or allow her to sell the property?... or allow her to live? Life is not guaranteed.... neither is income to maintain the family.... did she even discuss what can be done to better prepare for whatever setbacks may arise in the unpredictable future?... like her going to work/having a side business to boost income?.... like her taking out a life insurance on herself? She jumps all of this and goes for the will.... requesting will from a 37 year old who isn't even thinking about retirement let alone death. Why wouldn't he suspect her of wanting him dead for his property?... and probably making arrangements to have him murdered? Didn't she also tell you that he stopped eating her food? He is coming home late to avoid her... he no longer trust her... he is seeing her as a snake... waiting to strike. Trust has gone out of the window... the relationship is over.... thanks to her. I'm sure he sleeps with one eye open. Even if he wanted to... he will never include her in his will.... to do so is like giving her a reason to kill him. Let you sister start doubling her hustle... with her husband young... very much alive and kicking.... he is likely to kick her out of the house. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by Fazeman25(m): 2:37pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
Heylius:I totally agree with u 1 Like |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by Davash222(m): 2:38pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
SassyGem101:For the first time you're making sense here. maybe you should be posting only on Saturdays 2 Likes |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by lecturerdabo(m): 2:38pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
@Op, a lot has been said already and I want to believe you have learnt a few things! Will is important but like someone pointed out, a sad reminder of death and believe you me, anyone who emphasise on a will for a 37yr old man is not to be trusted. 1. Tell your sister to go learn how to make money that even in the absence of the man she and her kids will be fine. 2. Tell your sister to stop making enemies of her husband's family. REASON SHE IS scared OF BEING THROWN OUT!! The family now may be saying "we no tell you" 3. Tell your sister to go beg her husband. 4. Most importantly, CHANGE YOUR PERCEPTION OF LIFE! STOP STEREOTYPING 'AFRICAN MEN' BY PROBABLY GETTING YOURSELF educated -formal/informal cos I'm also 37 and African with almost nothing yet I have a will!!! TO OGA 37, Abeg having a will is not death sentence as none of us can tell when Mr death will come knocking except... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by Davash222(m): 2:40pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
Karleb:You expected her to write Will for pant, bra, eyelashes and fake weave-ons ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by Nobody: 2:47pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
Davash222: I'll always call a spade a spade. You and funmisticqueen should amend your ways. Excuse me. |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by Davash222(m): 2:49pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
SassyGem101:I'm lost here. what does that mean? 1 Like |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by Introvert1st: 2:50pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
Guest911:golddiger gangs...... 4 Likes
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Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by Nobody: 2:53pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
is she planning to murder him? dont trust a wife when she starts hassling u to write ur last will and testament especially when u get money.maybe she and her boyfriend are plannin to murder the poor man.no be women again 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by StandUpGuy247: 2:54pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
If my wife asks me to write my will, I'll be fearful of such a woman |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by Nobody: 2:55pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
Davash222: Oops...sorry. Guess I mistook you for someone else. But you mentioned me like you're that fellow on juabudus thread. |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by Nobody: 2:55pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
Karemarealty288:maybe its her boyfriend that has urged to undergo such a course ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by Nobody: 2:57pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
SassyGem101:endtime wife she is 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by ABCthings: 3:08pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
realokopi:: Amen oooh! |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by Lexusgs430: 3:17pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
Karemarealty288: I wrote my will at 30, and it gets updated every 2 years or so (if it's required) ..... Two important things people need are : Life Insurance Will ......... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by chival(f): 3:19pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
The poor man is running scared. He probably thinks there is a plot to assassinate him. He will get over it hopefully. |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by Karemarealty288(m): 3:22pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
Lexusgs430: Is not bad idea to say RIP in advance and can also be updating the condolence every 2years or so if its required.....Life Insurance condolence ![]() 2 Likes
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Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by Nobody: 3:30pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
tolugaruba: You deserve a cold Heineken |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by Lexusgs430: 3:31pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
Karemarealty288: We are all going to die some day.... Best to make arrangements, for those we leave behind...... Or else, you leave your loved one's in a mess, running helter-skelter for financial assistance, they might never receive......... |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by Karemarealty288(m): 3:36pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
Lexusgs430: So true though....but in this woman's case, this might break her marriage if its not handled properly. |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by Davash222(m): 3:41pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
SassyGem101:So, you go around causing trouble with every guy here? 1 Like |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by DropsMic(m): 3:43pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
Nigeria 1 Like |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by Lexusgs430: 3:49pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
Karemarealty288: I disagree, but this is my humble opinion..... Be prepared is always the watchword.... Do we know if she is speaking from personal experience or her friend is experiencing such trauma....... Both couples should write wills and both life insurance policies..... Nobody knows when the final breath would be used........ Let's stop been afraid of death, when it comes, the dead never knows about it..... |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by Tedpgrass: 3:58pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Yep.. with independent Executors After checking the kids DNA.. Not looking after anoda man seed!! . 3 Likes |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by XhosaNostra(f): 4:07pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
Don't you have marriage laws over there? By law, she should be entitled to EVERYTHING, including his corpse, as a wife. In my country, the mortuary can't even release the body to family members without the wife okaying it with her signature 1st. They want her present all the way through. Same when they're issuing a death certificate or collecting life insurance, the wife is the beneficiary of both, unless stated otherwise in the will or other opposing documents. Even then, she'd still be entitled to at least half of his assets. It's the law, to ensure the financial security of the woman & any children they shared together. Anyway, the guy must be suspicious of her motives. After all, some women kill over that sort of thing. If she's uncertain about her financial future, then she should take out a life insurance on him & pay the premiums/deductibles herself ![]() ![]()
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Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by Nobody: 4:10pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
Hahahahaha The husband is 37, and the wife could be younger. But she is already worried about what she gets for herself and children in the man event that man die go. The energy she puts into worrying about Will, would have been dedicated to advising the husband to be very careful and live a safe lifestyle. What interest her is how she can be comfortable at the demise of her husband. Will is written by a man, by volition. Will is written by a woman, by volition. A man should not ask his wife to write her will at 37, neither should a woman ask a man to write a Will at 37. Is she not hoping they live up to 70 or more? That woman has sowed seeds of eternal fear in the man, and since most people are afraid of death, his mind is not at rest. So coming home late is not what you should worry about, it is the fact that the man is gone, gone, gone. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by Artzdanielsz(m): 4:20pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
i guess she has written hers. I will do same if i be the husband |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by Chamber2000: 4:34pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:That's why South African men don't like marrying 2 Likes |
Re: Help! Her Husband Has Been Acting Funny Since This Happened by XhosaNostra(f): 4:45pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
Chamber2000: It doesn't matter though. If he has a kid with her, she's getting paid either way ![]() |
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